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Gf of 3yr broke up with me like 5 months ago. I've been watching a lot of gay porn :/ very sexually confused.
Don't know what's wrong with me. I feel really low and confused. I don't think I'm gay but I'm just so sad and sexually in ruins. Never watched gay porn until now. Don't find guys attractive but I do like girls with buzzed heads. Idk. My gf also broke up w me because she was sexually not satisfied. I never "'made the first move". But I was a virgin at the time and she was very experienced.
Anyone can tell...
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You're just shy. and don't understand that finding men attractive doesn't mean anything serious.
I think you should try having sex with a guy just to see how it feels. You obviously have some interest but you're a bit shy, maybe it'll feel right for you.
>>17310333
i idon't think you should question your sexuality unically because of porn. lots of peoplewatch porn of thing they would never do in real life. Or maybe you're discovering a new side of yourself, not necessarly gay, but a new view on what you like.
Nobody can tell you what's in your head...but i understand you feel confused right now. give you time. date new people. make mistakes. t least you'll find out what you do NOT want.
wish you luck OP
Hi can someone help me.
I love my wife and children but I have a problem.
I really just want to be alone.
On an island or the woods, where it is quiet and no one bothers me and I can hunt and fish in peace. That's all I ever want to do.
I wear so many masks: nice stranger, comical coworker, loving husband/father, proud veteran, understanding friend..
I have pretended so long that now they are all part of my identity and somewhat real, and it's created a sense of self hatred at what I've become.
I just want to be alone. I recently bought a...
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>>17310330
Your first mistake was getting married. Your second mistake was having kids. You made the commitment. So deal with it.
>>17310330
"You know son or daughter, your dad is working quite a bunch and he needs some time to play and have fun too. Ofcourse i am there for you ... Blah blah."
I can relate, i feel like i put myself in the position of a husband without realizing that this means to never be alone anymore. It will be difficult to break it to your wife, i think your best off by slowly just spending more and more time by yourself so she will get used to it.
Ultimately you will not get away so easily unless you sacrifice...
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post your true self here that's what internet is for anon it is true freedom say whatever you want or say whatever you want and try accepting others if that didn't work go to therapist nothing to be ashamed of life is hard sometimes
Hi /adv! I have been working in smuggling last 6 month! And now I want setup my own channel. But I need somebody invest money in me. How I can fing investors?
Human smuggling? Drug smuggling? Or something lame?
>6 month experience
Not to be rude but I'd not invest in you either.
>>17310320
No, not human. Just some staffs which hard to smuggle. We have pure mind and never will do something to hurt people. I love people!
>met a guy
>he's nice, we like each other
>things get intimate
after a while i realize he search for me only when he needs sex.
I don't even know how could i fell for him.
need a nice comeback for the next time he writes me.
Suggestions?
>>17310291
>comeback
Are you 12?
>comeback
Just leave him, you dumb cunt.
>>17310293
12 year olds don't know sex, I'd put her at age 15.
So my ex and I broke up about a week ago and she started to text me that she was spotting, that she could be pregnant but it might just be nothing. She's been on the Depo shot for about a month and she started to spot just now, so to you anon's does it mean that she's pregnant. She said she would have to wait a week to take a pregnancy test. What should I do if I can do anything about it.
Don't worry man maybe having a kid will save you from your dark past just don't run away like a little bitch okay
BTW my father didn't leave me I have a average family
Repeat after me:
Spotting on birth control is completely normal
I'm on the shot too and that's perfectly normal. It can stop your period altogether too, or give you an ending one. It really fucks with your body, so I'd say you have nothing to worry about.
Is it a bad thing to have TV on while studying? I have it always on and on low volume since it feels nice and like I have some company. Would I be better off studying in silence?
Yes.
>>17310244
studying in silence is better unless you live in some weird world where you're allowed to listen to whatever you were listening to while you were studying when you then need to recall(unlikely).
>>17310244
Whatever works for you is fine. I usually play some music, and that can range from film scores to Sonic Youth.
The only time I like studying silence is if I have to read extensively (like a novel or something).
>meet girl
>we like each other
>we get close
>become a dick
>push her away
>???
>regret
what the fuck do I do about this
Doubt that retardation is fixable.
>>17310228
Apologize ? I also think it's not fixable but it doesn't hurt to try.
That's me. Without the "regret" part.
And I don't think there's anything you can do about it,.
- Been listening non-stop to Rodoljub Vulovic "Roki" serbian war songs
- been listening to popular lutwaffles march songs from WW2
- want to get in the army
- been visiting /pol/
I-Is this how it starts?
Should I stop? Is it all a meme?
Yes, don't go further down the rabbit hole, or at least keep it to a degree where you can still act normal around others without feeling disgusted.
what do you mean? are you becoming a nazi or some shit?
yeah you should stop visiting /pol/, they don't know what they're talking about
also you should always keep perspective about Germany during ww2, sure there were a lot of people in their ranks who were just going along with it to fight for their country as anyone would but the nazi ideology was one that said germans were racially superior to all other races and therefore anything a german did to a non-german (including mass murder) was inherently justified due to this racial superiority. That's an ideology that was quite justly wiped from the face of the earth.
>I'm 26 and never had a job
What the fuck? No one is going to hire me now. I applied and applied and no interviews. I go there to follow up and nothing. What the fuck do I do bros?
inb4 an hero
Apprenticeships and trade jobs you lazy cunt
You need to start at the bottom of the totem pole.
>>17310195
going to be straight up with you.
get a burner phone. put down you've worked as a tech for X private contractor for X years. give them your burner number. if it's entry level they might not call anyway, and if they do, just bullshit your way through that call.
get the fucking job, do it right, and save your money.
How do you text someone without looking like a desperate fuckboy?
What's a fuckboy?
>>17310176
New hip slang for a loser who's only after sex
>>17310160
I sound like a fuckboy when I text and maybe I kind of am, sounding like a fuckboy isn't bad, sounding desperate is. I'm usually up to fun things so I just invite a girl I'm interested in to come if she wants. Just don't care too much or overthink and you'll do fine
If somebody under the age of 18 sends nudes are you in possession of child pornography?
Please help
>>17310131
Yeah, but i wouldn't worry to much about it
Yes.
Report them for production and distribution of CP.
Or at least tell them that you should be doing that, but instead you're going to delete the photos and tell their parents.
>>17310190
>Or at least tell them that you should be doing that, but instead you're going to delete the photos and tell their parents.
This. Don't ruin some teenager's life by reporting them for CP. We all did dumb shit as kids and that's a huge price to pay for something stupid someone did as a kid.
Last week I had sex with 2 seperate guys (I'm gay).
The first guy was like a 5-6/10, and everything was fine. I didnt cum, but I had an erection the whole time.
The next day I hooked up with a much cuter 8-9/10. Because he was so attractive I was much more nervous about it, and when the time came not only did I fail to cum I also couldnt get hard for like the first 2 hours. I felt mentally very aroused, but nothing was happening physically..... :(
Whats happening and how do I fix this?
>>17310101
you were just nervous you faggot.
the nerves and self-consciousness will do that to a boner.
>>17310113
So, is it even worth asking if he wants to fuck again, or will the same thing just happen?
Is it normal to not get full erections when you masturbate? I'm getting close to my 19th birthday and I've never gotten anything more than a half-chub in the 7 years I've been able to get hard. Does the physical stimulation of a real sexual partner make the difference, or is my dick broken?
Suddenly masturbation feels better than having sex with my fiancee.
Does anybody else know this feeling?
We have sex average of 3 times a day, but I still find myself wanting to jack off between sex or kind of wishing she'd just let me go jack of instead of having sex because my grip feels really good to me.
Any advice?
>>17310073
Every time I see that picture I wonder why she's wearing two pairs of panties.
Anyway, sounds like it's either a problem with your fiancee's tightness (tell her to do kegels, should resolve in 1-3 months) or you have death grip. Are you circumcised?
it's just that you're having sex very often and it becomes routine and boring
Do it less often and put more passion into it.
>>17310073
death grip probably.
if you masturbate at a high frequency with a tight grip then her vagina probably doesn't feel tight and/or the sensations are too subtle to be deemed pleasurable.
it probably feels like nothing if you've got legit death grip.
solution is to stop masturbating/lower frequency drastically.
Theres this girl i know from working in retail who goes to the gym with me and she seems into me through subtlety flirting (asking for massage, getting really close to me, accidentally bumping into my boner etc). The isssue is she has super strict parents and hardly goes out, she gets asked out a lot but rejects every guy. So im confused what she wants, i dont really want to date her but the sexual tension drives me crazy. What should i do?
marry her you need to make an honest woman out of her OP.
That's not subtle you all you idiot. Man up and invite her over for Netflix + chill, or continue jacking off to the fantasy of it
Also she seems like a good girl, so when i noticed the subtle flirting i was suprised. Im pretty confident she is crushing on me but confused with what she wants because she has no time for boyfriends or casual hookup.
Looks like a cool well dressed guy to me.
You're that same Asian who posted that thread a few days ago about not being popular anymore, aren't you?
And yes, you do.
What's a fuckboy?
