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What's the trick to making friends? Also, if you can answer that, here's a bonus question. How does one maintain friends if they aren't an initiator, as in, never the one to call, text first, go places with intent to invite people, etc.
>>17314861
I'm assuming you're not in highschool because you're posting on this website which is clearly 18+
After leaving highschool and entering the "real world" you no longer make what we used to call "friends" As you get older, get a girlfriend, a job, responsibilities. Our social relationships turn into "work acquaintances". Your social interactions you'll find are much different than how you remember them from highschool.
>>17314871
Nah, out of high school, kind of dropped out of college I guess, but I wasn't REALLY going to begin with. I'm just working now.
Bearing that in mind, the question still stands I guess.
>>17314879
Talk to your co-works, and invite them for drinks, or another activity you feel that you and they would enjoy doing.
It's really that simple, pretty intuitive actually, i'm surprised you couldn't figure that out for yourself
>being involved in a short-term relationship
>she is a cumrag slut with mental issues
>find out she's pregnant
>we're miles away
>I want her to get an abortion
>now i'm dealing with a shitty pro-life speech
I don't want to ruin my life, I'm too young and poor to get kids
what do
>>17314859
Go back in time and lead your life for the Lord. Alternatively, prepare to pay child support for 18 years and hope against hope that she miscarries.
good job dumbass. kys
drop her, if she tries anything move to europe or south america.
How do I stop my gf being Danish? She always talks to people in Danish first before switching to English if they don't speak it.
>>17314858
Lærer seg norsk og bare snakke på norsk.
>>17314868
How would that help me?
>>17314924
To teach that fucking bitch a lesson. Although Norwegian and Danish are pretty similar...If you live in Denmark tho grow a fucking pair and learn the language. You have a wonderful opportunity to.
If your gf is initiating all of her conversations in Danish in America, bitch slap the fuck out of her because she is retarded and needs to be taught a thing about being considerate.
How do I find acceptable bars and clubs where girls will approach me, having never been to one before and not having any friends? T.T Every now and again a female friend of my brother's will dote on me, but it never works out because I hate his other friends and would rather not bother, kinda. The point is that if I could get in a scenario like that I might land a gf or something.
>>17314845
>where girls will approach me
Will never happen, bud. Girls are constantly approached by dudes, why would they need to put themselves at the risk of rejection for you? This is a big reason girls have a harder time dealing with rejection and will only put themselves in that position for someone who they REALLY like and has a low chance of rejecting them. Learn how to interact with others, make yourself vulnerable, handle rejection gracefully, and be amiable to people you hate, THEN...
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>>17314875
>Will never happen
girls approach me fairly often, i never make the first move. maybe it's different in america?
>>17314875
Pretty much this.
My sister doesn't even bring her wallet to bars because so many guys buy her drinks. Don't buy other girls drinks and if they blatantly say "hey, wanna buy me a drink?" Say "Only if I can drug it"
How do you know if someone is faking it in bed?
they updated their social media status with "about to go to sleep" with a sleeping emoji
>>17314827
That's funny and cute and you are very clever for thinking of it, but I still don't know what it means when my gf closes her eyes and holds her breath during sex.
>>17314832
Someone people get faster more frequent orgasms by slowing their breathing and/or contracting muscles to deplete oxygen.
Or she's playing dead.
Last week I went to a brothel and had sex with the girl there. This week I went out to a club and spent the night dancing with a girl and we took ecstasy together and made out until her friends intervened because she had a boyfriend.
I have a girlfriend.
I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I can't handle it anymore. I am her life. Her entire happiness and well being is based off of the fact that I exist and am in her life.
How can I end things with a girl whose life depends on me? I used to think of it like this:
I'd be happier...
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Just do it, women are stronger than you think. She'll get over it.
>>17314814
Chances are there wont be another woman who feels that strongly about you ever again, and you might miss it. Not alot of people get to experience that feeling. But you're entitled to do what ever your current fleeting feelings tell you to do.
I kind of want to ask why you don't want to be with her. Though the only responses you could give are that you stopped having feelings for her or that you're feeling trapped.
If it's a loss of feelings then the damage is nearly irreparable and it would be best for you to move on.
If you're feeling trapped then you've likely just stuck in a loop of the same old stuff. A change is needed, but leaving her may not be the best course.
I've come to realize there's trouble coming ahead. "Violence should be avoided", but the thing is: Now, it can't be avoided.
Now listen to me on this. I'm already socially awkward so I dont wanna make a scene while fighting.
>Are there any martial arts fit for close quarters combat?
>>17314807
Go and take boxing lessons if you want to know how to get a basic sense of how to fight. Just know that on the street fights are much uglier. Don't take the memelord approach and go to some edgy Krav Maga studio or something.
Muay thai for striking, bjj for grappling.
Honestly, anything will be better than nothing
>>17314807
if you have enough time to learn an entire martial art for this one particular issue, then you have enough time to avoid the violence all togehter.
I had a boner, was gonna fap.
I squeezed my dick, and like some clear mucus came out of it. like a really really tiny amount.
i had sex with 4 girls in the past two weeks. Is this chlamydia? i'm getting tested next week when the clinic is open after hours.
fuck, this is the 3rd time i've gotten chlamydia in a year.
FUCK THIS SHIT
>>17314805
Here's some good advice for you: Start wearing condoms.
>>17314805
Do you mean pre cum?
How do I get "brass balls", nerves of steel, Etc? I'm very conscious of my surroundings, and get anxious easily, I think because I have a very high level of empathy and a large and I guess overused conscience. Before, I used to think that the only way to be confident, secure, and more still work was to always do the honest thing so you would never have anything to worry about since you were always in the run. But then I realized there's tons of dishonest people that are able to be "hard" and calm cool and collected in situations where most people wouldn't be.
>>17314803
The only way your personality is going to be influenced is through life experiences. You won't develop brass balls if you keep to yourself and you aren't challenged in some way. Conflict will either force you to change or you will fail. Plain and simple.
>>17314842
Understandable, so how old do I do that intentionally?
>>17314863
Depends.
How old are you?
What do you do for a living?
Where are you as far as schooling goes?
How adverse to activities such as contact sports, Greek life, or military service are you?
