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>Breakup a few months ago
>Text him today politely asking why we broke up and made it clear that this is so I can improve and not mess up future relationships
>After he refused to say what I did I just politely said I wouldn't be offended and just needed to know
>He literally gets his friend to tell me I'm harassing him
>He then said it didn't work and that's why
Was I harassing him? I don't...
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>>17299961
Your ex sounds like a bitch honestly
u clingy exes are the worst
>>17299986
Wasn't even clingy, literally said "I have no interest in getting back together as you don't but I would appreciate knowing where I went wrong so I know what to do in the future"
It's me 25 virgin I always wanted a magic pure innocence love someone who was like me.
I started to search ppl in Japan as they seem to have the lowest % of whores.
Then I found a variety actress Ikuta Erika and instantly fall in love with her.
from 22 april til now every night fantasizing about her about a life with her everything was beautiful my void was filling itself.
It was all in my mind I always had severe anxiety attacks and lack of social skills so later this week the thought about meeting her which is posible because of tickets and...
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>>17299932
lol you're a dumb weeaboo with unrealistic expectations. All of the girls I've met from Japan lost their virginities before high school ended, some as young as 12
>>17299990
rural areas included?
is it too much to ask? a pure innocence an magic love? someone like I ?
>>17300053
Best way is not to expect or idealize anything. Desire is the root of unhappiness.
If a girl didn't give me an explicit sign that she's not interested, even if she may have hinted it, can/should I ask her again and keep insisting until she does?
If not why not?
>inb4 wasting your time
not really too much time wasted
>inb4 you are annoying her
how annoying can it be? It's bad enough to be on my side, and I'm not trying to get revenge or something
>inb4 it makes you look stupid/beta/whatever
only to her and if she's not...
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You don't get it.
So go on...waste your time.
way to get defensive without a single reply...
you're just asking for validation, go ahead, ask her and get rejected again
>>17299926
Just ask her if she wants to go on a date, if she says no that's an explicit sign she's not interested, if she says she's "busy" she's not interested, if I really liked someone I would make time for the date.
Femanon here, I was watching anime while my husband masturbated to porn (after I had offered myself as a substitute to it and he declined) and occasionally I was critiquing and offering my opinions on the hentai he was viewing. He told me afterwards that he loved me because most wives wouldn't be so open to their S.O. looking at porn instead of screwing them let alone comment on which images they liked both sensually and artistically while they did it. Was his compliment just fluff or would the majority of women really get pissy over something so insignificant?
I bet you anything a man wrote this.
>>17299922
Surprisingly he told me people would say that and lo and behold he was right. I really hate it when he's right.
>>17299972
Did he also tell you that someone would say this is really weird bait?
Hey /adv/ I don't come here very often. But when I do, you people never cease to amaze me with how much insight you have to offer. Last night, I spent the night at a friends house, and a girl that regularly hangs out with this crowd was there, we all see her as just another bro. Me and her were laying down together when she started to cuddle up against me. She was very drunk at the time so I just kinds sat there, not wanting to be rapey. She then laid on top of me and started to make out with me, deep throat my fingers, take my hands and start to choke her, dry hump the...
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Self bump
>>17299896
After 6 months, it's a long shot, but it is possible. I doubt she's looking for a romantic relationship though, at best it's just to have some rebound sex.
>>17299896
Yeah maybe you guys will hook up again and bang. Anything more is actually up to you. It sucks to date someone still hung up on their ex. She's going to have to deal with it. If you have feelings for her either tell her or squash them. Just go into this without expectations.
Hi. I've been banned from MLPforums thanks to modbaiting assholes and I left Derpibooru in disgust after getting bullied by fucking secret Discord/Skype chats that mass-downvoted the art I posted, then started twisting my words and insisting that everything I say or do is "Le cringey".
I attempted suicide a few days ago and fucked it up. And now... I have no idea what to do. If I show myself, I end up looking like an attention-seeking bitch.
>>17299706
Every thread deserves a reply.
Yeah, I guess it does.
Why do people do that? Why do people point and laugh like fucking howler monkeys, so desperate to make the most noise and convince each other they're laughing?
>>17299706
>an hero
Hey guys,
Recently me and my girlfriend were talking about breaking up. She had been emotionally distant and it pushed me away, and so we both were pretty much in mutual agreement that our relationship had run its course (it's been 2 years ).
The thing is, she got distant because we haven't been able to have sex in over a month due to feminine problems. So the night we were talking we decided to have sex one more time and see if it fixed our feelings. Now she's in love with me all over again, but I'm still not feeling this relationship. I still...
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>those mood swings
Wew lad
>>17299700
Stick with her and see if it works.
Nope, if 2 years mean nothing to her and she feels only attached to the one who fucks her, then it's thin line OP. I wouldn't want such girl, she may easily change love object with such attitude.
i have no idea why i self sabotage myself constantly. does anyone else do this? how can you overcome it?
In what ways do you self-sabotage, op?
>>17299780
I tell girls how small my penis is when I start dating them.
>>17299780
committments. whether it be plans with friends, work functions, family, school, or even intimate relationships. theres a trend where if its going good i do something that i know i probably shouldnt do and fuck it up somehow. but when im doing bad i do everything the way i should, if not better. makes me feel like a real piece of shit, but i just dont know how to stop.
Hey /Adv/
How to deal with Depersonalization ?
Is There a cure for this ?
I don't want to live like this anymore
having a bath helps me a lot
having my cat purring next to me too
i recorded her purring so i can listen to it whenever it happens
did that years ago, and now anxiety is barely a problem
this and therapy
>>17299661
Is that some new meme mental disorder?
>>17299694
depersonalisation is that weird eeling of not being in your body when' you're having a panic attack/anxiety
About to take exams equal to A2 CEFR level in French and Spanish. Seems like B1 is typical for working within that language. Does A2 impress anyone, or would I be better off studying more?
*Note that B1 is about twice the level of study as A2
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_European_Framework_of_Reference_for_Languages
Yes. Ax level is entry level. B1 will be at least considered. B2 is preferable. C1 is advanced level. C2 is proficiency.
>>17299665
Thanks for the response. Several online guides say that B1 is about 300 hours of study. Does that sound realistic what you've heard? The reason I am hesitant to believe that number is that the French DELF test says B1 is good enough to travel about in a country that speaks that language. Seems one would be able to achieve that in less than 300 hours.
>>17299796
It depends how deep you immerse yourself in the language. 300 hours are 5 hours Monday to Friday during 3 months. Realistically speaking, it may take more. I took the test for English at C1 level when I was 19 years old, having been learning most of my life. It seemed easy to me, but that's because the language was present during my upbringing. I had an acquaintance who took the B1 English test and failed it, having studied for 3 months, coincidentally. It's all about language immersion.
Sleeping disorder for 3+ years now. Mentally unstable. Barely able to work 30hr. Feel like I'm dying every day. Anxiety off the charts. Heart palpitations.
I've been rejected sleep study 2 times, had turbinate reduction surgery and been told to visit a psychiatrist. I am desperately seeking help as I am very close to taking my life. I am letting everyone I love down, and am hardly living what one could call a normal life for a 23yr old.
What do I do?
>>17299592
my boyfriend suffered similar conditions. he felt well sleeping with me, even if it is dangerous at times (he almost beat me up while sleeping).
seek medical help. I cheer for you OP
It's hard to sleep when you're not living during the day.
>>17299592
Stop watching porn. Make short no fap streaks. See your life change.
>Met this guy on Tinder
>Hit it off
>Start dating for about 2 months
>Find out his dad has cancer
>SUPER close to his dad
>As we date, I notice his interest decreases
>He quits work to take care of his dad full time
>Dad dies
>Guys interest very quickly decreases
>Guy...
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You're not improve to him. What more do you want to hear?
>>17299548
I don't know. He had started to open up about it, but changed his mind then avoided talking about his dad at all.
I had gf in similar situation. Ended up pretty nasty. Whatever is the reason of his, he has one, and he wants to stop. I /adv/ you follow it considering my exp.
>talk to gf about cuckold fantasies
>she says the idea is growing on her
>we keep talking about it
>she eventually says "babe we HAVE to do this"
>making plans now
fuck this feels so wrong but so right, did i fuck up?
Cuckolding is hot as the bull not as the cuck stupid anon
Can't say I've always wanted to do this with my wife too but she would lose her mind if I even hinted at it. Good luck bro. If I was going to do it I would do it with close friends if possible strangers is just weird in my opinion
Oh I thought this was for swinging, bro cuckolding is weird man at least get to fuck another chick in exchange
Is there such thing as tutoring over email / email lessons? That is, you teach someone some subject over email for some modest pay.
Does it actually work? If so, where should I start? What sites should I visit to learn more about it?
>>17299445
I mean, if you only contact them via email, how is it different for them from studying by themselves, apart from the possibility of asking you questions, material on most subjects is usually more or less avaliable
you can get skype tutoring. i am myself a languages tutor, but it depends on what you want to learn.
>>17299445
Doesn't sound smart.
Also,
>2016
>using e-mail
I'm 25. Live at home. Parents legitimately hate me. I won't go into detail, but I'm extremely upset about something they did to the point of exploding.
What I want to do is leave without saying a word. I work for my dad, would like to quit. Would like to say fuck taking over the company.
But, maybe there's a more rational approach. I know they would never admit to doing what they did, so there's no point in trying to have an honest discussion.
What else is there, then? What should I do? I'm miserable right now and just want to leave.
>>17299437
Fuck em.
But if you want to leave, make sure you have a back up plan that is not going to make you depend on others. (you can ask friends first of course)
Take this from a guy who did the same and all his friends were too busy to care at that moment.
>>17299484
I think I have enough money to float me along until I get another job. If all else fails I can live out of my truck for a bit. I have a pretty valuable trade. Don't think it'd be too hard to find something
>>17299437
what did they do ?
