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Gf doesn't feel enough attention to me? Help/tips on what to do?
>>17313233
to? or from? what?
*attraction
Dammit.
>>17313237
ah. post a picture of yourself.
>Go to a party with best female friend
>There is a chick I like for a while now
>Star getting drunk and having a great time with chick
>Chick's brother stars harassing friend (He's also a mutual friend of ours and has had a crush with friend for some time)
>She tells me
>I try to go "pacifist" and tell her to stay with chick and me away from the brother
>She...
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due to the lack of names im not entirely sure which girl was which and what exactly happened.
but from the jist of it, the best you can do is apologize, try to play it off as a drunken dumb blindness and hope she moves on from there.
"Friend" is the person I went with
"Chick" is the girl I liked
Sorry for confusion, but thanks! I already apologized and told her what was going on on my mind, I just need to see another points of view, how keep fixing things and take it off my chest too I guess.
>>17313240
I think the chick's brother tried to hook up with OP'S friend and she wasn't up for it. OP was more worried about the chick at the time so he ignored his friend that night, and now she is upset with him because she got the impression that he didn't give a fuck about what happened to her.
How come these air bubbles keep forming on my couch and how can I fix them? I have literally no idea how they're forming (aside from humidity and heat recently) or how to fix them. Some parts are already ripped slightly from the bubbling.
It's the thin layer of leather separating itself from the cloth weave that backs it.
>>17313225
Why is this happening and how can I fix it though?
>>17313236
It's cheap leather, and not easily.
how to handle my friends newfound pussywhipdom?
>me and friend are kinda 'permasingle' type guys
>We get laid easy enough but we both agree single lifestyle is generally better and should only date when you meet someone exceptional
>he meets someone exceptional
>shes totally cool and we all get along great
>we make plans for all of us to hang out july 4th at the beach
>three...
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>>17313168
That's not "pussywhipped" at all, you sperg.
Pussywhipped would be if he did every single thing she said, carried her bags around, always canceled plans with you and the guys, etc.
What he's doing is "making a reasonable compromise with another human being he enjoys."
>>17313173
>reasonable compromise
whats the reasonable compromise? sure this is maybe the START of pussy whipped, but hes cancelling standing holiday plans with friends because his girlfriends mom invited them to do something else.
when youj say you 'have' to do something cuz a gfs mom invited you despite already having plans with friends, thats pussy whipped mate.
>>17313168
There's fucking nothing wrong with them making plans with her family. Things happen. Don't be surprised if her parents ask them to go over for Thanksgiving/Christmas.
You guys can all hang out next time. It's not a big deal.
Guys I am turning 31 next Tues.
I'm living in NYC but I'm still living with my parents
I've got a job with the city where I make 39,000 annual basically 2000 a month after taxes.
Want to move out
The shittiest 1BD apartments in NYC seem to be a min 1250
The whole moving out prospects sort of scares me.
What do I do, I feel trapped?
>>17313150
Find a better job? Go finish a degree? Move to Bumfuck, Alabama?
There are plenty of options. It's not too late to get an education!
>>17313150
id move. not sure what that job is but assuming its not one of those really bad jobs that are minimum wage outside of the city, you'll do just fine.
i live in los angeles off of 1500 dollars a month.
you can find the rihgt place to live with your work experience.
>>17313178
I've got a B.S just couldn't find a job for the longest
>>17313185
It's a government job, city of New York I'm in civil service.
Thinking of getting birthday gifts for my pen pal. Is giving her an anklet a goof idea? We are both female
>>17313124
Btw I met my pen pal nine years ago in case if anyone asks if pen pals still exist
>>17313124
No, you should send her a 100-pack of instant ramen cup noodles.
>>17313128
I want a 100 pack of those :(
Am 23
Have gf
Had sex with a guy twice while drunk cause he was telling me I was gay
Still obsess about whether I'm gay
What do
Not while I was with her. This was last year.
>>17313082
Nigga, you gay.
>>17313086
It has to be less black and white than that. Ive been with 10+ women and only that guy. Wouldn't you know if you're gay?
Im not sure if it counts
I penetrated my GF but she complained it was way too sore and I immediatly exited.
I know according to textbook definition that would count but it doesnt feel like it
>>17313074
Yeah, that basically sounds the same as my first time too.
No worries, OP. It gets better the second time. Just take it nice and easy, and make sure she's dripping wet before you try to penetrate. Play with her with your fingers for a while first.
>>17313074
Who the fuck cares one way or the other op. If you do, your life has no meaning.
It doesn't fucking matter. You try again with her until it works.
Can I transfer from a community college to NYU??
or should I go to a shitty Uni (Montclair State or William Paterson) and try to transfer
Also how does room and board work at NYU??
>>17313035
You can apply, but there's definitely penalties towards acceptance rates transfering from cc rather than another uni.
If the school is the only factor changing (gpa and course load stay the same) it will obviously be easier from a better school.
They have building that you dorm in, costs a lot cause city, but that's just NYU in general.
Good luck with all those expenses, gg if you think they'll give you money.
>>17313217
What if it's a shit tier state school??
>>17313335
Better odds than a cc. Not a guarantee, but this is the game you have to play with applications.
Where is the most considerate place to leave your body after suicide? Not in your home or wherever it disturbs others to see it.
Out in the wilderness. Allow nature to take its course with decomposition
>>17313022
The ocean.
But seriously, travel and see the world first.
>>17313022
go to a trip in india or someplace and get eaten by a tiger
If i think my bf is cheating, is it acceptable to look athis phone?
>>17312985
Just ask if he is. Read his body language when he answers.
>>17312985
Just sit him down and lay out all of the reasons you believe he is cheating and ask. Accessing someone's phone/laptop/whatevz without their permission could backfire and you in jail these days.
>>17312985
why do you think he is cheating? i have thought that past partners where cheated but they where really just preparing to break up with me
last night i was rear ended at a red light. My car is totaled. i was driving for uber and had a passenger who was cut and bled in the car.
she left the scene after being bandaged by paramedics but before the cops could ID her.
I quickly made a claim with my insurance and remembered that if they knew i was ubering they could drop me bc i have no commercial coverage.
i said there was no passenger and ive never used my car for commercial purpose.
a different insurance company is handling the claim (the insurance of the guy who hit me)
i've yet to speak with...
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>>17312977
They are going to get the information from the paramedics and you could go to jail for lying. Your best bet is to come clean, but you will need a solid excuse for lying; like saying you blurred out and didn't remember.
It doesn't matter the arrangement you have with your insurance company of the other driver was at fault.
You better clean this up fast, you better believe that passenger is filing a claim against you, uber and the other driver.
>>17312977
Also, I would suggest going to the ER and getting a scan or some shit. Jail is going to be exponentially worse if you don't start covering your tracks.
>>17312977
Lying to your insurance company when filing a claim is insurance fraud and you could face imprisonment.
How do I present myself better? I'm trying to lose my virginity but I'm a low life 4chan user.
>>17312967
Fashion, eye contact, low voice.
>trying to lose my virginity
That is why you are failing. As long as that is your goal you will never succeed. Girls sense your desperation and stay far away.
>>17312994
uhhhh....how do I be less desperate yet still try to make things happen
>havent done laundry in 3 weeks because the only clothes I wear are my work clothes and some pajamas
Can people tell
>>17312960
No. Everyone is blind.
>>17312960
Of course they can - they're just too polite to say anything.
>>17312960
Please wash your work clothes, pajamas, and underwear as soon as possible. If you aren't at work, right the fuck now.
Hi /adv/,
any anons on here who have gotten back together with their ex boyfriend/girlfriend a few months after the breakup or so?
My girlfriend of two years broke up with me three months ago out of the blue. Since then, after recovering from the initial phase of hitting a new all time low and being sad, I have followed the usual /adv/ guideline of focussing on myself, getting new hobbies, meeting other girls etc and I'd say that worked out pretty nicely. However, I still feel that she is the one I really want to be with, and with all the self-improvement...
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>>17312959
Let it go, anon. There's nothing wrong with what you're doing now (aside from lying to yourself), so stay on the path to self-improvement.
My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me, and got back together 4 months later. We were together for another 5 months and we started living together. She then cheated on me and I kicked her out.
If it didn't work out the first time, it won't the next most likely. Keep focusing on yourself.
Depends largely on the reason why you two split. I've recently gone through a divorce and my feelings are pretty much everywhere. Sometimes I think it's worth a shot, sometimes I don't want to ever even see her again. Middle ground also happens.
