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Why do girls like to stare at you when (they think) you aren't looking?
Whether on the bus or on campus, I sporadically find girls staring in my direction, but when I catch them (look and make eye contact, etc), they just instantly look elsewhere, pretend it didn't happened, and/or act awkward afterwards. Makes me paranoid that I'm giving off a creepy vibe or something.
Femanons explain?
>>17301684
i stare off into space a lot bc i think a lot
some girls stare a lot because they're flirting
if you're creepy they'll probably avoid eye contact at all costs, or if they're the bitchy type and others are around, you'll see pointing and laughing.
>>17301711
>i stare off into space a lot bc i think a lot
did you go to the center for kids who don't read so good?
>>17301684
It's not just women who do it doofus.. and the reason could be anything. Maybe you have boogers?
Is it possible for a tall guy with an 8/10 face, who's slightly chubby and out of shape, to pull hot girls? If so, how?
be yourself
>>17301669
Make up for your chubbiness with something else like personality or money, and be willing to put up with girls who are just hot but may be crazy/annoying/bitchy/boring/stupid/ect.
>>17301669
What kind of haircut do you have?
How come most of the girls attracted to me are Tumblrinas? I'm a smart, tasteful, mildly attractive man, (I'm six feet tall and am kind of skinny) but the only girls who show interest are fervently undesirable. Why is that, /adv/?
If you only attract ugly girls do you REALLY need to ask?
>>17301601
This. OP, you are deluded.
>>17301601
They're not usually ugly, it's just that they're cunts
I went to take a shower and noticed a bunch of bumps on my stomach. I can't describe then other than just bumps, they don't itch or anything. The only thing wrong with me the past week was a really sore throat but that's mostly gone now. I'm a hypochondriac so even the littlest things like this make me nervous.
I know it could be a million different things, but at least tell me something to make me not worry.
>>17301558
You're dying, anon. Goodnight, sweet prince.
>>17301558
Do you shave you're stomach?
Could be hair bumps?
>>17301593
No, I don't.
Today I went on a hike with 3 friends and we took 1 car to the end of the hike, and 1 to the start. My car was at the end of the hike, and when it was done, they all sat in the back with me at the front and it made me feel terrible about myself. Am I overreacting? It was a great hike and we all had fun, but to me, this was subtle and it said a lot.
>>17301552
Made you feel terrible how?
You might be overreacting, but what were they saying?
Because it's more likely that they were being shitty friends.
>>17301559
It was a pretty quiet ride, but they just all got in the back and left the front seat next to me open.
It was only like a 10 minute ride. They also said they would meet up with me when we dropped off one of them, but they never did... they never even got back to me after they said they would.
>>17301577
Take your good experience aside from what their reaction was.
Let yourself have fun without worrying if those around you had fun.
Most likely, they were all concerned with what the others thought about them.
It's not "The Group Vs. Anon" It's "Anon Vs, Every Person in The Group Individually". And you always win if you have fun and they also have fun. Or if they don't. Doesn't matter.
How to stop liking someone rationally you don't want to be with?
>>17301548
why don't you want to be with them "rationally"?
>>17301578
They dropped out of college (which is free and important where I am from) and are extremely lazy and narcissistic and don't want to settle with someone
>>17301606
Then why the fuck do you like this person?
Do you have low self esteem?
My girlfriend just told me she's leaving the US to live in the United Arab Emirates for a year. She says she got an internship with PF Changs where she works and is going to be a soius chef at a location there. My friends are all telling me there is no way am American girl goes there for any other reason other then to be a whore for Arab oil moguls. She has a past of stripping and did a couple porn films before we met. She is 23 same age as me. We knew each other in high school but didn't start dating until 2014. Im wondering is it true she could be going there to...
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This is some seriously good bait.
You get high marks for putting some twists on old bait, but you were a little to obvious, giving away too much information in the first post.
With baiting, less is more.
>>17301520
It's not bait you must be Muslim afraid of stereotypes
>>17301526
I'm white, and I'm pretty sure muslims would think white women coming to their country to degrade themselves would be hilarious anyway.
If I can't naturally grow a beard, will taking strides to increase my testosterone do anything? Or am I stuck with what I got? Or in this case what I don't got.
Disclaimer: I don't want a beard this big, I just googled "beard" and decided that image best represented my post
>>17301450
How old are you op
>>17301452
23
I can grow a tiny bit of facial hair on my upper lip and chin, but that's it. Not hair grows on my cheeks, neck, etc.
>tfw no strong cheek growth
I need an apartment for graduate school. Landlords want references and a credit check. I've lived at home all my life and have no credit. Why is life full of catch22s?
>>17301440
lie and get someone to lie for you
>>17301440
Usually for an apartment you just can't have shit credit. If you have an average credit score you should be just fine. Like your credit has to be very shit (like 300-400) for most apartments to reject you.
Do you have a phone contract? That gives you a credit rating.
How do I stop letting anxiety control my life? I basically just don't ever want to leave my house because of it.
>>17301439
Do you work? I got a job and focused on it really hard even though it was just fast food and that got me accustomed to being around people. Plus you immediately have the job in common with your coworkers.
I feel you, I have anxiety problems as well and have had them my whole life, you could see a doctor and they'll tell you to see a psychologist or some shit about medicine, but if you're not into paying for all that shit, then there might be some coping mechanisms or something? I've never had any of those, for some people they might work, but for the most part you might just have to deal with it.
>>17301439
Job/school .. psychology classes are particularly useful as well ..
Don't let it control you any more than it already has, the longer you wait to battle your anxieties, the "bigger the army" they amass.
Good luck.
I started seeing this girl a month or two ago who was part of our group of friends. We fuck quite regularly, and she says she has strong feelings for me. I notice that whenever we are around my best friend, who is also a close friend of hers (he is a guy), she is much less affectionate. She will only barely hold my hand, pulling it away seconds later, and I sometimes catch her just gazing at him. I'm not really sure if I'm just freaking over nothing, but my gut tells me something. I notice that whenever they are alone they always have very deep and meaningful talks...
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She probably sees you as more of a physical fuckbuddy she can keep around and your friend as someone she would actually date. Or the other way around and she's trying not to fuck it up with you.
Welcome to Cuckcity.
>>17301413
>i am the one fucking her and all so there's that
for now.
listen m8, it's over. this is just phase 1 where they establish that they both like each other. phase 2 is just figuring out how to get you outta the picture. pretty soon your girl will be "busy" and she'll stop returning your texts because she "overslept" or her "phone died", next thing you know she needs space to find herself.
theres a reason those really cute...
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2 nights ago I went on here asking for advice about herbal SSRIs besides St. John's Wort because I was suicidal thanks to being cheated on by a worthless fiance who I then had to dump. I went to a dispensary and got some CBD oil and Harlequin at you guys' recommendation, and my ass is happy for the first time in a long time. I think you guys might have saved my life. In return, I give to you shit I've saved which I think is funny.
>>17301402
>CBD oil and Harlequin at you guys' recommendation
I missed the thread. What the fuck is that shit?
P L A C E B O
For some reason the connection is fucking up. Harlequin = a strain of weed. CBD = a constituent of weed that doesn't get you high but reduces inflammation, helps seizures and pain, etc.
Girl in pic related.
Lets start this out with me. I am a 20yr old male who suffers from DID (Disassociate Identity Disorder) and more traditional PTSD symptoms.
I am an introvert who ruins relationships if i spend too much time with people. I spent 4 years from 14-18 in high level lock down Residential Treatment centers which did nothing to help and only made me worse.
I had a friend in one of those places, a young girl a couple years younger then me. We got in trouble all the time simply for talking. I spent 3 days and nights without food, water, or clothes...
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>boyfriend doesn't like his girl talking to beta cuck orbiters
>this makes him a controlling abusive asshole
I hope he finds you and stomps your shit in
>>17301381
You dun good!
Those girls are toxic for anyone, DID or not.
>>17301386
Boyfriend makes fun of her infront of everyone and hits her.
>>17301389
atlas someone thinks I did good. I can't help but second guess my self
Toxic relationships, when do you call it quits?
>3 years, we're both 30
>she tends to overreact and escalate fights by cursing and using words that pisses me off
>minor issues get her riled up, I told her to stop her yelling/cursing so we don't end up fighting all out
>she proceeds to dump a bottle of water and some old coffee all over my pants while I"m driving her back home from work
>storms out of...
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>>17301378
Use some common sense there, bro.
This is normal and healthy. The only thing that is missing is you getting drunk and beating the shit out of her and saying look what you made me do.
>>17301395
Top kek
... I want to get into programming, specifically, building websites for now.
I already got HTML and CSS for the most part, but now I want to get into Javascript.
I'very been practicing writing variables and functions, if statements today etc... but just very basic ones. I just got into Return Statements and am having trouble understanding what it is.
I'm waiting the EJ Media and New Boston tutorials on them, but all they say is we're returning a value. What am I returning a value to? When would I need to do something like this?
What...
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>>17301367
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVfnd5r8bM0
You're never going to make it if you can't use Google
>>17301382
You think I haven't ?
