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What are some good preparations to make before a DMT trip?
>>17307627
Go to the pet store and get a bunch of spiders, and release them in your apartment right before you trip.
>>17307650
Great suggestion, will try!
Have some bud ready for afterwards, to help you decompress.
Okay, I'm a regular of hentai-foundry. It's kind of a daily thing, but for the past 2 days almost all the uploads have been broken. And for the life of me, I can't figure out how to fix it.
I've tried, reseting my computer, using a different browser, turning of adblock, logging out of my account, I even tried opening the site on my cell, and it's always exactly the same. But for some reason opening on another laptop (that uses the same wifi) works just fine.
I've inspected a few pages with broken pics and they all have four errors...
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>>17307587
Lmao! Mommy cut that ass off at the router. I think someone is sending you a message, OP.
>>17307593
Hilarious, now can you actually help?
>>17307625
Yeah, here is what you do:
Reset your router to factory default and manually configure it the way it is currently setup.
Or talk to whoever has the access and figure out why they blocked it, but I think you know why.
Hey /adv/, I'm gonna be hanging out with a girl tomorrow and I'm pretty sure she wants to fuck. What can I do to make sure we go to her place and bone?
I'm 18 and a virgin, so any other tips and advice on the subject is totally welcome.
Thanks
>>17307586
>I'm pretty sure she wants to fuck
What makes you think that?
>>17307586
Flirt. Tease her a bit, touch her platonically now and then, but don't think about it too much. You should only expect to have fun. But be assertive with your flirting -- and if she gives you the green light, pull the trigger.
>>17307594
She never breaks eye-contact with me. Whenever we talk she gets very close to me, bites her lip, touches my arm, etc. She speaks almost wistfully to me and tells me I'm cute, sweet, calls me honey/darling etc.
She invited me out to do yoga with her at this place. I was thinking about bringing up doing yoga at her place or something and going from there.
I have a well-paid job which is boring and takes a lot of time, leaving close to none for myself. It's been a year since I've started telling myself "it's time to quit". The problem is that it seems I'm not a corporate type of person. Changing jobs won't solve the problem. I am afraid to go for creative-self-employed or startup memes, I know the risks and not even sure if I have any talent or brains capable of going that way. More likely not. Last but not least, I have my old man and mum who I actually fully sponsor as they don't earn...
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Search for something that pays about the same with less hours. Just research it when you have the opportunity and start preparing a resume to send out.
Don't quit until you find something else, that is a rookie move. Perhaps the culture where you work is just one of those soultraps and instead of starting something, look for a startup that has the kind of culture you'd be cool with.
If all else fails, take Xanax and be cheerful on the inside too.
>>17307555
28 year old wage slave office drone here. My life is easy but boring. All I do is coding/help desk work all day. I don't get paid all that well (65k a year) but hey like I said, my life is easy.
I am, however, borderline depressed and tired all the time. I'm simply existing. You could be me in a couple years, anon. I used to be like you all cheerful and happy but now it's all been sucked out. I'm tired, bitter, angry, and generally unhappy most of the time. But I know how to put my happy...
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>>17307584
Have you tried changing anything?
>>17307568
I agree about the rookie move. However, Xanax is even more rookie imo. How would you seek for a culture you're cool with? Honestly I want to avoid all those soul traps and work in chill environment, but everything I see around is a goddamn bunch of zealots, or, at the other side, you have castrated nu males with "easygoing and manly" environment which is actually effeminate as fuck.
That can only...
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Okay. Little back story.
I'm 18 and bisexual. I've only had 4 boyfriends in my life but a LOT of girlfriends because i was strictly girls until about 10th grade. My first love/partner was a girl.
Now i currently have a boyfriend. We love each other, we don't fight, always have a good time together, sex life is good and things are all good.
But i can't help but occasionally really miss being with girls. Especially when my coworker's girlfriend comes and visits her at work or i see lesbian couples around or see pics of girls kissing or being...
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>>17307549
>I've only had 4 boyfriends in my life but a LOT of girlfriends because i was strictly girls until about 10th grade
>underage lesbonics
>>17307577
Ooor you can stop scting like little butthurt kids and actually give me some advice..
Is it wrong for me as a male to prefer working with a female therapist? I was told today I was assigned with a male therapist and I requested to see someone else hoping to get a female. I feel guilty about this like I'm sexist even though I'm male myself. I just prefer having a women's perspective and opinion. I feel more comfortable talking about the PTSD from my sexual assault with women than men. I just feel like an asshole right now and I don't know why.
>>17307538
This sort of shit happens in the medical field all the time. Some women want a male gyno, some women want a female gyno. If you find it easier to open up to a female therapist, that's just your preference, there's nothing sexist about it. Though, you should probably be more clear about your preference instead of just dicking around with it.
>>17307557
But it's considered rude to come out and say those things. I just don't want to offend or be an asshole to anyone.
Dunno, I feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist as a girl.. But my issues are with my mom, and the one time I had a female therapist she put me on edge. Felt like I had to be defensive, and not sure how much of it was in my head.
And it's not wrong. They're paid to help you. If you're not going to be comfortable talking to someone, that just means paying for a bunch more sessions before you're even okay opening up. Why set up more obstacles?
Hate my family
>Raised as the black sheep
>Everything I did was wrong no matter what
>Abusive as fuck, been called every name in the book, told they never wanted me and run away countless times
>Beaten and neglected too
>Can't move on with my life (been told it's my dad's influence on me by the last 3 therapists I had)
>He acts like he is my friend now that I'm 23 amd...
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Didnt your therapist offer you some kind of proper help?
>>17307548
im an adult living alone, he tried to make me start realizing that all the negativity i see in the world comes from the way they treated me.
Whener i felt like life was pointless or that the next big thing was going to save me and i would finally become the person i always wanted to be he tried to bring me to a happy medium
>Nothing I want more in the world than beating the ever living shit out of him, telling all of them what I think about them and never contacting any of them ever again
Then do it, you'll feel much better. Prepare for lonely thanksgivings though. If not american then you're all set
Hi /adv/ so I've been dating this girl for 7 months, we're both 20 years old
Me and my family are pretty well off, we have money for paying school, a nice car for every member, you get the idea.
My gf's family are mid-low class, they have 1 car and it's a cheap one, and they never go on vacations.
So we're in college (same semester) and we have to make the payment for the next semester before the 1st of july, it's not much ($200) and she is very worried because her dad told her that he doesn't have the money and gave her $100 to see if she can get a extension, I'm pretty mad about this because her dad doesn't seem to care, he can always get a loan from his boss or some shit but he is not doing it, and he recently bought a new dinning table, but he apparently doesn't have the money to pay her school.
I want to pay for her, I really do, I have a work, and have money saved up that I made on my own without anybody's help.
It wouldn't affect me at all if I pay, but I'm scared of the precedent this will leave, her family knows I have money, and I don't want to start paying stuff her dad has the obligation to pay, so what should I do?
>>17307431
>I'm pretty mad about this because her dad doesn't seem to care, he can always get a loan from his boss or some shit but he is not doing it, and he recently bought a new dinning table, but he apparently doesn't have the money to pay her school.
>I don't want to start paying stuff her dad has the obligation to pay
Is it an American thing where parents are responsible for paying for their kids' uni or something? The way I see it, paying for her education is up to her.
I would pay for it, but make it clear that it won't be a regular thing.
>>17307441
We're in Mexico, here the dad has to do that or at least help with the paymen. That's how it goes for 90% of the students
I've been around for 18 years now and haven't had a serious relationship, had sex many times and ofc an alpha with the girls. Just never been a serious one, should I be worried?
No. You're too young for a serious relationship.
>>17307422
You're 18.
>haven't had a serious relationship
You're doing good.
>>17307422
>18
>still a kid
>wonder if it's OK to be childish
Yes you're pretty much normal
Advice for a friendship kind of falling apart, ill green text to keep it short.
>met qt in online community
>she is foreign and v kind
>we talk every day online for over a year
>she is just wonderful
>we play games and draw
>she has diagnosed depression
>i have diagnosed DID
>we help and support each other as much as...
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>>17307421
Look mane, you got a preference and that's fine.
None of this is really on you specifically, nor are you a shit friend.
Honesty is good, but to prevent further damage to her psyche you need to either call it quits or have her ass in therapy/getting her shit together.
Plenty of schlong and vaggo in the sea, senpai.
>>17307446
She is already in therapy, she said she is rejecting the meds and sinking further into depression because she thinks taking them will change her? And our chances of being together? But i told her we couldnt be and she is still saying these things...
I dont want to hurt her, but im pretty close to blocking her just so she can find happiness and not let me keep her from finding others/ bein happy and healthy
>>17307472
>she thinks taking them will change her?
Yeah, I'm personally against meds too.
Wait so she's obsessed with you?
If she can't make rational and healthy decisions regarding something like that, then you might need to do it for her and block her out of your life. At least for some time.
Man going off topic, I feel so bad.
I feel like my first love was a lie.
The girl i was with is basically dead and no the same nor ever will be, and the things she told...
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So I dropped out of college for personal reasons and now I feel useless and lost. I'm 19 and I want to make something of myself. Should I get a job? Should I keep studying? I honestly can't answer this questions myself, seeing as I don't even know what am I fighting for.
I'm lost. Any kind of help will be extremely appreciated.
Keep studying, good things will come
>>17307414
If you can return to uni do it. I was in the same situation.
>tfw chickened out and dropped punpun manga (is it it)
>>17307424
This.
Keep studying, anon. You're 19, you dropped out, so what? Just go back so you're not in your mid 30's one day flipping burgers.
My gaysexual friend is trying to make me and his female friend become a couple or something. I have never met this girl, she lives in a city like 2 hours away.
She is going to visit this weekend and sleepover at his house and he wants me and her to meet eachother. He told me he wants us two to become a couple.
The problem is i'm pretty shy and i feel like this would be very awkward. He first wanted me to go to dinner with him and the girl but i said i didn't want to because i feel like that would be too awkward and i also don't wanna spend money...
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>>17307364
>gaysexual
I want off this ride, Mr. Bones
If you don't really want to be in a relationship with her, say so. If you do, don't. It's pretty simple.
>>17307364
>How should i act?
Be your fucking self, holy shit. You don't have to date this girl just because your gay friend wants you to. Hell, she might not even like you. You might not like her. You may spend five minutes in the room together and wind up fucking later that night. Just be yourself, act the way you'd normally act when hanging out with a mutual acquaintance and see what happens.
So /adv/, I just locked myself out of my car.
How do I prevent this in the future
>>17307337
Once you do it like 2-3 times you'll compulsively check.
>>17307346
100% this, i locked myself out 3 times in less than 2 months, and now everytime i leave my car I check if i have my keys in my hands.
>>17307337
Make a copy of the key. Hide the key with lots of tape underneath a part of the car. I've done this and its saved me twice.
Is waiting to date after I finish my education and have a good job a bad thing?
Im older than average college student because of my odd situation and wont finish my degree until may 2017 and ill be 26. I work full time whenever im not in school and when im in school i work part time. I have a decent job as a book keeper and can pay for my own education.
The thing is I want to do a masters in computer engineering. Im really interested in computer science and programming. My family has a lot of engineers on my fathers side so I know he would be proud if i became...
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>>17307303
define 'bad'.
you will have no experience by thirty and are missing out on prime fun time. dating can be hard to fit in but you dont have to be serious, you can just see a girl casually for a few months then drop her like shes pregnant.
sounds like you WANT to date at the ned there so if you find a girl who is interested go for it.
>>17307311
Yeah I have no experience and I'm loke broken or abnormal. I don't think I could get a girl with my current situation being as bad as it is. Do I just accept that i ducked up on this department of life and forget about dating or marrying ?
bump for more advice
I like boyish girls like tomboys and emos with the short hair, but the problem is everytime i come across one they usually end up being lesbian or just fucking retarded sjws.
Now the though of anal sex is gross and i dont like penis so what am i?
>>17307288
it sounds to me like you are a straight guy who likes boyish girls like tomboys and emos with short hair.
>>17307288
>so what am i?
Fucked mate. You're fucked.
any advice on how to find a girl that can meet these expectations
