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If you're a girl in your early twenties can you date if you're chubby?
>5'6 160lbs
>>16713409
Yes but don't expect handsome rich men
There are 17 year old 90LB girls, so a 22 year old 160 lb girl is gonna have to lower her standards
>>16713417
I don't have any standards :D
Actually I do, I don't want them to be diseased or sociopaths but that's it
>>16713409
Don't worry honey, as long as you have boobs and a vagina, there'll be always guys that wanna stick their dicks into you.
She broke my heart and is now talking to me about the man she loves. How she will do all the things for him, I said I would do for her. She doesn't even realise it.
It hurts, yet there she is. Not realising it. Do I just distance myself and throw a rage fit at her. How dare she?
I hate myself and her so much right now
>>16713176
>how dare she
by your current account she hasnt done a single thing wrong. i mean you say 'broke my heart' but if ur chatting casually about who shes dating it sounds more like
>i somehow 'fell in love' with a girl i never dated
>her rejecting me is a huge offense
>she is horrible for not loving me
but ur there in her life listening to her. its your own fault nigga. unless its your own fucking sister you can just remove yourself from her life, and if it is your sister, you have bigger issues to worry about.
get out, go alone, move on.
She has some nerve. Talking to me about it, when she knows what she meant to me. I love her, but damn it hurts.
>>16713190
Nobody's forcing you to listen. You could just walk away, or hang up, or log off, instead of standing there like a little bitch, pretending it's fine, and bottling everything up until you're full of rage. You assume she should read your mind and know when you're upset, while she assumes that you have the basic ability to make it known that you're upset. Since you lack the courage to do so, she keeps talking, and you keep listening.
guys i cant get a girlfriend, im not a shy guy i can talk with girls, i dont play games and dont sit allday in home usualy we hangout with my friends, i live in turkey and i know spanish verygood, i think i got an avarage look maybe i little ugly i look like 16 im a short guy but i dont think thats the problem,i dont want a gorgeus girl i just want an avarage girl(real avarage),any suggestions?
>>16713175
the idea of 'average' is pretty distorted. its hard for us to comment on dating culture of a place like turkey since most of us are more western (white).
but girls (in our countries) do not want a guy who 'wants a girlfriend'.
think about how dumb that is. remember when you were a teen and you (or someone you knew cough cough) was going around to chat rooms and websites asking every girl your age to 'be my gf' before actually getting to know them?
remember all the people who were 'online dating' random ass fuckers online? this is what you are now, as an adult. you are someone who simply wants a GF, any GF will do.
why would a girl want to be that? why would a girl want to be an appliance? why would a MAN want to be an appliance?
people want to be wanted. but to just be like 'HURR DURR I JUST WANT A GF DOESNT MATTER IF SHES NOT EVEN GORGEOUS'.
i mean sure you arent telling the girls that, but they can smell it. no girl wants to be the 'im not gorgeous to you but im 'okay enough' to date' girl.
>>16713199
so you suggest me; dont find a girlfriend just wait...? (sorry if i understand you wrong, my english is not to good :/)
>>16713175
Have you tried talking to a girl then asking if she'd like to go on a date with you?
You haven't really provided any context as to why there's a problem with you getting a girlfriend.
I'm currently "dating" a girl from there but she has had fifteen previous sexual partners and I only had one before her. I don't think she is capable of loving me back, when you ride too many cocks you treat men as disposable. Do you think I should just use her for sex and then find a better girl later?
Using someone like that is pretty shitty and selfish.
Dump her and find someone you wont want to hurt like that or just roll with it and see what happens. Resist your asshole urges.
Do that but don't lead her on.
Maybe you'll fall for her and she'll do exactly what you wanted to do on her to you.
>>16713174
i dont think ur capable of loving her.
Why, Anon? Why, why? Why do you do it? Why, why get up? Why keep fighting? Do you believe you're fighting... for something? For more than your survival? Can you tell me what it is? Do you even know? Is it freedom? Or truth? Perhaps peace? Could it be for love? Illusions, Anon. Vagaries of perception. Temporary constructs of a feeble human intellect trying desperately to justify an existence that is without meaning or purpose. And all of them as artificial as 4Chan itself, although... only a human mind could invent something as insipid as love. You must be able to see it,Anon. You must know it by now. You can't win. It's pointless to keep fighting. Why, Anon? Why? Why do you persist?
You sound like a fag.
>>16713088
I enjoy my daily life, I enjoy pursuing love.
Without bad there is no good, I enjoy the means of contrast and the delicate balance of nature
embrace a positive attitude and you will enjoy life too
>>16713088
what? dude how edgy are you that you can have a life so comfortable with ample time to shitpost about how how 'pointless' life is on a mongolian circumcision pictograph forum and yet somehow believe your shitposting to be valid?
you have a phone where you can call friends and go play cowadoody while throwing down some beers and eating fucking donuts and pizza and then go sleep for 8 to 12 uninterrupted hours on a mother fucking mattress that you dont share with anyone in a room that you dont share with anyone before waking up and brushing your teeth becuase you live in a world where they've prevented the real lifelong pain of teeth rotting right out of your skull.
but somehow you aren't 'winning' because fairytale love isnt true? somehow this is a 'fight' to live this cushy fucking existence and its our job to justify that to you?
really?
I'm 6'7", am I too tall for any girls to like me? Every girl I've asked out said I'm too tall for them, I feel so disheartened.
>>16712933
date women over 6'
Yeah, just date tall chicks. Tall girls usually don't like that they're tall so they'll feel more confident being with someone that's taller than them.
>>16712933
I would only refuse to date a guy that tall if he were too skinny
I understand it is hard at that height to get the proper caloric intake
but I'd want him to be basketball player mode built for it to work
I am 5'7"
How do I give up on the idea of ever having a girlfriend or a wife? I've already come to realize it's never going to happen, I'm simply not the kind of a guy women are attracted to both physically and personality wise. It's crushing me inside and I just want to know how some people seem to have found a way to give up on it and let go.
you realize women aren't homogenous? I think there are people that can't get on with other humans.. but there are definately not people who can't get on with only men or can't get on with only women..
>>16712756
Don't give up - just don't obsess over it. Think of other things, immerse yourself in your studies, join a gym, or just look at women as possible friends rather than lovers. When you start to relax around them is when they may begin to find you attractive.
>>16712884
Thank you, very good advice. Though I still doubt a girl would find me attractive regardless after she gets to know me, I'm too nice so I don't think I'll ever get anything beyond friends.
I want to find a boyfriend that would have a similar taste like me.
I'm into the 80's-90's music, gaming, net surfing and just chilling.
Main problem, that I tried a few dating sites for almost two years, but I found nothing. Mostly on apps like tinder I met people who mostly is all the party type, don't give a shit about studying.
Tried to go to bars with my girl-friend who is the same style, type as me.
But one of my favorite bars, I don't want to visit for reasons, and other bars are just full of normies.
>>16712660
do you live in a big city or a small/medium sized one? are you from the US, Europe or Asian country? these are all important factors you know
Try losing weight
>>16712660
You sound like hard
>my favourite bar, I don't want to go there, for reasons and stuff.
I cant take it anymore and I'm back again, Tips on how to get a girlfriend or DIRECT me to somewhere where i can? Plz god i just wanna smash my fingers with a hammer its so annoying that i cant get a girlfriend and i wish i could identify why. If someone said to my face "you're ugly as fuck" Id would be a huge plus because then i could just focus on hygiene and ignore style and work on my personalty, and if someone said i have a shit personalty i could do the opposite. I'm stuck in limbo.
My only tip for you is... Don't look for one. Enjoy your life while single. Some things are best felt when you don't "look".
Just try dating apps i got a gf in less then a month and I'm a complete loser but I'm hot so I win anyway
>>16712371
This. I don't know the cause of your initial troubles, but if things have gotten this bad, then your desperation is probably an even bigger factor than the original problem was. The biggest thing you can do is calm down.
Is it possible that people aren't born with completely flat hairlines? I feel like my hairline isn't as receded as it looks because I've always had a weird high hairline. Does the fuzz around my hairline show where my original hairline was? I can see a line of fuzz that goes from my hairline to my temples and if it's not that bad I think I can fix it wth a transplant and fin
>>16712168
yes people can have hairlines that aren't straight, but you definitely have male pattern baldness, what's the crown of your head look like?
hairline receding doesn't always mean baldness anon, don't trip. You have a slight widow's peak so your hair is going to naturally look like that.
>>16712174
So just a small amount of recession makes my hairline look worse? Like if a black guy or something receded the same amount as me they would just give little corners missing like meek mill style? I feel like a lot of people I know are receding but mine looks like shit because I had a natural nw2 widow peak hairline
Should I renounce my US citizenship to avoid taxes if I live in Europe and have no ambition to ever move back to the US?
Will you ever have kids?
>>16712163
Nope. Don't even plan to adopt.
Already assimilating.
>>16712141
Citizenship has nothing to do with it. If any of your income comes from the US, they don't care if you're Martian, they're going to tax it.
Hey guys, so this chick I dated for a month cheated on me multiple times, I fucked other girls on the side as soon as I heard about that and told her to go to hell.
Now the thing is that she already told me on day 3 of our dating that she loves me and now told me that she loves me forever and I shouldn't give her up, but the whole time she also fucked other guys while telling me "I love you" out of "desperation".
Now what do you guys say? Do I give her a chance?
The only way in hell I would - in my own eyes - would be if she cut off contact to all guys she knows, got a new number, deletes facebook and stops being a total whore.
Pic related. Kinda how she looks like, but a bit more BBW and blonde.
>>16712103
You both need to graduate high school before you know what love is.
>>16712114
>we're both 22 and in college
>>16712103
Dump her and move on
I am going to vent, so this will be long. Any thoughtful or helpful comments are welcome.
Or maybe I will just greentext this.
>be me, 30 F living in East Germany with German boyfriend for the past two years
>find out we are having a baby, we're excited, happy, nervous, etc
>decide to tell his family at his birthday dinner last night
>they react like something terrible has happened (he is 28 and an engineer, I am 30 and an ESL teacher) like we are pregnant teenagers
>His sister, who is the same age as I am and has two children and is still not married to her 'man' accusses me of getting knocked up on purpose to trap her brother
>she goes on and on about how I got the jackpot now because he is an engineer (we have been dating for two years and already planned on marrying and having kids.)
>mfw I am good looking, smart, and nice, and I don't need to trap a man with a kid but she probably did it to try to get her bf to marry her and he still didn't do it
>say we want to get married asap and we want their input on planning the wedding (we are still happy, trying not to let them ruin it)
>they start fighting about the logistics of marrying a foriegner in Germany
>I start sobbing
>They look at me and ask "why are you so sad?"
>My bf looks like he wants to slap his sister and his mother
>He goes outside to call his father (who was sick and couldn't make it) to tell him our good news
>His dad is absolutely emotionless and says now you have to get married
>My bf comes back
>His sister starts up again with her rude-ass comments
>I start crying again
>now the family is worried about me becoming a mother because of my "psychological problems"
>mfw I am crying because they fucking ruined our only chance ever to announce our baby and marriage to them
>bf and I leave and we are both pissed, disappointed, etc. My bf even sheds a few tears.
What the fuck is wrong with East Germans? Why do some people have to shit on everything?
>>16712013
Congratulations OP! I'm happy for you! All I can say is Fuck em! Who needs em?
>>16712013
>What the fuck is wrong with East Germans? Why do some people have to shit on everything?
I don't know if it's Germans, or just this family. If I had to guess, I'd just say that his family is fucking terrible and they're "stuck" with each other. This is their way of taking out their shit lives on you two, because you actually want to be together.
Start distancing yourselves from them, because they'll ruin the birthing, your wedding, etc.
>>16712025
Thank you! I guess all that matters is that we are happy about it. They can think what they want.
>>16712026
Germans tend to be kind of socially retarded. I try to accept it, but I still have a hard time with the regular rude comments and unhelpful "advice" (criticism) that I get all the time from friends, family, and strangers. The pregnancy hormones are making it impossible to deal with.
I don't think we can push them away though. My family is all in the US, and we will need family support. His mom texted and kind of apologized and explained that she was shocked, and she is happy for us etc. I still think his sister was a giant bitch about it, and I am having a really hard time forgiving her or trying to understand it. Honestly, I think she is taking her frustration about her boyfriend never marrying her out on me. And I have been there and done that, so I can understand. But she doesn't have to constantly remind me that she doesn't think I am good enough for her brother. I got it.
i want to live my whole life as a NEET
how can i get money for this?
>>16711916
Sadly, you can't.
Unless you're 'sufficiently disabled', you just can't. Even then, they'll pull some bullshit, UNLESS you somehow had a job earlier in life or you're 'disabled enough'.
i love how neets have this conception of themselves as creative animu girls living the enlightened life
>>16711917
I have enough reasons to want to be a NEET.
I have Klinefelter's, Repetitive strain injury, Asperger's, foward neck, anterior pelvic tilt, genuvagus, one ball bigger than the other and so on.
Give your past self a piece of advice that would've saved you loads of time/trouble
Me: stay away from women
don't act retarded just to make people laugh
Break the relationship off before flirting again
Around blacks never relax
