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My family cat is this dainty little 14 year old thing. My family has had her forever. She started off as really quiet, remained really quiet but got bitchy, then got friendly again.
About a year ago, my other cat got killed by a coyote. We had rationed their time out a lot before that because he had gotten attacked, but when he died, we decided to keep her in for her safety.
Recently (like four months ago), she picked up this habit where she just SCREAMS. It's the most heart wrenching noises ever.
She's not unhappy, because she'll...
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>>17304673
Your cat spayed or neutered?
Try /an/, they're better about these things.
Let this be a lesson to keep any future cats inside from the beginning.
good/bad idea to message a girl from highschool on facebook for a date?
How long ago was high school? Is this a situation where she may have forgotten you, or would she have fond memories?
>>17304696
10 years. she sat next to me in a class
Reach out to her first and see if you hit it off in anyway before you ask her out
Pic unrelated. Making coffee.
My ex and I broke up officially three weeks ago after she was in depression for four months. She wouldn't talk to me and she said it wasn't for any reason.
I've tried everything to help her feel better everything from talking to her to giving her space. The last thing I suggested before the breakup is that I would fly over, if only for two days. To help her. To fix us. She said it is a bad idea.
I tried to get over her, I really did but I still love her and when we broke up she still loved me. Every time I see something...
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Also I've been trying to avoid her but we are I'm the same skype groups and mutuals friends tag us on stuff. And no they don't know we were a thing.
Why are you making coffee on a pocket rocket?
>>17304656
Lel wat
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Hi everyone, a few days ago I realized I'm an introverted person.
I hang around other people with no need to engage in a conversation or whatsoever. Some extroverts get me talking or touching easly with whom I follow they lead and correspond. Other extrov simply ignore my precense. Either way, I couldn't care less. Being introverted, and trying to hit on other introverted girls feels like hitting on a sister. Weird af.
The main point of all this is for the dating/getting laid game. I'm working on some alpha skills, but I'm getting concerned that...
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>genuinely worried about being "alpha"
>Taking the introversion/extroversion meme this seriously
Being introverted isn't your biggest problem I'll tell you that.
Yeah, OP. A quiet, stoic man would never, ever be considered an alpha
You're pathetic bud.
I'm the quietest, shyest, anti-social lonewolf i know. Been in mma 6 years, also served in the marines. So yes, fuck off pussy.
I'm going to a job interview in a couple of hours.
How do I answer the question, "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" or things like that?
I honestly have not thought about that and don't know how to answer that.
>>17304563
Why not take this opportunity to think about it?
>>17304567
What if I put off the manager with my answer?
>>17304563
Search online for potential questions and practice what you'd say if you were asked them, but don't freak out if they ask you a question you weren't prepared for.
What kind of job is it?
Hey, /adv/(girls) I was wondering if multiple orgasms are a thing for most girls if girls at all? How does it feel? I'm unsure if that's something I have experienced or not. Is it where you are really close to an orgasm but the feeling goes away for a few seconds then have the same sensation over and over, or is it full on orgasms? How do I know if that happens to me?
>>17304451
Personally, I don't. I'm not sure if it's a thing as I've never looked into it. Once I hit my O then I'm beyond sensitive and don't want to be touched down there anymore for a while.
I was with a girl who had multiple orgasms regularly. It is a real thing.
I assure you, yes.
My partner of 6 years had her first with me bout a year after our first time together. Now she's up in seven full body orgasms in a 90 minute session. Her whole body is uncontrollably shaking, screaming her lungs out and dropping off the bed if I dont grap a hold of her. It's hilarious.
Protip: look into tantric yoga.
>be me
>25 year old kv
>girl at work shows interest in me
>she becomes my ''gf''
>am worried that she's flirting with other guys
This is the first girl that has ever shown any interest in me, and i don't want to leave her. Thanks to her im not a kv anymore, but i can't get rid of the constant feeling that she's flirting with other guys. Am i just being paranoid, or should...
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Shit like this is why girls don't like dating KLVs
You went from King Virgin to insecure peasant? What did you gain? Insecurity? Was it worth your crown?
>>17304484
i guess the moment i've spend with her were worth it. It felt really good having a girl care for you, hugging her and kissing her.
Though i don't know if i can handle this insecurity. Im starting to believe its better for incharismatic and unfunny guys like me to not have gf's
has anyone else had previous experience hiring a girl to sleep with from craigslist? how'd that go? how much did you pay? was anal and oral included?
need help/tips/cheats i'm tired of being a virgin thanks in advance
>bumping my own thread before it gets deleted
lame i know but i need help y'all
if you're under 27 dont do it.
That said I havent used CL or backpage for that
the price should depend on where you live though...
50-300 max for a hottie
Have you tried soc?
>>17304448
I want to but Im scared of getting stds
How do I become a secure beta male? I mean secure in my beta status.
>>17304402 that's pretty vague, my man.
>>17304402
You can't. If you were secure in your status, you wouldn't be beta, pretty much by definition.
>>17304966
not really. alphas are the leaders of the world. betas are not. they are the sidekicks, at best.
you can be beta and be secure. not in the new age 4chan only definition of 'WOW WHAT A FUCKING BETA' which implies you are pathetic.
but in the traditional sense of what an alpha and beta are, sure.
the world isnt divided between chads and virgins after all.
>>17304402
OP, if you want to be secure in it, all you have to do is make your life comfortable and enjoyable. if you like your sex partner, you like your job, and do the things you like, what does being an 'alpha' really matter?
My muscles shake/twitch.
When i move a body part up or down, depends of the part, i cannot complete the movement without some muscle shaking.
It's more obvious in my arm; if i move it down my biceps shakes a lot. Same thing moving my head down or 'folding' a leg, but it's almost imperceptible.
Is this something normal? I'm worried, honestly.
It's normal for me.
My shaking is perceptible though.
I overworked my nervous system a lot in my youth, though.
When I hold my hand up with my fingers out, my fingers twitch and wiggle independently.
I don't shake if I completely relax though.
>>17304426
What do you mean by "relax"?
State of mind or body position?
>>17304435
Body position.
Mental relaxation has no effect on my issue.
So I'm on accutane right now. I take 10mg in the morning and 20mg at night. I know the pills possibly damage your liver but is it still okay to drink alcohol? Or take other drugs like LSD? Regarding the health of my liver I mean
So there's this thing called a pharmacist...
I wouldn't risk it. But ask your fucking Doctor. They hear weird questions all day.
>Acutane
My mom tried to get me on tbis fucking poison lmao. Probably the first time I really stood up to her
Is it really abnormal if I'm repulsed by the idea of a man taking control of a situation? I find the thought really annoying and it gives me a headache.
I'm not sure why I am this way. (I'm a straight female.)
>>17304284
I am a straight male. I feel the same way, cheers.
If you consider that there are quite a bunch of people who are into femdom than it's not abnormal at all.
>>17304284
No.
Think of it like this: just because you're in a relationship does not give anyone any authority over your affairs. That said, being there for each other is an awesome part of it, as long as the "helping" out in a situation isn't unsolicited.
If I want help, I'll ask. Anyone needing someone to control "situations" all of the time lack basic structure and/or know-how and really are a drag on people with goals.
I feel you, I'm with you, but as a male,...
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>>17304302
That makes sense because I'm into femdom.
Any budding psychologists want to comment?
I don't see men as people to be served, but people to conquer.
I romanticize about my partner being my biggest competitor. Someone who challenges me and someone who I always have to defeat.
All of my exes have had less job opportunity and potential financial growth than me. I'm not EXACTLY satisfied with this, but I enjoy being the "best thing that ever happened to" them.
I've...
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>been trying to lose weight
>successfully lost 35 pounds so far
>been in a plateau for the past few weeks
>can't get under my trouble weight
>still loosing inches on my waist
The fuck is going on?
ur a wizard, harry
>>17304267
>loosing
Fucking kill yourself
>>17304274
HOLY SHIT
Someone in my family is displaying clear signs of paranoid schizophrenia. They would never agree to see a doctor as the doctors are part of the conspiracy against them, so I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do, if anything.
Can I feel safe being in the same house as this person? Can I do anything to help them besides asking them to go to the doctor?
What am I supposed to do?
>>17304265
lol the question should be does he feel safe from you? being paranoid doesnt make you violent
>>17304265
Involuntary treatment is an option if they do harm to themselves or others or if they don't have the capacity to care for themselves.
You should be worried. A schizophrenic's is divorced from reality. No rational act or conversation from you will mean anything to them. As soon as they view a person as the "enemy" they will try to harm them.
I'm sorry about your situation. Get them help or separate yourself from them.
>>17304265
Some states have an intermediary between psychiatrists and the random guy off the street. Schizophrenics are difficult to encourage treatment but it can be done. You are likely safe as long as you aren't an unlikable person (considering the picture that you posted, I'd imagine that you know how much your mood can change under similar circumstances). If they have a history of lashing out at others, then consider calling your county police department immediately. Otherwise, I'd try to make them come...
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How to live, when you know that all other virgins get girlfriends and pussy, while you're pining over your oneitis for 3 years.
Fuck this shit.
>>17304232
Cut and run no contact or end up like I am, 8 years later alone and still pining but not even friends anymore
>>17304232
-> robot9001
>>17304232
Once you're doing something worthwhile with your life
like getting a degree or a high paying job, or have fun with friends
you'll forget about your oneitis and other people's lives
