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>I'm about to have sex for the first time. What do I do?
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>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
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>>17320170
This thread is gay and so are you
If a girl starts making her messages shorter, does that mean she's losing interest?
>>17320194
no, that means she is making her messages shorter.
>be me
>female
>18 years old
>enlist in army
>watch the invisible war
>doc about rape in the army
Guys.
Im a piece of shit. Watching this movie just makes me sexually excited. Whats wrong with me?
>>17317882
Bump cause im a pos.
Rape fantasies are incredibly common, but people don't really discuss them due to the societal taboo.
>>17317882
you're definitely not a piece of shit just because you get turned on by a scenario, even pedophiles aren't pieces of shit until they act on their fantasy.
20 years old here
I genuinely can't think of anything to look forward to justify continuing living. I know numerous people would miss me because according to all of them I'm a very likable person but honestly I wish I didn't care so I could just kill myself. I dunno, I just feel like I've gotten all a person like me can get out of life and don't see much reason to continue
>>17323769
Learn some fucking magic tricks and entertain some sick kids.
Go sky diving, donate your body to science i dont fucking know
Stop taking yourself so seriously and being a drama queen you're talking like its a movie and this is your dramatic monologue
>>17323769
Get out more. Life for living and if you aren't going to live it your body and brain start shutting down.
>but i do _____ all the time.
Find new shit to do even if it seems dumb.
Remember that you can always call the Samaritans if you need a stranger to vent/talk to.
so even though im gay and find women irl pretty gross, i still whack it to (pretty unrealistic) hetero hentai most of the time
is this somehow unhealthy do you think? i have had "performance issues" during sex in the past, do you think that might be related?
>>17323731
I'm straight and like yuri/yaoi hentai, nothing wrong with it.
>>17323731
completely normal.
>>17323731
nope. sexuality is complex.
I'm definitely gay but there will be months at a time where i only watch hetero porn and often times hetero hentai. why? for me its mostly about getting off on the straight guy. there's a certain energy these men have that gay men (or gay for pay men) often dont. especially when its more than one man with one girl.
theres a homo erotic edge, that sense of htem being uncomfortable, trying not to get too close but still getting too close. even in hentai you can see the reverse of this, which is men who are all too comfortable with each other, bringing a different kidn of kink.
tbqh i even fapped to a video of two lesbians making out htis year just cuz they were legit hot.
Hey guys,
I'm feel really horny today, and i was wondering, is it worth getting a hooker? Yes i have sex before, just in general, do you get ripped off a lot? is the chance on STD's high? just geral advice please
EU btw
>>17323719
If you pay a little the risk is a lot. If you pay for an hour you get an hour, be very specific with what you want to do and how long you want to do it.
>>17323719
not worth it.
just fap.
>>17323734
The fap clears the mind. Thank you
My Professor saved my college career.
She nurtured me into becoming a harder worker and gave me great advice. Im here however because this question is too akward and stupid to ask her myself.
I know that reading is a great way to learn. You soak up the thoughts of great people and it will probably launch you forward in life. My problem is that i think its boring as fuck. Im a more hands on physical active kind of guy and my mind just could not care less where these words lead. I do love math and problem solving. Hope this info helps. Can anyone romanticize reading...
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I understand.
I can only read fantasy, comics or psychology. everything else makes my mind wander while i read.
Butterfly in the sky, I can go twice as high.
Take a look, it's in a book, a Reading Rainbow!
I can go anywhere.
Friends to know,
and ways to grow.
A Reading Rainbow!
I can be anything.
Take a look,
it's in a book.
A Reading Rainbow.
A Reading Rainbow.
A Reading Rainbow!
This is the final frontier for my self development campaign. Please, if you can, make me love reading
>>17323716
I dont have problem reading when im looking for something in particular.
Id like to be able to appreciate what ever comes my way. I mostly want to read science and math stuff since i like those fields but its mainly educational, academic, and scholarly things i want to enjoy reading.
/adv/, it's night where i live, i am tired, but i have to tidy room and pack my belongings. Of course I want to play video games instead for 4 hours like good old times.
Should I
>sleep and do things in the morning
>play video games
>do everything i have to do and sleep
In the morning resting wouldn't be as cool, because it's very likely i won't be alone.
How many hours of sleep should i get?
>>17323677
>How many hours of sleep should i get?
8-10 for best result
6-8 for passable
but it varies person to person and age to age.
>>17323677
Do things now, it's unlikely you'll want to do them in the morning, you should get 7 hours, any more or less is unhealthy.
>>17323688
I really fucking want to healthily play without any more tasks hanging.
It makes me angry that i haven't had a rest like this for a while now.
Yeah, i'll try to do as much as i can now. I was very close to pass out to sleep 3 minutes ago and made this thread, thank you.
>>17323684
Thanks
I hate my voice. No one can understand me and it doesn't fit in with where I'm from. I don't have a speech impediment since I can do accents quite well.
Is there a realistic way to change your voice without people noticing?
Take singing classes.
>>17323664
That's actually a really good suggestion.e I never thought of that. Thank you!
>>17323655
Smoke cigarettes if you want a sexy scratchy voice
Yep
Any 30+ anon's here? I'm curious, what are some things you regret doing/failing to do in your 20's?
>>17323601
31 married with kids here. \
I regret very little actually. After being around for so long i realize that all the shit i dealt with led me to the happy place i am at now. Maybe traveled some more.
Not abstaining from alcohol sooner.
>>17323614
big one for me,
Why even?
An hero
>>17323578
Not even.
>>17323578
network is undefeatable, sort of inane at this stage
I think I've completly fucked everything up with probably one of the most amazing girls I could have ever met, now this sounds like the same old story and blah blah blah and theres plenty more fish in the sea,
But this girl to me is perfect, she's beautiful, funny, works hard to make her own money, gave me a lot of attention and was just all round a really nice person to be around
The night started perfect but as it went on and on and we went to a house party with a bunch of her male friends, there was two who were just utter cunts to me because she brought...
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Nothing.
Everytime you fuck up there is not a instant remedy of what to do. Each person has low moments, this is one of yours.
She may think of you different now. Don't try activelly to change that because none of us know how and you will end up fucking up again.
Just keep going and keep trying.
>>17323547
so you displayed these qualities to her:
>he is aggressive and potentially violent towards my friends
>he is either insecure about being teased by my male friends or he lacks a sense of humor
>he acts without thinking, says things without thinking, he's impulsive in a bad way
>he is a cuck/pussy for writing a massive text apology to me
>>17323568
Yeah pretty much, but we've been on dates before and have talked for quite a while so really she should know that I'm not really like that but thats the hard part cause she'll only see this side of me
She did admit that one of her friends was being a cunt that night too but i guess really that doesn't excuse how i acted
>>17323556
good words, thank you
>got loads of girls who were in love with me in high school
>now in uni
>feel like I'm better looking, more confident than ever
>girls don't notice me
Where did it all go so wrong?
Chicks used to be into me when I was a little pussy faggot, now I'm a big guy >4u and I never even talk to girls anymore. You'd think it would be the other way around.
>>17323531
>mfw he fell for the lift for girls meme
also, maybe you were relatively attractive at your dinky highschool. college is a whole new ball game. lots more choice and the sluts know they have the power.
>>17323531
theyre probably scared?
>>17323539
>>17323541
I don't even lift that much, I just said "big guy" because I finally got tall and a more masculine face (used to be the smallest kid in class).
My biggest fear (death) comes from the fact that I've found my life's purpose at a young age and I consider it extremely important. It will take a while to accomplish and death doesn't have to take a while...
Go ahead and tell us, I know that's why you made this thread.
>>17323497
I don't want to tell you.. because ill probably get disputed.. I made the thread to literally ask the question
Same here, what helped me a lot was the book An Astronaut's Guide to Life on Earth, you can download it at gen.lib.rus.ec, he talks about dealing with the fact that you might die while doing something important
Plus trust people, it may be super important, but if you would die sooer than expected, they will figure it out in the next 30 years
>Be 26
>Enjoy anime, manga and vidya and 4chan
>Getting too old for this shit
What do normalfags my age even do for entertainment? What do they watch, what websites do they visit, what do they do for entertainment when there's nothing to watch? Other than binging Netflix, I have no idea what my peers do for fun.
>>17323447
Same age, lawerfag
>work
>happy hours on friday
>If your single, stay out till 1
>If your not, stay out till 11
>Netflix all day saturday
>If its not sports I'm staying in
>Brunch if your a single girl on sunday
I wish I had time for video games, adults dont do anything.
You learn to enjoy HBO and Netflix. Funny thing is, it's basically the same except it's gritty and has sex scenes so that makes it "adult".
>volunteer
>get a hobby
>cheap hobbies: gardening, programming, running
>read a book, nigga
>go full normie and party
do whatever the fuck you want, man
What does it indicate if I get pain in my right side, just about where the ribcage starts, when I get stressed?
It's been dismissed by doctors as 'probably muscular' for some time.
probably erector spinae muscle problem,
what work do you do? is it maybe a chair, or your bed?
It's probably muscular
>>17323437
No work at the moment. Too ill for it. Just curious really.
