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Am i the only man who doesn't enjoy sex without feelings?
I just dont like to fuck some random girl. I am a very horny guy, its not about that. I have fucked a random girl for couple of times and even though its not bad its also not particulary good. + condom-sex or fear of stds doesn't make this better. Those random fucks have almost begged me to fuck them again, but for me it was no biggie.
It feels stupid to be like this when it feels everyone else is fucking around using Tinder. One of my ex gf is already fucking half of the town like this. To be...
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>>17309313
You're Demisexual.
>>17309313
i think anyone who has had sex with someone they have feelings for, knows that it is way better than casual sex.
Getting casual sex from a club or bar is shit because you're drunk or the girl is, and that kills orgasms. casual sex from tinder is ok but the girl often expects you to go to her, and fear of stds.
>>17309313
funny i got to think that men ike you couldnt exist. i'm pretty sure all the men who want to know me do it just to have sex with me. and im so sick of that. wish i had a friend like you to prove myself not ll guys are jerks.
>be me, living with parents (because i can't leave them)
>huge financial problems
>My mother start crying in front of me
>she says she's sorry they couldnt give me a better future
>i'm sorry too, because i couldn't repay them for their sacrifices
>i can't say nothing, i stand awkwardly in front of her
I love my parents, we know we love each other, but...
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>>17309311
Sorry, but can you talk more about your job as a translator? I find it interesting.
>>17309316
I mostly work through upwork and similar websites. I also translate visual games and apps for "donations". I also am a skype tutor for languages lessons.
Honestly all you need to do is make your mom a really nice dinner one day and surprise her with it. A homemade, hand written letter telling her how much you appreciate her-- things you couldn't say out loud to her face would mean so much to her.
Clean up around the house, do extra chores...You know, anything to make her life easier. Just spend time with her.
Also, start saying "good night i love you" every night. If you're shy about the I love you part then just say it and then close your bedroom door and sleep :)
>>17309310
use the other one
>>17309310
Buy a new one
>>17309310
Try restarting it
I was walking my dog today and this girl asked if she could pat it. She came over and was like "okay thanks, bye!" How can I keep accidentally bumping into her without it seeming creepy?
She's not interested in you, she's interested in your dog
Fuck you buddy, 52 confirmed kills
>>17309307
>>17309308
this op. use this to your advantage and tell her she can fuck your dog if she gives you a blowjob at the same time.
Hey anons,
i will start my military career next monday, though i have no idea what it will be like or whether it was a good idea because i have family. I join the german bundeswehr as officer or officer contender. I never served in any way so i am not familiar with military structures nor do i know what it will be like to be a soldier. One of the main reason i joined is that i can be a provider for my familiy currently i am studying and would also study at some point at the Bundeswehr.
Do i fucked up?
What ist the best branche of military service?
Will i...
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>>17309281
i bump for you because i'd like you to get some answers but i can't give them myself. good luck
>>17309281
You can be a military leader AND redpill indeed, IF you keep the RP philisophy to yourself.
Remember the laws of power.
I would place my money on you getting cucked though.
I don't know shit about having a family, so can't really answer anything there, nor about the Bundeswehr.
I am ex norwegian military (army branch), but I left due to BP politics in the entire fucking system.
Also got cucked by onitis gf. Glad I'm out of that shit now.
With RP knowledge, I'm not...
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You will probably just end up babysitting refugees when they're the majority in a few years, so it shouldn't be a problem unless you Harre refugees. You're not a racist, are you?
/adv/, I think my attitude from work is crossing over into my social life a bit too much. I'm a doctor (occasionally pop up in med-related threads) and at work I'm required to be concise when talking to people, and ask the same of others when they talk to me (handing over etc)
It's now getting to the point where even talking to family or not-so-close friends (none of which are doctors), I become inpatient when they tell me something and draw it out. I can already guess the ending of what they're going to say, so save the middle part and finish it for...
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Both. The ideal would be for everyone to cut to the chase, but linguistic education is headed to downfall. Since people won't bother learning to speak better, you won't achieve nothing but annoy them.
>>17309271
Yeah, I guess you're right
I also wonder if it's me just not being able to switch off from work too... As it doesn't bother me when I'm around closer friends, which is when I can switch off. But then they tend not to draw out two sentences into two minutes
It's not rude. If anything, they're rude for wasting your time. They may do it unintentionally, but don't most rude people? You just need to cut them off politely.
Don't know where to ask, but:
Is there a language-learning service that points out your grammar mistakes and unnatural wording?
Like a chat or skype teacher.
Need that for English.
How do i learn to articulate my thoughts as an English person? I've never visited an english language country yet.
Why pay for a service like that when you can just talk to people on the internet for free?
Just meet some people on discord/skype/videogames and talk with them all the time. I know a few people who have perfected their english by just doing that.
And just posting here is very good too :3
Just post on /b/. If you made a mistake, edgy teenagers will correct your grammar before even thinking about the content of your post.
Whats the best major to learn how to write well?
Write well in what sense? Learning to write comprehensive texts? Good calligraphy? Vocabulary? Interesting and engaging writing?
if you can't write well before college nothing you major in will change that. take a writing class and shut the fuck up
English - Composition
Sadly, English Literature and English Creative Writing have pushed all other English majors aside and bastardized the whole concept of majoring in English. Not many school Composition as it's own thing anymore as a result. Or you could just do technical writing courses.
Help me out /sci/. I can't decide whether I should choose Cyber-physical system, Civil Engineering or Mathematical Statistics. What do you think are the future prospects of each of those specialities. I think that safest bet would be statistics since mathematicians do everything better than everyone else. I have worked in Civil Engineering field for years, but I am really intrigued by Cyber-physical systems. What do you think of these specialties or are those shit tier?
>>17309254
>mathematicians do everything better than everyone else.
Ahahahaha.
>>17309512
In terms of general problem solving skills from best to worst
Mathematicians
Statisticians
Physicists
Computer scientists (not code monkeys btw)
Chemists
Biologists
Difficult engineering fields
Mechanical engineering
Civil engineering
>>17309517
Or maybe it depends on the person, because I hardly think that anyone who worth a shit can be categorized into a field.
>>17309254
So, OP, maybe you should simply choose what interests you, because that will give you better motivation and you can (should) study other things, especially related to your chosen field, on your own. It's not that hard to open a math book for example.
Every degree only worth as much as you put into it.
Does she like me?
Does she hate me?
She has a boyfriend, so I can't make a move unless something good is out there.
Day 1 of class: Extreme flirting, but it was to get notes from me for previous year.
Day 2 of class: Also flirting. But started acting pissed, may have been because I gave her too much attention or I was nice to the other girl.
Later: Starts ignoring me and staring at me angrily.
I stop giving her attention. Asks me for a pencil and stupid shit like that. I try to talk to her but we keep getting interrupt by another...
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>>17309240
There's nothing.
Move along.
>>17309242
I figured. Thank you.
Ide ask her out anyways.fuck the douchebags feelings,not like he has any anyways.
Fapping with lube ok?
>>17309223
Fapping with toothpaste Yes!
Mix with some water or it will be too dry as a lube
>>17309232
What about lubricant?
A lubricant is a substance introduced to reducefriction between surfaces in mutual contact, which ultimately reduces the heat generated when the surfaces move.
So outside of this whole "waah waahh my gf left me, teen drama, teen anxiety and depression, temporary sadness" bullcrap.
How about we get a genuinely intelligent or at least mid-intelligent philosophy thread?
Things like... are millions of dollars going to make you happy if you're a disfunctionally bad person incapable of happines, social activities and being content?
Is life hard or is your brain hard to function? Is it worth staying alive in an incredibly boring money-based world where the physics and logic is as dry-wet as the handicapped...
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>>17309184
You made so many assumptions already for a philosophy thread.
>>17309184
>Are you defined by your genetics or are you capable of making new neuronal connections to save your brain from stupidity, autism and sociopathy?
Nope. Free will is a myth.
An intelligent question would be one that hasn't been asked millions of times, nor has been answered.
What you are proposing is, "Playing" the intellectual.
Just, go read some books.
Plenty written by much more revolutionary folk than you'll find around here.
Hello /adv/. I just failed my driver's test for the second time now, and I don't know why I'm so shit at driving. I'm a smart guy, but somehow I find driving to be extremely difficult. Anyway, I really REALLY want to get it right the third time I do my test.
Does /adv/ have any tips, besides "drive more"? I'm not an American, so if I want to practice driving I have to do it with a professional driving instructor and it costs a shitload.
>>17309174
You got to tell us more information. What specifically did you fail at? Staying in the lane? Not doing your turn signal?
>>17309174
Also my problem is not with the driving itself (clutch, steering, switching gears all goes smooth), my problem is with the traffic part.
>>17309181
My biggest problems are anticipating what other cars are going to do, and mostly, keeping focus 360 degrees around the car.
I have trouble registering what's going on both in front of me, behind me, and next to me.
Is there any way out of my current situation?
>24
>kissless virgin
>not ugly (told I'm attractive quite often)
>socially functioning
>no friends
>no gf
>jobless
AND
>also a bit reserved
>totally fucked up situation with family, only have contact with mother and brother. This...
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>>17309162
>25
>Kissless virgin, not even hand holdings
>Ugly or just that baby face make me don't look manly at all, (imagine chris chan)
>socially functionable, i can understand what others feel and think most of the time, and i can react just great
>I have 3 friends, which i thought was true friends, but seems like they don't really care anymore now that they...
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>>17309192
I want to change dude. Problem is I don't see a way out.
http://succeedsocially.com/
How do I last longer in bed /adv/?
So I have had sex a lot since about age 16 (27 now) but over the last couple of years I have been having a problem where I cum really fast when I have sex, I used to be able to go for about 20-30 minutes but the last few partners i've had I only last a minute or two and I can't seem to stop myself cumming so fast.
The last 2 times I don't think i even lasted a minute before i came but because I had a condom on I just kept going for as long as I could after I came so it wasn't awkward.
I have tried thinking...
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>>17309137
Adderall will boost your confidence and help your mind stay on whatever you choose so you won't focus entirely on cumming.
>>17309137
Have you tried practicing edging when you fap?
>>17309161
I can fap for a very long time but I haven't really been edging, will that help?
I fap every day without fail, sometimes twice and I read that masturbating too much can cause this so maybe I should try to cut down and start edging.
