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My girlfriend is fairly opinionated and we end up discussing our views on fairly controversial topics a lot.
Thing is shes extremely liberal and I pretty much have my own views about anything so Id be a mixture. While its usually a difference in opinions and we have forever to work those out, she apparently made friends with a transgender.
We've already talked about gender so I suppose she really felt the need to convince here but i told her that theres no way we'd see eye to eye on arbitrary social constructs.
Now the problem is that I cant be friends with...
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Literally what the fuck are you talking about
>>16704669
Enslaving people is on par with wanting to change your gender.
>>16704705
Ah yes, of course. OP needs to relax
Are we the most sexually frustrated generation of men ever? Because I keep on seeing alot of men doing stupid things because they can't get sex? Has it always been like this 20-50 years ago and I'm just naive or has sex gotten harder for some men to get? Is the average guy more unattractive now or have women gotten nitpickier? Did women's sexual liberation screw over some men in the sexual market? Will western countries end up as bad as Japan in the future when it comes to sex?
some of it is yes, women's sexual liberation gave them the pick of the litter. It's probably more on the line of this generation of men lost out on a lot of relationship education somewhere along the line. add in the invention of tinder/okc and the general hookup culture and we have the modern cuck
Yes I think statistics have shown that things have gotten worse for men sexually in the US. I am already considering becoming a MGTOW like in Japan.
I don't believe it's as bad as some people make it out to be but there's no denying sexual liberation has made it harder for lower tier guys to get laid or find a woman. Guys are willing to fuck girls who are a lot uglier than what a girl would settle for. Women are also attracted to confidence but it can be incredibly difficult for a man to build confidence if he's been rejected and ignored his whole life.
>projection: the post
I'm 22 years old, I'm a kissless virgin and I have very few friends.
I completely missed out on teenage romance, I missed out on a chance on dating cute, young girls, on a chance of dating virgins, having interesting youthful sexual experiences etc.
I really hate myself and my life and I just don't know what's the point anymore.
>>16700498
Oh well. Who cares amiright. Go to a rave.
>>16700498
>I completely missed out on teenage romance
Nothing special, it sucked for a lot of people.
>I missed out on a chance on dating cute, young girls
No, men can always date about ten years younger than their age, you will be able to hit eighteen year olds in your late twenties or even early thirties depending.
>on a chance of dating virgins
There are more than a few girls who are still virgins...
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>>16700502
I just don't have the will to go on anymore desu. 22 years old I'm in uni, I workout, I'm relatively intelligent I would say, I'm easy to talk to, I just don't know what people want anymore, I'm just so sad and confused about my life, I wish I was dead tbqh senpai
Actual letters edition.
Dear Cool Cat,
Here is the condensed version of the past (est.) five perhaps letters I've written and crumbled in sorrowful regret and frustration, knowing chance will have it you never read it and it is highly unlikely you will respond but it is important that I tell how happy I am that you've moved on. I wish I didn't tell you I cheated when I really didn't, just to keep your attention, over text. The truth is, you are changing, and so am I. And we aren't the same lovers we used to be. I understand that these are our prime years and we are born...
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>>16699965
Dear whomever the fuck you are.
I'm not your lover, but an anonymous dude. You draw pretty handsomely. That is all.
Dear B,
You are the only reason I'm alive. You're the only reason I bother to wake up. Everything I do, I do in the chance of it making you happy. You were the only friend I had in years of torment, the only voice that ever lifted me up as a sea of screams put me down. You are the only star in the empty abyss of space, and you are just as unreachable. For a few brief years, you gave me more than I could ever imagine in a friend. You gave me more than I'd ever get again. And you stopped. You stopped caring when I got on, you stopped smiling when you saw me,...
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New thread, old one reached bump limit
My boyfriend and I had a pretty shitty talk today... He says he won't "just toss me to the side" but it sure seems like he can if he feels like it... Maybe he is just that much stronger of a person than me that losing a person he has a lot in common with won't effect him so he can try and look for someone more right for his future.
All I have in life is to look for a love. He has so much more. So much potential, so much drive, and such a good outlook.
Why couldn't he have told me having a love of books was so important at the start of us talking...
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>>16696471
It's real to me anon, I have nothing else.
Does anyone know how I can make like $200 pretty quickly. I can't work because I have a peanut allergy and I'm 33 weeks pregnant. If I am exposed to peanuts it will kill my daughter, if I survive. It's really not worth the risk. I don't really wanna be a skank so if I can't make money while keeping the clothes on I won't do it. I just need a little financial assistance because a bunch of shit happened this month and we are a little short on our finances.
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Bump. Please we really need some advice
>>16705224
Are you around Raleigh NC?
>>16705224
Seriously?
How do men feel about women who have had FWBs or casual sex relationships? Is it something that puts a woman off the marriage material section?
The last and only man I've slept with was my ex whom I broke up with 2 years ago... 2 years. Masturbation just doesn't do it as well of course. 2 YEARS! Should I just wait for the next bf ?(whenever that may be...)
I'm a guy who's 20 years old and a virgin. It probably sounds a bit gay but I'm a virgin by choice, I'm actually attractive enough that I've had opportunities to have sex before and turned them down. I see sex as both a physical experience and an emotional/spiritual experience. I don't think fucking around is really a healthy way to live, It clearly gives some people self confidence and some loving attention, but I think that over time the initial thrill of it wears off and it just becomes something meaningless. I want to only have one partner,...
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>>16704102
>I want to only have one partner
are you waiting til marriage?
>2 YEARS!
Try 24.
Or maybe how to find a normal relationship so I can have sex without risking STDs as much? It seems crazy hard to find boyfriends if you're trans in a conservative area. Help I'm so lonely and might have HIV maybe.
move somewhere less conservative so you can feel more normal and act more conservatively
Get tested. Now!
Otherwise, do what the other anon suggested
>>16703498
As a trans you're never going to have a normal relationship. Heteros will shun you, homos will shun you and that leaves the sickos and wierdos.
Sorry, but wise up.
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>>16703311
Women, is it really true that if a man has a GF/ is in a relationship does your opinion/thoughts of him change at all?
If so, how and what thoughts?
I've been talking to this girl recently. We both like each other quite a bit, and we've been very open. Thing is, she's fucked a lot of guys. She told me herself, and she's very insecure about it. I don't care about the number itself, but there's going to be some warranted trust issues since she lives 3 hours away for college.
Personally, I don't think she really wants to be in college. She changed her major after a semester to something unnecessary for what she told me she wants to do. I think I can convince her to drop out and move...
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>>16703441
If I think he's cute, I'll be all "dangit". Otherwise, I won't care.
>>16703493
I'm confused, what do you actually want from her?
Tell me your problems and I'll give you advice. I'm probably massively underqualified but maybe I'll help you out anyway.
I have no time.
you see, i'm 25 years old about to get my law degree. I have a 5 year old daugther who i live with. I must work part time and i literally have no life besides my duties and some sporadic 4chan browsing. I'm sooo boooored but still got 1 year to start working... Only to pay my fucking studies loan (about 35k). Be born on a poor family in a shitty 3rd world country sucks.
>>16702831
That does sound shitty. Do lawyers make a lot where you live?
Couldn't hurt. I'm 24, KV, ex-NEET. Falling hard for a girl who has a boyfriend, and likely no romantic interest in me at all.
I'm finding more often lately, the days I don't see her, the worse I feel. I lack the motivation to do pretty much anything other than work and sleep.
My emotions are starting to stress me out and I'm worried that it might be too much.
>make online dating profile
>upload 2 good pictures
>write a good, honest description
>message 14 girls
>not a single reply
Is this normal?
I'm no Ryan Gosling but I think I'm pretty handsome. I just say something like "Hey, you look pretty interesting. Wanna talk sometime?" I even message some below average girls who are into NEET shit and nobody ever responds. Am I boring/ugly?
pic...
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>>16702393
You are a guy this is the norm. Women want a 10/10 adonis which you are not. Not calling you ugly but onlibe dating is a sham for men. Unless you are flashing off wealth in your photos or youre ripped with flawless skin expect to be ignored a LOT
You are supposed to mention something from her profile that shows you actually read her profile.
>>16702393
>I'm a realist, a cynic, and skeptical of trends
Autism
My girlfriend is constantly telling me being a woman online is hard, and harassment and misogyny is everywhere... shes recently started becoming a social justice advocate and its been effecting our communication and relationship a lot...
The thing is, my friend who is a woman, keeps refuting my girlfriend around every corner, and its gotten to the point where my girlfriend wants me to stop talking to her, telling me shes wrong and is just a product of the patriarchy.
what the hell do I do? I don't want to ditch my friend... the arguments shes told me are pretty...
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>>16701710
Break up with girlfriend, hook up with friend. Win-win.
>>16701710
what's wrong with your girlfriend thinking this way?
anyway, you can't change people you can only accept them.
>>16701710
on a basic relationship level you have to ask
>shoudl i let my girlfriend dictate who my friends are
if she doesn't want to hang out with your friend, thats her business, but she shouldnt be trying to control who you hang out with in private time.
I am gay. I came out to my family, and was promptly disowned. Strangly enough, I moved in to a friends house and fell in love with him. we kissed, then promptly fucked hardcore. I love dicks, men, semen, and the idea of expressing love to a man. but im not gay. what am i?
A woman?
>>16701296
> I am gay
> but I'm not gay
nigga u gay
>>16701296
Are you a cured lez?
So sometimes I get too horny for my own good and do stupid things. Last night found sketchy craigslist guy and insisted he wear a condom. He came over with lube, a toy and yes a condom. Toyed me for like 20 seconds then put condom on and started fucking me. This was nice and I liked it maybe too much, because then he started going on about how condoms suck and he couldn't even feel me and how much he wanted to cum inside me. I didn't really know how to say no at that point with him in me already and have a huge semen fetish so I kinda gave in. He came and I loved it...
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Also so you think this was maybe rape? I told him before that he absolutely HAD to wear a condom but he was being insistent and coercive and I felt like I couldn't say no at that point...
Guess no one even cares :(
>>16700690
Kek ofc not
We assume you're a faggot
And faggots deserve aids
Then death
Kek
