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Is it weird that my semi new neighbors watch everything i do outside in my yard and gossip to new neighbors about it ?
Depends on what you are doing in your yard.
If you are just doing gardening or some shit then it is weird.
But if you have a satan shrine or something I'd say gossip is to be expected.
>>17305349
What the hell are you doing in your yard?
Going to being doing acid for the first time. What should I know before doing it?
Stay away from rooms full of dolls.
>>17305416
wat
finally, a question that's not a bf/gf problem. Anyhoo, wear something comfortable. take a bag so you dont lose all your shit cause you're gonna be FUUUUUKKKKED UP! And maybe some candy and water.
Iv'e been thinking about making a open letter video to all the people of my past who have wronged me.
A lot of the shit some people have done still controls me today and i'm tired of it so i'm hoping this could help me have some closure and get some stuff off my chest.
Should i do this?
I don't care what the response from these people are, that's the point of the video.
Honestly, no. At best, it's a passive-aggressive gesture, and I really don't see how it would help. If you want closure, confront them directly. And if you're naming names in the video, airing out a bunch of your private interactions in public, it actually reflects badly on you. How'd you come upon this idea of an "open letter" video?
>>17305332
Going public is the stupidest thing you can do. Shows how immature you are. If you want closure, prove them otherwise by living a life that surpasses their expectations of you. Although you say you want to get it off your chest, you ultimately seek attention and validation. This route is cheap and will not validate you whatsoever.
>>17305345
just to vent my frustrations.
With most of these people i have confronted and they are not sorry or don't care. I wouldn't use names. Most of these people are teachers and adults who abused me when i was a kid. It's a long story but i have tried everything else besides something like this.
I don't deserve my boyfriend, but I don't know how to stop from being a complete monster to him. Hes the sweetest guy in the world... I love him so much, he works really hard, and still does things for me whenever he can, every day off he has he comes over even though hes tired and sore... I just had surgury and he has been helping me as much as he can, he buys me anything I want, and he always tells me I'm wonderful and beautiful. I fully admit that not all the times I get mad at him are justified but I can't seem to just let anything go. I have been telling him to get a cellphone for months, but he just, doesn't do it, he sometimes forgets to call me when he gets home from work, he doesn't seem to have much desire for sex anymore, sometimes getting him to come over is difficult, as he takes forever to do small amounts of work sometimes on his days off so he can come over... it gets really irritating, and I get mean and yell and I know it makes him feel awful, and I should just sweep some things under the rug but I can't... I feel like I'm abusing him to be honest, he has a history of suicide attempts, depression and even disappeared few times without telling anyone.
How can I treat him better? how do I control my emotions?
>>17305326
Well, you recognize you're being an insufferable cunt. That's the first step. The second step is you acknowledgon you're emotionally abusing in him.
You treat him better by rembering he's a person and you owe him that much respect . He's not your house nigger.
Maybe you should do shit for yourself for a change
You found a beta provider and you're using him while you want a real man who sets the boundaries for your emotions and puts you into your place when needed, so you could respect him. You are subconsciously wired to take advantage of submissive men and piss on them. It comes with the pussy.
>>17305326
Sounds like he's already tired of your shit OP.
I suggest you shape up. Even beta fags have tipping points.
I am applying for an international graduate program and one of the ways they want to prove that you are an 'international' student is to show transcripts that you did a K-12 education in the US or another country.
Im from america but as far as I know elementary and middle schools dont have transcripts and my schools were in the middle of a rural town of 1000 people so they dont even have real websites.
Anyone know if its possible to obtain transcripts from elem and middle skool?
>>17305323
For universities in other countries they want high school transcripts and if needed around 60 college credits from the us.
I dont know about elementary and middle school records, isn't high school enough?
>>17305323
It's called a CUM file (pronounced Kee-oom). Call up your school district for it.
>>17305323
If the school itself doesn't have a web address, the school district will. If not, just write a letter to the principal's office.
Since you just need proof you were enrolled, not your grades, a letter saying "Anon was enrolled in this school from 1999 to 2007" will do.
Nice ways of implying you dont want to be contacted by blacks?
Want to make a tinder and some social media and I just realized that well it's jst a waste of time, i'm just not atracted to blacks but still want to meet new people
The only thing I can think of is something like
"I like guys with really nice hair"
Or something any other femanons give pointers or anon think of something?
Maybe political positions or something? Idk
Don't like black guys profiles on Tinder. Simple as that
Filter by income
Say your biggest hobby is tanning and you want someone who'll do it with you.
>start talking with girl on okcupid
>tired of paying stupid dating games, instead I go at my own pace, be frank with everything and say what I want
>she follows suit and we get to know each other
>go on a few dates with her
>really like her, has everything I want
>she goes really out of her way to make it to the second date and see me
>she says she likes me but she wants to take things slow because she recently got out of a LTR
>she can't meet for three weeks because she has to go back to college and take exams then move to my town
>I wait for her
>messages me all the time, talking about how she looks forward to seeing me again and what we should do
>she gets into a pretty serious car accident (car totaled but she's fine) in the middle of exams, talk to her and tell her that I can help
>during the third week the messages slow down then stop
>call her after three days of silence
>doesn't pick
>check okc and give away $20 of my hard money to go incognito and she if she's active
>she's logged back in a few days ago
>she keeps logging back in every day a few times
>send a message after 1 week of silence asking if she's still interested
>she says her ex contacted her and she needs space
>that was three days ago
>she still logs in several times a day, way more than when we met and were chatting.
>get addicted to keeping track of her activity
I literally just checked and she's online on okc right fucking now. What? Did the ex contact her through okc or something? Why didn't she just dump me, I gave her an easy out!
Is she really just blatantly lying to me and just leading me on? I couldn't imagine her doing that but it's looking more and more like the case. And if it is then this is by far the most cruel thing anyone had ever done to me. If she just dumped me for her ex or anyone else then I would have been over her by now, but after 4 weeks for it to come to these lies... do people like this really exist??? I'm almost ready to just call her out. fml
So take a gander, is she trying to figure it out with her ex or is she dating other guys?
Dude it sucks it really really sucks but don't waste your time on people who don't know you you should want people who want you and clearly she doesn't know what she wants
>>17305225
Girls are weird like that. Maybe she's logging in to check msg and laugh off all the other creepers. Girls get a shitton of dumb msg on there.
If I were you, I'd send her my number. If she wants to text great, if not, move on and start chatting up other ppl. If she ever decides to be done with ex and talk to you down the road, cool too. Just plan on moving on too man.
Has anybody else noticed that it's really hard for asian women to make friends with women who aren't asian? I'm Korean-American, I was born in the US and have lived here my whole life. I'm not an introvert, I'm a social and outgoing person and a professional woman. And yet in school and at every job I've ever worked, the girls of other races always get along fine but I end up immediately on the outside before they get the chance to know me. Sometimes I'm just excluded and sometimes they outright bully me. It's frustrating because I never know what I did wrong and I think if they gave me a chance we'd have a lot in common.
At first I didn't think it was racial but when I brought it up to my other asian friends I found out they have all had similar experiences. We always get along fine with men of different races. It's just women who give us grief. I'm just wondering if you've noticed this and if you're a non-asian woman, what you think the reason is?
Indian here (don't know if you count that as Asian or just 'brown', but whatever). While I feel like other girls have had trouble making friends with other races and have as a consequence ended up being friends with their own race, I've never had trouble making friends with non-Indians. I can actually count all my Indian friends on one hand.
>>17305220
Hi. Nobody cares about what you look like.
Being an Asian is not just your slanted eyes or non existent nose but how you behave. Cultures are created based on genetics and you are probably not Americanized enough to fit in.
Asian women are usually much more hard working than women of other races, and also more feminine. Women can be extremely jealous.
Men have yellow fever for almost the exact same reasons, do they like Asian women.
Hello.
I am growing increasingly nervous my gf might be cheating on me, or at least be thinking about it.
We are long distance at the moment. And one day she mentions this "really cool" timothy character with tattoos who works with her and will be taking a class with her. I think this is just a classic case of jealousy. I don't like her praising other men. How do I calm my nerves and or quell this feeling? She loves me, and I feel the same towards her, but all this fucking cuck propaganda is really getting into my head.
Please advise.
Is this "long distance" gonna be for a while ?
Also: how old are you.
>>17305206
She's telling you the truth of her day to day. Would you rather she not tell you anything?
>>17305221
It's for a summer, I have visited her once already, visiting her next weekend, then she is visiting me the weekend after that.
20
>meet girl online
>appears sexy in pictures/nudes she sends me
>a liiitttle chubby but nothing to complain about.
>Skype her. She appears much bigger without the favourable camera angles.
>Love her face/mouth but slowly becoming less attracted to her
>wants to fuck me in December when she comes to visit her biyfruend in my city
What do? She would be attractive if she lost 50-60lbs. There are lics on her facebook from a year ago and she appears slim and attractive.
What do I do?
Can I tell her to lose weight without being rude? She tells me she is working out 3 times a week to lose to the weight
>>17305203
Boyfriend*
Pics*
You either accept that she's heavier than you'd like, or you cut it off with her. Working out three times a week doesn't mean shit if she's stuffing her face the rest of the time because 'she deserves it because she's worked so hard this week'
Fuck her good
Make her like your fucking
Now that she really likes you, you can control her into losing weight
If it doesn't work out then fuck it
Women come and go and she is a cheater anyway
I'm in a fast-track HVAC program. I have a massive amount of homework, and my classes can get pretty chaotic in terms of scheduling make-up days, such as this coming up 4th of July in which my glass was SUDDENLY changed to the Friday after instead of Monday
Anyway, my problem is that I'm literally living on a cot in my sister and her husband's living room. They are pretty damn gracious to let me stay here while I am in school,
I was trying to work a life insurance sales job with American Income but its turned out to be pretty fruitless, and the amount of work to do is absolutely insane. I work 7 days a week, 16 hours a day on weekends, and 2-11pm on schooldays, and 8am-11pm on weekdays without class. And so far I've only made $150!
Anyway, my question is...how do I get out of my sister's living room? They are great and I really appreciate them, but I don't want to be a burden, and well...I'd like some privacy.
Has anyone ever been a student and had to provide completely for themselves?
Should I get a full-time job? If so, what would be the types of jobs I should look for?
Is there some type of assistance I can get? My school doesn't have any way to help me with living arrangements. I'm really unsure of where else go to in this route.
Any other college people with some advice?
>>17305171
Ditch the insurance job. You're in a shit tier pyramid scheme . Go work at target or walmart and you'll work less and actually earn more
>>17305193
Yeah but those jobs don't really pay living wages, do they? I live in Alaska and I don't think I could afford to live if my rent was $700/mo
>>17305205
Part time 30hrs at 10$ an hour at walmart. 300 per week
By your own calculations your pull 60ish hours a week at the insurance job and made 150. You're paid on comission/signing a contract. You're earning 5$ an hour right now
Tell me again what's not a living wage.
The insurance gig is a scam bro. I almost got wrangled into one of those about 5 years ago and was smart enough to see it for the fucking pipedream bullshit it really was.
Did I fuck a good friendship just now...i felt I had to tell someone.
>>17305150
you dumbass,
>>17305150
what the fuck were you thinking, that's take to your grave shit
>>17305150
No exactly. Probably. Maybe.
A good friend of mine was talking about joining the army and getting into I believe psychological operations? I'm not against the idea, in fact I think it's great he's doing something he wants to do!
That being said, part of me still worries. Can someone who's been in the Army explain to me what it's like? What one has to go through? Things that might be useful to know?
>>17305142
That sounds fun. I don't think going to war and being a soldier is all that "cool" tho... you know, I don't want to get killed, nothing personal
>>17305142
Army sucks
Marines and Airforce
>>17305162
He's not really doing it because it's "cool". He has his own reasons for doing what he's doing.
>>17305175
Care to explain why?
I need some possible relationship /adv/
>be me
>work at shit retail store
>new coworker seems cool
>talk to her a bit
>we make plans;says I should go to her place
>Find out she lives alone
>Later today find out she has a bf(Not from her)
>She's still down from our chatlog, but getting uninterested replys.
Im kinda tempted to just not go to her place tomorrow, not really because of her bf, but more or less because it seems like her and I don't really care for each other. We've made plans to meet up tomorrow night, make cookies,watch tv,etc sounds pretty DTF.
Should I go? or should I just bail? If I bail I seem like a total shit person, not even sure how I would bail. If I go, it could be trainwreck.
>>17305122
Why did she invite you in the first place>
She already has a boyfriend. She's either using you for some kind of plan or genuinely interested. Even if the second option turns out to be true, you'll have way less chances of staying with her.
>>17305139
Idk, it came up in conversation, that after the movie we would go to her place. Either way I feel scummy if I go it just seems inevitable that her and I alone will do something
Need some dating/ relationship type advice, I'll greentext it to shorten it:
>be me, 22
>new employees for the summer
>I can be oblivious and spacious at times
>escalate flirting with a new girl subtley without meaning to
>"hey bro, you realize she's 16 right?"
> D:
>also did the same, but less with her older, slightly less attractive sister
>fuck fuck fuck
>I have poor impulse control and willpower
>if things keep up, I would definitely ask one of them out
Lots of angles I could ask advice for, but what are your general thoughts on what I should do /adv/?
Just limit it to playful flirting at most, but don't go any further.
>>17305107
Alright, never really been in a situation like this before. She's too young for me and she is a coworker, same with her sister. I know what I need to do, but a man just wants some poon at the same time, ya know? I've gotta find some decent places to meet women now that I'm not in school...
>>17305104
just do it and keep it on the dl brah, make sure she doesnt talk and get that sweet teen poon
