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Anyone have tips for standing on your feet all day? Would double layering my socks help with compression? I have limited walking space at my temp post as a security detail, and have 2 more days of standing for 12 hours left. Any advice?
>>17297382
Get some decent shoes. Get some insoles designed for standing all day. Take a moment to bend your knees and flex your toes when you have a chance.
Restaurant shoes
>>17297382
Quality shoes. Arch supports. Or good insoles. In time you'll get adjusted
Hello. My name is Tellah. I'm trying to get revenge on this guy, Golbez, for killing my daughter. Does anyone know how I can learn the Meteor spell?
Golbez dindu nothing wrong
>>17297381
I beg to differ
>>17297383
Go away, Zemus. No one likes you
I am a part time student with a serve anxiety disorder and a couple of other disabilities. I originally went to school for graphic design and graduated but after finding work in my field I got very sick from constantly working around people and realized it would be too stressful of an environment for me.
For the summer I knew I was unable to work at a seasonal job but I wanted to make some extra money still so I could save up for equipment to start a photography business. I came up with a really cheeky funny name for my business idea; I decided to do dog walking and...
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final bump for hope
Someone please respond I am not sure what to do. Why is it people nature is so horrible and dishonest yet those are the people who survive. I feel pretty worthless stuff like this keeps happening to me. I want to leave something meaningful behind but what I am good at is deemed not needed or is belittled yet everyone steals my ideas but in a way they can deny stealing. How can I live if I am unable to work? I rather die than get money from the government.
I don't know what advice to give you but I'm hoping someone can help you out. This makes me very sad.
Currently a college student at a decent university majoring in English.
What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort. Assume that I have good grades and everything, so I can apply and have a chance most places.
I also don't want to be broke.
inb4 stemlords "major in something useful like compsci"
>>17297357
>What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort.
Kill yourself. If you do then there is no need to work anymore and you can relax eternally.
>inb4 stemlords "major in something useful like compsci"
Best advice imo.
>What career path, grad school, etc. would give me most *prestige* with the *least* amount of effort.
English majors, not even once.
Work at Starbucks with the rest of your ilk
Write a book. Consider grad school for your PhD so you can get a teaching position in a college.
My eyebrows look like this but less neat. The edges are fuzzy and have no real shape. Where do I start with grooming? How do I pluck without looking like a faggot afterwards?
>>17297355
Post picture. I can count on one hand the guys I've seen that actually need to groom their brows. Generally, you should leave them alone.
>>17297407
should i just leave them alone?
>>17297421
Get on my level
How do I get over being so nervous when talking to girls? Seriously every time I talk to one my mind goes completely blank and I can't thing of anything.
>>17297346
Usually people say "imagine them in their underwear" but that would probably make it worse in your case.
>>17297402
Haha, very funny. Seriously though this is a major problem in my life.
>>17297346
Don't think of them as a girl, just think of them as a person. Also the more experience the better.
These past few days I just haven't been feeling all too well.
I feel empty and it's disheartening. I think it may be my depression setting in or maybe it's due to emotional exhaustion.
I've tried crying and trying to laugh and enjoy things but it all feels too forced.
Do any of you have advice on what it could be and what I could do to fix it?
>>17297340
I feel this exact way quite often, OP
I take medicine for major depression but every now and then I still go through horrible, empty episodes
This probably doesn't help much but I figure if I can survive it then so can you OP
I'll never understand these feelings either
I've been slowly working through these same feelings for the last year or so with my therapist and things are finally starting to look up.
I have quit drinking, quit my shit job, got a dietician, started practicing mindfulness, and work out 5 times a week and I'm finally getting results.
What keeps me going is my addiction to YouTube. I watch all kinds of videos and can sit for hours upon hours watching them.
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It's 9 PM and I feel like running, should I do this or is it a bad idea to run in the dark?
I'm thinking of carrying my phone in my hand and using my flashlight app to make sure that no one hits me, is this a good idea?
>>17297336
just fucking do it damn
>>17297336
where do you live?
I normally go running after dark. Stick to well lit, fairly busy roads (run on the sidewalk, not the road ofc) and you're good.
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So... I've always been a good kid; I've tried to complete homework, eat all of my dinner and get by in the real world with good grades. But... I have some issues. First of all, I'm an 18yr old girl, with some major social anxiety and depression issues. But.... I'm not as innocent as I'd first come off as. I have a minor gambling addiction, and... I'm a bit of a klepto. I also break rules behind my parents' backs; I.E: drinking, vaping, smoking pot, being overly sexually active, ect. However, this is sort of a plea for help. I either want to...
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Even if you are really 18, Underage ban.
Also, daddy issues.
So I was talking with this cute girl last night over snapchat. Sending selfies and what not. Then she gives me her number last night and I don't know what to do never expected to get that far. My goal is to score a date but how do I initiate that
>>17297301
well, she gave you her number so she already wants to talk to you more. This should be a smooth transition. Literally just text her and ask her out
Send her a message or call her and ask her if she wants to go on a date.
Don't literally just say "go on a date", have a plan. Take her out for a picnic or go to the movies or whatever.
>>17297301
Text her, idiot.
Well guys I'm single again. Gf ended it last night saying we should just be friends. Cried myself to sleep.
Thinking about what to do now. At school right now (final year) and it's pretty hard not crying.
Cheer me up or not /adv/
>>17297281
>>17297281
>>17297287
>>17297281
>cried myself to sleep
Fix that shit first.
How do I stop myself from liking any attractive girl that gives me attention?
>>17297273
Provided you're perceiving things correctly, why would you need to?
Have standards. A lot of chicks are cute but what does she have to offer besides her looks?
>>17297273
Remind yourself you'll never be loved
>Be me
>Passed my exams and finally got a girlfriend
>She was smart handsome and sweet
>Always busy with school but I gave her all freedom to study
>Never argue or fight
>Give massive amounts of freedom
>2 months later she comes and tells me she doesn't love me anymore
>We break up
>Ask...
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>she was handsome
lol
It sounds like you guys either lost touch or she found someone else. Who knows what happened while she was off studying.
I have a similar thing with my gf in that she's really studious, currently at university whereas I'm a slacker graduate who just about passed my degree and now working a 9-5. It sucks having to give them all that time and it can be terrifying too, so I feel you. Maybe next year it'll be me making this thread.
>>17297291
She didn't find someone else. Yes she was handsome but she didn't have contact with any other boys. She chose me very carefully only she didn't put efford is while I tried all.
>>17297300
I was just amused by your use of the word handsome to describe a girl.
Well there you go. She obviously didn't give enough of a shit about the whole thing, so you should go find somebody who will.
Hi.
Im a retard.
I took /pol/ seriously, was part of gamergate and believed in the horrors of the feminist.
I have realized in the last few months that all of that was total and complete horse shit.
How do I be happy? I have no friends because all of them were online, deeply entrenched in that hatred, and shit.
I dont know what to do. Help
Not sure if bait. Pic's related either way.
Make legbutt friends
not bait
I was called up by a detective
>went to meet him
>accused me of a bunch of non-sense
>had no recollection
>eventually walked out of the building
>told me he could arrest even though I walked out of the building
>he told me I'd be hearing from him again, and his name will be coming up again
don't know what I should do. I don't know if they're pursuing charges or what.
>>17297217
>no context given
>not explaining what you were accused of
Why do fags like you always post in this manner? Nobody can help you until you give us context.
>>17297220
I was arrested for being naked in a park
>>17297220
My question is more about procedure. I mean, how do they usually act under different kinds of scenarios.
