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So basic im trying to find a doctor that will perscribe me adhd meds my current doctor wont prescibe them anymore even though i really need them im kinda stuck in a situation where i dont have access to a car or transportation so i cat really find one on my own is there any options i can take to get a diiferent doctor so i can get my meds and do what i need to do?
-cant start or finish anything
-somewhat hyper
-have alot of concentration problems
>>17315840
What country are you in
United states. Fulton, ky
I work at a pharmacy. If you're ok with having to deal with weekly doctors appointments, dealing with multiple pharmacy chains until you find the competent ones patient enough to fix problems (most won't and throw your shit in the trash and hope you won't return) with your insurance issues, prior auths and delays. And if you're ok with the chance that you might have to wait a couple days for your drug while the insurance oks everything with your doctors while you are in withdrawal, then sure. Go find a new doctor willing to put up with your whiny ass. Otherwise drink lots of coffee or just stick to meth/crack.
Hey I just broke up with my girlfriend so I'm trying to fill the void by getting male sex toys and trying that stuff out.
Primarily I wanna try and achieve a prostate orgasm. Anyone with any advice on things I should get? Should I get lube, what kind? Like a beginners buying guide for male sex toys.
I'm really clueless so any help is appreciated. Thanks.
If you have any sort of hocd (google it) don't; its a slippery slope and dangerous road. One thing leads to another and before you know it you're gaping to sissy porn with 10" dildos while huffing on 2 different kinds of poppers.
You've been warned
Depending on your selfconfidence, you could just walk into an Ann Summers or whatever and ask the store clerk for reccs
>>17315839
Damn I've never heard of HOCD but I think something about it resonates with me. I've watched gay porn and sissy porn just to see if in into it, and it never really appealed to me honestly. I've never had a gay experience but I'm still curious about it. Should I still try it? I've heard really good things about prostate orgasms and I'm really interested in it.
Something weird happened tonight. I've been meticulously planning this proposal — my girlfriend and I have dated for 3 years. My gf and I started having a talk where the topic of open or poly relationships came up, and things went a bit wrong. I was surprised at first, but she had a bit of alcohol. She mentioned the idea of being willing to try an open relationship, and I bottled up my instant jealousy feedback. Now was my chance to be an understanding boyfriend, even if I don't think it's what would be best for us… the idea of her being with another guy makes me sick. But in the same note, I don't want to stifle or hold back her feelings. And I certainly don't want to lose her by being overbearing BF/fiancé/husband. So I expressed a very open mind to the idea. That's where things went so wrong. After I expressed an open mind to the idea, (which I guess isn't farfetched considering my previous relationships had similar arrangements whether it's what I wanted or not) she recoiled hard. She said she can't marry me now, and that the idea disgusts her. So my understanding nature backfired hard, and I'm left with a girlfriend who thinks I believe in this sort of relationship. (honestly, I don't want to be with anyone else, but if she wanted to I would have to swallow that pain and let her because I don't want to lose her) I feel like I walked into a beartrap. How do I explain to her that I want to be with her and only her, as well as the idea i don't wanna see her with anyone else?
This is why you should just be fucking honest and upfront with how you feel about things.
>>17315819
You can try and be honest, and explain to her what you explained to us, but it sounds to me like she trapped you with the purpose of starting a fight. Red Flag.
Are there any others?
>>17315819
Just tell her that you were being a retard and only said it was okay because you were afraid that she'd leave otherwise, and that you felt really bad about saying what you said. It's not going to make her respect you much, but since you already acted like a spineless idiot, there's only so much damage control you can do.
I'm 22, she's 20, her kid is 1.
We fuck on the regular but have feelings for each other (her much more than me). We're technically in a relationship, but wherever she brings up her kid I can't help but to push away. Should I just end it to save her some pain? She's mentally ill to an extent and has been thru a lot, I don't want this to push her over the edge.
Yes. ASAP
>>17315786
Well fuck man, get outta there.
You're setting yourself up for a shitfest.
>>17315786
The only real question is: Are you willing to raise this kid with her and be it's father?
If the answer is 100 times no not in a million years, then tell her that and leave. And make sure that you're specific about the reason. Because there's nothing that can come between her and her child (unless she gives it up for adoption, in which case fucking shame on her you should leave her because she's a scummy human being). And unless you inherently don't mind, then nothing that could possibly make you WANT to raise another man's child.
Hi /adv/,
I'm in a bit of a bind, and I don't know what to do. I'm a married man, and I am straight. My wife is bisexual. She's always been honest with me about it, and has never told me any lies. In fact, she straight up told me on our first date that she has dated girls and that she hopes it doesn't bother me. She also told me that it's not even necessarily a sexual attraction to girls, but kissing and holding hands, etc things like that are/were good to her. She's faithful to me, she loves me, she does a lot for me, yet lately I just can't help but feel uneasy about her liking women at all. I feel insecure. I feel like I can't trust her alone with women. I haven't done anything like control her, or tell her not to hang out with her female friends, nor have I mentioned that her bisexuality kind of scares me. I don't know how to tell her either, if I even should. I was okay with it at first because it didn't bother me. Sometimes she'll just casually mention things like "dang she's hot" when referring to a celebrity or model or something and it makes me incredibly uncomfortable. It didn't used to make me that way. I didn't used to care, it's just that suddenly it bothers me and I don't know why. What should I do?
Please no "leave your wife," we are happily married, and aside from this uneasy feeling things are going just fine for us.
Since you said not to tell you to leave your wife, get therapy.
>>17315785
Damn, you are weak op. Almost every girl I've dated was bi, no problems here. In fact, makes walking around more fun and we'd just point at hot girls together. You're just insecured cuz youre not confident in yourself or your partner.
>>17315785
So let me get this straight. She has been honest with you from the very beginning about her sexuality, who she finds out, who she hangs out with, and you are insecure about it, you married her ANYWAY, and you can't even be fucking honest with her about YOUR OWN FUCKING FEELINGS?!?!? What the fuck is wrong with you? I think you need therapy. Are you trying to fuck your relationship? You should have never married her if you have problems expressing yourself like this, and problems with her hanging out with her friends. Get some therapy, dude.
Hey everyone,
I'm working on my college essay for Juilliard and I was wondering if I could get some feedback.
Im not quite finished yet.
Thesis: To what force or entity can be attributed as the source of my artistic projects? The answer is simple: to everything that is not me. In short, I am not a creator, I am a channel
I am an artist. I make things. I build things. I play things. I put things together. I bow strings and I breath out air in forms creating notes and patterns. The one thing that I seem to be, as an artist, unable to do is creating. Creating a vision or a sight or a wave of emotion or a trickle of thought. Having realized this proclamation to be true, I must ask myself; what force or entity can be attributed as the source of my artistic projects? The answer is simple: to everything that is not me. I, as an artist, am not a creator; I am simply a channel through which flows a stream of feelings, thoughts, and emotions with which I build a physical construct of that which cannot be shown without. In short, I am a channel, not a creator.
Art is a rendition of thoughts or emotions that cannot be expressed simply through words. Through art, we as people are able to understand and interpret ideas which we could not without. The artist, however, does not create these thoughts, these emotions; he simply receives them. These emotions come from outside forces which act upon your mind, allowing you to feel differently about a thing or situation. In order to create, the artist uses himself as a channel for these feelings, allowing them to come to him and be externalized freely.
I don't know what I'm supposed to be reading.
>>17315778
The bottom two paragraphs
>>17315779
No, you misunderstand me. What are they supposed to be?
Hey I have a girlfriend who I've been with now for a year and quite a while. And my best friend for years has offered me to go on a 2 week cruise which I definitely want to go on but what advice I need is how to tell her without getting into an argument. Just really confused and would really appreciate the advice thanks
Why would this cause an argument? Why not take your girlfriend along?
Take your girl along. Then again it all depends on the relationship between the two girls, if they're cool with eachother or not.
Forgot to mention the cruise has been offered to me because my friends grandad can't come because his grandad has health problems I think, so he offered me the place and I know she's gonna miss me so much that it might spark an argument. The way I've seen it though is if it were the other way around I'd be happy for her to go . My best friend is a dude btw he's invited me to go with his family
My ex lowkey left me without warning and turns out actually cheated on me. This was 7 months ago and TO THIS DAY it still hits me pretty damn hard. I believe i can take her back eventually when she hopefully becomes single. Even so, shes still on my mind constantly. Where my recovery?
>>17315746
>I believe i can take her back eventually when she hopefully becomes single
And she will be cheating on you once again if that happens.
She did once, it's gonna happen again.
Move on!
>>17315746
Just move the fuck on you fucking cuck
Why would you want a slut back?
You're fucking pathetic
>>17315806
>>17315900
this
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I'm a college student (ChemE) about to start 3rd semester (currently on summer break).
My mother (single mom) got married and left when I was a kid.
Now I live with my aunt, pay for college tuition myself but I barely managed to pay (had to ask for a loan) current semester's tuition.
Also my best friend is getting married and asked me if I could help him with the wedding banquet cost. Since he's my best friend and has always helped me in my hardest and darkest moments I couldn't muster the courage to reject him.
I have this big college loan and my friend's wedding banquet that I need to pay so I decided to get a job this summer but due to college taking most of my time I only managed to get a job at a call center.
The job is depressing and the pay is even more depressingly low.
I don't know what to do, I'd like to quit this job and get a better one but I don't know who would hire me. I wouldstill prefer to drop tthe job and focus on studying (last semester I didn't have a job, focused solely on studying and still failed two subjects) but I need the money.
Tl;dr Poor college student in huge need of money. What can I do to earn money without jeopardizing college?
>can't afford the tuition fee
Land of the free, everyone!
No matter what you think, you're under no obligation to pay for your friend's wedding. Also taking a year off to save up and returning back to college is an option.
>>17315747
It's supposed to be a cheap state university but tuition fees are still high for someone like me who can't get anything but small-time jobs.
>>17315753
I know I don't have an obligation and I've seriously been considering telling him I can't help but I'd feel like the shittiest friend and I wouldn't be able to look him in the face later.
In the last week it feels like everything that could possibly go wrong has, and everything bad that happens leads to something worse. I'm seriously nearing the end of my rope, I'm heavily breaking out in stress acne and not even a short trip to the beach helped me relax. I'm nogf so I have nobody really to vent to about all this stuff, it's getting pent up inside me and I want to blow my brains out.
What does /adv/ do in this situation?
>>17315740
Talk about it. Life can be hard but we're not alone in this. We're never alone.
>>17315768
I've never been good about talking about myself or my feelings.. I've never really had anyone there for me my entire life. I don't know why but I instantly shut people out if I think there's a chance I'll get betrayed or hurt. But recently I thought things were gonna change but now they're back to the same again.
>>17315740
https://discord.gg/0g3Wk6IMl2m0sKT2
This is a link to a self improvement discord chat.
The common goal is improvement.
If nothing else, it's a good place to vent at the least and talk to people when you have noone else to talk to.
I want to try fucking a horse or dog but i dont know how or where, could someone give me some advice?
its illegal
get a hooker
>>17315727
>just finish browsing /x/
>see you here too
>>17315734
Synchronocity
So Im trying to give my gf a nice time at a hotel to have sex and spend the day with her. My house is always busy and so is hers, so the only option is to rent a hotel. What do you guys think. Would a hotel be a decent place to do it? Also has anyone had experience with this?
have you never been to a hotel
yes dont be cheap and get a suite and some wine if shes self concious if not get the nearest motel and get drunk
>>17315705
what do you mean? of course i have
>friends are coming in from out of town, will be late
Now I am alone in my car because social anxiety. What do? Do I go inside the bar and wait for them there? .... alone?
yes you fuck just go inside and order a drink
If you can sit at the bar alone you are fine. Don't sit at a table alone or stand alone.
where are you supposed to meet them?
smoke a blunt and laugh at them or just get drunk.
How to you deal with living far away from your friends and the city you are most active in?
I live at my parents' place and Im a full time student so I cant work to pay rent for my own place in the city so this is basically my only solution....I can't do it anymore, I've always lived in a town way too far away from everything in my life and its ruining my social life and personal time, having to plan every outing I have to make.
None of my friends can come to my place for a casual hangout and when I want to see people it's always me who has to do the effort of travelling that far.
I also hate being home, it really lacks intimacy and that is affecting my sexual time too.
What would you suggest that I do to improve my life?
>>17315674
Can you make new local friends in the town you're in?
>>17315674
Depends on how far far away is
My journey to the city is 1.5 hours and to see people at their place is longer as i have to travel out as well via public transport. I just deal with it and not host stuff at my place. I dont think there's an actual solution if it gets to you that much, asides from traveling more or telling your friends to come to you every now and then
>>17315738
Or as anon said
Make town friends
I hate to sound like every other poster on here, but I have trouble talking to women that I want to date.
I just get too anxious and either don't do it or fuck it up by saying something stupid.
Any advice besides "Just Do It?"
The main fear I have, like most, is rejection and possible embarrassment. I can rationalize the situation, tell myself that it's not a big deal, but that doesn't help.
Any practical advice?
>>17315664
Get out of your head.
You're thinking about it way too much. You're undervaluing yourself and putting them on pedestal. Also the fear of rejection is often way worse than actually being rejected. Most girls are pretty chill about it and are actually nice about putting guys down.
>>17315664
everyone gets rejected
just play it off like shes wrong for doing so by not giving a fuck or laughing about her ill reception
Like the first commenter said, you shouldnt think about it. It should come natural. If you "fuck up" she probably wont mind and if you make a joke about it yourself she might even find it very cute.
