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>girl starts texting me like everyday
>she seems really really obvious about liking me
She is the first girl ever to initiate a conversation with me and i would regret my entire life if i would let this oportunity slip away.
The thing is,i have no normie friends to ask for advice about a date.
If anyone could suggest a place for the first date or ideas for stuff to talk about I would be more than grateful
>>17305793
>suggest a place for the first date
Coffee is standard. Starbucks, for example, if you have one near you.
>ideas for stuff to talk about
Talk about her and her interests. Ask questions. You're curious about her I'm sure, you'll think of things to ask.
Just don't ask anything too personal or painful until it goes further.
Her, ask her about her. Restaurant you can afford and ask about her. If you already know about her then talk about her, what she likes things ect. This leads to her asking about you. Then just answer boom! You are both talking. Later on if you really like her and get feelings tell her those feelings like; I think you're beautiful, I'd really like to do this again, feel free to call me anytime. Hug goodnight.
>>17305793
goddamn how old are you? 15? because that was my age when girls started texting me
now, for the question. i personally think it's a bit suspicious, i've been called out before for suspecting of people but even so.. well, do this: copy&paste your chats with her here, you may remove her name to be safe, and yours too by the way. That way we might tell you if she's "really obvious" about liking you
My sister offered me to live at her place as long as I want because she knows how bad our familiy situation is. But the problem is that I'm a pile pf garbage, who can't even go to university and sleeps all day long. She likes it when I'm around, but I still feel like I'm just using her. What should I do?
>>17305746
>I'm a pile pf garbage, who can't even go to university and sleeps all day long
Time to take responsibility for your life, being grateful and changing yourself.
If she likes you, she will be happy if you get your shit together and live a happy life. Start working on it. If you need help, you have her.
>>17305755
The problem is that she always says she makes enough money for both of us, so I would never have to work. I spent like 4 months at her place after my father breaked my right arm and I did nothing during that timeframe, she even supported me to be piece of shit. I fear that it would be the final step of being a neet and I will become unable to do anything.
>>17305803
Were those arguments for anything? Move in with her and get a fucking job asap.
>obsessing over a slut
Please help
>>17305710
Eat a bullet.
>>17305710
It hurts
>>17305715
No access to guns
I getting a "Connection error." when I'm trying to post on 4chan, i can create threads but can't comment. any advice on how to fix this problem?
Adblock.
>>17305704
One of many bugs in 4chan.
Try leaving 4chan and coming back.
Its Adblock. Only happens on certain boards including adv. It blocks the quick reply function on here for some reason.
I was on omegle tonight because I was bored, and I ran into an extremely nice girl from Argentina. Her name is Gloria, she lives in Argentina, and she's 16 years old. We had alot of fun talking and it was interesting because of a language barrier, but it was a good conversation.
My connection messed up, and the chat disconnected. She even told me not to leave before it did, and that makes it suck even more. Please guys, this is the first time I've turned to 4chan for help. Can you help me find her? I want to talk to her again and say I'm sorry. This picture...
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I feel awful guys, please
>>17305703
My advice is stop being 15.
Sorry dude, gave it a quick search, and I couldn't come back with anything.
Surgery recovery question
I just had an appendectomy a week ago today and I'm finally starting to feel better, aside from the fact that I'm feeling paranoid, and when I try to sleep my arms and legs are restless. Driving is also challenging for me now since I start to panic for no reason as soon as I get behind the wheel.
These aren't common feelings for me normally, is this a result of the surgery?
>>17305691
What are you paranoid about? Something like this happening again?
Appendicitis can be a frightening experience at best. An emergency appendectomy can make it all the worse
This panic you're having may be the result of surgery, but it's not a common result of surgery. Go back to your doctor and explain what's been going on. Sounds like an acute stress reaction to me, that usually passes in 1-2 weeks. But don't let this brew over into something more like PTSD
Oh, and stop driving...
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>>17305732
It feels like I'm doing something wrong or something's about to happen. I'm worried I'm drinking too much water, or eating too much/not enough.
It was an emergency surgery, however my appendix hadn't burst yet so they got it out at right time. My boss is making me go to work this week, and I have half a mind to tell him to fuck himself since I work a somewhat physically demanding job, but I digress.
>>17305749
I wouldn't worry about that. Easier said than done... But if you're happy to believe I'm a qualified medfag, that try to take comfort in me telling you not to worry about drinking too much water (but for sure don't start chugging down litres and litres in one sitting), and the same for eating
Recommendations for work usually focus on going back when you feel comfortable. Ask for less physically demanding roles for a week or two (if your boss is likely to refuse that, a doctor can request that for you in the form of an advisory note, at least in the UK)
/X/ is a weird board, so...
How do sexual lucid dreams feel?
I always try to get laid or masturbate in a lucid dream, but i'm a virgin and it's not that good, but amazing somehow.
You have a place where you can jerk off safely.
Afraid to get drunk or intoxicated though, because i'll do inappropriate shit i do in my dreams.
Pic unrelated
Thinking that getting laid will make my dreams more realistic.
> how do sexual dreams feel
> mang they feel sexual? its not going to be any better than real life, unless your dreaming up circumstances that are... well your dream. and then it will only really change the arouse side of things and not the actual feel.
anyway if your lucid dreaming, just make it feel better. how? you say. simple just increase the feeling, your lucid dreaming everything is as you will it to be
The few that I've had were a bit odd. Sort of incorrect sensations, or missing sensations. It's not really like some virtual world you're just the god of. You can influence what you dream about to an extent, but you can't really just do whatever you want. Even subconscious thoughts factor into what happens.
I dunno. Not worth pursing for me.
>>17305740
then your not truly lucid dreaming my friend...
going to a festival, and im on a 20year long dryspell, need your help /adv/
how to approach girls at a festival~? what to talk about and how to push it into sex?
You're not going to lose your virginity with that attitude. You reek of desperation. That's enough to turn off any girl.
>>17305687
Have drugs and willing to share or go with a buddy so you aren't some loner/creeper.
Join a group before the festival. Look online for the event, join the discussion, ect.
>>17305713
Not really desperate, just never cared because im a shut in. Just thought id give it a shot
>some events lead me to meet this girl
>met her in person just once, didn't talk too much
>kept a very basic online comunication because we needed to plan some events
>meet her for such event and talk more
>I think I like her
>I'm kinda in a weird position (not gonna talk about it too much for the sake of anonimity)
>feel like I should be more of...
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You clearly said it. She's not interested in you. Move on.
>>17305850
I don't think i can.
We're supposed to meet again soon enoug and spend more time togheter, she also spent the night after we met talking with me online and she was opening up.
I tried to be as detached as i could when i met her because i needed to make some decision about her involvment with us, and i think that kinda drove her off.
Ok, so she might be leading you on. Even if she breaks up with her bf to be with you, doesn't that speak too much about her? She could be doing the same to you with another guy in a few months.
once i heard that for a relationship to work and last, the woman must love the men more than the men love the woman, this would mean that a man should date a little below his league.
what do you people think about this?
That is utter bullshit. As long as you both love each other and remain honest it honestly doesn't matter.
>>17305676
It's one way of thinking that may work for some and not for others. The thing about humans in general, is that we all don't fit one rule. If we did, life wouldnt be so hard to figure out.
>>17305676
If you have to think about it this much, you're already failing
Would love advice from Muslims.
I moved into an apartment 6 months ago, right next door to my boyfriend's Muslim coworker. Ex-coworker now, but my boyfriend really liked him and I feel bad for not making a better effort to meet and talk. There aren't many Muslims in my town, probably 20 or fewer based on this guy's own estimation. No mosque or center or anything. I wanted to get him something for Eid to be kind, but I have very little money and it's very near. To make things worse, I haven't got to meet him like we planned.
So I thought...
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Bump.
Most guys don't decorate their rooms. I know my ex bought my muslim friend a cool light-up crescent moon that was on a timer to only turn on when you can eat during ramadan. It's 7 years later, and it's still in his room.
>>17305669
You treat him like he's a normal person and treat him like he's not defined by his religion?
Ok, /adv/ some kid really looks up to me. And yet is the most insufferable one i have ever met. for a varying number of reasons.
I thought he gave up after i stopped talking to him, but then this box arrives on my doorstep
(Didn't give him my address) i open the box and inside it is a Shitty, Half assed attempt at papercrafting A 40k Valkyrie. 1/2 the actual size, A bible. and a letter saying "Thought you could use these! from -Kid"
This child is the kind of person that crams religious Beliefs down your throat at every chance. Has some kind of Anger problem,...
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bump
As a teacher, quite a few kids look up to me.
I know if they were aware of my 4chan habits, my weed habits, the way I treated girls in high school, whatever it is, then not only would I garner the status of negative role model, but also I'd be letting a lot of people down.
As long as the kid somehow looks up to you, make sure you maintain the attitude in which you wish you were treated. If so, you can likely help this kid out, even if you don't directly argue to him about religion, or ever discuss anything truly meaningful. Just being a good person around...
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>>17305659
Call his parents and tell them you're an atheist, they'll pull you two apart right quick.
Is it possible to train your voice to be softer? I have this really abrasive nails-on-chalkboad voice and I hate it, but just trying to talk more quietly never works.
>>17305590
Post your voice so we know what we're working with
>>17305593
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0isXSKAv4tp
>>17305600
WHAT THE HOLY MOTHER OF FUCK, PEGASUS ARE YOU A GIRL!?
I SWEAR, I THOUGHT YOU WERE A MAN. A MAN PEGA-CORN WITH A HORN MADE OF STEEL.
Any advice to stop procrastination so I can start living my god damn life?
...
>>17305562
I've got an answer. I'll tell you tomorrow.
Are you guys saying that I forgot I was on 4chan?
how do i stop being cancerous?
i find myself accidentally being edgy in real life and i am scared it is going to eventually alienate me from everyone.
Oh, dude, i had the same problem.
Talk about normal stuff and tell didturbing to friends only
>>17305543
I reflect on my behavior every night before I go to bed. I think about things I could've said better or shouldn't have said. I allow myself to feel embarrassed for a moment and then make a note not to do that thing again.
Seems to be helping.
how do I stop being so critical though?
