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when I'm talking people are staring at me. And I can't stare back.
...
then stare away and stay autistic
I think this is actually an important thing that has to do with self confidence somehow.
I noticed I had this same problem a couple years ago and started working on it to improve my social skills. When you're feeling good with yourself and the people you're talking to you should have no problem looking into their eyes
>>17295300
people that avoid eye contact are weak or lying about something
This board should just be renamed /relationships/
>>17294867
Or, you could make relationships a bannable topic
Normalfags have :
Tumblr
Snapchat
For that shit
>>17294867
>Not filtering threads
It's like you want people to shitpost about summer
>>17294880
That's every thread though
How do you talk to people when you text messege or on tinder?
I have having a lot of trouble thinking of things I can say on tinder that are not weird. The fact that I have never met these people also makes it hard.
Can anyone post conversations they have had with people on tinder so I know what is considered normal?
Please Help me human friends!
Pick their brains, OP.
Try to find out what they like and keep a convo from there. It's not rocket science.
>>17294227
Can you post and example of yours?
Seems like a lot of girls on tinder are into art and feminism. I really dont know anything about that kind of stuff.
My wife has gone to taking away food from our son as a form of punishment. I got home from work to hear that he hadn't done the chores correctly (he was supposed to vacuum and clean his bathroom, he at least made an attempt, but it wasn't a good one)
I went downstairs to talk to him, and saw bite marks on one of his school notebooks. He had been eating paper. I asked my wife what was up with that, and she said it probably has to do with him not getting lunch or dinner.
This is insane, right? Like actually insane? This is completely off the wall coming...
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>>17294049
Yes agreed
>>17294049
Yeah, your wife sounds like she has problems. If your son is so hungry that he's trying to eat notebooks, that's a problem. In anything, his punishments should be more normal things like not getting dessert or being sent to his room. How old is your son, by the way?
Yeah, that's not okay. Serious discussion time.
do guys find it gross if a girl straightens her hair? what if a girl has brown extra curly hair?
I don't find it gross, just don't do it every day because curly hair looks good too. Also wait until marriage.
>>17293947
No straight hair is conventionally attractive
>>17293958
wait for marriage to do what? lol im not lying about my hair type thats even more depressing
We're here to listen.
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>>17288012
I absolutely loathe meme culture. I feel like people are unable to have a discussion on the Internet at all without including some stupid, unoriginal recycled online joke.
It's especially prevalent on this site too. Everything is fucking "meme" this "cuck" that.
Are people able to have a fucking discussion without having to use these stupid internet idioms?
>>17288021
In a month when you message me, don't be surprised when I don't message you back. Please stop toying with me.
I recently noticed a lot of my friends are ditching college to pick up a trade and well I am thinking of joining the bandwagon.
Is being a tradesmen valuable?
It depends on where you're from and if you're needed. In my opinion and country (somewhere in south america), yes, it's better to work with your own pace and schedule and Electricians are always needed. Besides, you can set up your own prices depending o n how hard the work would be or how much time it will take.
>>17297179
Very valuable. You can find a job anywhere and make damn decent money at it. Solid middle class or even upper middle class for life.
>>17297213
Cool! How does the pay go from apprentice to journeyman for an electrician? (Op)
What is wrong with me? Sometimes I don't want to get any help from others even it's my family. Sometimes for things that I considered important to me I tend to do it all alone even the best is to get somebody's hands.
Like tomorrow is my big day with my boyfriend and my sisters want to be there and I rejected them. I don't want them to be there since i am only comfortable to leave alone with my boyfriend.
Sometimes I felt extremely anxious and suddenly don't want to talk to people.
I also tried to hide my body under jeans and t shirt or pull since I don't want to be revealed in front of people. I always wearing stockings even it's hot as fuck. I get the feeling like i am a slut or a whore or so and never comfortable with people staring at my revealed part.
I don't know what the heck is wrong with me. Help.
Bumpppp
Bumpppp
Have you ever considered checking your hormone levels? What you described happened to me until my doctor recomended me to go to a endocrinologist. The good thing was that the hormonal tratment didn't have the same effects as the anti-depressants because i felt numb or with the urge of killing myself.
>have on and off fuck buddy roommate
>friends with a couple of bored degenerates
>they ask if we want to partner swap
>sure, we aren't even in a relationship, so fucking other people is fine
>swap for a three-day weekend
>swap back after
>a month later degenerate couple is fighting
>her birth control failed at some unknown...
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Probably. Shouldn't be having sex if you're not at least somewhat in the position to be a daddy, OP.
>>17297055
To specify, it's the gf who is pregnant, not the roommate.
>>17297110
Dude what do you want us to tell you?
Is it ever a good idea to reach out to someone to let them know their partner cheated on them with you? People who have been cheated on, would you have preferred to find out yourself, or to have had someone tell you? I'm stuck on what to do.
>>17296978
Depends on your relation with the person really. If not very close, stay out of it.
>>17296978
you have to be very careful of it, if some stranger told you that your spouse was cheating on you how much weight would you give it?
do you have proof?
I slept with him and found out after that he has a girlfriend, and I have some screenshots I can send if necessary. I just need to know if its a good idea for me to tell her, one human being to another, or to let just let it go and cut off all contact.
There's this friend that's making my life fucking hell and she makes me really sad. She just keeps saying I'm retarded, that she's repulsed by me, that at least in 2014 I was funny and productive... she treats me like shit and I feel like shit when she talks to me like that. The worst thing is that she doesn't really care. I do think she might be a sociopath. She has my address written down and a few of my nudes that should have never fallen on her hands, so I know that if I try anything a little bit risky she could ruin my life if she wanted sending...
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bump
I'm desperate
>>17296965
Are you Boy or gurl OP?
If she sends the nudes, you sue her. So easy.
Does anyone know how to delete the ads a .pdf has in it? It's so annoying, and I can't find this book anywhere. If I try to print it, they don't disappear.
FoxIt Reader has an editor version that you could use to delete those ads.
https://kat.cr/foxit-advanced-pdf-editor-3-1-0-incl-activator-karanpc-t8531642.html
Here's the torrented version of the program I was talking about
>>17297202
OP here. I thank you. You saved me at my studying time.
I have huge anxiety about mental professionals and I need to make a phone call to this facility over a letter they have apparently neglected to send concerning my care. I am shit-fucking-terrified and composing a short draft of what I want to say.
Right now it's roughly
1. My name and contacts
2. The original place I was sent from, and on what purpose
3. The process I thought we all agreed to
4. What actually happened
5. A request to explain why the fuck #4 differs from #3
Have I missed something? Is there anything else I should mention...
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I really can't find the dates and the doctor's name anywhere.
I'm considering having a proper stiff drink before I call.
I am so fucking anxious and scared can someone at least say I'm a good boy for trying
My family doesn't support me, the therapists aren't on my side, everyone is against me but good lord do I try.
Recently I have been getting told a lot by people that they thought I was gay or a total player in high school. People usually say it's because I "flirt" with everyone, including guys, although I could probably count all the people I ever flirted with on two hands. It seems like everyone that I didn't hang out with outside of school that I've talked to over the past couple months is sure of it.
I've always wondered why many girls were not interested in me, as I would say I am fairly attractive, was pretty social with everyone (although my...
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>>17296796
>How to stop being inadvertently gay
Just accept your true calling, OP
Record and listen to how you sound in a conversation and try to pick up on what's making people think that
>>17296834
I have a feeling a big contributor is my voice to be honest. When I hear it, I actually wanna fucking kill myself.
I sound like a total faggot.
What're some god-tier motivational videos?
>>17296775
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJW_ML5aE9E
>>17296781
ty gaben
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX9FSZJu448
there's an extended version of it at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIXOo8D9Qsc
also a classic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxGRhd_iWuE
