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I've found the girl of my dreams, very similar interests, humor, she's gorgeous, has identical political views (perhaps even a bit more extreme) she's very modest, hates feminism and the way modern women act like whores, and I've fallen in love with her.
Only problem is she's not of my race. Wat do /adv/?
Specify races too then.
I am White. she is Pakistani.
Why does it matter if she's a difference race?
Hello /adv/, I am considering moving to the state of Wyoming. What can you tell me about the state that I might not already know? Thinking of Cheyenne specifically, but open to more rural areas as well as long as there is decent work. Any current or former residents willing to share their experience with me?
Probably not gonna find many wyoming anons here.
Went to UWyo for a year myself, since i'm a nutjob.
It was alright. Pretty boring people, but they're nice and friendly.
Helluva lot of bars. Not much else to do, so they're popular.
Weather is shit most of the time. Cold as fuck. Snow starts in october and lasts through may.
Because of the cold and dry, there's no fucking bugs. Which is great coming from the south. Didn't even have nets on the windows, we never needed em.
>>17317169
Oh and the wind.
>>17317169
Seems like the worst part is the cold and wind for me. I'm super introverted, love guns, and hate taxes. It does not seem perfect, but I'd much prefer it to California
Holyfuck anons, please help me the fuck out.
>hunting for camwhores in Omegle
>meet this 21 year old girl that's a very generous 5/10 at the very best, chubby and looks like she has down syndrome
>but also horny as fuck, puts on one hell of a show and I can't help but inevitably ask for her contact after it
>add her on Kik, trade nudes for a few weeks and stuff
>she has a boyfriend, but he was obviously a...
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>>17317110
/b/ wasn't wrong, for once. This isn't your responsibility. Contact her family or friends anonymously, tell them that she needs some serious help and attention, and then cut off all communication with her.
Nothing you can do will help. You're an idiot for getting into this position. I hope you've learned a lesson.
You've never met her, and you don't know anythingabout her. You're not responsible for her. What you're feeling is guilt for her situation because...
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>>17317309
In my defense, I wasn't the one provoking her break up or supporting her sudden spiraling depression. Everything points out to her turning towards me out of blue as a last resort after leaving her boyfriend and apparently feeling totally unloved, I'm not sure if it would have been much better if I never spoke to her and she were alone now.
I'll try contacting her family, but it kinda scares me to think about how they could react. On top of the sexting thing, what if they impulsively confront...
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There are 7 billion people on this planet. It's not because some random camwhore landwhale dies that it's going to be a better or worse place. It's not your responsibility, let her do it.
About to text girl from school for the first time, but im not sure how this works.
This is the first number i've gotten in 6years (im 23, former neet) and i got 0 experience with texting girls.
So im thinking about saying something like:
>Hey it's anon. What's up?
Is that a decent first message or is it retarded and stupid? pls help
>>17316948
That's fine dude, stop overthinking
>>17316952
This.
The more you focus on it the less natural it will be.
Just start with a "hey what's up?", some chit chat on how she's been doing and then if she's free this X day.
>>17316948
Be sure not to say Anon tho, she might think you're me
27 oldest of my brothers, currently living at home studying a masters of cyber security with a year to go. was recently unemployed but I have managed to land a part time web dev job for three days a week. Signed up as a contract so the company avoids paying anything like super or sick/holiday leave.
Never have a had a GF, got fucked over in looks compared to my brothers. Two brothers don't understand a lot of the happiness they have received in life isn't because of hard work but because the world didn't fuck them over genetically. Al women have rejected...
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Would fleeing to asia help?
>cyber security
>1 year left
Dude. Hang in there. Cyber security is a huge paying job.
>I hate western society
Then visit Europe, people will beat you or call names instead of ignoring you.
My girlfriend wants to castrate me. It's her deepest fantasy, and I sort of want to grant her it. I don't want children, so I'm fairly down with it, but what could go wrong? I'll still be able to orgasm right? And I guess there's a very low chance of me bleeding out, as the blood supply to the balls is pretty small.
Anyone got advice on how we'd do it?
this is the weirdest bait ever
the obvious answer is no dont dont do it because your girlfriend is likely not permanent
You don't make permanent bodily changes like that. Castrating yourself will reduce your musculature to nothing and you will likely regret it. Do not do this.
Im 23, how bad is it for me to date someone who is 17?
We've been seeing each other for about a week now. Shes super cute, and her personality is actually surprisingly decent.
She showed her high-school clingy side tho the other day when she kept texting me asking me if I was her boyfriend or not, after that I kind of felt like I had to break up with her.
I hung out with her yesterday and we talked but I couldnt bring myself to do it.
She made the point that the age difference practically makes no difference. While I made the point that I...
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Is it legal to date 17yo's where you live?
Half your age plus 7.
A 17-year-old is basically still mentally a child. This will be apparent the longer you get to know her. She also has no capability to be able to really commit to a relationship with you since she's still living with her parents and she's covering up your actual age with them. It isn't going to be a healthy relationship for either of you due to restrictions and the differences in maturity and sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.
>>17316369
If I were her parents I'd kick your ass. Leave the high schoolers alone. Who the fuck hangs out with school girls anyway?
Considering it, just for casual sex most likely, but the whole concept just seems awkward as fuck.
Every chick I ever met from Tinder just wanted my weed and for me to smoke them up, platonically. I deleted that app off my phone. You can do much better in real life than Tinder, because Tinder is skewed completely towards women. It's not "online dating" it's "waiting to be desired by a woman". Go talk to chicks at a bar.
Trips
And yeah it is awkward. I met 2 girls from Tinder.
Girl 1- she flaked... A few days before we met. She kept telling me how she wanted to suck me off. She said she didn't even care if I did anything for her, she just wanted to suck me for hours. Obviously, I said I like oral. So I'd go down on her. She said she was very excited. Well, the day came, when I was driving over, she asked if she could invite a friend to hang out with us. So when I got there, she had 2 friends with her. It was fucking awkward. So I showed up, and they said they were hungry....
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>>17316357
>Girl 2
what sounds like a keeper
only 50% slut, good enough innit?
Hey \adv\, I've got a small problem. I am a 20 years old male, who never in his life had a gf. Also I'm 6'3. I'm in college and do sports 4 times a week(of which 2 times are barbell training). I still am too autistic to get a gf. Recently I wrote this cute girl in facebook(I talked to her irl a few times) but she didnt respond. I just hate myself so much. Honestly, yeah I want to have sex, but my main reason is that I just want someone to cuddle with and talk to :(.
But aparently I am to worthless for that.
I'm not a virgin , but my first and only...
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>>17316223
you are a good looking guy. dont know why you cant get a gf as i dont personally know you but it must be something to do with your personality. you sounds desperate, maybe that has something to do with it?
>>17316234
Yeah I am desperated, though I try to hide it a bit.
My personality may be a problem, I´m pretty shy and don´t like being around a lot of people.
Maybe my desperation showed a little too much with this girl? idk
jus
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urselv
Post along with the brain that fucks with you and ask questions: Just remember not to substitute this for therapy and to let your Ilness make you into a victim.
Hey /adv/.
Do you have any tips for living with manic/depressive episodes?
Right now I employ:
>Exercise
>Drugs (Mirtazapine)
>Trying to keep social
I've also been wondering if I should quit weed and alcohol all together since I'm taking medication.
You should also post what your diagnosed with because mental illness ranges from schizophrenia to social anxiety.
I'm diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I use weed as an ssri re uptake inhibitor. Colanzapam for anxiety, citalapram for the depression, doctors think I might be by polar but are waiting to see.
I try and work a lot, two jobs doesn't leave much time to think. I also talk to people who emotionally invest in me because the likely hood of them giving a shit and understanding is higher.
Other than that just hobbies and pets help.
>>17316179 same. hve clinical depression with psychosis, GAD social phobias. might be bipolar doctors also waiting...feel shitty been crying through out the day for the past 3 days. what do? my friends don't want anything to do with me, parents and siblings in California for trip
so im alone in my abode. know drinking wont help. been cutting though
>>17315957
bump this
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>>17315748
Any girls in this thread willing to give me pity sex?
>>17315752
No.
>>17315752
I wouldn't want anything to do with any of the guys here, let alone give them pity sex.
We're here to listen.
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I just want to die. I just want to feel loved.
Someone please just end the suffering. I just want the pain to go away. I just want to die
>>17315425
Does this really belong on /adv/?
>on my chest
>>17315448
>I just want to die. I just want to feel loved.
Those are kind of contradictory, anon.
>>17315458
In my opinion, it does belong here since it's meant to help people by giving them someone to confide in, who can listen, sympathize, comment, and give advice if needed.
For most people, that someone is a close friend, a family member, a priest, etc.
For us, it's anonymous.
Is it a bad thing if I behave a certain way and do certain things because I want to look cool to other people?
Here's the thing.. I don't have any friends and I don't talk to anyone most of the time anyway, so I was thinking, isn't it just a total waste of time to try to look cool... when no one even notices me, cares about me, or remembers me as someone more than a random passerby? What is the point?
I imagine in my mind acting a certain way and other people thinking "wow, that guy is a badass", but this is just a daydream, it's...
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I think eventually you tend to stop caring about what other people think.
The only thing I can offer you is an anecdote. About a year ago over the course of a month I stopped giving a shit. Pretty sure it was the last stages of brain development or something as I had turned 25.
There's a very fine line between being yourself and acting for the sake of others.Everyone's the main character in their own story, so it's up to you to decide what kind of a life is really worth living, and what kind of purpose you're looking for be it a combination of goals you seek to achieve or such.
I used to be do this too, act for the sake of others. It takes less than a couple seconds for someone to form a impression of you and then forget it right after. Random strangers don't actually care about your every action as much as you think...
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>>17315318
Well, that's nice to hear. I hope I'll grow out of it eventually.
>>17315339
It's hard to decide what kind of life I want, honestly.. I'm torn. You are right when you say it's a fine line, I'm not sure if I try to act the way I do for me or for the sake of others. I think it's like this.. I myself like the image I've built, but the REASON I created it in the first place is because of insecurities and wanting to seem...
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Let's have a thread about unplanned pregnancy to maybe help other anons avoid it. Both guys and girls can answer.
If you've ever had one:
How old were you?
How did it happen?
What contraception method were you using?
Were you using it properly?
What went wrong?
What birth control method or tips would you recommend now?
Who was the mom/dad?
What was your relationship like?
How did they handle the pregnancy?
What is your relationship with them now?
Any advice about who you should have sex with and when you should...
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How old were you?
>18 going on 19
How did it happen?
>uh I kind of have a fetish for having a guy finish inside kek
What contraception method were you using?
>none, we used condoms at the beginning of our relationship but like 2 months in we stopped.
Were you using it properly?
>when we were using them, yes.
What went wrong?
>I'm retarded. I got extremely careless.
What birth control method...
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>>17310474
Thanks for the reply! Bump for more
