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The first text is what she asks, the second is her reaction , and the third is what she says when I ask for a pic of her. I mean what the hell. Earlier she said " oh I'm nervous and quiet" but she asks me how big I am and to ask various questions about my dick... She did say she is quiet and shy maybe that's the problem ? She also say she would send me some another time now. I know it's an actual person I have seen her. Advice?
You got played like a bitch. Sorry buddy.
We need more context.
A good proportion of women only see how much they can get from others while systemically not giving back much. Its life senpai, next time just try and turn the tables around. Ask questions about herself, then try to come to a stalemate where you both "want" something from each other. Might sound ridiculous but put a little thought into it.
How do I stop hating work?
Background story
>Be on autismbux for 5 years because autist and depression blabla
>Suddenly i am forced to work again
>This might actually be good for me, give me purpose, self esteem and happiness
>Feel way more shit than I did everyday doing nothing, talking to no-one and playing videogames
I thought having a job would give me purpose and self esteem and would make me happier but i'm more depressed...
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Work sucks unless you're working in your dream field, and when you work in your dream field, it doesn't feel like work, just waking up to make money.
Tell us what you do so we can help you deal. I'm 22, have had a job almost without break since i was 17, and I hate more days at work than I like. Until I get into my dream field, little will change.
>>17319791
You don't, from what I can tell. I even got jobs in fields I loved doing things I actively wanted to do, and the very fact that it became an obligation I performed on someone else's terms was enough to ruin my ability to enjoy those things and turned it to shit.
>>17319800
i drive trucks, not long distance, short distances
the hours fucking suck (early start sometimes late start) I dont even make that many hours a week but it just feels like my life is over
also the pay is fucking worthless but its the only thing i'm "educated/skilled" for and i need to work alone so driving is kinda my thing
once im actually working and the day is good its not that bad but its the dread look that fucks my life
still 1 more free day and all i can think about...
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To /adv/,
My entire life after high school, I have been going through a vicious cycle of apathy and self loathing. I'm seriously becoming slowly fucked in the head.
It's become so bad that I will stop whatever i'm doing and just go to sleep in the middle of the day because I don't want to be awake or thinking.
I hardly enjoy anything anymore. Communication has become extremely taxing and i'm constantly bitter. I experience zero motivation.
I have read, watched and gone through countless self help videos and literature. I execute things,...
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We're similar in a few ways. Let me ask you something:
Can you see yourself ever being a happy, functional member of society? I'm not saying you're not functional. I'm asking if you could be happy as such.
>>17319866
I guess it's not that simple. It's almost as if I have to be someone looked up to and highly experienced or no one at all.
Even if I was doing what I think I really want to do without becoming bored or experiencing apathy, I would still be an outlier.
>>17319887
You have some inner thoughts you need to address. Why is being someone looked up to so imporant to you? It's not always a bad thing.
Hi /adv/,
I just had a shitty game, decided to uninstall it.
What do I do now? How do I make sure I don't start playing it again?
If you want to play, you'll just end up installing again. It doesn't matter how you try to "stop" yourself.
>>17319780
Get a social life or spend more time on it. Get other hobbies. Play other games. Any combination of these.
Remember the point of games is fun. If you're not specifically doing it to have fun and succeeding in having fun, seek alternate games.
If you find yourself tempted to return, remember how mad it made you before and how not much fun the other games were.
>>17319780
Crawl out of your mom's basement and watch the sunrise? Go to the beach and get sunburnt?
Create porn??
Idk. I'd suggest using your brain, though. It's not hard to change your habits. Find something you enjoy outside of your current situation, take a chance on stuff and just do something.
>3rd year at workplace
>semi attractive 8/10 girl, older, 37
>be me 23 non beta non virgin above normal normie
>socialize with this 37 year old cougar
>she only talks to married men
>always leads conversations towards sex
>never lets you look at her in the eyes, just at her body
>let everyone know she has a boyfriend, but still...
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I don't even see a question here.
But, why the fuck do you care you mong? Stop being a retard and live life.
that's some horrible greentext, you pretty much wrote the paragraph and just separated the sentences
>>17319773
>b 23/m beta
>pretend 23/m alpha
>ask beta questions
kek
Lack of affection and sex is making me insecure about my relationship. I've been with her for 2 years. She got an insertion birth control in her arm around a year ago and our relationship completely changed after that. as in less sex, and less affection.
As a result, I have become way more insecure than before and have been trying to fill that void somehow.
I started working out and I look a ton better body and face-wise. I should be feeling less insecure right? wrong. I'm still insecure about this relationship.
As much as she loves me and shows...
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Get your boys snipped and she'll go off the birth control.
If she doesn't change drastically, then break up and move on.
>>17319734
>I wouldn't be surprised if people think we're just friends sometimes
that is exactly why she does this in public and keeps her options open for male attention
>>17319738
She says she wants to take it off too but she always puts it off so I gave up trying because we end up fighting whenever we talk about it.
Can I undo that process? What If I end up wanting to have kids when I'm older?
Alright /adv/, hear me out and try to hold judgement to the end.
So I'm 22, and I still live with my family. I was probably like a lot of people on here in the sense that after high school I went to community college, flunked out because I didn't give a shit, and just worked a shitty part time job. I'm also like a lot of people in the sense that I smoke weed.
It probably sounds like I'm just an amotivational stoner, but it's not true. In reality, I was horribly depressed and really self-destructive. I simply wasn't the same person...
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>Won't anyone else believe that I'm going to flunk out in a year and move back in with $12K of debt?
Nope.
>>17319719
>going off to college and keeping contact to an absolute minimum?
This.
You sound like you've learned from your past experience, and honestly dude, that is all we can do as people. I am working on a JD now and I smoke whenever I feel like smoking, and yo, it helps me stay focused.
Go pursue your own happiness and don't worry about what conforming to someone else's worldview on how you should be going about YOUR life.
Bravo, you're back in school...
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>>17319732
I don't believe that I'm going to flunk out in a year and move back in with $12k of debt, either. I'm not sure what this post meant.
I am a 26 year old, married, white/hispanic male, I used to watch a lot of ordinary white men/white women porn when I was in my teens. But the past 6 months I constantly watch only black men/BBW white women porn. And it’s the only time when I look at the guys big dick and feel jealous of his sexual prowess, and how the white women enjoys it. I don't even have sex with my wife regularly anymore because of this shit. I feel extremely embarrassed of this fantasy and emasculated and hide it from everyone. Its the only time when fascinated with the big black penis, but don’t...
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>>17319703
You sound bi-curious. It's natural. Go find a BBC to worship.
>>17319703
I wouldn't worry unless your wife has fucked black guys before or you know she lust for their big dick.
I realized I was in trouble when my wife and I went to join a gym. We had never discussed black guys fucking white women but when it came to choosing personal trainers (there were male & female and all were in shape) she picked the only black guy. Down hill from there. She started spending all her time at the gym with this guy until he was fired. I find out for fucking the female patrons.
OP, there is no reason to feel ashamed. What you are going through is absolutely natural for your demographic.
The next step is to hire a professional who earns his money by being black and fucking the white girlfriends/wives of white ... men infront of them.
By turning your fantasies into the real thing you will feel less of an urge to regularly satisfy yourself with porn on the internet. Think of it this way, you are a seething kettle right now and you need to let of the steam.
I hope this helped :)
How is processed sugar still not outlawed? It's basically toxic
>>17319689
Shut the fuck up. Everything is toxic, including the device you're using.
Don't worry about sugar if you're okay with holding oil based products in your hands for long periods of time. Fucking out with you, dumbass.
>>17319707
>OP now has to wipe the Doritos dust off his fingers to respond to you.
>>17319745
I want to know if other people find this guy attractive or its just me
>inb4 bait
>>17319686
No, you're pretty ugly, pajeet.
>>17319693
You're an asshole, dude.
>>17319701
Its a problem, I tell myself I'll stop and 2 weeks later Ill see myself looking, its just that girls online are so difficult to talk to and paying for a whore is just easier, but I alas feel like shit afterwards and really need to stop, especially before something bad could happen.
Im always safe, I never kiss them or their genitals and use condoms for whatever.
But yea, how do I stop?
Jerking off somehow only makes me want it more sadly.
>>17319673
There is nothing wrong with having sex with whores.
god damn, looking at that pic is getting me going, mmh god damn.
I'd say you need to start socializing with people and meet girls that way. Having sex with hookers is hard to get out of. I know, because I did it.
>>17319684
Yes, ugh I uninstalled the app I was using to have an alternate number, worst is I just did one a few hours ago so this is that post feeling, but I need to keep this. I need to focus on other things.
I'd like to learn how hacking/cracking is done.
The few hackers I've spoken to basically say if I need to ask then I shouldn't bother talking to them.
Where does education begin? How does one learn hacking at noob level?
You have to be interested in systems and you have be to curious about how they work.
Then you can start to exploit them. Hacking isn't just IP network stuff, there's lots of hardware hacks you can do
Go to the gym.
>>17319654
I would but I got so discouraged. Every tine I saw your mom come in I swear she was fatter.
How do I get my gf to want to have a threesome with her sister?
watch anime
>>17319640
You dont.
You shame her into it
Make her feel terrible and blame her for making you feel like shit and not helping you achieve your goals in life
Abuse here mentally for as long as needed, with increasing cruelty
She'll break eventually, and when she does she'll enjoy it because you'll tell her it was all okay and felt good.
I need some advice on how to structure my cover letter so far it looks like this:
>Introduction:
I state the position I am applying for. Where I saw the ad and then I list what I feel my strongest abilities are. So far I have
>Hard worker
>well mannered
>Strong attention for detail
>Strong ability to liaise and build working relationships
Then I state my past experience and the responsibilities I had...
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Anyone? just want to know if it's good or not
>>17319630
Usually customer service jobs are pretty chill and they wont expect to have a genious asking them for the job. Your letter sounds pretty cool, just make sure it doesnt have a typo and all the grammar is correct (they will check on that, after all your only contact with customers will be written)
>>17319630
sounds about right, OP. You should put your contact details at the beginning and the end of your cover letter. make sure its in a large font too, for these positions, recruiters often just skim through applications to make sure the applicant isn't a total idiot.
what >>17319949 is pretty much true
so after trying to get back with my ex for weeks now and everytime i ask about if we should get back together she's pretty blunt and just says "idk" or "im not sure" 10 mins ago or something i just poured my whole heart out to her and told her exactly how i felt about her it took me like 10 mins to write that shit and she replies with "I don't really know what to say to that" what do? i really like her but it feels like she's not interested in me anymore but she told me she wanted to sort something out between us a week ago
Have some dignity man for fucks sake, even if by some miracle she accepts she will see you as a weaking that came beggingto get back together, a man that begs is worthless in the eyes of women.
It's the hard truth but I'm a stranger on the internet and I wont lie to you, I'll tell it like it is.
Forget about her, stop messaging, stop texting stop calling. Regain your dignity and start again with someone else when you feel like it.
>>17319605
Never pour your "whole heart" out when a relationship is on the brink. It just pushes people away, and generally makes you look needy.
Your best bet is to stop texting, give her time to process it all, and generally start trying to move on without her.
>>17319616
>Have some dignity man for fucks sake
What in hell has happened to you guys. Anon is right, if she wanted you, you won't need to beg and begging is not fucking attractive. These girls are not your mother and don't have to like you back simply because you want them to and believe you have a good argument.
