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I figured I'd see what /adv/ has to offer me on the following... I guess I'm not looking for any specific advice, but maybe someone has a story or a tip that'll help...
I am quite sick, I am rapidly losing function in some of my organs. Kidneys for example, I lose around 2% per month, and it's accelerating. I don't know why, and have no diagnosis. My life hasn't been very good so far. There are lots of things that still haunt me, that have affected who I've become today, that I cannot shake. I do not feel as if my life holds importance...
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>>17317307
I recommend checking out Buddhist temples.
The scenery is quite often beautiful.they will respect your will to die in peace and will not judge or push you to be hospitalized. If you explain your situation they may even shelter you in exchange for some work.
>>17317318
Mmm I'm going around Eastern Europe. Asia was too expensive flight-wise, I didn't want to chew up a huge deal of my budget just on air-fair.
No other idea? I bought padlocks and a bike lock for securing my shit if I stay in a hostel. Don't fancy losing my clothes.
I'm in HS and I think im long overdue for my first job, Im gonna apply at wendys but they want a resume,
How does someone with no work, Volunteer experience and hasn't graduated HS yet put together a resume??
>>17317297
Pad the shit out of it or spend your summer doing volunteer work so you can have a resume for next year.
Or make a kick ass cover letter explaining how you wanna work your ass off for them.
>>17317302
It's Fast food, I didn't think I needed a resume but they want me to email one,
I never wrote one before and have no clue how to
It's a bit hard when you don't have experience, but I'm sure they aren't expecting much anyway. Just go onto Microsoft online, look at resume templates, pick one you like and fill it out, editing it a bit so its at least somewhat unique
WTF
A friend of us was really drunk today.... we tried to help him, because he puked all over the place. We wanted to watch the football match but he was too wasted to do anything.
We had to carry him home where he passed out on my bed.
Pic related
I'm really afraid that he will suffocate because of his own puke or that he has something worse as he didn't dri k that much
He answered no to the question "should we bring you to the hospital"...
Should we get a doctor anyway?
Yes, definetly yes
>>17317277
ugh summer kids.......
probably just wasted. Call his parents let them figure it out.
Bumpidibump
Ex gf keeps calling me. Not sure what her true intentions are; one day, she tells me she wants me back...the next, she's seeing lots of guys with no time for me.
What do?
Cut off all contact with your gf
I swear to god, you fucking autists...
>Ex gf keeps calling me
>she's seeing lots of guys with no time for me.
try not to contradict yourself and answer the call.
Stop asking /ADV/ for stupid questions.
Fuck her anyway if its worth it,
avoid her if you can't control your feelings.
If you can control your feelings, fuck her until you find someone better but don't date her.
I went to a bar for the first time in my life two days ago. I had a lot of fun, but I'm Asian and I got an Asian flush after a cup of beer. I dont know if this was embarrassing or not. Is this a deal breaker for guys?
>>17317245
Easy lay glow more like it.
Always party with friends.
>>17317254
Glow =/= completely drunk
>>17317254
And yeah, I will always party with someone else never alone
I need advice... i have a problem with my sex drive, I get aroused easily, The problem i have is that i masturbate frecuently, I can even get to fap 5 times a day, I cant control this problem anymore, This sex impulse is too much for me to concentrate, What can i do to stop?
>>17317211
If you have time to fap 5 times a day you are not busy enough.
Acquire more physical hobbies.
Such as?
Don't worry, you'll grow out of puberty eventually
>22
>Had crush on girl, turns out she wasn't into me, but told me her friend was and gave my number to her friend who is 21
>Friend was an upgrade, bright blonde hair, dark tan, green eyes, about 5'4'' ish 110 lbs, very fit body and god tier ass and legs
>Start dating her
So besides the dates we've been on, I see her 3 times a week at breakfast. Each time she comes in she is with a mixed group of young and old people,...
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I only said that because she has been really accepting about my foot fetish.
My question is, how fucking worried about this girl should I be? I'm afraid she might fucking stab me to watch me bleed or something.
Should I go through with this cutting thing and let her cut herself before we fuck? I've never heard of anything like this before in my life.
It fucking sucks to because this girl is insanely hot, but I'm really worried.
>>17317194
>Jehovas Witness
Ditch her.
She will use you as the scapegoat for her "sinful" behavior. When someone calls her out on her "sinful" behavior she will ditch you thinking you were the cause. My bro did something similar with a Mennonite girl.
>>17317194
I dunno brody, that's kind of a line I'm not down to cross. If someone wants to cut on themselves that's their business, but I've done a lot of bleeding in my day and it's in no way erotic. Cutting yourself is indicative of poor mental health to boot, so I'd really consider long and hard about whether you really want to keep seeing this girl, or whether you realistically have a future with someone like that
Do you think you can add or displace something /adv/ ?
>>17317179
What am I supposed to be looking at? Is this one of those memes about how other people should live their lives? Because according to your chart, this belongs in the sea of useless information
>>17317184
This chart sole purpose is to classify the knowledge one can learn, helping to improve self-fulfilment and point the information that should in priority (regardless of your studies or work) acquired.
Memes should definitely be on the same level as video games.
Whether this means video games should be bumped down or memes should be bumped up, I'm not certain.
Hey guys. I want to last longer in bed, or, being the virgin i am, last lomger masturbating. I have read that edging (stimulating for 1-2 hours, but never getting an orgasm) helps. Have you guys tried it and has it helped?
mm not really m8
when you find that new vid/thing that REALLY turns you on and hits the spot, don't you just cum within a minute?
it's going to be a lot like that
DONT DO THIS
I tried it once
My balls ached for like a day
Step one: get depressed
Step two: masturbate alot, like 5 times a day
Step three: masturbate to the craziest porn with the hottest women,
Step four: congratulations the depression only allows you to ever get a half boner and the porn and fantasies have ruined sexual stimulation for you
>look pretty good with a shirt on, look strong
>girl is attracted to me
>back out because under my shirt are some man-tits and beer gut
Is that reasonable or just being cowardly
To be honest, I expect that when a guy isn't super skinny or obviously buff.
>>17317167
nigga, if you have a beer gut and moobs then it doesn't matter if you have a shirt on or not. you can't hide that sort of shit.
you look out of shape with a shirt on as well. girl still wanted you anyway.
>>17317167
Start cutting
Not your wrists but the fat on your body
>>>>/fit/
Read the sticky. It seriously has some useful shit. I lost 20lbs in 2 months of just fat and even built up muscle
I'm just not happy with my girlfriend anymore?
I can't figure out why. I don't know whether I'm unhappy with myself or something. I love her and I love being with her but something is missing.
We've been having less sex these days. A lot less. She got birth control and after that it went downhill. She doesn't blame it on the birth control, but on some things that happened in the past.
I'm supportive but I feel like shit. Like i'd rather be single than in a sexless relationship where I'm always rejected. I love...
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>>17317147
hormonal BC can fuck up you libido. my gf refuses to take HC because of that and the discomfort she feels for the first few months (she had given up on taking the pill just a week in cause she's a baby).
my gf has been rejecting my advances recently but due to complications and distractions outside of our relationship. it feels bad but it's not like i want to pressure her into something she doesn't want to do. it sucks being the person with the higher libido because you're initiating and...
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>>17317157
Exactly! Sometimes she has sex with me.. like once every 2-3 weeks. It feels so forced. She has been saying that her BC is annoying because she's always bleeding so she wants to take it off but she's an ultra procrastinator so this has been going on for months.. The whole "Yeah I'm going to take it off" spiel.
I don't know man.some of it is my own insecurities. Like I feel bad because she goes to concerts and shit but she goes and talks to other people and ignores me and...
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>>17317171
Make it clear that she has to change something. Seems like she doesn't respect you very much if it has been going on for months.
I recently got a girlfriend, but i dont feel like we are a couple, my gf says she never had a boyfriend before she is 19 and im 21 (she is my first girlfriend).
The first time i confessed to her she said she didnt have time to talk about that stuff and never gave me an answer so i stoped talking to her because i assumed that she didnt like me back... two weeks later she texts me that she didnt want to talk because she didnt know how to express her feelings but she didnt wanted to say it saying she didnt have time. So we met one day after the text ... we talked, we kissed...
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>>17317126
>i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes.
ayy lmao
Dunno OP your entire situation sounds cringy.
>>17317129
Dude its his first gf , what do you expect? Him to magicly have relationship experience?
>>17317129
That's pretty normal on the first relationship
i have information on a major car company committing insurance fraud on multiple occasions. ive photographed all of it and want to know what i can do with this information. i am currently and employee there and what to black mail the company. its a major car manufacturer like nissan toyota honda or ford, im not telling you guys which one yet.
how should i go about this so i can either get free merch or theyll pay me to not make it public, because theyre literally fucking over the customers.
>>17317106
Don't come into work Monday. You're fired.
>>1731710
>Go straight to the head of the company
>explain what the company is doing wrong
>act all innocent like you are just trying to look out for the company
>don't let them know you have copies
>keep a flash drive locked up somewhere with the evidence
Don't threaten them. They are a giant corporation with power and influence. Would it be easier to buy your...
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Hopefully a copy is handed to someone else that you trust, just in case something happens to you.
Got into a group of friends for 15 (know half for almost 10 years, know other half for around 2 years), today is my friends birthday party, everyone got openly invited in whatsapp group, everyone keeps asking everyone else if they're coming except me.
>everyone keeps asking everyone else if they're coming except me
This pretty much sums up my relationship with my friends, I never get called, and no one gives a fuck whether I come or don't come. If I go, maybe someone will make a witty remark about me being here behind my...
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>>17317082
They are not your real friends.
Don't cut all contact but stop caring.
>>17317082
I've been in the same boat.
Time for you to find new friends, but stay on good terms with your old ones. Don't turn them into enemies or anything.
>>17317082
As long as you are having fun and they have not actively told you to go away who gives a damn.
I have a roommate who is terrible at paying anything on time. He isn't on the lease but was told to put himself on the lease upon moving in and also around the month of February when it came to my attention he never did so. This however now means he is technically a sub tenant at this point, which under lease terms isn't allowed. I got fed up with him about a month or 6weeks ago and told him that I wanted him to move out in 7 days after he again was late to pay me back money he owed and that I'd pay him back his part of rent for the remainder of the month that...
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Take his ass to court and in the meantime make living there super uncomfortable. Walk around naked, watch titanic and shit on the floors.
I do plan on changing wifi password
>>17317102
>>17317083
But with that though since he is a sub tenant I do have to practice safe LL guidelines, I'm just pissed at how shitty of a person he is and how well the case could hold in Small Claims Court
