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Ok I went to EDC for three days. I have my own money, I live 5 minutes away from it so fuck off. I took E all 3 days and had a fucking dream like experience. I loved it. Best memory was me taking a piss in a port a potty with the fucking music blasting my piss every where. Anyways I see things vastly different. I've taken shrooms before and that waded off. What I see different specifically is how I see people. I feel like I'm aware of a lot more stuff. I can't describe it. I feel very aware. God fucking dammit, I can't make myself seem like the stereotypical...
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>>17320321
Most of the time i feel average, but i get this feeling too. Not from drugs though but when i feel like i am perfectly in balance with my life which makes me feel superior and i feel more aware of my sourroundings.
>>17320364
Yea, I started meditating after that regularly to.
>>17320321
When I took xtc for the first time it was a game changer for me too, I was 16 and had some social anxiety. At the time I thought it was impossible for me too change, but when I took x I became the most alpha social guy I wished I could be. It turned on a switch, somewhere in me is that guy, he is just hidden.
Looking back the social anxiety was probably amplified because of my previous weed use and the adhd meds.
Still, the new perspective helped a lot.
How do you cope with the thought that nothing has any value? Literally I've been thinking that there are 6 billion of us out here and we as mankind just look like a dot if you looked from far enough. It has gotten to a point that I feel like dying is a way out from this nonsense. Don't get me wrong, I would never take my own life but I was just wondering if anyone else out there has this way of pessimistic thinking and can lend a hand? Thanks in advance.
>babby's first existential crisis
>>17320322
This. Sorry bro, but you're gonna have to start reading Nietzsche in coffee shops now.
>>17320309
Wow, youre so deep, mature, and smart for having an existential crisis. I bet nobodies ever had one of those before dude, you should write a book about it really quick and make serious cash.
Anyways, its common. We just naturally become self aware, and it sucks. I think about it literally every night before I go to bed.
Ultimately you just have to decide what it is you want to do in life. Do you want to work hard and slave over stupid Government Jobs to become rich and well known? Or will you smoke...
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does your mom chase you with garbage that you threw out telling you to put it in the living room or asking you why you threw it out? i feel like ripping someones head off every time. or yelling if you want a certain food 40 times a day. like she literally wakes up in the middle of her nap and says DO YOU WANT CHICKEN. it isnt even good. and im a freshman in college.
>>17320267
she knows it makes me mad and only does it to me not my sister. its so fucking annoying. and when i say not good i mean mcdonalds serves better chicken than her.
>>17320267
i have never responded to her questions other than if i wanted it i would be eating it. and she still asks and then she starts making fun of me and my weight afterwards.
>>17320267
If you are old enough to go to the college, dont act immature. She is your mother ffs. If you are not comfortable with it and dont want to show some respect to your mother, go and rent your own place and make it better for everyone.
How do you get over a dislike of sex?
I want to be touched and be shown affection but for some reason women won't do and if you try it with men sex is inevitable.
>>17320244
What? I don't understand your 2nd part of your question
>>17320254
Kissing women doesn't feel nice. Kissing men leads to dick.
You can't be intimate with a man without sex. The two words are synonymous to them.
Underage :P
Hey, sorry to bother you guys but I just fucked up my relationship and need some advice to not completely break apart. We were together for years and she is my everything. I did something bad, doesn't really matter what, and she can't continue any more because I keep doing the same mistakes constantly. (not cheating, just something I need to remember but I keep forgetting and fucking up)
So now it looks and sounds like it's over even though I obviously keep hoping and imagining something else and just break down every time I think about how the situation...
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>>17320233
What do you keep doing OP?
>>17320233
If it's something really bad that you keep doing and she can't take it anymore well you gotta wait and see if she'll come back. Maybe you deserve this.
>How do you guys cope with breakups?
Use the pent up energy on something like working out.
>Why the FUCK do people wanna date and be in relationships if it hurts this bad if it doesn't work out?
Why do anything if it'll hurt in the end? Because it might...
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>>17320233
>I did something bad, doesn't really matter what,
>What do I do to manage this shit?
ugh conversation bait.....just spew what you are doing already before this thread gets fast tracked off the board.
Ive been out of Highschool for 2 years now, and Ive lost a LOT of friends. Aside from the normal split of people moving/college/whatever, Ive just decided to drop a lot of people who hit me up regularly or whatever.
The reason is just because in the end, a lot of people end up using me for free smoke ups, weed, etc. I hate it.
>hey anon can I come over?
Oh sure dude
>sweet! Got any bud?
Oh no I ran out yesterday.
At that that point, they usually either dont reply, or just make some lame...
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Ive always been more than generous to people I consider my 'Inner Circle' of friends, because they always will get me back on a free blunt, bong sesh, whatever. Not that money is an issue for me, but its still a nice gesture to not feel like my friends are leeches.
Problem being, my inner circle is like 3 people with ambitious Jobs, so we see eachother maybe 2-3 times a month, id just like to expand a bit and meet other people, but I always get stuck smoking people up, paying for booze, etc.
>>17320227
If you feed the animals they will come back.
Be more selective about who you do it with. Or realize you just wanna chill when you do it like most people.
>>17320227
Here's the thing with cool smokers. They don't tell anyone they smoke or try to hide it to the best of their ability. Those are truly the cool smokers. In other words you will have to pay attention to find a cool smoker.
Soo.. i partied with my class(celebrated our last year together(9th year)) i got very drunk and i couldnt remember the night in the morning... anyways.. heres the problem: while i was drunk, i asked everyone some rope.. and if they asked why.. i told them that i wanted to kill myself. I usually joke about these things and tell my best friends that they should kill themselves(dark humour)
Should i be worried that im gonna kill myself on the next party or something.. or contact somebody? I dont know what to do.
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>>17320182
I can smell this bait all the way from the toilet.
at least you didn't wake up to dead hookers.
pic totally related.
>>17320189
Not baiting.. the whole night i told everyone that i wanted to kill myself.. i have been in depression before.. and now that im not seeing my class anymore... makes me depressed aswell.. i just turned 16
I'm dating two girls at the moment, A & B. Both clearly know it's not exclusive (yet), but girl A has given me an ultimatum, so I have to choose my path today. I feel like I'm 50/50 on that decision, but I'm obviously too close to it. So I'm turning to you for a more objective opinion. Here are my choices:
Girl A: I've been seeing her since about 5 months. She's 18 (I'm 24) and lives with her father a bit far away so we only see each other maximum once per week on weekends. She vapes nicotin+cannabis and takes some hard drugs...
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Girl B: I've been seeing her since about 1 month. She's 21, lives with her parents but very autonomous. She has her own car and it's much easier to see each other. She's studying art restoration, which obviously won't have much prospects. She's a smoker, but makes an effort to avoid doing it when we're together. She's got glasses which is my main fetish, and overall much better clothing. She's got more prominent piercings which I don't like much though.
Sex is good too, she initiates a bit. She's doesn't always...
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Good luck getting someone to read this bullshit.
>>17320153
Go with B)
A) is gonna be nothing but problems in the future. While B) has a future, plans, a brain and still viable if you ever decided to breed. Plus from reading this i can tell you are leaning more towards B) anyways.
>haven't had sex in three weeks
>for some reason I don't care
>whenever I am around my girlfriend, sex drive seems to go away
You know how plenty of posters on here wish for a pill that would take away their libido so they don't care about getting sex? Well that's what it feels like. Just when I start thinking about how long it's been, and how horny I am, we hang out, and it goes away and I don't want sex anymore. What could be the issue?
>>17320123
Not enough exercise
Too much junk food
normal relationship lull
time to get kinkier
get testosterone levels checked
gay
bi-bordom
emotional issues
passion gone
If you give a fuck about her you should probably do something.
Well - I guess a good starting place to finding out the cause here would be to ask yourself why your sex drive drops the mic and fucks off when you're around her.
Do you experience this with just her, or all females in general? If it's the former, then you can try to zone in on why it's just her. My own shitty opinion on it is that there's something else in the relationship that is causing you to remove yourself from it on a physical level - and if you want to get anywhere here you need to do some reflecting on that.
>>17320134
Well the whole "not wanting sex" thing makes me question how much of a fuck I actually give.
>>17320139
It's just her. I haven't cheated but I still get horny when I'm alone. It could be other stuff, since we've been together for a while and she always tells me gross stuff about her body and she farts, etc. and idk I think I just miss the mystery.
I have been in a relationship with the same girl for nearly four years now. We love each other very much and we have a great sex life, as well as long term plans.
The thing is, we were very young and both virgins when we started dating. I really want to fuck this hot black girl who began flirting with me yesterday, but my gf is flatly against any extra-relationship shenanigans for very valid reasons. Even a threesome is out of the question.
I want to fuck this black girl but I love my gf and I don't want to hurt her/break up/cause any tension.
What do? (pic unrelated)
>>17320120
ur dumb.
dump gf and fug nig
or
stay with gf
not gonna tell you to cheat bro.
>>17320120
>I love my gf
>I just want to fuck another girl
>halp
M8, you are not ready yet for a long term relationship, this happened today if you ignore it, then it will come back later and even more pressing. You might be married and with a kid then, if you are seriously considering destroying your relationship just for the sake of sexual experimentation with others, then end your relationship, it doesn't look like you...
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You have to weigh up if your temporary instincts are worth sacrificing your long-term love.
I fantasise about previous girls, girls I'd like to get with, etc. but none of those with ever compete with the full package of my girl. It's natural, its instinctive, but cheating to act on it is not just or fair.
I wouldn't myself, but don't feel too guilty about it.
Hi everyone, could you please tell me something about the third eye and how this can be opened? In your opinion is it real? Thank you
>>17320114
Suffer a fuck ton.
>>17320114
Yeah, by obtaining knowledge through education.
Open a book, open your mind (third eye).
Spreading your asscheeks
Is it legal to take my roommate's cat to the vet and get it fixed without his consent? He's been taking real shitty care of his cat and I'm tired of waiting around. He's done absolutely nothing about the situation and I'm sick of dealing with his cat yelping every minute of the day because it's in heat.
If it's not legal, what can I do? I live in Canada btw.
>>17320109
Drop it off at an animal shelter. Then run around furiously looking for it to throw him off your trail.
Works like a charm.
>>17320109
Ask /an/ they will know
>>17320109
move out. sounds like a shit place to live.
>bla bla bla reasons i need to stay
Dude you wanna steal spay a cat. move out.
What's the worst thing you can do with someone's email?
my gf was almost raped by one of our mutual friends last year, I was able to get at the right moment and punched him several times knocking him out.
She didn't want to go to the police so we left it there.
he is now outside the country and I want to know how I can avenge my gf. she says to leave it alone but I just fucking can't.
the only thing I have is his email but otherwise, I don't know where he lives now and I want to humiliate him.
how can I deal with this?
>>17320106
>She didn't want to go to the police so we left it there.
You both are fucking retarded.
>>17320106
It sounds to me like you caught them both participating in a consensual act. You've got all the justice you're getting out of this one, short of her going to the police.
Believe when one says they are raped and goes to the police, never believe anyone who says they are raped but refuses to do anything about it. Kill the stigma by holding everyone accountable, both victim and perpetrator.
>>17320106
She just want you to treat her like a princess.
Bitches.
'm ready to kill myself. I've been stuck in a minwage job for 5 years now.
How does anyone fucking get out of these jobs? I can't fucking find anything that isn't minimum wage.
If I don't find anything by the time the year is up I will hang myself. I have no future, I can't possibly make any savings earning less than 1k a month, I will never be able to afford a house or a car, I can't meet women because I can't go anywhere and my life has no pleasure what so ever. I can't do anything but work and sit around in my house in my...
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>>17320103
Go get a degree. If you want out of that situation, man up and get out, not by shifting your pants while you dangle on a rope either.
Join the army
learn a skill, travel the world, kill a sand colored people from an exotic land
Profit
>>17320103
get a second job or get educated on the side.
So I've been on probation for 5 years and they left me alone; I had every perk/privilege you could get.
Well for a year I got a SUPER big cunt who make me look like a total pick. It got so bad, the powers at be switched me to a new probation officer.
Anyways, I had her for a month and then she violated me. I got a month in jail and then reinstated. Once I got out, I got all my perks/privileges taken away and she's totally by the book, Robocop. She won't help me out with vouchers to go to weekly therapy.
My question is do I just keep my mouth...
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>>17320088
Don't bare minimum anything, that's probably why she yanked your leash in some.
Do extra stuff and earn her trust. It's totally worth it. Feed her a line or two about school, ask her if you can go check out a college or whatever. Email her frequently and be cordial, asking her about various -whatever- programs.
Do this for a month or two then start asking for more freedom.
>>17320099
Thanks. mang.
It's just hard to have the world and then lose it all. Plus we got to a seriously, bad footing so I have to recover from that.
My trust her for really in the negative big time and it may take a year or two to get back to wear I was.
Well I have no one to blame but myself.
Time to rebuild Rome brick by brick and not let it get sacked in one day this time due to my my stupidity.
>>17320126
No problem. Mine was the same way, then I fed into her philosophy and it changed everything. I went from not smoking weed and pissing into a cup every week, to smoking weed and her lying about piss testing me.
Machiavelli that bitch!
