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hi /adv/, which IT related technology would be good to early adopt?
Is it true that blockchain is the new big shit?
git gud at VR tech
I guarantee that the next billionaire will be made from the first person to make a VR-based MMO, no matter how shitty.
>>17322353
>bitcoin
You missed the boat, like 5 years ago.
Study Computer Vision, most of the consumer shit right now is DOA, so you need to wait until someone capitalizes on the market.
Maybe bone conduction headphones.
Quickly, if my girlfriend hasn't had the urge to have sex with me in months is the relationship doomed?
She says it's not me, we've been living together for 2 years, we're 20 years old.
>we've been living together for 2 years, we're 20 years old.
Oh, christ. I'd love to hear more about your series of bad life decisions.
The answer is yes, that's a bad sign.
There's a variety of reasons what could be causing this from hormones to work/study stress. Or she's growing tired of you. It could be anything. We can't really help, you have to sit down with her and have a proper conversation about it. See if there's something bothering her, talk about how your relationship is faring and if there's nothing "wrong" really, then make plans how you could improve your sex life. Maybe a romantic date and sex after that? Have you been paying enough attention to each other? For many women sex alone isn't often...
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>>17322341
I'd have to send you a 300 page hard cover copy of the book "Where i went wrong" by Matthew
A bad sign, no chance of recovering from this?
how big of a deal (in terms of attractiveness) is it to be chubby as a guy? is it a total turn off? does it lower the first impression you get by a lot?
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>>17322333
I'm a fat girl and frankly I would never date or sleep with a 'chubby' guy. Guys should be into sports and keeping fit. My best friend who is 9/10 slim blonde and very smart thinks the same, fat guys are good as friends not a potential love interests unless you come across a fat positive tumblrite or fetishist
>>17322367
Enjoy not enjoying these men because you enjoy donuts more
How do I avoid getting fake rape or domestic violence accusations from women? Do I have to do whatever they want?
Don't stick your dick in crazy.
Only associate with normies.
Cut out anyone who thinks like this in your life; or at least only keep them as an acquaintance for as long as you can handle it
If it makes you feel any better, the vast majority of women who are ACTUALLY raped never report it. And of the ones that do, few will go to trial. And even fewer will land a conviction.
The ones you need to watch out for are the ones who air all their bad laundry to everyone they know. You should be able to figure out right away if she's the kind of girl who likes to talk shit about everyone who has wronged her.
That's why it's good advice to not only find a girl who makes a good girlfriend, but someone who won't make a fuckhorrible ex-girlfriend.
I am from Sinagpore and I will soon move to Canada to study abroad. I am worried about not fitting in and ending up as one of those people who feel really homesick. I guess this should be an eye-opening experience for me, but I don't know if I will end up like those Chinese immigrants who only mingle with other Asian people and do not really have local friends.
How to fit in? Will partying and drinking help me fit into Western culture? I don't want to be one of those Chinese people who does not fit in into the local culture.
I'm assuming this move is for university? Pick up social hobbies, join clubs or societies where you get to meet locals. Drinking and partying might help, but they're not the best way to meet people. Make friends sober through hobbies or study groups or something and then go drinking with those friends you make as a bondign activity. There are usually introduction events/activities for international students in the beginning, so attend those. Talk to people, whether they are Canadian or other international students and try to get to know them. Maybe you'll click...
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>>17322343
I see. Where are you from? Are Chinese people in your area cliquey?
>Chinese girl
Join some anime club and I guarantee you'll be hot shit. Don't be surprised when your first boyfriend wants you to wear a schoolgirl uniform and call him "onii-chan"
Sup /adv/,
I'm losing my virginity next week to my girlfriend of 5 months, I WAS looking forward to it, but an issue has come up with condoms.
I got a bunch of different ones to 'try' before the act just to ensure it all went smoothly, but they all felt really uncomfortable and killed my boner pretty quickly. They were all a struggle to get on (difficult to fit around the head) and they felt too small, even though my penis is average (7 inches long, average girthwise). This has now caused a lot of worry for me as the condom + inevitable nerves/excitement is bound to kill my boner.
Additionally, when I tried to jerk it with one it was not good, couldn't feel much and the orgasm was terrible, rather painful process - it took a fair while, too.
I'm not a huge porn user, but I do masturbate 3 times a week or so; I don't know if this is related.
Any ideas on how to make condoms more comfortable? I understand they suck, but these seem terrible, really terrible. I can't really afford buying many more brands. Half-tempted to just do oral until I find a suitable brand.
>>17322313
If you have a steady gf and a monogamous relationship, you two could just discuss if she could start the on the pill or some other hormonal contraceptive. They have around 99% reliability and you wouldn't need to use condoms.
>>17322313
>they felt too small, even though my penis is average (7 inches long, average girthwise)
Well memed, my friend.
>>17322318
I've read some dodgy shit about women going nuts on BC due to hormonal stuff, so I'd like to avoid it. I will discuss it, though.
Alright /adv/, this is on my inner thigh. I think it's some kind of infected abrasion or a bite or sting of some kind. I just got off a prescription for an infected cut on my leg and I was wondering if there was any over-the-counter way of treating this
>>17322285
Looks like a spider has imbedded itself into your leg. I would amputate.
Maybe it's an infected abrasion
Maybe an ingrown hair follicle
Maybe ringworm
Maybe you should ask a doctor.
Could be ringworm.
How does it smell?
Is it acceptable to ask a women how many sexual partners they have had before me?
In my case there is FAR more to it than that and if anyone can give me a quality response ill elaborate but In general, is it o to ask? and if they don't tell me then is it ok to push for an answer?
>>17322273
Ok to ask yes, to push if they don't want to tell you no.
Why do you need to know? Are you an insecure virgin?
>>17322274
Ok so she asked me if I had any STDs to which I replied "Haha how could I" Stupidly (virgin) and she asked me like 100 times are you a virgin.
When I asked "what do you have a STD?" her reply was "maybe, I duno" And she herself said she was a slut.
>>17322283
Yes virgin but she literally gave me a condom and asked me to fuck 3 times, am I not aloud to have standards?
My girlfriend gets completely livid whenever a man approaches her in a bar or compliments her on the street. She flat out tells them to fuck off.
I really don't understand this. If a girl would approach me a bar, even an ugly one, I wouldn't care. If any girl would tell me I'm hot on the street I'd be flattered.
To make it even weirder, I got to meet my gf by approaching her at a bar and she loved it.
Can anyone rationalize this?
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>>17322245
OP she's taken so she doesn't want any guy to think they have a shot. She knows what their intent is and that if she participates she is being untrue to you
>>17322245
it's not weird. I learned it is best to shut a guy down immediately. I've seen every suave and bumbling approach dozens of times and sick of it. Just because I have tits and a nice ass doesn't mean you are granted a shot
>>17322245
>If a girl would approach me a bar
This is the problem. It doesn't happen to you, so you can't relate. A reasonably attractive girl gets approached/complemented/even harrassed by guys regularly. If it happened once or twice, it would be flattering, sure, but to attractive women it's a daily thing that only gets irritating and eventually they just want to be left in peace. Probably even more so with your gf, since she's taken. Compare it to telemarketing:...
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Where are the bad people?
I want to kill them
It's ambiguous.
Arabs, for example, are sub-human animals that cannot be reasoned with and must therefore be bombed with drones-- unless they are immigrants, in which case they transform to hard-working pious individuals who are an asset to any community.
tl;dr: I don't know.
inside every bad person is an anxious autist wanting sum fugg
well quints, kill of everything that isnt aspergery and smart and get robots to do most of the work and the world would be a better place for sure.
What is this trend with women to stop dating and go on a "journey of self discovery" and wtf does this even mean?
>>17322187
>>17322187
Kek.
It means they want to be whores and get their pussy rekt by Chads & nignogs. Of course they will never tell you in this manner, instead you get that vague discovery or journey when in reality it's all bullshit so they can gobble on many cocks without feeling guilty of actually being sluts.
Stay away from those types.
>>17322187
It's usually either this >>17322209 or they keep getting rejected and use "i don't need no man" as an excuse.
She realized she can use her body to travel for free anywhere in the world, and she wants to use it before she loses it.
You'll meet back up with her in her late 30's when she's been stretched by 3 nigger children for your beta ass to take care of since you have a decent job now and can afford her.
How do you grow out of constantly wanting attention?
pls respond
>>17322169
psych
>>17322236
I can't do that.
Okay, tomorrow I will get my test results that will decide if I can go to college or not. Its like half past 2 pm and I already shat six times. My stomach hurts as fuck and the fact that I know i fucked them up badly and there isnt really chance for positive outcome doesnt help me at all. Any tips for stress?
Eat/drink something that soothes your tummy, do something to distract yourself like movies or gaming, possibly meditate
>>17322148
Just accept that you failed, especially since you already know you have fucked up. Getting your hopes high (and getting stressed) is stupid. So think about your future coming from premises that you didn't make it and get on with your life
>>17322174
My hopes are and always were at rock bottom, my philosophy was that I always expected the worst so when it was actually good I felt glad. But somehow I cant handle this time. Guess I can always become male crack whore
>>17322153
Ate only one toast at the morning, cant force anything in today. 4 times I was shitting with just stomach acid or other sorts of liquids. Tried to watch tv and read a book but I my adrenaline level is off the charts and my pulse is like...
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Everything I watch and enjoy just ends up being ruined for me by needless and plentiful sex scenes and time wasted on romantic shit. How do I cope with this and enjoy the parts of things I do enjoy
>>17322126
Stop watching TV.
I haven't watched a tv series since SciFi's Battlestar Galactica. And even that had plenty of sex stuff.
Now I just watch movies (not so much lately with all the remake/sequel/prequel/reboot bullshit), anime, YouTube oc, etc.
>>17322144
I don't watch tv it's mainly movies. I love movies and don't want to give them up but it's in almost every everything I want some way to cope and sTill enjoy my movies
>>17322144
>Stop watching TV.
>Now I just watch movies anime, YouTube
I am self studying English at the moment and started wondering, that is it better to translate texts from workbook by writing it on paper or just saying it out loud? If you have studied some other language I'd appreciate your opinion too.
>>17322124
Why not do both?
>>17322211
I feel like it takes way too much time if I translate on paper. But I'll try both ways to see which one suits me better.
>>17322124
Is there a way to earn dosh while making yourself a name as a translator?
