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>be me
>constantly analyzing people
>observing their thinking patterns
>how they interact with the world
>reactions to things
>understand how they work on an intellectual level
>use this to my advantage when communicating with them by using specific words to get the desired reaction
>lying is seen more as tool than a breach...
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>>17310580
Oh shit anon you're so special, you must be a highly intelligent psychopath
is that what you want to hear? there ya go
>>17310588
No fuck that.
I smoke weed all the fucking time just so I can get some peace of mind. If I'm lucky I'll damage my brain by smoking too much so I won't be such a fucking machine.
I just want to know how to make friends. I can't fucking do it, everyone seems to get along just fine without me...
>>17310580
Same here. I used to be able to "feel" people, but after being bullied and screwed over (which people do if you're vulnerable apparently) at a young age, including parents, I just rationalized everything to the point of numbness. I can only argue with people now, or talk about technical stuff or talk about how emotions work on a more philosophical / scientific level, but I somehow can't seem to just let myself "feel". I'm in therapy for this, but I even rationalize the therapy....
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>Traveling solo around Europe as a girl from the states
>Saw a homeless man smiling at me when taking photos of a building (he lives next to there)
>Pretended that I didn't see him and ingnored him
>Later discovered that I dropped a hat when walking to a tourist attraction
>Passed by that building and the homeless man returned the hat to me when he was me
>Gave him 3€
How stupid...
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Not as stupid as traveling solo.
>>17310416
When sorry English isn't my first language. I mean, I was solo for that day coz my friend wanted to visit another part of the city.
>>17310429
Ah okay, that's better.
What are some fun activities to do with your friends? It can both be outside and inside, preferably free or cheap.
It's summer so why not go to the beach or the pool?
just fuck around , me and my friends just walk around town talking nonsense and it makes things funny somehow . either that or go drinking or buy weed but (not always cheap)
Frolf if you have a course nearby.
want ask girls if a man height is important? 173 cm is it too short?
5'9" and under is small. I would never date someone who is 5'7" or below, which is a shame because asian boys are otherwise perfect. Yes I have dumped guys for height. Good sex isn't entirely about height, but getting filled up by a nice tall guy does matter! You can orgasm from just clit stim and fingering, but who would be satisfied with just that? It's primal--a girl wants a nice tall guy. Imo 6'2 is perfect, anything within an inch of that either way is good. After that it is a serious bad point and might cost you the sale. For fucking...
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Yup. 5'9'' got dumped for being short.
>>17310321
It's relative to the girl's height. Why don't guys understand this?
I want to ask about anger. I'm not...strongly emotional, exactly, and I can usually cool down very easily, but there's a point where I make the jump from "annoyed," "irritated," or "disgusted" to "livid." And when that happens, people don't respond like they do to most angry people--they get scared. Nervous. I don't even have to say anything, but once I've passed that threshold everyone reacts. Children stop talking, people my age back away or turn to face me, and adults stop whatever they're doing to keep...
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>>17310243
Well I'm more and more stressed about my work and future and relationships. I usually sleep on it or play video games but since I can only sleep just what I need I'm becoming more and more angry. When I saw one of my friends the other day she felt it even if I spoke calmly.
So if you have time, do a relaxing activity and if you don't, take some because in anger you only find remorse (most of the time).
I'd say a professional is needed when you begin to let your anger out on those you care...
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>>17310243
You can definitely go to a psychologist although i would just recommend you to change your perspective of things. Usually i only get that angry when something meams a lot to me, maybe you should just try and care less about that thing in particular, maybe you should stop listening or just ignore the person before you get angry.
This can seriously lead to you bitchslapping someone and then realizing you didn't mean to do it.
I have found diet can be a trigger. Booze is an obvious one, but even a high-fat meal can leave me just slightly more on edge than normal.
is this bad for my health, im currently at college and i havent seen any negative impact on my work infact i think im actually doing better
is smoking weed bad for you
>>17310207
marijuana is addictive and harmful when used at a high frequency and/or long-term.
better to deal with whatever is causing you to smoke so frequently rather than become addicted to a bandaid.
>>17310207
Yes. It's called a gateway drug.
http://www.drugfreeworld.org/real-life-stories/marijuana.html
>>17310207
everything is bad if you overdo it
you will feel like shit for few days after you stop but by third day it should pass
try smoking just over the weekend
also, do you smoke clean or spliffs?
if you smoke spliffs you might actually crave tobbaco in your joints
