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I have known this girl since 3rd grade. In the years after high school we became close amigos, partied a bit, smoked a slot of weed, etc. Pretty sure she had a crush on me, but it was never a big deal.
Then we start drifting apart, I become more focused on school, she gets more into drugs. She went to rehab for heroin, got out, relapsed, and during this time I was supportive, tried to be her friend again but she was a shell of herself.
She ended up relapsing again and I completely checked out. Couldn't handle it. She contacted me recently and says she has...
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>>17318601
She's probably trying to use you to get to heroin
>former heroin addict checking in
Might honestly just be best to be upfront about why you don't want to talk to her anymore. At the very least she won't be questioning why you don't like her anymore.
>>17318603
>former
You say that now, they always do.
>member of several meth, heroin, and pure crack addicts here.
first time posting ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Here's some backstory, i am a total beta but ive been told im good looking and girls try to talk to me first when im with a group of friends, i have anxiety, depression and probably a lot more but im too scared to get help because i dont want to disappoint my mom and my friends are all horrible people (but that's another story)
In class i sat next to this girl prob a 7/10 she didnt talk much but i didnt either she made a lot of self deprivating jokes and i chimed in sometimes (whatever its late ill call people earthbound cities) her name was onett the year went by we still didnt talk much but we were both a lot more comfortable next to each other so we had assigned seats but nobody listened to the teacher except me and onett so one day i walk in to class and twoson, prob a 6/10 super loud and obnoxious, is sitting in onett's spot and shes one seat over so now twoson is inbetween me and onett and apparently they were friends all year and she just decided one day to sit next to us i didnt think much of it bc i had a really good grade in the class so twoson probably just wanted to copy off me and then it happened i found out that two of my favorite bands were touring together i had to go i didnt care who i went with i just needed to go so i said something on twitter like "hmu if youre into this type of music" and i linked the tour i got some messages from some people who obviously didnt like the music so i just ignored them and in class the text day twoson gives me an envelope and in it there where concert tickets and she tells me "you, me, onett, and threed are all going!!" so i was stoked because i kind of knew threed
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please don't
>>17318571
This.
You need to be 18+ to post here, and it is painfully obvious that you are not.
Please, stop, delete this so-called thread, and lurk moar.
>>17318571
>>17318576
these
how do we women feel after sex? if the came and if they didnt?
well for men i think we lose motivation, energy and even interest for the female temporarily
im just trying to figure out how women feel after sex, any thought is welcome
>>17318542
Good I guess
depends greatly. assuming i just had sex with my bf that i love dearly and the sex was really good and i had a satisfying orgasm, i think i i feel similar to guys. i just want to turn around, snooze for a while and maybe cuddle some. i could imagine that i would def lose interest in the guy next to me if it wasn't someone i love
>>17318572
what if u dont come? wouldnt you still be horny and still be attracted to the guy?
How do I get over the shame of unsuccessfully hitting on women?
dude just lower your standards and maybe you won't have this issue anymore.
>>17318517
dude just be yourself
>>17318504
By becoming more successful in hitting on women. In other words, practice. Learn to get better after each rejection.
I'm in desperate need of some good rope any recomendations ??
If it's for sex use hemp if it's for murder don't go to Lowe's.
Not sure what you're using it for but you can try mooring rope. They use it to tie boats to the docks.
>>17318450
If you're thinking about hanging yourself, don't. You're just gonna choke to death while you shit and piss everywhere. If you think you can jump and snap your neck, you can't. You'll jump from too high resulting in full or partial decapitation or you'll jump from too low and die from asphyxiation.
If you're not hanging yourself then ask the employees at your local hardware store.
On the surface, I'm a Redpill feminist hating /pol/ browser. I'm all pro-masculinity and everything... But the truth is, when I see a feminist strong independent woman.... I don't get angry. I get... Aroused. I have a secret love for feminist women. The girls who wear flannels and have that dominant body language. What's wrong with me?
MGTOW was basically founded on the idea that women should act in a "strong and independent" manner to actively show their contributions to society.
TRP took it to an extreme, virtually denouncing women and embracing hedonism in the process. MGTOW is actually the more moderate version. If you read up on the theory of it you might be surprised.
>>17318468
men and women should act*
>>17318443
You're hung up on labels... And you call yourself red-pilled. Pathetic.
So whats most mens stance on having sex while she is on her period? Was in the situation recently where I really wanted to do it with this smoking chick, but she was on her period so I gave it a pass.
Do chicks get offended if you suddenly don't want to have sex with hem when they tell you they are on there period?
Femanon here
Not really, at least I don't. I mean I understand some guys just aren't into that. As long as you're not rude about it she should be fine.
>>17318428
2 girls I have slept with didn't even bother telling me until I took a look at my dick and bed sheets in the morning.
Fucking bitches.
I'd have sex in the shower or someplace that won't leave stains tho.
>>17318434
Maybe they thought they had finished? It's happened to me before lel. Besides, you can't really tell during cause it all feels the same.
I'm in a co-dependent relationship which is quite toxic. We both have anxiety, depression, low self esteem, we're anti-social, and we're alcoholics. I really want to know how we can make a change without breaking up? If we broke up I think my heart would stop.
>>17318405
for starters maybe the two of you should cut back on drinking
>>17318425
Drinking is probably the least of my worries in this situation, as bad of a habit it is.
>>17318405
Oh shit
Yesterday I bought nicotine gums for a person at my workplace. Actually I'd a crush on her and she smokes cigarettes and maybe wanted her to quit smoking. I don't know what she thought but yesterday when I offered her the nicotine gums, she said she don't like it and complained to my boss. What do?
Stop infringing on her lifestyle, it's creepy. She's an adult, so let her make her own choices and leave her alone. You should apologize after some time has passed.
>>17318410
B-but I like her, Anon.
>>17318416
So? To her you're some guy who's telling her how to live her life. It is kind of creepy and you should apologize. (Not that anon btw)
How do i git gud at phsyics ?i have to take this mandatory course and i totally suck at it
the topics of the course are electromagnetism and basic optics.
>>17318403
You can start with learning how to spell physics.
By studying.
>>17318418
that was really helpful
My self esteem is soul crushingly low after being cheated on. How do I learn to love myself again?
people are seriously attracted to that?
>>17318329
a human? yea prob
I meant the holocaust victim physique
Ah fuck boys I need some help. I visited my sister's house with our parents for a fourth of July celebration earlier tonight and I realized something disturbing. I think my niece is attracted to me.
She's my sister's oldest child, from before she married. I remember I was 18 the year she was born. Her other two kids are with her husband and my niece I think has felt left out as the stepchild. We bonded a lot when she was little and my sister was living with us. Now that she's into puberty it seems like it's developed into some kind of weird daddy...
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advise her to seek therapy
>>17318294
>getting teen pregnant
Hahahahahaha
You say she's going through puberty? I reckon it's just a phase she's going through and she'll grow out of it. I mean, most people do stupid shit when they're going through all those changes
Hey /adv/,
how do I become mean and rude?
Let the dark side proliferate inside you.
No, seriously. Trust anybody and wait for someone you thought would never fail you, dissapoint you.
>>17318296
It has happened already, but apparently I'm still a softie
>start browsing heated threads
>get heartbroken
>smoke and drink long enough to get addicted to both, then quit simultaneously
>spend more time here
Guaranteed you will become a fucking asshole
Source: worked for me
What do you guys get paid for? I'm studying software engineering, I'm not sure what they do aside from "solve problems". Can I get some help?
>>17318274
I'm working as a programmer-analyst. I've already have a cs degree and i'm 3/4 done with my software engineering degree. what do you want to know?
>>17318413
What is more valuable in your opinion a CS degree or software engineering?
What is the difference between the two?
How long after you graduated did you find your first job?
Do you mostly do debugging or do you get to develop software for customers?
Is grad school worth it?
>>17318495
> What is more valuable in your opinion a CS degree or software engineering?
Both are valuable. IMHO both excellent programmers and excellent software engineers are required to have good softwares.
Both jobs will get you a good living, but in the long run, engineering will most likely get you a better salary.
Sometimes, the line is fuzzy between developers and engineers. (Especially in small compagnies), developers can work on software architecture, or sometimes engineers...
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is contacting a friend through facebook a bad idea, when asking one on a date? highschool was 5 years ago, brief friends. will post the current dialogue.
op: ayyy
friend: hey james!
op: whats going on nicoleee
friend: finishing at work what about you
friend: haven't talked to you in ages!
op: enjoying the long weekend off. lets do something next week.
this dialogue began 2 days ago, with pauses in responses in between each message. am i doomed?
Yeah, prolly doomed, only because you rushed it. Maybe this bold move will pay off hard, but high risk means that there's a low chance of success. Next time, catch up a little, find a common ground, and then be like "Oh cool, I do x activity too!".
The way you used it, fb isn't the worst idea. Obv. face to face is best, but this is better than stalking her front door.
>>17318339
i don't know what i was thinking. you're fuckin right i rushed it. i'm a faggot?
