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What did she mean by this?
>what did she mean by this
What did he mean by this?
>>17314567
That she's an extremely mainstream, entry level gaymurr gurll
>>17314567
What the fuck do you mean what does she mean?
She is showing affection via a letter composed of game titles placing significance on the interest of videogames you two share.
Jesus Christ it's a shitty letter but you make it even worse by not recognizing its significance and reciprocating the affection you piece of shit. Bake her a carrot cake faggot.
Hey /adv, I'm a 22yo Female who just got my degree. Last year, I had a tumor in my left breast removed (bout the size of ping-pong ball) and I still have a sizeable scar near my areola. I'm really insecure about it and it's really affected my social life. I look at other girls my age and find myself being really jealous of their "normal" boobs. When I'm not at work, I'm just at home alone. Is there anything I can do to fix my scar? I have a dermaroller which helps a little bit but not much.
>>17314565
Go to a dermatologist? You're probably the only one that notices. Everyone else who would see it would just be awestruck by some titties.
Post pic maybe to see just how bad it is?
>it's really affected my social life.
does your social life involve showing off your areolas? jesus christ get a grip, just put on a shirt
>>17314582
No, its just general insecurity. The first guy I showed my boobs to since it happened responded with "woah, that tumor must've been big"
>can't fuck well unless I'm thinking of my gf fucking some other guy
>get hard thinking about that and give her good sex
>feel pretty manly after but still have to use cuck stuff to get me off
This is weird. How do I fix this?
Had it same.
The kek is irremovable. I also had to satisfy myslef to kek porn because sex with my gf was not enough, mostly imagining that the porn actress is my wife/gf.
You hafta contain the kek and go on, must never release the kek.
Sometimes I'll think of three different women I like when I'm trying to cum. I don't imagine them when I finally climax. No, I focus on my partner at that point. It's like when you're watching porn and eventually stop looking at the screen and start imaging people you actually like. It's normal for someone struggling to cum, and it's certainly better than not cumming.
Also don't feel bad about your fantasies. The cuck slang thing is a joke. I don't think it applies to people who actually have the fetish. It's been misconstrued...
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>>17314535
Cuckold is original term for people cheated on and name of the fetish is secondary to it.
This just came out of my vagina. Help.
I’m ovulating.
>>17314508
you do realize this is illegal right? and having a trip makes you traceable
>>17314527
fucking LOL
>>17314527
>17314508
Can you please explain?
>Be in relationship for 6 years
>First 2 years were awesome and perfect
>Things started to go downhill and only got progressively worse year 3
>Worse as in less and less effort put forth by him into the relationship
>Tried to gently mention it when I first noticed
>Have been gently mentioning it for 3 years
>Little to no change
Dont get me wrong....
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>>17314499
"This just doesn't seem to be working"
Ive started to put tons more effort into my future, rather than trying to singlehandedly fix what needs two people. So why am I still sad? Why am I still bitter? Why is this happening?
>>17314499
>gently mentioning it for 3 years
You are as much of the problem as he is. Talk to him face to face, no distractions. Make it obvious you care and want to make it work but it seems like a one way street.
Don't try to make him feel guilty or bad, just point it out in a non-incriminating way.
DIRECTLY
I emphasis this because you have been INDIRECTLY mentioning it for 3 years which is why you are part of the problem. Be open and explain your thoughts,...
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>>17314499
Hey man, you eventually realized that you've wasted your time on someone who is either beyond stupid or just doesn't value you. You've worked hard for 6 years! Don't use the now I can't just walk away excuse. Cut your loss, move onto bigger and better things. What hasn't changed, isn't going to change.
This device that's connected to the dishwasher in our deli is making a high pitched screech.
How do I fix it?
>>17314475
keep the normies away
This is the model number.
some type of recording of the screech pls
Hey, /adv/, I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship.
My ex was really controlling and insecure about herself and always took her anger out on me. In the last three months I hardly went out, since I was very nearly depressed (didn't have the energy to get up from bed most days).
She dumped me in the worst way possible, when I started to ignore her constant ultimatums about things such as going out with my mates for a beer on a friday, or with my university mates to send off our friend on a trip.
She dumped me, and her last phrase was a dagger into...
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>>17314429
Holy fuck, be a fucking man. No shit she was abusive, you're more of a woman than her.
Your lifestyles were incompatible, just accept that and move on. Let her find someone who is more suited to her as well.
>>17314459
I know that, and I don't mind. It's just that thinking about her or seeing her makes me really anxious. Is there any way to avoid this? I want us to end on a good note. Don't want to stay friends, but I just want to be able to look her in the eyes and know, that it didn't work out and that is okay, and not have a crazy bitch ex trying to fuck up my life and making me always be on the edge about everything.
>girl I know posts this
What do?
Posts it where?
Call the cops or 911. She'll get the help she needs or a wake-up call to stop bring an attention whore
Win-win
>>17314426
>ouch you fall into a bush? Lol
Trust me
How do I reignite the flame?
>>17314409
A fucking light you neanderthal
>>17314409
matches work well
rub two sticks together for a while
a magnifying glass and the sun work sometimes too
>>17314409
can you be more specific?
This might sound like a stupid question with no real answer, but I figured I'd give it a shot anyways. At least I might get some insight.
I am turning 22 this autumn.
For the past couple of weeks, I've been unable to sleep well. The thought of death, oblivion, total nothingness absolutely terrifies me. I can't stop thinking about it, and every time I try to dive deeper into that dread to maybe find a resolve, I keep getting more and more terrified.
The things I've figured out so far are: Everybody is dying, there's no helping it.
I...
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>>17314393
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fT8LaMrn_MM
>>17314393
s t o i c i s m
there's nothing you can do about it - why bother thinking about it?
>>17314393
one day, you die
So advice, I've been in a relationship for barely a month and I'm sort of having second thoughts about it.. You see, my new girlfriend has 3 kids (2/3 are little assholes that have a need to touch every damn thing). Not only that - but, she has 3 mental disorders (MPD, Bipolar I/II, and PTSD) which make things even worse. So far it hasn't been too bad, but there a days where she does make me feel like I have anxiety building in the pit of my stomach because I feel like she is going to explode one day and just leave without warning or cheat on me because of her...
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>>17314372
Please be a troll
>>17314386
>>17314386
>>17314386
OP here, I'm definitely not trolling. I know most of you are going to tell me to leave her, but god damn it, I haven't had a relationship for almost 5 years and I finally find someone I like and have similar likes/interest and sexually compatible.. it's too late I fear.
>>17314403
I felt the same once and got cheated on. She also was mental. And I bet that hadn't she been sterile, I'd be kekd wit over 9000 kids.
But that's just my case, maybe yours is different.
New people I'm dealing with seem to dislike my attitude. I can ask my dad or my friends about it, but their answers will be something like, "It's not you. It's them. Don't worry about it," or, "Well that one time you disagreed with my philosophy on x bothered me."
How do I find out exactly what is rubbing people the wrong way? The criticisms from my manager and my ex were difficult to make anything out of. I get answers like, "You don't look hurried enough," or, "My therapist says you take everything personally."...
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If you recorded yourself speak on vocaroo it might make it easier for people to diagnose you (basically record yourself talking about this problem). As it stands it's a difficult thing to do anonymously.
>>17314349
I'm in public right now...
Based solely on that post, I assume you're argumentive, and that the way you act around or treat people when they disagree with you is irritating or rude or standoffish or whatever.
What does a typical disagreement/argument look like with you? Do you agure easily? How do people/you typically get into disagreements? What do you do after? Do you drop it entirely,hold a silent grudge, are you off kilter for the rest of the day, is it out of your mind?
>texting with girl i met on dating app
>I take 3+ hours to text back because "busy alpha etc."
>she texts back immediately every single time and tells me I'm ''cute''
Is this good sign or nah?
No it's an awful sign.
Are you retarded?
>>17314320
Cute = friendzone no?
No it's not
This very post is a sign that your alpha facade will hilariously crumble at a rather quick rate
I have the drive brains and scholarships to do whatever i want as a career.
But i dont really care what i do i just want to make buttloads of money, what is the best way to do this?
CS at a good school. You could make $100k starting with a BS.
>>17314305
Medicine
>>17314305
Something you can do for 30 years. Master of Public Administration, Master of Public Health...
I get so mad at guys who think they are "alpha" an irrelsistable to women. Why can't they just all die?
Nobody really likes overcompensating manlets, it's all a bunch of crap.
I-i-isn't it?
Unless they actually get the girls.
Alpha and Beta is real; it's just not everything. It's up to you how much you want to make it a part of your life.
>alpha
