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Hey 4chan
My mother is crazy and had me circumcised at 2 years of age.
My question is if I use a foreskin regrowth device will this chapped skin go away? I also have coconut oil to use.
>>17310440
2? Mine was rite after birth.
>>17310468
She bit mine off yesterday when i was banging her. She teased me by runbing it against her teeth like floss. :)
>>17310477
Hot
Pic maybe related.
A few years ago my now ex introduced me to one of her friends. Her friend (we'll call her K since her name started with K) and I became really good friends. Better friends then K and ex even.
Ex and I break up and K is still really good friends with me. After a while she gets slower in her responses but we still play games and stuff.
November of last year she vanished from the face of the Earth. I try to say hi at least once a week but no responses ever.
Last week K removed me from Skype. Today I hoped on our favorite game...
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She's probably avoiding you because she wants to be a good friend to your ex.
Girls do it all the time. I've gotten along great with some of my lady friends boyfriends but once their relationship is over I slowly start to cut contact. Gotta look out for each other, or I guess bros before hoes as men would put it.
>>17315521
Maybe but K and I remained friends for about a year after. Maybe I should have made that more obvious in the post. My bad.
>>17315530
How long were you two hanging out in real life? Maybe she just doesn't like you and didn't know how to tell you and thus slowly backed out of your life before deleting you off skype.
I approached a girl I was attracted to. However, I panicked and instead of asking for her number I got her Instagram.
How do I get her number and show that I am interested in dating her? I just sent her a dm thanking her for following me back.
Thank you
>>17315503
How often do you see this girl? Your best move would have been to be up front and just ask her out to coffee via DM, but at this point you run the risk of over-messaging her so if you can talk to her in person that'd be best imo.
Plus, don't approach this as "I'm interested in dating her." Approach this as, "I want to find out whether or not this is someone I would like to date." Start slow.
>>17315516
No I just met her a few hours ago. I took her photo because she's a cosplayer but instead of a number I asked her Instagram.
>>17315516
Here is all we talked about through dm.
Just moved out but
>room with 2 roomates from college
>pregame and party, they would play the same few songs every time, all of them sounding exactly the same, poppy bullshit
>offer to play some of mine that's electronic like theirs is and is melodic but different
>get scoffed at, says my music "isn't fun to pregame to, it kills the buzz"
That was the general tone of my time with them in general. Condescending, no...
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>>17315493
Not everyone is into electronic music, it's called preferences man.
>>17315514
But that's what they were playing themselves.
>>17315493
They just don't like your music.
Take it from another person who was just like you; even the most "normal" or "radio firendly" song you could play would still be a shock to their senses. There are very few options to pick, either continue to be "that guy" who "kills the buzz" or get together with people who actually share your music taste, or I guess just stop playing your music around them.
Should I try to reconcile with these people in my life?
Basically:
>Have circle of three friends I've been hanging with for the last year and a half
>know one of them for years
>he's great friends with the other two
>eventually they come into the fold and I end up spending time with them all
But
>those three people are very insular
>pretty much hang out only with each...
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bwetter to be alone rather than with some who doesn't give a single shit about you. know your worth, you will meet some friends sooner or later
>>17315433
Fuck them, they were using you.
>>17315445
Yeah I've suspected that for a few months now but fuck, I did like going out a lot, made me feel like a normie.
I have been saving quite a lot more money ever since I stopped spending time with them though
Hey /adv/, I'm a 24yo guy, getting ready to restart college in earnest.
I obsess over what major will be best for me both financially and emotionally and have literally spent 2-4 hours per day researching careers online for the last 7 years. I've memorized the BLS stats on dozens of careers I research and second guess until I give up and slip into despair until something else grabs by interest.
Has anybody else struggled like this? How can I break this cycle? I'm a relatively smart, passionate individual and I want to do some good in the world....
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How do u think about electric engineering? Im 18 and I start in this fall
>>17315438
Unless you go to MIT or an equally prestigious university you will probably have a hard time finding a job.
computer science is your best bet OP. I'm being dead serious.
I don't want to write out a huge wall of text because if I do people aren't going to read it. Here's the short version
>be me
>born fighter
>inb4 edgelord, I'm a competitive fighter/martial artist. I don't go around hurting people but violence is an interest of mine as much as I am ashamed to admit
>being that I'm not a shitbag and not good enough to go pro I figure I should at least try to channel that energy to something...
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>>17315400
Violence is due to a lack of discipline.
You are not a boy of violence. You are a boy without control.
Everyone has violent thoughts. Everyone wants to hurt people who wrong them.
The difference is how you deal with it.
I used to be a violent kid too. I used to attack kids on the playground who disrespected me.
I even took martial arts training.
But as I got older, I learned how to let it go.
It doesn't matter. Nothing does. Anyone who makes you angry is worth nothing.
If...
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>>17315409
You misunderstand. I don't have a temper I don't go around beating people up because I'm angry. When I fight, I'm not angry. I'm cool and efficient. Making maximum efficiency of body movement to overcome an opponent is not only satisfying but it makes sense to me. It's one of the few things I'm good at.
>>17315418
Sure you are.
You're just another angry little boy who feels like he's righteous and correct.
When you get older you'll realize that you were a faggot.
Look, when you get smacked in the face by someone stronger than you are, tell me you're "cool and efficient".
You aren't.
Let it go.
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Will a condom prevent sexual disease? I\m planning to have sex with a prostitute.
>>17315397
Yes. Most of them.
Most likely yes
I once got tripper (or whatever its called in english) with a condom from a affair
Doc said: if you finger her and got the stuff on your fingers and you touch your dick you can get it
If you are very unlucky like me: 5 days antibiotics and its gone... Nothing serious
>she will put the condom on so no you wont get something
>>17315403
*most likely no
Should double check next time
What's necessary for "The Good Life?" What is essential? How do you imagine it? Do you live it?
One word: knawledge
>>17315364
Without wading too deep into metaphysics, I'd say that the process and state of understanding that you are one with everything constitutes "The Good Life".
There's a medicine wheel metaphor that comes from Native American culture.
A human is four parts, mental/physical/emotional/spiritual and a person is happy when they satisfy each of these four qualities in their self. Spiritual is a wishy-washy word, but look past that and think of whatever else you want here (transcendental, religious, some kind of feelings towards something greater than yourself)
For me that's a park on a sunny day, or the summit of a mountain bike, mostly things in nature.
The pic I have some suggestions for how it applies to...
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Hey /adv/ I have a dilemma. Theres this 9/10 qt3.14 that want to bang me bad, problem is Im a virgin and Im anxious/nervous that she'll reject me because of that fact. Also Im 18 what do?
>>17315336
just pursue her and if sex is on the table then give her a heads up and explain that you're a virgin
If she likes you I doubt she'll care. A lot of people are still virgins at 18 (I was 19) so it's not like it's super uncommon or weird at all.
let her know youre a virgin. if shes too much of a bitch to the point where she'd judge your for that then she's not worth it.
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originally wrote this out for a friend that's good at blunt advice, but he's not on right now.
Honest question: How do you learn to not give a fuck about little things and shit that happened in the past? I'm realizing that the majority of shit in my life that stresses me out is little petty shit that i care about way too much, especially on the internet (but applies just as much in real life). I know that on the internet shit that i dont agree with or bothers me, i shouldnt give a fuck about, because its, you know, the internet,...
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>>17315286
so much as thinking about their name or a phrase they said to me triggers stress involuntarily, as well as so much as thinking, saying, or hearing a word that my mind has associated with their name or just a thing or concept that my mind has associated negative thoughts with due to 1 random shitty association my mind made that latched on (and very often, that 1st thought does latch on like fucking cigarettes). I think that if i continue to demean them in my mind (i started doing this recently, i think its helping),...
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last bump
>>17315286
Stress is nothing more than our built-in in "fight or flight" system. Understand that.
The petty things you stress over are nothing more than indicators of usually deeper problems you may not even be aware of. What do you read that stresses you? Why does it stress you? How can you prevent it from stressing you?
The fact of the matter, when weighing stress, if whatever you are stressing about does not directly effect your livelihood, state of being, or life, then you need to tell yourself that.
You...
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What is /adv/ thoughts on teenage drug dealers?
I wonder how junkies feel knowing that their precious drugs they crave so bad is in the hands of a mere 16 year old.
What does age have to do with anything? Some 16 year olds are cool and some 25 year olds are losers.
>>17315267
Just don't give anything up front, the least of anyone's worries would be a pissed off 16yr old wanting his money.
I don't think anyone considers your age, they consider who will get them their fix the fastest, then the cheapest. They will absolutely pay a premium not to wait around on joejackoff who takes 4 hours to supply a day or two fix.
>>17315278
Very true but...They'd be 16..Still a child.
Hey all, I'm looking for an easy lay in Denver, particularly one where I pay $20 for a bj... Anyone know where the prostitutes are? I've driven up and down Colfax and couldn't find a single one. So help is appreciated.
Backpages
>>17315232
Those run pretty pricy... I'm looking for a literal street walker
>>17315237
How low could you go
A girl I like knows my name, but I don't know hers.
She introduced herself a week or two ago.
What do I do?
Wait for someone else to say it
>>17315219
Ask her.
That's it.
She doesn't give a shit about you, so who cares
>>17315219
Do you have her phone number? If she texts you, ask who it is and then when she replies, just say your contacts got all fucked up and her name got wiped.
Okay, if this is complicated, I don't mind explaining, just try to bear with me.
I'm a guy, early 20s. Nobody's really "normal" but I'm probably a normie by consensus. Can talk to people, have dated girls, can get laid (but I'm on a dry streak/busy so i haven't in a few months). And, if I take what women tell me, a pretty big dick. Not really into the alpha/beta dichotomy but sexually dominant in bed.
Anyway. So over the last few months, I've become more and more interested in male chastity, and even placing myself in...
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>>17315217
>I mean like being blackmailed, turning into a cuck or being turned into a sissy trap
You're giving her real power of you and that's the thrill but I don't see why it would devolve into what you're talking about unless both you and your girlfriend was downplaying how into this you are.
>>17315285
Like 70% of all accounts I've read online have gone:
1. Couple starts chastity play
2. Woman becomes more comfortable in role
2. Goes from being consensually nonconsensual to wholly nonconsensual (AKA "you're not getting out")
4. Woman becomes more cruel, engages in cucking, blackmail, humiliation, sissification
5. Man can never hope to have normal relationship with her again (and possibly any other woman)
And that's not what I want.
>>17315217
I think the first real problem here is you really need to reflect on what aspects of this fetish excite you and why
Don't engage in some shit like this unless you can drill to the root
