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Hey /adv/,
I was “seeing” this chick up until the end of last semester, and things were good. She left weed in my condo, and then my landlord wants to inspect in 2 days. I let her know but she can’t make it over to get it (40 min. drive) and I can’t store it in my car, the aroma was far too potent and I did not want to drive with it in my car or park on campus with it.
I text a friend, give him the weed (about an oz) and he smoked it. She texts 2 days after inspection wanting her weed, I let her know what happened and apologize. She demands money instead,...
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nah feed her some cock
Then let her go >:}
>>17308582
That was in fact a sample of things to come. You can get back together with her, but set a no illegal substances at my place rule.
The missing her part generally comes later and you probably will. Not telling you if you should or shouldn't get back with her, just a little advice from someone who's been there a few times.
>>17308619
Thanks, anon. It happen a little over a month ago and it hasn't really bothered me until I started second guessing myself earlier.
So I'm 18, almost 19 now, and I've been vegetarian since birth. Parents raised me that way, I didn't really have an explicit choice. They've told me and my siblings that they don't care if we continue to be vegetarian but I mean social pressure is a real thing and I'm not sure how to tell them that I don't want to.
I was into it when I was around 8-12 but stopped caring around then. I don't eat fake meat anymore, it tastes disgusting. I don't really do any vegetarian things like try to cook creative meals, I'm just a...
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>>17308556
There are many degrees of being a vegetarian, you don't say how hardcore or vegan you are.
Nobody says you should tuck into a steak if you haven't eaten meat in ten years.
If you're "vegan", then you can feel free to consume some animal protein that's produced in an earth friendly way. I'm sure you can get some advice from your local health food store.
If you haven't eaten meat in a decade, and haven't paid serious attention to your diet and protein...
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Start with some meat you are intrested in and work your way up
>>17308556
>social pressure is a real thing
Being a cuck is also real. And you're one!
How do i stop letting people control me?
For years iv'e had teachers and bullies say stuff to me like that i'll never be what i want to be and that i'm stupid, i'll end up in jail, live in my parents basement ect.
I got out of high school a year ago but yet i still feel like crap and whenever i do something or think about doing something i always relive what has happened to me in the past. It's all in my head and i can't get anything done. How do i get over this stuff and move on?
>>17308541
I really wanted to give you an advice, but then I'll be controlling you, therefore making the advice for your situation useless.[justified bump].
>>17308541
I can't really say much about how to move on because I have the same problem, but after a year of cutting all connections to the people who harrassed me, I understand that this control issue is really more deeply rooted with caring about what other people are saying.
You're constantly worried about what they think about you, and in return, you just start becoming unconfident with everything you do because so many people are saying you're terrible at some stupid thing that they think is important....
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>>17309006
Fucking wall of text. I didn't mean to type out this much.
tl;dr: Doing the opposite of what those people said might help, but if it doesn't, seek help.
Looking for an easy, non bloody way to kill myself. Though about bleach but I heard it is slow and painful, I dont own a gun, and don't have a lot of meds around. Suggestions?
>>17308513
>Grow a pair of balls and face life like the bitch it is.
Easiest, non-bloody way.
>>17308529
Trust me I've tried my intense panic attacks will not stop tried everything there is no other way
Have you ever try cyanide?
Then it would help you a lot.
Pls esplain to me why the tiny dogs are bad
>>17308487
People don't respect them when they bite/growl, which encourages them to be yappy and bitey. If you want to own a small dog, treat it like a large dog.
>>17308487
But, but they're not. The tiny dogs are the bestest.
>>17308512
LISTEN TO this post
Starting university in 2 months. Have 1 more day before the change-of-mind for switching university courses and I'm stuck.
Two main options:
-European Studies which is basically European history as well as studying two languages.
-combination of maths+history or maths+language
European Studies
-I prefer studying history on my own time over anything else, its fun, and I want to study a language for the year abroad.
Maths courses
-In high school I made lots of friends in maths class, it seems like a much easier subject to bond with people...
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>>17308463
You're a freshman, don't shit buckets about what you're gonna major in right now. Officially pick up 4 classes in all categories you're interested in, and just visit whatever other classes in that category you're interested in. For most colleges, the first week is a free add/drop period, so make use of it. See what you feel comfortable in, and try focusing on it. If you don't like it, you've got a second semester.
>>17308523
I don't think the American university model works the same as it does in my country. I'm meant to pick a set course, it just so happens that this university also does a two-subject degree where you can pick and choose (which is what I'd be doing if I want to do maths).
I hear it's true that you can go in early on and switch to a different course though, which is why I'm not getting too stressed over it yet. Really I'm meant to have my mind up by Friday though, the other stuff...
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>>17308547
Oh, I heard British colleges are essentially the same from a classmate. Or are you from elsewhere?
If you want to quicken the choice-making, there's a couple of options.
First would be to go to a forum specific to Math or EuroStud and ask about what they do. For example, I had a choice between mech engineering and math, and I chose math because I found an actuary forum and found the area interesting.
Second would be to go to someone you know that pursued knowledge in those subjects. Maybe ask your...
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>anon makes fun of my shitty grammar/syntax/whatever on /int/
>I beat myself up for being an idiot for the rest of the night
>do something wrong at work
>feel like the dumbest person on the planet for around an hour
How do I learn to not hate myself?
Find out why you need validation from strangers?
Point is gou dont know where you csme from before you were birn and you font kniw where youre gonna be when you die.
.the time you spendn living is a tiny amount of time ine the scale of the universe.
Other peoples opinions matter sweet fuck all in the end.
Stop listening to others who put you down. Stop wasting your time on those who dont matter.
>>17308456
You should first recognize that /int/ is full of shitposters. You should then remember that this is the internet, where there is minimal risk in making fun of people.
After you have acknowledged those two, you should also note that people aren't perfect, including you, and that mistakes are about as common as the amount of times you scratch your balls.
That's part 1, anyways.
>>17308475
The result of fat fingers on a small phone screen.
>25 yrs old
>pic related
Anything I can do to reverse this (diet changes, vitamins, whatever)? Or should I just end it now?
>inb4 just learn to accept it
>>17308440
Shave the rest.
Hair follicle surgery. But you really should just learn to accept it. Don't get tricked into wasting money and stupid shit that doesn't work.
Wear a fedora
Memes aside, what does your face look like? You could pull off being bald possibly
Hey guys,
I'm facing possibly the worst Month of my life, starting tomorrow and i'm probably going to have to make some pretty big choices.
How do get through this, that is to say how do I cope with going through all of it. The lead up to it has me shaking already.
Any /adv/ would be appreciated.
>>17308437
We're gonna need some specifics there bud.
>>17308437
Easy! You make a choice based on what's best for you (taking into account what's best for your loved ones, but you come first) and you stick to your guns and you power through it!
What else are you expecting? You've said nothing about what you are facing.
>>17308505
Well I'm finally decided to get my sex change.
So I'm going to college to study up on electrical engineering, but there's sort of an issue regarding this. I am required to take a calculus course, but I did not meet the requirements to be able to take it this year, and taking the course any later will cause me to stay an extra year at the university I will be attending. Of course, I can bypass this by taking a trigonometry placement exam and passing it. I have some resources provided for me to study up on, but the issue lies in how I should tackle this. I remember some of the basics from my highschool pre-calculus...
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Go to OpenStax - it's a website that makes free college text books, and they have textbooks for all basic mathematics, from pre-algebra to several calculus text books. Spend a hell-ton of time reviewing the text books, and you should be golden.
khan academy is okay
weird that one class make you stay an extra year
>>17308436
That looks nice, thanks
>>17308480
>khan academy
Weird, I just got an e-mail from them. But yeah, thanks for the pointer.
>weird that one class make you stay an extra year
I'm pretty sure I was told that under a rhetorical situation in which I don't take the extra class during the summer. I'm pretty sure that was just to light a fire under my ass. But yeah, if I don't take...
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How do you deal with being ugly? I'm so ugly that other people that know me joke about it and call me ugly all the time (yeah, even politically correct girls)
I kinda feel shitty about it because i feel i'm totally unlovable, and people who doesn't know me tend to ignore me unless they need something from me.
what i can do? should i wait until everyone is 40 to feel normal?
>>17308398
are you fat? With effort and commitment you can easily fix that
Be skinny. Get a sense of style. Be artistic. Dress right. Make lotsa money. Find better friends or make fun of them in mean ways as well. Hopefully you can master at least a few of those. Good luck!
>>17308402
I'm not fat, in fact I do gymnastic since i was 14 years old and i have an athletic body
I kinda don't show my body too much because i already know that i'm ugly so showing off means being a douche (i'm so ugly that showing off isn't effective at all)
I never had sex until this year (I am 24). I hooked up with 2 girls at Uni, both situations never lasted more than one night.
When I returned to my home city, I met a girl on tinder. We went on 2 dates that went VERY well, and we started having regular sex, going out to bars, walking in parks etc...
I had told her that I never got out much (which is true) and I enjoyed getting out and doing things. The sex was also fantastic. We were very honest and open with one another right from the get go.
Anyway, she had mentioned on the first date that she did not...
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>>17308368
Dodged a bullet. 3 months and she's asking about long term? Girl is damaged.
You dodged a huge bullet.
Tinder, plenty feesh, grindor facebook all for trogdolytes. Stack filters you dumb fuck there are 7 billion people on the planet and you just want you dick wet.
I'm gonna start encouraging male rape
How does one get a girlfriend? I don't have any human contact and am scared to use tinder because of the people I'll find. I'd be willing to start by making female or even male friends but I don't know how to start a friendship. I'm not even autistic I just have no idea what activities can be done to have fun or be around others. I've had friendships before but it was mainly based off of getting fucked up together.
Help me I don't want to die alone, I'm not even desperate for sex I just want a companion.
Picture unrelated
>>17308358
>scared to use tinder because of the people I'll find
Care to elaborate?
start by dropping that tripcode
anyway, I don't know exactly how because I never had one but I noticed that people from christian groups tend to end up being couples whithin their groups, maybe you could try joining a group. And if you are atheist, tell them you are in doubts or something, you may attract the interest of girls who want to help you know Jesus and maaaaybe you can work that out into a romantic relationship
Either way sorry I don't have any other advice so I just wish you luck
>>17308362
Seems like the girls on there would be quick to cheat
Excuse my ignorance last time I checked that app was mainly for hookups, please change my mind
Is /adv/ still capable of actual advice or are the golden days over? It seems to be just memeing, white knighting, insulting the op while refusing to give advice, calling each other virgin, boner boy, whatever these days.
Do you have any other internet source of free advice?
>>17308350
So what do you want advice about? Maybe on how to make better threads?
>>17308382
Literally my point.
>Do you have any other internet source of free advice?
Right there on the original post.
>>17308350
Pretty much, google's your friend. Search up your question, see if there are any relevant threads in wherever places, if not, generalize your topic more and look for a forum for said topic.
However, if you're looking for some quick, casual advice, support/refutation advice, or "getting started" advice, here's probably the best place. You can also get the occasional professional advice if you're lucky. /adv/ is and has been more or less the same, you're probably experiencing...
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If someone has cheated on someone else in a previous relationship does that mean that odds are they will also cheat on you? I'm interested in this girl and she's into me but she admitted to me that she cheated on his baby daddy while he was in prison with the guys best friend.
Ya, cheaters are definitely more likely to cheat again than someone who's never cheated. Doesn't mean she will, but go into with a clear head that it's a possibility.
>>17308346
Well the answer varies with every individual but if she has a baby daddy in prison you're fucking retarded for considering her as a partner.
>>17308346
>If someone has cheated on someone else in a previous relationship does that mean that odds are they will also cheat on you?
Yes. Absolutely yes. She sounds like complete garbage, please discard her.
