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Alright guys wondering if anyone has any legal expertise they could help with.
I rent a property with a friend (originally 4 of us lived here but now only 2) and we both smoke weed. We've had an email saying the landlord is pursuing legal action and police are coming round in the next few days.
I've opened all the windows and sprayed shit and everything to get rid of the smell. Should be gone in time but I still need to find a place to stash the weed. No idea if they're going to be searching or what.
But I just need ideas for a story and...
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If they find nothing in your house, they can't do anything
Fucking get rid of it ya dummy. You'll buy some later.
Also get rid of all your dealers numbers and qhits like that. Erase all trace of dope from your life and start anew, but smarter next time ya dingus.
>>17309722
don't say anything. You aren't obligated to answer anyone's questions. You probably don't even have to let them into your apartment.
>Wanker parks car in front of gate
>When I come home have to roll over the hood to reach the gate
>When I wake up is gone... at night is there again
Whoever the fucker is he's not gonna force me to go downstreet knocking all doors at late hours just so that I can get inside my own home.
What can do /adv/?
Caltrops? Potatoes/rags up the exhaust? Superglue the doors shut? Paint remover? What?
get it towed. blocking a gate is probably illegal and a fire hazard.
>>17309678
Leave a note telling him to stop parking there. Next time he does it call the tow truck. The driver might not know they're causing any issue since it seems you get home late at night and they're gone in the morning.
>>17309733
Honestly this. It might seem passive but that is pretty much the only way to get in touch with them. Don't accuse them of anything but make sure they know it is causing a problem and to please park elsewhere. If they still do it 2 more times, tow the fucker
What is it that made women into such natural leeches? I'm friends with one at work, and despite us being very solidly locked in as Just Friends (coworkers, she has a bf), she still sometimes asks me to buy her stuff. I never do it, of course, but it's incredible how the baseline female point of view makes it seem perfectly reasonable to them to think
>I don't really feel like paying for this coffee, maybe I can get Anon to buy it for me
This is a completely separate issue from romantic involvement or family to them, they...
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Probably something to do with how they're raised
I think guys tend to have it drilled into them as they get older "Earn for yourself, buy your own thing, dont rely on other"
Whereas women see their stay at home mums living of their dads earnings and feel it as normal
>>17309670
>it's a "why are all women maligning blanket statement" episode
>>17309670
don't do the same mistake as I, convinced all men are jerks that only want to have sex.
you can not put everyone into the same basket
Thinking about trying to completely change myself . Sick of my nerd self and thinking about being a cliche Chad
Anyone have any tips on this ? Any specific hobbies / interests that I can go try and explore that are "normal "?
>>17309668
Normies don't have hobbies. Their hobbies are their friends. Watch sports but don't get too into it, have fun talking to girls, be with your bros, and keep vidya to a bare minimum.
>>17309704
Thinking about leaving vidya behind anyway . Rarely play it .
Also I hope to plan to play football when I quit being fat.
Also , I should leave my bf right ? It's going to be hard because he is EXTREMELY attached
Chad's don't have hobbies. If you want to become the"normal" you perceive, then expand on what you do. What are your "nerd" hobbies?
Does anyone have any outside input on this?
I'm 24 now and extremely naive and sheltered and inexperienced. Female. I just got out of a 2 year LDR in which we never met before, and now I think I have a "real boyfriend". Like one that can actually hold me. I'm really scared, not of him, but all these experiences are so new. I've never been made out with before. I've never had someone on top of me. I've never had someone feel me up.
I still feel really sad about my LDR boyfriend. If there was anyone I wanted to lose my virginity to,...
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Just wait until you're ready and don't worry about it until then. Might as well consider waiting for marriage at this point.
you don't have to take his entire penis in.
he can go slow, start with fingering increasing number of fingers to meet the girth of his cock so when he inserts it is already pretty open
>>17309640
Three things to know about losing your virginity
1. It will only hurt if you have an intact hymen or he is really, really bad at it.
2. It probably won't be wonderful (but might) the first time, but good enough to make you willing to try again, and it will get better.
3. The fact of losing virginity looms larger in advance than afterwards. Your response is likely to be a bit of a letdown just because your life won't change instantly and radically.
>Start talking to girl on tinder
>Im 22 she's 17 (Bongland so its cool)
>Things going well, hella flirty,
>Talk for like 5 hours
>Convo gets dirty
>Talk tons about sex
>We're talking about sex so much its almost a given we're gonna fuck without actually saying anything
>Then at one point randomly she says...
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Who cares? It seems like you are doing just fine even if she thinks you are a "sub", whatever the fuck that means.
She is also 17, so I wouldn't take anything she says too seriously. In hate dating younger women because they are often immature, stupid, self-centered and use "I'm still so young" as an excuse for everything.
>>17309636
Have fun getting pegged.
Just fuck that teen whore and show her who the Dom is faggot
How do I tell my mom I want sleeping pills
>>17309628
"mom, i want sleeping pills"
Just tell her you cant sleep and its affecting your mental/physical wellbeing and that you need something to help
>>17309635
5 mins too late
Anyone doing nofap? For what reasons and what are your results?
desu my boners arent as hard as they used to be
it might be a problem in the future so im trying it out to see if it works
>>17309609
Stopped watching porn a few days ago, to me porn was mostly the issue, as a result I fap less often because I take like 30minutes to an hour to cum with my imagination
>>17309649
Why exactly was porn an issue for you?
How do I hire artists for a project on the internet? What website should I use? What's the process of making a deal and working together?
Hey whatbdobyou need I have some good people in mind.
And basicallynits just looking bad their web portfolio
>>17309608
Tumblr or devianart.
>>17309608
More detail please. "Project on the internet" could be anything.
>tfw you realize all those normies doing drugs are only doing it because they feel alone what with their sociopathic lifestyle
Damn... really makes me think.
Now that I know their diseased minds inside and out, how do I defeat them?
>>17309595
>>>/r9k/
>>17309595
>people that do "thing I don't like" are only doing it because they feel alone
>>17309595
you encourage their drug abuse and let them self destruct. failed normies are really fun to laugh at.
always encourage drug abuse, even though we both know it's completely retarded.
Is it paranoia to have a sudden realization that all the weird shit that I've ever googled is held in databases and now tied to my identity. What about potential effect on my future if they ever became compromised?
>>17309570
This could only harm you if you tried to work at Google, and IF they went through the trouble to try and track every action you've ever done. Which would be ridiculously difficult, because they don't know every address you've ever been at.
So yes, it is paranoia. What isn't paranoia and what could actually hurt your future, is if you have wildly inappropriate things on social media. Anything that could possibly be interpreted as racist, illegal, sexist, hateful, irresponsible, etc. Pictures,...
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>>17309575
Different anon here.
Is it also paranoia if you tape the webcam on your laptop?
And every post you've ever made on 4chan.
Before my gf and I were officially dating she had sex with and had previously hooked up with one of her close friends just a a few days before we decided we were in a relationship. They're still friends and see each other fairly regularly, but she assures me there is nothing for me to worry about regarding their relationship.
I still get jealous though and can't help but feel concerned whenever they hang out together.
Am I right to be jealous or am I overreacting?
>>17309543
In my opinion your jealousy is justified, if i imagine i would be in the same situation with my gf i would probably be like that aswell.
However i think it would be wrong to tell her to break up contact with him, you are her boyfriend after all and if there is no fundamental trust then i can assure you that you wouldn't be happy on the long term.
So just be chilll and relaxed and suck it up, you are not her owner.
>>17309543
>a few days before we decided we were in a relationship
I don't think you are over reacting and it is normal to be jealous of a guy still in your gf's life she fucked not long ago.
Couple questions,
Were you guys already dating but not committed just yet when she fucked the friend?
How did you decide you were in a relationship? What changed?
Have you had sex with her? When?
>>17309543
I don't understand a girls insistence she remain very close friends and socialize regularly alone with a guy they had a sexual relationship with when she enters a committed relationship with another man. The relationship with the "friend" should change (doesn't mean it ends) because her status has changed. What the girls expect is to continue to behave as if they are single and the guy they say they are committed to must accept it and shut up or get out.
Hey /adv/, what was your dad like? Did you know him? What did you do together? What makes a good dad?
>>17309529
Dad and mom split around 11yrs old. He spent as much time with me as he could, tried to do what he could and was willing to help me in any way he could. I consider him a good dad.
He did not push me though. It was up to me to go practice, or do my homework. I found that role model in my friends dad. It's not that I wasn't self motivated, but my dad wasn't a "life experiences" kind of dad and spent his time in the bleachers and left it up to me to find ways to improve. I wish he had...
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We did typical father-son things. Playing football, going for runs, going swimming, going to amusement parks and so on. Plus, he beat me a few times to teach me a lesson, which I'm thankful for. I think all this new hippy dippy "just ask your kid politely to stop being a cunt" shit is, well, shit.
Contrary to the poster above me, he pushed me but never beyond my comfort zone. He wanted me to learn piano and violin and join sports team and take up running properly but I never did, and he was alright with my decisions.
I love my dad.
I love my dad. I just feel bad for him. I think a tall, handsome, almost professional footballer who makes half a million a year probably expected more from his first son. He's a good dad, but a sculptor can't do much with shit. I'm glad my younger brother takes after him. He's a good kid and I'm glad they have the relationship they do. Makes me feel alot less guilty.
He is a stellar dad though. He works hard, has always provided, always put us first, always pushed us to do our best and is always giving us nuggets of wisdom. Never laid a hand...
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Sup /adv/, here's my thing:
>started studying I.T. at 18 years old
>never liked one single subject (except 1 completely unrelated one) but kept going since everyone said it was a good career, parents got pissed if I suggested dropping it, etc.
>kept studying for over 4 years, but still barely close to half of the subjects by now
>hate this career with a passion
>never had a real job
>depression...
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>>17309519
What do you want to do? Can you move into another related field of study so that your credits will count towards something? Why not go into English with a minor in CS/IT?
>>17309593
Thanks for the reply. Yah, getting a degree in English can be a good idea. Otherwise I'm kind of only interested in graphic design, architecture or psychology. Unfortunately these don't seem to be easy job opportunity careers (which is why people talked me out of them when I was younger) and I probably won't have any subjects in common with those except 2 maybe. Though I'm sure my current knowledge won't be completely wasted.
>>17309519
What do you WANT to do? Suppose money/job/time were not an issue. What would you most enjoy studying or doing for the rest of your life?
OK now. Just how unreasonable/impossible is that? Chances are that the worst that would happen if you followed that dream is that you'd lose a couple of years in having to change a major and take different courses. That's a very small price.
Posted about this yesterday, need new advice.
>broke up with bf for four months
>got back together last saturday
>same day the girl he was seeing for a couple of weeks told him that her period was late
>he gave her money for pregnancy test
>she says she wasn't sure of the result but wouldn't explain why
>he told her yesterday that he is with me now
>she...
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Is she in any way legally obligated to tell him if she is pregnant?
He want to be part of the pregnancy if it is his. But of course he wishes for an abortion. He doesn't want to play family with her, he doesn't have any feelings for her but he will want to support the child and see them.
It's just so awful how a woman can do this to a man. Of course he should have thought about it before, gotten to know her better but he trusted that sex with a condom is safe and didn't doubt that she would go this crazy.
Just ignore her. She's obviously crazy and/or lying, otherwise she would have shown him proof that she's pregnant.
If you're living in America, she can't just show up to his door with a baby and take his money.
If she wants him to pay child support, he has the right to ask for a DNA test. If she IS pregnant, she has the baby, and a DNA test proves him to be the father - then he will probably have to pay child support.
Otherwise, just save all records of their text/e-mail exchanges for legal purposes and ignore her empty threats.
>>17309730
But he wants to go to ultra sound with her if she is pregnant but she says she won't let him know anything about the baby until it's born. I think my bf should write her a very polite message saying it is best for the baby and the parents that the father knows if she is pregnant.
