>meet girl
>fall for her massively
>stop seeing more atttactive fwb because I want to focus on new girl
>know her 2 month ish now and she is giving me signs that she doesn't like me
>every time I see her or talk to her I am brain dead the rest of the day because I'm so stimulated and obsessed by her
I am 25 and have been in a few relationships, 17 partners total. I am not desperate for anyone
What's...
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>>17311384
sometimes we fall in love. sometimes its unrequited.
ive had an extremely normal healthy dating life, but theres one guy i cant get. hes not even my type, his hair is stupid, hed be ugly to most girls, but i wanted him from the moment we shook hands.
>>17311384
because falling in love makes you feel like nothing else matters especially if the girl is happy around you
>>17311384
You're in love.
Welcome to the most incredible/terrifying feeling on earth.
>>17311341
Why so? I see know problem with it. Mixed-race kids are the best
This is entirely dependent on how you raise them. Expose them to both cultures, not attempt to shoehorn them into one
>>17311341
well, where do you live?
>I've read lots of stories about white-asian mixed males having identity issues, getting depressed, etc.
Hello /adv/, I'll get straight to the point. My vagina is only 4" deep (even when aroused). I've only been with one other guy aside from my current boyfriend. My ex had a large-ish penis, and sex with him hurt. My current boyfriend, however, has an average penis. It's the perfect length/girth for me. But, he's insecure about his size. How do I go about telling him he's the perfect size for me, without implying his penis is small (it's really not) and causing him to become even more insecure?
Saying "it's perfect for me"...
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>>17311336
How do I know if i have a "short vagina" ? This is new I never heard about it :O
>>17311342
I don't know if it's a common issue. I found out by using a dildo, and measuring how deep it went inside.
>>17311336
An insecure bitch is an insecure bitch. This is the man you chose, one who's insecurities are more powerful than anything you can say or do.
What a catch.
You know that vibe you get that tells you to run from someone and never look back?
Well I have been ignoring it for 2 years and I am scared it's going to blow up in my face.
Has anyone ignored it and it all turned out better than expected?
>>17311321
yeah. its mostly from 'never judge a book by its cover' scenarios though.
8th grade there were those girls, the ylooked hella bitchy. so serious when they werent smiling, so catty when they were. the ones who'd clearly finished puberty already. avoided them all year
randomly got seated with them in algebra class. turned out they were hella fucking nice. best friend material. totally normal theyd jsut finished puberty and liked their dark fashion sense.
similar situation in...
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>>17311321
No, my first impression is always right. Always.
>>17311404
>i never bother getting to know someone after i first look at them
>drank a bunch when I was younger
> did a lot of drugs and smoked cigarettes for like 2 years
> decide to stop being retarded and only do that stuff every once in awhile and in moderation
> parAnoid I may have set myself up to get cancer super hard
How do I cope?
Pic unrelated
>>17311319
By realizing that were all getting cancer regardless
>>17311319
Did you shoot fucking Krokodil? No? Then you'll be fine as long as you stay clean and stop being stupid from now on.
>>17311319
People can smoke cigarettes for 20 years and still not get cancer. You're fine.
Why is that I find men with makeup on so attractive? There's something about applying makeup onto a man, dressing him up and then fucking him that turns me on so much. I don't mean like full on drag makeup with the contour and everything, but I don't mind that either. Hypothetically, if your girlfriend was to tell you that she had this fantasy, what would your reaction be? Should it be a fetish left untold?
>>17311315
Closet lesbian?
>>17311317
Nah, I thought about that but I really couldn't push myself into doing stuff with girls. I'm not homophobic in any way either.
I have a crossdressing fetish and would love to have a GF like you.
Can somebody give me an insight into what is going on here.
I started getting guitar lessons a few months ago with a guy a bit older than me. (I'm female) and everything was going really well. We would chat about music online and I would sing for him sometimes and I thought he was generally an awesome person. We started getting a bit closer and lessons went on for longer and we would go out together for walks or to bars or watch movies in his room. The other night we were watching a movie when he kissed me then said "Now is a good time to tell you I've liked you since the first time I saw you". One thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. I went home the next day and didn't hear anything from him for a few days. I turned up for a lesson and he was really awkward and visibly uncomfortable, and went back to a really formal type of teaching like nothing before had happened. I asked him if he was ok and he just said he was busy that day and I should go home. That was 3 days ago and I haven't heard anything since.
Have I fucked up? I don't recall doing anything wrong that night. I thought it was generally pretty great.
What has happened to cause this change?
>What happened?
He lost interest.
>But why..?
You'll never know and if he's a good person he won't give you a reason to hate yourself.
It happens, choose life
>>17311241
did the sex suck?
did he wear a condom?
>>17311241
>What has happened to cause this change?
You opened your legs, too easy I'd say.
You better ask what's up straight and clear it up. He obviously doesn't want anything serious other than a fuck.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always...
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Shy girls, how do you show affection/interest to a guy you're interested in?
>Have extensive criminal past
>Never got caught doing anything
>Reformed completely, I don't even speed on the highway anymore
>Dating now
>Try gently broaching the subject with women, no specific details
>They react with disbelief and seem to think I'm faking being a "bad boy" to seem more interesting
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>>17311229
What should I ask the opposite sex?
I'm fucked and don't know what to do anymore. I've been paranoid that I have diabetes as I'm always tired, thirsty, and hungry so I decided to go to the doctor without my family knowing, I'm 19.
Well they did a blood test and I just got a call thst my blood sugar level is over 300 and they want me to come in tomorrow asap to do more tests.
Im 5'8 and 227 lbs, not very active, haven't done any sports since sophmore year of high school, and am clinically diagnosed with depression.
I can't tell my parents this, not...
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tell your parents and tell them you need to go to a shrink too.
Whats a shrink? Also how do I directly reply to somebody here?
Tomorrow you start running again then. Just do one thing each day to improve your life. You either have the willpower to improve, or you don't.
a friend of mine committed suicide very recently. it's hard, and it really hurts. i don't know what to do. guess time will help.
>>17311207
wouldn't have been able to do anything about it friend.
>>17311211
this is true, especially in this case. but i'm thinking back to the last conversation we had, when he was confiding in me. i was high as fuck and i'm just sure i said all the wrong things. sometimes i'm not a very good friend.
at least i tried.
now i don't feel like working or seeing any other friends. just staying really high and trying not to feel.
The dead can't feel pain or observe time.
You shouldn't regret not preventing their suicide, they're at peace.
Choose life.
Hello, /adv/ocates
I have a question. What's the fastest way to get an photo ID card in California? I don't have one since I don't drive and I have no other form of government issued photo ID.
Is there a way to get one the same day from the DMV? Thanks for the help, anons.
bumpitty flump
dk about cali but in my state you can use a ss card or birth certificate
Step 1.) open google
Step 2.) "how to get photo ID
is it really that fucking hard to google shit nowadays?
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Word!
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>>17311186
Hate when women do that shit.
Just fucking say no you cunts
I had some questions on long distance relationships and also wanted some advice. I'll give a bit of backstory first, I've technically never had a gf before, I've spoken to a few girls long distance and got in "that" stage but they crashed and burned and resulted in hurt and messing up my hopes of dating etc. I've become quite scared of ldr relationships and have been determined to believe they do not work out ever. But even offline, I don't know any girls neither get the chance to meet any plus i dont really think any take interest in me.
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If you have bad experiences why do you think LDR is even anything you CAN do?
LDR hardly ever works because of bad experiences. They hardly ever work out for a reason.
Save yourself the trouble, go on a local dating site or just put yourself out there somehow.
>>17311162
>>17311172
To add. This is and definetly will be the last time I ever try giving anything online a chance. I'm tired of it. I'd rather not go on dating sites, plus I'd be embarrassed if people i knew found me on those.
I'm not quite sure how to put myself out there, I dress presentably, I'm certainly tall enough to be seen. But im always alone, even though i dont wish to be.
>>17311178
What's embarrassing about someone trying to find someone?
At the end of the day, if you do find someone locally and it works out who cares what others think.
>posted a pic of my gf in a /soc/ rate thread
>she found out
>can't blame someone else, it was a picture she took for me
Welp. How the hell do I get out of this?
why did you do it?
>>17311161
Curiosity desu
>>17311158
You just tell her you were curious what people thought of her. You would rather the opinion of a stranger then a guy bro. If I was you, I'd (You) that picture with all kinds of flattery.
picture says it all
At this point in life most people treat me with a polite indifference, which t b h isn't too bad. It's painfully lonely at times but at least I'm not being kicked in the head.
Yes this is how 99% of all relationships work. If it doesn't benefit you, it's not worth your time.
Life isn't a movie or teenage romance novel, grow the fuck up.
>>17311152
What do you need advice with?
Besides shitposting on /adv/