>>17315321
The new girl could be shy, chose you on a call and didn't want to really mess with anyone else. I wouldn't read into it much more than her initially viewing you as someone she felt she could trust.

But hey, you could be onto something, but should you pursue it? Don't put yourself in a "position of power" and start making moves on anyone, if it occurs naturally, so be it; but it's not risking your hard work for at this stage (if ever).

>>17315340
isn't that a pretty big deal? gaining the trust of an individual upon first meeting them? i don't think it was trust necessarily, all the interns are very nice people and seem genuine. her shadowing me on every call that she was able to just felt very purposeful. i know i would do the same if i was remotely interested in someone or just someone i liked.

i don't understand this "position of power" thing. you're saying don't make a move ever? i feel like being proactive when...
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>>17315321
As of recently, Ive been thinking of leaving my wife of 9 years. Shes got some serious mental problems. Ive been helping her deal with it but I can only take so much more. Plus Ive met someone who I have completely fallen for, and I really think shes into me aswell. so yeah, I think about leaving quite a bit. you're not alone

A woman at 5'8" and 170lbs is very much most likely not athletic. Since you describe her with her that word, I suspect you are not athletic, either

>>17315284
Athletic might be the wrong word, but she does well in both of the sports that she plays. She's the first seat at her school for tennis, and starts every game that she plays in soccer.

I play varsity lacrosse as a midfielder, and used to be a center when I played basketball.

>This didn't answer my question at all

>>17315284
this,
the people that are rating you are only telling you what they think because they have something nice to say. Doubtful that your gf's bodyweight is muscle and not fat

isn't there really loud music and it's impossible to have a conversation?

pretty sure people just party at raves without really talking

maybe you can talk to people once everything's packing up and go like hey did you enjoy yourself

Do the thing where you point at peoples chests and when they look down you flick their nose. Then put your finger to your mouth and go 'shhhhh'

Use your legs (or walk over on your hands to seal the deal)

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>>17315117

>Problem is she's a single mother of 1
>Mfw I don't want to be a cuck

>>17315117
Run.

Run away and don't look back.
There are lots of cute girls out there - cute girls that don't have fucking children. Don't you dare get stuck with one.

my dad married my mom when she had two girls. it turned out well, no cucking involved. Go for it?

ruble ruble

>>17315028
What do Russians have to do with this discussion?

>>17315021
get drunk, before doing it.

>>17314855
Also, if it helps, my region is Southern California.

Sell plasma or sperm

>>17314855
Escorting pays well and you get to spend time with handsome men/women.

>>17314844

Worldbuilding is a great hobby with a lot of different aspects. It's a great motivator for researching and learning about stuff, be it political, cultural, learning about climates, too many things to list really, but all the stuff you research directly transfers to building a more interesting and believable world.

>>17315873
What do you mean by world building? >>17315873

>>17315887
You basically brainstorm and create your own fantasy world and fill it with cultures and civilizations that you've created, drawing inspiration from real world history. You can draw maps, draw characters from your world, do some kind of creative writing, like poetry from your in-world characters, or just do some descriptive writing about some element of your world, it can be anything. And the best part is that since there are so many different aspects to the hobby, you can hop around to another aspect when you...
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What is 22% and do you live your girlfriend?

>>17314617
about $16k. no we live separate. dating 3 years.

Honestly man... it depends on how happy you are where you are.

As the other Anon said though what's 22%? Your pay increase may be a % but everything in life costs dollars in absolute amounts.

>>17314589
>Why do people even start?

>>17314601
Because we were dumb impressionable kids, can't change the past.

>>17314589
>16
>23
>2
>negative
>e cigs

>>17314451
If only you knew anon. You are on the exact road you need to be.

You're going to be making gains for her for the first while.

But the more gains you see, and the more attention you get from others, and the more confidence you get, the less you'll think of her.

Again, you'll likely not forget her, and you'll think of her with fondness and the great times you had, but it wont sink your chest. You wont cry, you wont even wish it were different.

>>17314483
just takes time, so much time you don't notice it. Untill you realize WAY down the road that you don't even miss her.

>>17314483
>>17314486
this is good to hear.

time and self-improvement are always things I see when getting looking for advice for getting over a break up.

she was my first so oneitis is definitely a factor too.

kik

What?
I don't really get what you are trying to say. If you want to fap just do it. There is nothing wrong with that. Just clean yourself afterwards.

>>17314515
meeting up people from craigslist.

Stop spending most your time at home watching anime and playing video games

>>17314240
What should i do instead? How do i deal with being afraid of approaching other people?

>>17314247
By being fun, be filled with energy, but not like autistic jim carrey jumping on couches energy.

>>17314176
Live with the hurt, let it electrify your core. then when sink into the sheets at night pretend you are petrified. fade into black.

>>17314176
Instead of cheating on her, you should have broken up with her and gone after whoever. Cheating on someone fucks them up, especially women. This is because women are feels based.

So now she's going to become bitter/jaded and take it out on the next couple of guys who will want to stick it in her. When guys come on here saying shit like "Why do women just ghost guys?!" "Why are women cunts??" "Why are women so cruel?!?!?" Know that you had a hand in creating that.

Learn...
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She seems pretty hot, you saying you upgraded?

Lord of The Rings? Hobbits and Elves?

I am confused.

>>17314608
The acronym for Lord of the Rings is lots, bro

2/10 you tried your best

>>17314608
long term relationship

Try to address with her the issue(s) that are causing her to lean on food as a comfort. See if you can help switch it up to something a bit healthier (anything from knitting to weight lifting) if the issue itself can't easily be solved.

Personally, I would approach this very delicately. Don't be an asshole, and don't frame this like you're concerned about her appearance.

Let her know that you've noticed how she's been eating, and tell her that it worries you because you've heard about comfort foods or stress eating and you want to know if something else is bothering her. Try and have a conversation based on that instead of just saying "you eat too much!"

>>17312223
Don't get her to eat less, get her to eat healthier. She didn't need to worry about starving herself if she's eating veggies and chicken.

Go to /fit/ for more advice