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>Been talking to girl I met in Tinder for about a month
>Met up once, whenever I try to make more plans with her she's busy.
>She could very well be busy, but each time it happens I wonder if she's making excuses because she doesn't wanna see me
>Sometimes she's really into our conversations, but most of the time she just kinda makes passive comments
>She never really goes out of her way to try and reach...
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>>17313408
>each time it happens I wonder if she's making excuses because she doesn't wanna see me
yep.
you're a backup. Fuck that.
>>17313417
It isn't shit with friends or other guys or anything. It's always family. She seems to be a super family oriented person
>Figure "hey I have nothing to lose" and ask her how she feels
>"I don't know if I have feelings for you or just want to be friends, but you're really cool and nice and I don't wanna stop talking to you :)"
She's clearly not into me, fuck.
Need some career advice /b/ros
So I just finished HS and I'm going to a CC. I want to be a doctor eventually but from the stories I hear, people who go down this path generally don't have much of a social life in their 20s; which is supposedly where most of the fun is. So my question is do I continue pursuing my dream or do I choose a different career path? Or at least a similar one? I'm kind of losing my mind over this.
Well, why do you want to be a physician? If it's just because you want to say, "I'm a physician", and everything that entails, you may not want to go to medical school.
There are other options, though. Assuming you live in the US or Canada, Physician Assistants (PAs) need their bachelor's degree, and then go to a 2-year PA school. It's pretty much like Physician-Lite.
http://www.bls.gov/ooh/healthcare/physician-assistants.htm
>>17313403
is being a doctor your dream, or your goal?
you should do what leads to happiness and fulfilment, but will being a doctor fulfill you or is it something you kinda picked up cuz you hear it pays well seems prestigious and theres a lot of TV shows about them?
>>17313425
>>17313429
Becoming a physician is my dream. It has been the only career I could see myself in. My father was a doctor and my mother was a nurse which gave me exposure to some aspects of the field of medicine, enough to know that this is what I want to do. However, I do want to also live a fulfilling life, and I'm worried there's a chance this might not bring me happiness and I'll be stuck at this miserable job, slaving away like a zombie.
Is it wrong for me to ignore someone out of the blue? Basically I became friends with this girl for basically an entire semester. We ended up hooking up for quite a while. We also had plenty of pretty intimate sex.
Anyway she used to ask me about us but I made it clear that I "liked" her but I didn't want to date her. I think by doing this I sort of led her to believe we would eventually date. Eventually the semester ended and we both moved back to our respective homes, and she began to act way more clingy and annoying so I stopped responding to her texts....
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>>17313391
Doing either choice will hurt her. However, as many females have learned, ignoring others is the less confrontational method.
>>17313391
yeah that's pretty rude, you couldn't be assed to at least say like, "I don't think what we have is going to work LDR, sorry"? you just left someone with no closure and it's kinda a shitty thing to do. the only time straight dropping people is an okay thing is when they fuck you over to an extent that you're just done.
>>17313406
>>17313402
so now that it's been several weeks afterwards, what should I say to her? I've already slept with other women.
Something along the lines of "Hey I'm sorry I didn't respond. I didn't mean to leave you wondering. I needed some time to myself. I don't think what we have is going to work, I'm sorry."
> F 20 here
> My crush is M18
I went to this guys school once to visit some friends and I could almost call it love at first sight. I could immediately tell we had a lot in common and would get along and I had never even talked to the guy. After I found out his name and social networks I initiated convo with him and it was pretty chill. Afraid I was being annoying, i didn't text him the day after and neither did he. Day after that he texts me asking why I didn't text and puts a ":(" at the...
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>>17313389
Sounds like he likes you but is afraid of rejection so he indirectly tells you things. However, popular people don't do shit like that, only shy people without social skills do that as they rarely have the opportunity to handle rejection.
>>17313414
Maybe that's just how he talks with girls? Should i do something about the situation?
>>17313435
Like I said, if he's a popular guy, then this is all an act and he probably uses it to get pussy all the time.
If he's socially awkward, then he wants to date but is afraid of rejection.
This bitch was kissing and hugging and sleepin in my bed for 5 months and she already had a boyfriend already that lives far away.
I told her boyfriend and he still takes her back and takes her to london with him. Give me youre opinions pls.
>>17313378
>Wasted
this implies the endgame of any relationship is marriage. its not. if that was the case than you should just give up dating and do an arranged marriage cuz thats a more sure fire way.
you are young, you are reasonably attractive, and exploring life. life is not wasted simply because the relationship ended. all relationships end.
like vision said in age of ultron
'something isn't beautiful because it lasts'.
why do you still care?
I only care because she was my motivation to get out of bed. Im a N.E.E.T
