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Are contact lenses worth it?
My glasses sort of magnify my eyes and I look way better without them. Are contacts as much of a hassle as I hear they are or are they better to have than glasses?
>>17311141
Not really. It'll take some time to get used to putting them on, but after that you can add 2 minutes to your daily routine to put them on and take them off. It's slightly nicer to have more complete peripheral vision, as well as being able to buy sunglasses without needing prescription. They're also better for physical activities like sports, and for little things like being able to wear 3D glasses more easily.
The only cons I can think of are naps and showers. It's kind of annoying to...
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>>17311154
You take your contact lenses off for showers? I always leave 'em in and I've never had any problems. Many brands of contact lenses these days are OK to leave in for short naps too, although maybe not if you nap every day. I'm still not gonna recommend that because I'm sure there's some study out there claiming that even sleeping for 30 mins with contacts in will cause your eyes to bug out and explode or whatever, but I do it on occasion.
>>17311141
If you enjoy /fa/shion, stick with glasses. Tons of Frames to help you look better. If you don't care for that stuff definitely go with contacts.
My boyfriend can only get off to my feet, I've tried talking to him about it and he doesn't seem to care that I need actual sex
We've been together for a couple years and I love him but I don't know what to do with this anymore
>>17311135
>unresponsive to your sexual needs
>degenerate fetish
>talking did not help
It's time to break up.
>>17311163
Feet aren't degenerate.
>>17312303
i have a friend who uses drugs and i use drugs too, i hang out with him sometimes, he happened to be chilling with a girl who also does drugs, we somehow say hi and chat, we somehow exchange numbers, i get to know her for a month, i find out she has had 3 ex boyfriends, she told me she has had sex with them.
she is 22, i am a 26 year old hugless kissless virgin, should i settle for used goods or find a virgin qt girl?
i think i am going to stick to my robot roots and just cut her off, unfortunately for her she likes me
she had another man's dick in...
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sigh
>>17311134
And what do you think women think about when they're going to fuck you? Do they think "Oh his dick has been in another woman's mouth." or "His mouth has been on another woman's pussy."? It doesn't fucking matter, dude. Just fuck the shit out of her if you're able.
The thought of a baby cow being chained and slaughtered doesn't make veal any less delicious.
Eat the veal.
/adv/, what degree should I do?
I'm probably going to miss my offer for Aerospace Eng (A*A*A/AAB) and come out with A*A*C in Physics/Biology/Maths
Literally what degree is this set of skills useful for
>>17311129
bump
didn't realise /adv/ was this much of a slow board desu
>>17311129
You first may want to check how many job openings are in this field. Then maybe go see a real workplace and check out what kind of work is done.
Are you good with math, physics, etc?
>>17311272
I'm pretty mediocre at pure mathematics
I can get the concepts behind it all but I'm not great at dealing with it in unique settings
I'm fine at applying maths with rigorous formulae in physics and biology and I'm pretty exemplary at both physics and biology
I'm just wondering what sort of degree this is even good for
Like what the fuck do biology and physics have to do with each other
I'm a guy and I like butt stuff.
I tried prostate stimulation once and I was hooked into it.
I also found out I like putting things in there. Buttplug-like things. I want to try it out with my girlfriend but I feel like she'll laugh at me and be weirded out. Like I wanna fuck her with a buttplug on.
How do I tell her? Should I even tell her? Also do buttplugs stretch out your butt permanantly? How does it work? I don't want a loose butthole lmao
Troll?
Yes you'll be stretched out permanently.
Yes your girl will leave you.
Do it by yourself all you want, or wait till you're married to tell her.
I wish my bf was into that.
>>17311051
Nah I'm actually not trolling. Will it really stretch it out permanently?
I don't think she'd leave me for that. She's pretty open about things and our relationship is great. We always experiment. I guess this is more of a taboo thing for me personally, which is why I'm asking about it.
I love my girlfriend, a lot, we've been together for nearly a year and a half now. We've argued a few times, almost broken up a few times (we both are quite stubborn) but I've noticed recently I just don't feel the same feelings I used to when I'm with her. I love her so much, the thought of losing her cripples me, but I just don't feel the same.
Can somebody make sense of this? I might be rambling, I don't like some of her behaviours, but I really do think a lot of her. Something just feels... Different, but I know that id be lost without her.
>>17311023
Honeymoon period is over. You don't feel all fuzzy and nice around her anymore. It's normal.
>>17311034
I agree. Though I think they honeymoon period made me forgive a lot of her behaviours. The bluntness, mood swings, jealousy, the incessant condescending, the unwillingness to ever admit fault, the refusal to ever accept I might be right about something. I put up with it all because i love her. It's weird really, i never thought I'd put up with so much shit. I give it as good back, I don't really back down from the stuff she does, but still, surely relationships aren't about that kind of thing?
You are both getting complacent and losing love.
Learn to like each other again.
Also, talk to her.
So this girl I know from school just told me she has a crush on me over text.
I have been struggling to find the words to let her down easy. Not that complicated, the feeling are not mutual.
Thanks for any advice/input you guys have. It is greatly appreciated.
>>17310997
there are anons here that would kill for an opportunity to just see a vagina in the flesh.
why would you do this to them anon? fuck her for them.
Usually something short, sweet, and to the point that doesn't leave any room for false hope that would break the poor girl's heart any further is best.
I would go for something as simple as "srry uggo". You really just have to have empathy.
>>17310997
>just told me she has a crush on me over text.
eugh, are you two 12? Just tell her that's sweet but you aren't interested in her that way, sorry. Do not be a faggot and try to fuck her when you don't want a relationship that's just mean to her and there's plenty of vaginas out there that like casual sex.
Has anyone here gotten over depression?
If so, how?
>>17310979
yes.
you realize that it's up to you. no one else can truly help. you're responsible for how your life is going and how you feel about things. if you're unwilling to make changes then you're a willing participant in your own pitiful self-wallowing. if you're okay with that then stay in bed. if you're not then make the choice to change.
>>17310989
Not real depression, altho I'm not sure OP is talking about real depression or self prescribed pseudo drama bullshit. If it's the second it could maybe help.
i don't think it's as simple as one day it's there and the next week you fixed it , it's overtime learning ways to cope with it and finding what works best for you . For me it was exercising and music and just getting out of the house when i felt my worst . these are not solutions they're just distractions . but that's all happiness really is . good luck buddy
I'm a college student and have some strange behaviours because of my social anxiety, trust issues and light depression. I think I gave some people in my class the impression I don't like them. Now they have formed a circle and know each other. I distanced myself for 4 semesters. I did that, because some of them are very eccentric and inttelectual. I was scared of meeting yet again more freaks and felt intellectually inferior. And I grew up in another country and am mixed, but nobody notices that until I say it. That makes me feel different as well. Well, now I regret...
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>>17310934
>implying they are not as stupid as you
OP they are faking it and you believed them.
Don't feel inferior to people; everyone is an idiot.
You are just an idiot that is bad socially and they are idiots that can lie.
>>17310934
>I think I gave some people in my class the impression I don't like them. Now they have formed a circle and know each other.
Story of my childhood throughout all 12 grades.
>distanced myself for 4 semesters. I did that, because some of them are very eccentric and inttelectual.
Bullshit, if they were then they'd be like you.
>>17310934
chances are if youre that sensitive to their feelings they probably dont like you because youre too nice and boring and smart
I have a bunch of cash lying on the street. It isn't as much as what's in the pic, but I will say it's about a month's pay for a minimum wage job.
Now when I say I found it on the street I mean that. It was literally just in a small pile on the sidewalk. That particular sidewalk has very little foot traffic so I would say it was at most ten minutes since the money was dropped there.
What I need help with is deciding what to do with all the Benjamins I came across. My first instinct is to return the money to whomever lost it, but I haven't a clue...
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Turn it into a police station. It'll be yours after a period of time if nobody claims it
>>17310855
just keep it you faggot. you're never going to track down the retard that loses a wad of cash.
just keep it shithead
Ok first some background. So my family is a typical nuclear family in the south. I'm the middle kid of three, older brother, younger sister.
Growing up my brother was defiantly my favorite sibling. After graduating he stayed home and got a job at Walmart(after a year of lazing about). I jumped into college two months after graduating and haven't got a job but have a fiancee of four years(started in highschool) and a really good long distance relationship. My fiancee was my brother's best friend so my family loves him.
Recently my brother met this pair of...
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He used this money to visit these girls. He started seeing Twin1 who was already in a realtionship and was perfectly fine with cheating on him. Bro didn't give a shit cuz he got laid(1st time). She broke up with her bf but Bro left her since she was sleeping with every other LARP guy(low standards whore).
After this he still hung around Twin2 who is currently in a relationship also. He also still hangs out with Twin1.
He stole me and my sister's savings to go to some big mall a ways away and splurged on them while my parents went visit relatives out of state.
Recently...
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>>17310852
Beat the shit out of him, the only way idiots learn is by feeling excruciating pain.
Also move out you chump.
>>17310857
Forgot to add that I was in college a state away and in student housing.
Looking back, my uncle on my mom's side also never moved out. Til he got a wife online. My mom hates her brothers for not being independent so my brother doing this is probably eating her up inside.
What does it mean if a girl says that she doesn't like me "yet"?
>>17310836
it means she is looking for someone better and you should focus on someone else while trying to see if she wants to date every now and then
>>17310847
Exactly. You are Plan B.
>>17310847
>>17310854
this.
she said 'yet' to give you hope and string you along in the case she cant get the attention she wants
Please help me.
I'm 21 years old and my hairline is super far back. I'm not balding or anything, but the corners are very far back, and people have started pointing it out to me.
Please help me. How can I fix this. I dont want to look like a balding old man in my early 20's
You're gonna look like a balding old man in your early 20's.
>>17310825
Dont have haircut pic related.
Go long or short.
I would say short 80% of the time, unless your facial structure is babyface.jpg.
>>>/fa/
I'm in the same position, 21 and my widows peak has turned into 90° angle, I think it's inevitable and there's nothing I can do outside of surgery. I might kill myself
Are girls real THAT into tanned guys?
Can I be hot while being super pale?
I really really white, I really struggle at getting any tan and i always end up burnt.
I try to make up for it by working out 5 times a day, being fashionable, sociable and hygienic
>>17310807
Pale skin is the hottest thing ever. Tanned guys look gross to me.
>>17310815
What this anon said.
White guys are precious jewels.
<3 my bf is actually even paler than me and 100% European
>>17310815
:D
I hope this is a widely shared opinion outside of 4chan
Any anons over the age of 29? As an average looking, average height male, does the selection of women get better when you turn around 30? (provided you have a solid income and aren't fat). Wondering if I should just focus on my future and career for the next 6 years here and weight untill prospects get better.
>>17310796
wait***
>>17310796
It does, women will find out that when they hit 30s that men won't give them as much attention so they lower their standards and are more desperately looking for someone to plant them with their seeds.
Just focus on improving yourself, be it by lifting, finding a hobby or just working then having it develop into your passion. Also get some tips in /fa and perhaps grow a stub?
Waiting to be happy at some point in the future is not a good life strategy.
But, having said that, 32 was about my peak for attracting girls.
