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So a few months ago (towards the end of school year) had a close female friend that I wanted to date, we seemed like we're going that way, and then it turns out she was just leading me on and she was talking to some other guy during that time. Long story short, I called bullshit when she asked why she couldn't have both of us (me as her best friend and the other dude as her BF). I cut off all communication with her, but I still really haven't gotten over her.
Am organization at uni that I'm in charge of was recruiting new officers and it turned out...
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You're too immature for an adult relationship.
Let it go.
>>17295549
This.
>>17295549
That.
How do I change my interests? How do I stop being so utterly obsessed with my hobbies and creative outlets, and channel that obsession into proper adult pursuits, like finding a job and climbing a career ladder and making money? My life feels so empty and purposeless because the only things I'm interested in –music, lifting, and vidya – are juvenile, immature, and unable to provide me with any sort of economic or social grounding. I don't want to make a living off them. I want to learn to grow up, cut them out of my life, and pursue something that'll actually make me a better, more respectable person. So far, no matter how much I want to, I just can't bring myself to care about anything else.
This has to be bait. No way anyone is this autistic.
>>17295560
Nah. I'm 100% for real.
It's like all those threads asking how to get over a crush on someone you'll never have, or who is completely not right for you. Except in this case I'm not in love with a person. I'm in love with life directions that will do nothing for me. That people won't respect me for, that won't be able to support me.
I don't want them in my life any more. I just want to find the same sense of meaning and purpose and fulfillment that I get from...
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>>17295560
I promised myself I'd try and learn about economics; about how taxes and investments work. I downloaded a library of ebooks on the subject. But every time I read a few pages my eyes glaze over and I find myself strumming my guitar or playing Dark Souls again.
I don't have a real job. I promised myself I'd find one. But every time i come close to one, I find excuses not to take it, so I can spend more time strumming my guitar or playing dark souls while living on the poverty line.
I'm...
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dating a fucking normie and didn't realize till now. what do?
can i just force my 4chan meme on them?
>>17295514
Kill yourself obviously.
>>17295546
why?
So which app should I get/buy premium for?
I'm gonna use it to find girls that want to just fuck around, not for any relationship shit.
Anyone have anecdotal evidence towards which app works best for them?
I've used the premium accounts for okc and pof, and they're pretty useful, to an extent. I just wanna know if anyone has other suggestions.
Do you virgins not use dating apps?
>>17295542
Can you expand on the OKC premium thing?
It's expensive as all shit and I'm not sure I'll even notice a change (I get ~5 visitors per week as a guy), so I don't know if it'll be worth it. And as far as I know there's no trial versions.
What changes have you noticed?
>be me
>daughter is 15
>starts hanging with bumblrwhale in her school classes
>badinfluence.jpg
>the two of them bully my son (13) to the point he cries
>constantly skyping each other
>i confiscate her laptop and phone
>she runs away after school to bumblrwhale’s house
>bring her back home kicking...
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>>17295510
Tell whale child that either the phone gets unlocked or she doesn't get phone back.
It's yours not hers.
>>17295510
Can't be done without the passcode or factory reset.
>>17295510
I'm sure I've seen this thread before. Same pic and everything.
Hello, my english language friends! Im from Russia, and i wanna learning English
'no'
Гpaммaтикa нa этoм caйтe дepьмo, чyвaк
Зaтo пoлнoe пoгpyжeниe в нeнopмaтивнyю лeкcикy и жapгoны
Tyт нopм, нo yчeбник пo aнглийcкoмy лyчшe хopoшo пepeчитaть
>tfw when visiting 4chan to practice English every day
Hy ecли бyдeшь здecь cидeть, хoть cлoвa "faggot" и "topkek" выyчишь
I'm not some bitter neckbeard, but I'm pissed at my ex-gf. We broke up a year ago because I found out she was cheating, I kicked her out. She was crazy, and tl;dr I came home one day to find my cats missing. She had kept a spare key (I moved out from those apts long time ago now) and "came back to get her stuff" and the cats "just ran!" Bullshit. They would come back, but they never did. I guarantee she did something. She had stolen some cash, too, but there was so proof of this as it was straight cash.
Well it's been about a year, and...
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>>17295491
Nothing.
Move on Sperglord
>>17295501
>nothing
.... are you sure about that, anon-san?
She also does drugs and drinks a lot.
>sperglord
I think it's different when animals are involved. And money.
Is there a way to "reverse" her acceptance to the college? Pretty surprised she managed to get there, despite being a slut and manipulative sociopath, she was good at studies.
Just curious if you guize have any good advice for my most recent problem. Never even visited this board but i believe in you!
So the job i currently work is pretty awesome. The subject matter interests me is rewarding and very hands on. My coworkers are cool for the most part and i even hang out with a couple outside of work. My problems are with hours/pay. The managment is nice and respectful but doesnt seem to mind throwing us under the bus pay wise. They cut our hours but expect the same work. Fire peopl but expect the same productivity without them and pay us minimum wage when its is clearly not a minimum wage job. They try to help by giving us an extra hour or two when they can but its pretty much insurmountable. That being said i am on good terms with them and know theyre doing what they can, the paychecks just arent very good. Like just barely getting by not good.
Ive found a new job opportunity where i will be doing something im not at all interested in will be working contantly (a plus and a minus) and will have virtually no co workers (also a huge plus and minus as im not at all sociable but enjoy the people i currently work with). This job will be very mundane and not at all fullfilling. The experience i get from it will likely not help at all in any career direction im interested in. However the pay is great and the fact that ill be working so constantly (60+ hours a week) means ill be making a bit of cash, something ive never had before.
Im reall torn on what to do...
When it comes down to it a job is a job and im solely there to make money. I dont wake up happy to go to work as it is but atleast its in the vein of a passion of mine and the atmosphere is nice. It is also physically tough and very stressful unlike the job prospect im considering.
I really dont know what to do...
Hopefully you guys can help? Im assuming thats what this board is for but i suppose i could be wrong.
Any advice would be very much appreciated.
Thanks in advance!!
Also dont know the speed of this board so im gonna bump once and then check back in a bit.
Feel free to ask any questions about my situation!
Both pictures ove posted very accurately describe my current mood...
This took me quite awhile to write... Even a short rezponse would be nice
>>17295536
Your writing didn't let me reach half of the post. This is probably true for most of the people.
>recently broke up with gf
>my main problem when dating has not gone away
>whenever I text a girl, I get nervous, and if she doesn't reply quickly I start feeling shit and become convinced that she's lost interest and is ghosting me
>never give this away, or mention it, because I know it's really fucking stupid, but it's annoying and throws me off my game a bit
How do I get over the nervousness, and certainty that they've...
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bump
>>17295473
You start juggling way more women, so that you don't stress over one not replying, because you have others to talk to
>>17295692
I'll try this, but I still generally end up having a couple of favourites when I'm juggling
I desire a job. I am neet and have been for 2 years (never had a job before). I have graduated high school, have very basic experience with soldering and general computer maintenance, and above average experience with desktop Windows, Linux, and *BSD (so completely useless to companies). I am very interested in electronics but it seems like every job for electronics requires experience that I don't have from just fucking around at home. I know I need to start from the bottom, I just really don't want to work in food industry and have even been considering logging and...
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So you have pretty much no experience what so ever besides minor IT knowledge which every fucking guy who isn't above 50 has, yet you don't want to start off in a low position such as fast food? Well hate to break it to ya mate but you're shit out of luck. Why would any employer want to hire a guy with no experience what so ever when they could just hire the guy next to you who has been working in the low-tier food industry throughout most of High School?
Does the food industry suck? Is it hard work? Yes, but it proves one thing to your future employer...
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>>17295486
That is why I was asking, I assume there are entry level tech jobs as well which is where I want to start, in the field I enjoy
>>17295486
So food industry really is the only fucking entry level jobs? I have been looking around everywhere, all these webpages say ENTRY LEVEL and yet require years of experience in the field. Even if I got a food industry job how the fuck would I get into tech jobs later when they all require experience in their respective fields? I am lost man I didn't mean to be rude I am just upset
I'm having nosebleeds pretty often, accidentally got one of the drivers dirty, any way to remove it without damaging the driver ? It annoy me like nothing else.
>>17295440
dab with a wet cloth?
>>17295440
tide stick
Fire
I've been with my gf for 2 years. we were away for 6 months, but now together again. While we had sex she surprised me with amazing blowjobs. I couldn't get enough of it. She never did them with me before, but suddenly she's incredible. This makes me a little suspicious. Could she have had a sex friend while we were away?
or she has made a thread on adv on how to give mindlbowing head and now she uses that on you.
>>17295425
It's possible, but I know I improved my BJ game by watching porn.
>>17295425
No harm in casually asking if you're worried, but chances are she just spent some time online figuring out how to do it so she could treat you
I wouldn't worry, man
I am a severe alcoholic and drug abuser. How's do I stops?
Part of this is a drunken amphetamine fueled lark, and part of it is a genuine call for help.
>>17295404
what drugs we talkin bout?
My drugs of choice are alcohol and amphetamines... I used to smoke a lot of pot, but I've never had trouble giving it up... I'll take acid and Shrooms whenever I can find it/afford it. Alcohol is much easier to come by because I can just steal a lot of it from Walmart.
I don't like weed, or the idea of smoking weed, because it seems to me that all too often, people use drugs to be an asshole, and I'm just not on with the idea of intentionally denying or distorting reality. It seems decadent to me.
I'm fine with having that opinion, but what's getting me down is that when my friends or people I know smoke weed, it really upsets me and I want them to know. But that's just going to annoy/upset them...
what do?
pic completely unrelated
>>17295402
Get new friends that don't like to live deliciously. No one is going to give a shit that you disagree with their life choices.
>>17295412
I don't know what you mean... could you expand on that or reword it please?
>>17295414
Either keep your mouth shut, or get new friends who have similar values as you. No one wants to hang out with someone they feel is judging them or their choices.
Is there something better than fishing line? I don't want it to be ugly. Like hangin' it a foot from the ground? What pound weight do I need? I have, like, 18 lbs. Is that sufficient?
C'mon, i'm not here to wait faggot.
1. Tall building
2. Tie a noose around your head with steel wire
3. Tie other end to building
4. Length of wire should be 2 meters shorter than the buildings height
5. Apply glue to hands
6. Apply hands to head/hair
7. Let it dry
8. Jump
9. Obey gravity
10. Enjoy being dead while looking like you ripped your head off with your bare hands.
Would you sick fucks like video? or do I have to deal with it on my own?
