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Want to see if she's not a cop.
so pic related is her, it was a backpage ad. I texted her, and asked her to send me a picture of herself giving thumbs up, and she quickly did. And she matches the pictures on the site.
So question is would cops go through that kind of trouble? also she said it would be at her "place", do cops only do stings at hotels or can they do it in houses apartments?
Also can a non police office pose as an escort during a sting or does it haaave to be a cop?
thanks in advance.
also when we were texting she asked me if i was involved with a police. Now it's pretty popular now that asking a cop if they are a cop doesn't work, they can lie. Would she really not know this? or is just trying to play a part to lure people in?
bump, anyone got experience with this. I'm in DFW area in Texas btw.
>>17312211
Just ask her if she'd be down to do porn aka video take the sexual exchange for extra cash. If she says yes, then obv not a cop. Ya obv dont gotta actually end up videoing and paying the extra at the end. If she says no, its a cop.
Did you never watch MANswers? baka
So A girl tried t hook up with my pot dealing boyfriend. He says she is just a buyer, yet she still tried to establish some form of friendship between them, to the point she asked him to lie to me for her. He tried to hide this from me to "spare my feelings" but I am not having any of that. He claims its because she didnt know he was in a relationship, yet in the 4 years we have been together he has never shared nor acknowledged me as his girlfriend on social media (which constantly ticks me off). Plus he is very reluctant to block her for my sake, saying I am just being paranoid, which is ironic because he goes through my phone all the time. I have her contact details, but she is the type to take on any confrontation by physical fighting (she is those teenaged white girls who party). Do I try to get over this or do I try to settle this out? Or get revenge? Please advise.
p.s first time 4chan user here
>>17312201
If he isn't active on social media it isn't that weird, if he is it's pretty weird.
4 years is a long time, maybe it's time to ask him where he thinks this relarionship is headed.
Also, if that girl is really bothering you so much tell that to him. If he is ignoring you, tell him "her or me".
Like I hope this isn't true, but he could be cheating on you.
>>17312201
since you're new, I'll tell you this in the nicest way I can.
Post pictures of your breasts or leave the site.
Then you can have good advice
>>17312201
There is no trust between you. Relationship is worthless
Is it weird for a straight man to be obsessed and attracted only to stereotypical butched up dykes?
It's unusual, but nothing to worry about, if that's the person you're truly satisfied by then more power to you. Have you had any experience wit them?
>>17312198
Dunno. I have a thing for gay women, but not necessarily butch ones. Could just be your subconscious craving for D manifesting too.
>>17312200
No they all seem to prefer vagina
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I have Fomo (fear of missing out). My main group of friends i chill with don't really invite me anywhere anymore. I don't really have anxiety because of it, i get mad because my friends don't call me anywhere when they go out, i find that type behavior very cold. I know these guys are chilling because i can see their snapchat updates and stuff, What should i do, its pissing me off and i dont want it to. I want revenge but i don't think that's a wise thing. I kinda wanna stop talking to these guys but i don't wanna give up my friends just like that. I'm not sure what to do? How would you guys react if your best friends don't call you to chill or anything anymore? I have other groups of friends but these are the friends i chill with daily but suddenly died down at the beginning of the year.
They don't invite you, it's not to spite you. Assuming you're a normal group of people, they don't have the time to play stupid tricks on you. OP, the truth is that if you're not invited, they don't enjoy your company. The problem is you, not them, and taking revenge on them doesn't solve the problem, which is you're not fun to hang out with.
You can try this: Instead of waiting to be invited out, invite people to things, contribute, and make it fun for them.
>>17312199
i dont have a problem with any of them, infarct im know as the nice guy in the group
>>17312225
If your presence was that important to them you would get invited senpai
>18
>Start college in august
>Paying with student loans/scholarships
>Mom lost her job tuesday
>Shoulder injury fucked her up, arm movement restrictions make it harder to get a job
>Brother is 21, lives at home, part time job, spends all the money on weed and booze. Leeches off mom
Should I cancel my enrollment and stay here to support her, or go to college? what should I do?
>>17312177
Go to college. Help her by getting a well paying job rather than a shelf stocker.
>>17312181
> college
> getting a well paying job
Kek, good luck.
You can also just skip the useless brainwashing college degree and educate yourself and fight your way into a great job. I'm on year 4 on this plan now and just got another raise. Maybe I'll go to college in a couple of years, IF and only IF I find a subject I'd really like to learn with the help of someone else.
>>17312177
Go to college and apply yourself. Stay focused and apply to every damn scholarship as possible.
If you keep your GPA high (3.9+), you basically get paid to write essays and personal statements. This is not hyperbole, either, it's a real thing.
Use what you need to survive, send mum the rest.
So one of my new roommates is an ex-con, but my other roommate that moved him is kind of obsessed with him.
I spoke to a third roommate (we rent a house) about my concerns, but he said it's ok to give a guy second chances.
But shit isn't adding up.
First, dude has a girlfriend, but he's allowing a female friend from out of town to live with him for a few days... in a ultra small room.
Secondly, he's always bragging about doing illegal things and wanting to do illegal things.
Third, he pretends to be into tech, but get's all of his terms wrong, and I think he's pretending because he's trying to impress me because he thinks I'm into tech. Most of our discussion revolve around illegal things (I used to do ip and port sweeps back in the day because it felt cool to look around for open "secret' ports and shit... I know, gay). At one point he was telling me he had a backup drive with all sorts of illegal shit like people's social security information, fake certification templates, etc.
I want to give this dude a chance, but he seems rather into himself and into socially manipulating others.
Also, he was jailed for breaking into people's homes while he was homeless, but he professes to be fancy, etc...
Am I dealing with a narcissist or a straight sociopath? Should I give this guy a legitimate chance to improve, or should I just feign niceties until either he or I move along?
Lemme guess, he's short, too.
>>17312165
No.
He's about 5"10
Why?
As for his relationship bullshit mind your own business. As for everything else just lock your shit up and be pleasant.
Girl from Australia here. I picked German as a foreign language tot study as I chat a lot with a guy I have met online and I thought it would hence be easier to learn German (I thought being able to speak another language fluently was cool and German is widely spoken). We met via a common interest in Game of Thrones. I later had the opportunity to fly to Germany and when the question of meeting irl arose he started acting in a strange manner (eg. clean Facebook, wanting to bring a brother to our meeting when I have never talker to him or see photos of him, never confirming our itnierary etc. I cancaled our meeting.
After traveling to Germany, I fell in love with German culture. Used to dislike it as all I knew about it was WW2. Should I honestly tell others why I originally picked German? Should I tell acquaintances, Germans I have just met, coworkers at a German company where I work part time for a week, a pen pal addicted to Game of Thrones who knows my cousin, etc?
>>17312150
I bet you're a Danyfag
kys
>>17312150
>Should I honestly tell others why I originally picked German?
No just tell them you thought the language was interesting.
>Should I tell acquaintances, Germans I have just met, coworkers at a German company where I work part time for a week, a pen pal addicted to Game of Thrones who knows my cousin, etc?
No that is not relevant to anything why would you ever tell them that unless you were at some sort of party and the current topic of discussion was "weird people I met online".
>>17312175
What if they ask me why I picked German though?
How do I let go of all this hatred and pain?
It's a very long story but the summary of it is that I had a best friend whom I loved very deeply and they crushed me an left my life because they got a partner and didn't feel like I was esential anymore. I had never had a best friend and never felt loved by anyone until we became friends but it wasn't the same for them. I have a pit in my stomach all the time, I can't sleep a night because I feel so unjustly treated. I've never felt such anger and to top it all off I know the reason that I want to let go of my anger is to forgive them so that we can be friends again oneday as I know she's had a very hard few years and so I've turned that into an excuse for her. I'm rambeling now but I just need some tips on how to let it go, and please, anyone that knows true hatred and pain knows you can just let it go instantly. Please help.
Date other people. You need to anyway, and it will help.
>Dr Island.
>>17312137
seems your anger is not hurting them, only you
and feeling sorry for one's self never fixed a thing.
you'll get stronger and move on eventually
>>17312137
>I had never had a best friend and never felt loved by anyone until we became friends but it wasn't the same for them
Be glad that you got to know what having a best friend was, even if ever so temporarily.
Some of us never have.
Hey /adv/, I was directed here from /b/ after asking a question about how to deal with a friend of mine on Steam. The long story short is he's young teenager and his mental state has degraded over the years, and has a history of self harm. Despite his issues he refused to see any kind of professional help or improve his situation in any way. He would use his "friends", i.e. Steam friends, as the metaphorical drugs. Now, I snapped at him, and I feel awful. I was tired of his pathetic attitude, how he refused to take anyone's advice on improving his situation, how he acted so standoffish with no real reason why.
As the situation currently is I tried re-adding him on Steam after un blocking him, and he shot me down. I looked up his profile and found a Project Zomboid account matching him, though a confirmation is yet to come.
So, /adv/, what do I do?
One cannot save people, even if they want to be saved and one can hang out with them in person.
>>17312114
So what you're saying is I can't save him? Are you sure? There's nothing I can do?
>>17312121
Of course you can't save him. You need to accept it.
>Denial is the first stage of grief.
Does anyone on /adv/ have advice about reconnecting with a girl from their past?
Years back, I used to get along great with this girl. She was a genuinely funny, adventurous type that I never made any kind of move on, for whatever reason. She got engaged to this guy for like 5 years, and it didn't work out for them.
She's been single for a bit and I'd love to reconnect, but nothing seems natural to do so. We're friends on Facebook and all, but we don't talk, short of the odd like on one or the other's picture every once in a while.
Anyone?
Date some other girl, see if Ms Past gets jealous.
>>17312104
She wouldn't notice that I was dating anyone even if I was. She doesn't keep up. I don't even keep up with her.
>>17312108
Well, then, she's not interested.
>Date other girls, silly rabbit.
Hey /adv/, you might vaguely recognize me as the girl who almost gave her beta friend a pity fuck. I bring it up because I'm back with a related quandary.
I have another friend who has also confessed his feelings for me, however I am not interested in him. I'm worried for his and my safety. He makes a lot of "jokes" about killing himself and occasionally posts something nebulously threatening on Facebook. I'm concerned that he may harm himself and I might be adding stress on top of that by being his friend but not dating him.
Do I take one for the team? Do I stop being his friend? He confides in me a lot and I think that may be helping stem whatever his issues are, but now he "likes" me a bit too much for comfort.
As a side note do I keep these guys separate or should they know each other?
>>17312096
If you are a real person I'm going to tell this to you in all honesty.
Assuming you are a real person, you are using your pussy as a cure-all. In the long run that's going to hurt a lot of people.
You're bestie that likes you, you don't have to fuck him to keep him alive. You have to give him the hard truth about women, you're not into him. Women don't like nice guys. Straight up tell him you love him as a friend, you love his company. Don't try any dumb shit like you're going to hook him up with your friend, because you'd be setting him up for failure.
Just spread a dumb rumor that you heard with your girlfriends. He knows how to fuck, he's a badboy and all of that. Don't give him advice on how to get laid, just get him laid.
>>17312118
I don't have any friends, except for three, two of which have mistaken my friendship for romantic advances.
He doesn't have issues getting girls as I have heard that he is a bit of a "creep" from someone that works at the cafe I frequent. He tells me that he had a string of relationships, and his best friend is a girl. However when he said he was interested in me it was over a text and not to my face. Before that, he kind of stared at me and drove off.
>>17312118
What I mean to say is he's already garnered a reputation all his own.
So my girlfriend loves the shit out of me for some reason, but I'm not sure I feel the same way. I like her, but she has a 1 year old kid, and I feel like her and me + a kid is too much for me. Am I shallow? Sexually deprived? emotionally deprived? In love? Any way to prevent this from bothering me?
>>17312094
Its natural for a man to not want to raise another mans child. Its up to you if you want to stay but a kid is a big red flag.
>>17312111
Thanks for the reply, why is it a red flag in your opinion?
>>17312094
18 years of making up for a dead beat,
and two people who couldn't put on a rubber correctly.
>keep in mind: You are adopting a kid, by staying.
worth it?
Hey guys, please help an anon out. I bought some cigarillos (small cigars if you don't know) and I'm not allowed to smoke in my apartment. If I use a fan and blow the smoke out the window, will this stop the smell from staying in the apartment?
>>17312071
No. Cigarillos are pungent. Go outside
>>17312082
I was saying more like if I just sit by the fan in the window pointed outwards and blow the smoke into the fan.
>>17312085
No, go outside.
How do I text a girl? I'm not shy with females but I'm no alpha either, most convos I have with girls over text can get REALLY boring at times and I don't know what to say, or I can't start some sort of spark when I'm texting someone I have feelings for. All my friends are able to get a girl to do whatever they wanted through text. I just need some help from you guys. Thanks
Stop chatting them up over text.
You cannot build attraction through text.
Texting bitches is only for logistics. Talk to her in person.
The way your friends get them to do shit is romancing them IRL, and THEN telling them to send nudes etc..
It only works in that order, you idiot.
>>17312068
Why not try pressing that little button on the phone that lets you actually talk to them, using your mouth and words and like that?
>>17312552
Texting is easier. Calling takes more time and is less private. You can text in situations where you couldn't take a call.
I'm more shitty advice here than usual, are we being raided by /r9k/ or something?
I am tired of meeting nice girls who have no romantic feelings for me. I hate to resign to /r9k/ tactics by just being an asshole who only makes it apparent that I only care about myself.
>>17312060
You're pathetic.
You're desperate and everyone can smell it on you.
How can you expect someone to like you if you don't like yourself?
>>17312060
You're not an asshole.
You're a nice guy.
Do something about it.
>>17312060
just get confidence. confidence is all you need.
I've seen the biggest faggots get girlfriends just because they're confident. I've seen the biggest assholes, the biggest dumbasses get girlfriends. interesting, smart guys don't get girlfriends if they're not confident. Confidence is the metaphorical golden key to pussy, believe me.
