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Hello i need an advice from people who lives in sweden.
My name is Joanna and im coming to Sweden to start my new life. I dont know anything about sweden so im trying to do my "homework" and find out everything i can about sweden and life in there. What i need from you guys is a list of things for example: Where can i find a place to rent? Where should i look for job? How can i open a bank account? What are the main websites for job and renting place? Basically everything for a new life. Im looking on the internet as well but maybe someone in here could help me.
i have experience as a nurse in a hospital for over 25 years.
Thanks 4 chan.
>>17305088
18+25...you're a 43 y/o nurse who can't manage her shit and posts on 4chan? Gtfo, troll
If you're not from a EU country (UK no longer counts) then good luck getting a work permit.
>>17305088
Where are you from? Finland?
I went over to this guy's house today to hang out with him. He had a crush on me a few months ago but I was dating my current boyfriend, and when he flirted with me I asked him to stop because I had a boyfriend. He has a girlfriend too now, and when I told my boyfriend I was over at his house he completely freaked out on me. He told me I was the most hypocritical person I ever met because he claims I got angry at someone flirting with him. Months ago this girl was flirting with him and he didn't do anything about it, didn't say anything to her, and I think it's honestly because it was an ego boost for him. He kept talking to me about what she would say to him and it got me upset so I just asked him why he hadn't said anything. I think what he said was hypocritical. He told me that the things I was doing were stupid and that he was so angry at me, and so I just went home from said friend's house because I believed I made a mistake. Was it wrong for me to go to his house? I was trying to branch out and be with friends again but now he thinks I'm trying to say he isn't enough for me, when he is honestly my world... I would never cheat, and I could never imagine a future without him. I love him with everything I have. I would do anything for him. How am I a hypocrite for going to this friends house? I told him when he flirted with me that I had a boyfriend, I didn't like him that way, and I only wanted to be friends (and he respected that).
Pic unrelated
>>17305062
I ain't reading all that shit. Summarize
>>17305062
You sound like a pair of immature children. Can't be helped if neither of you are ready for an adult relationship.
Your bf is a jealous bitch. I don't think you're a hypocrite because you were honest with everyone. On the other hand, he didn't tell that other girl that he had a girlfriend. I think this is just your run of the mill defense mechanism, putting the blame on you to divert attention from his shit.
I'm a supervisor at my company. I got a new employee recently and I have developed the biggest crush on her. She is married and I am soon to be married. It's driving me insane since I have to talk to her often and more often than not she is flirty and charming. In another lifetime I would of seen myself with her.
I'm afraid of what this means for my marriage. Maybe the idea that more women like this will show up in life is scary. I am an honest man and would not cheat on my SO, but it is just so crushing sometimes.
How do I get over this?
>>17305042
If being monogamous is a chore for you then you aren't ready to get married.
>>17305042
More women like this will show up. You get used to it. Just don't do anything stupid.
You may just be having a bit of anxiety with regard to getting married.
I've been married for almost 9 years. There is a woman at my workplace who I am very big friends with. She is a really nice person who's personality is way more compatible with mine than my wife is. She is less attractive than my wife but a lot more fun to be with. If I had to choose between her and my wife, I would hands down choose her.
There have been others before her, including a perfect match for me (who was extremely attractive). They have all come and gone and I'm still with my wife. Never had an affair with any of them. Just don't let your thoughts dwell on being with her. It'll fuck you up bigtime.
Yes, It'll hurt when she eventually hooks up with someone else. I say this because (based on what you've read) I assume that you already have feelings for her. You should just let it go when the time comes. Don't hold any resentment for her when it does happen, it's neither your fault, nor hers.
>>17305042
Is that cat retarded?
Okay there's this math tutoring site that requires a subscription to watch their vids.
Is It illegal to download all their vids without permission then cancel your subscription??
I should note that they dont have an option to download their vids, I am using a chrome extension to download them.
>>17305036
Short answer: yes
Yes but no one will ever know. Just don't repost them anywhere
Out of curiosity. What chrome extension? I'm trying to find a good one
Anyone who knows the process of tattoos?
>have my appointment on August 15th
>he asked what I was looking at getting
>I gave him a picture and told him I'd also like something else in the same style
>he said he could do it
>Will he draw it up on the day of my appointment during our consultation?
>is the consultation part of the rate/hour?
>does anyone have an idea how long the peice in picture related would take for about the size of a hockey puck area?
Thanks! I'm going to be tweaking the pic for the tattoo don't judge me too hard.
One desperate bump
Have you tried calling up and asking? I know it's a pretty farfetched idea, but it just might work.
He should have it drawn before you get there.
The consultation shouldnt include. But this could vary depending on store and country.
Maybe 2 hours.
I'm a girl 24 years old and drinking a bottle of wine every night. And i only felt good when I'm a bit tipsy. Is it considered healthy? Am i an alcoholic? None of my family were alcoholic btw.
>>17305008
>Is it considered healthy?
No.
>Am i an alcoholic
Seems that way. You don't have to have a family history of alcoholism to become an alcoholic. But if you can't go one night without getting drunk, you are most probably an alcoholic.
>And i only felt good when I'm a bit tipsy.
Here's your clue.
>>17305015
So what do now? I can do one or two nights in a row without drinking if i have night shifts (at work) and having no
problems with it but a part from it I only feel good when drinking.
>>17305017
What clue is it?
How many condoms you put on your dick when having sex with a prostitute?
>>17304991
One
>>17304991
Two
friction between two condoms make them more likely to fail.
all you need is the one condom.
How does an autistic loser such as myself find IRL friends. I have plenty of online friends but I feel like a fucking failure because I don't have anyone I can even play mario party with.
How do I overcome feeling like such a fuckup over this?
>>17304981
Use the app Meetup, search "autists" and join their group. Done
I'd play mario party with you OP
>has online friends
>isn't satisfied
Fuck off norman
How can i make my channel grow a fucking beard
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AmSSjjFxQ8
Have a personality
but im gay
Act like you abused some cocaine and work that gay thang mang!
Basically just be upbeat and meme as hard as you can.
I'm starting to panic guys, June 10th I had sex with my girlfriend, I had a condom on and I didn't even get to finish inside her, it's the first time shes had sex in about a year and she should have had her period somewhere around the 13th or the 15th, its now the 28th and the month is coming to an end but still no period, how is this possible? I find it hard to believe she may be pregnant, is a delay this long possible? I'm worried.
>>17304971
OP is just mad he made an ugly girl pregnant
>>17304971
>first time she's had sex in a year.
Cmon senpai, don't be so gullible
>>17304975
OP here, you must be a special type of brain dead if you got that I was mad from my post, if you don't have an answer to my question dont say anything at all. Thanks.
Work advice?
>20, senior in college
>I've worked at a pretty large company in the small ranks for a year now
>I think I'm going to be fired soon
>co-workers are all in their 30's and way over qualified
> I get paid more then them for my student worker status
>they are pretty back stabby because of this
>they lie and snitch about every hiccup in my performance to my boss
>my boss doesn't trust me due to this
>she has made it clear to me that she does not want excuses even though my performance issues are due to valid reasonings in the nature of my work
>been looking for another job for 2 months now
>can't find anything and am sure I would get negative feedback from my boss to my next employer when they scan me
>the snitching has been increasing more and more and my supervisor does not want to look at any evidence I provide in my defense.
What do!?
>>17304965
Snitches get stitches
Start investing in stocks
Go to garage sales and buy items from them and sell them on ebay.
Become a farmer
Graduate college
Kill your coworkers
Some of the things I brainstormed just now.
>>17304982
>>17304982
1 year until I graduate and not only is this job allowing me to financially survive but is giving me experience towards my carreer.
Sup /adv/, I could use your help. I moved in with my gf with whom I was in a LDR with for three years. It's been a few months now but I'm really starting to find myself unhappy in the relationship and I don't think I want to be with her forever. What do I do? I'm 1,000 miles away from family and friends.
>>17304959
>I'm really starting to find myself unhappy in the relationship and I don't think I want to be with her forever.
Why?
>>17304959
So break up. I wish people would just take control of their life and stop wasting time being unhappy for something that may happen.
>>17304963
She's really controlling and is negative. She is always judging and critiquing people, be it on the street or social media. I'm more open minded and don't really care how people look or what they do but she always has a negative comment.
I want to talk to this girl that I've been talking to for the last year, but she didn't reply to my last 4 texts and I don't think I did anything in particular to make her mad, except maybe a pic I sent, but usually if I do that she tells me not to send her pics like that, or something, not just blatant silence, should I just send her another text and if she doesn't answer ask what's wrong? I honestly just wanna talk, I like talking to her and there was some fun stuff that happened today and I wanna tell her about it, fucking shit.
>>17304957
Did it ever occur to you she doesn't want to talk to you? Doesn't matter if don't understand why. All that matters is that she's not interested. If she was, she'd reply. End of story.
She's sick of your shit, man.
The world doesn't revolve around you.
What was the pic
Seeing the Deftones in July, what drug will best enhance the music?
Stimulants.
Benzos.
Preferably MDMA, I'd go with that.
Psychedelics like Shrooms and LSD for a Metal concert? Probably a no go, but I heard the music can intensify the high.
>>17304953
aspirin for the headache
Ive been with some girls over the years and this chick is so good at every thing except sex that is so monotonous and boring with her. Always same place same thing me initiating etc etc another thing is that she sometimes starts me up for round two, gets off and then don't finish me. Also she always gets oral but never give it, any advice guys and grills?
Note: don't want to hurt her feelings and I like her truly
Hellppppppp
Tell her she's sexy and make her feel sexy and desired. Compliment her genuinely and tell her how horny she makes you feel. One thing people keep forgetting is that sex doesn't start in bed. To have good sex you need sexual actraction and that is fucking complex. And don't be scared to get a bit of exposure. My current bf gives me the best sex I ever had and I think it's because I never felt so attracted to anyone before and I guess what makes him so actractive is how confident he is in his own body. He use to send me pictures of himself and his body out of the blue and it always makes me horny. He also compliments me all the time and give atention to every little detail when we are making love and makes me feel sexy and confortable in my skin.
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