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How to socialize with girls?
I'm a 23 year old degenerate who works all the time and literally has no social life. Do I go to clubs or just meet girls at walmart/anywhere I can like a fucking loser?
>>16687872
Find a hobby that has public meetings/gatherings, go to said gatherings.
Are you asking how to meet them, or how to talk to them?
>>16687875
Where to meet them.
Is dating possible for an average-looking 28 year old who lives with his parents and barely makes minimum wage working part-time due to a mental disorder?
Dating? No.
Dating good looking/high quality people? Yes.
It'll be much easier if you're a girl though.
>>16687864
Did you get that around the wrong way?
>>16687866
Yes, yes I did get that the wrong way.
My bad.
Me and my girlfriend has been dating for more than 2 years now but, for some reason, sex has become so rare. When we started, we have sex more like everyday until slowly it became less and less. I'm 25 and she's 23, we both have careers which can be tiresome at the end of the day. But even during weekends or days when we're not too busy, she doesn't really look for sex anymore - She'd rather watch some movies or play games. I don't think feelings is the problem at all either as she does make me feel that she loves me but the sex just... it is just...
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>>16687833
What did she say when you suggested having more sex?
>>16687840
She did say she acknowledges it and she will try but nothing really changes. If i do ask, she retorts by saying something like "but we just had sex last week" or something
>>16687847
You both are going to have to come to a compriomise, she doesn't need to have sex only when you feel like it, and you need some sort of sexual pleasure on a decent basis. This is a conversation that you're gonna have to have with her. If she won't change, you may have to jump ship.
Okay so, here goes. I met my ex around March 2013. We've been on and off since October 2013. We have a daughter together who is an absolute angel and I love her with everything I have. He cheated on me on August 2013 with my best friend, he chose another girl over me in 2014 and now he's dating a girl who is basically the town's bycicle (every guy I know has had sex with her). He's trashed my apartment, threatened to hurt me and yelled at me in front of our daughter. He's come home drunk and lived with me rent free for a whole year while I payed for...
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Because you might be clinically retarded. Have some fucking self-respect. Who cares if he's the father of your child. He's a piece of shit and you need to cut him out of your life. How could you let him live with you and treat you like that? I'm honestly angry for all females right now.
>why am I still hung up on everything?
what does that mean?
>>16687820
Right now, we barely talk unless it's about our daughter which he basically does nothing for. He always asks to see her but doesn't contribute AT ALL. I don't want to cut him out because I know how shitty it is to grow up without a dad around (my dad spent thousands of dollars in court just to get visitation). I don't want her to miss out even though I know it'll end up in disappointment, you know?
What's dating life in Japanese colleges like?
I'm not really a huge fan of the general mindset for it in the area I live in, and since I might go to Japan on co-op or to study abroad at some point, I'm curious.
What don't you like about dating here that you think you'll like in Japan? Not sure I'm following.
>>16687783
I don't have any expectations for Japan, I'm just asking.
I guess I'm slightly conservative in that I don't really enjoy the whole hook up/drinking/etc thing that seems to be commonplace in American colleges.
Japan is very pure, but you may find it boring
would it be possible to kill myself by holding a metal pole during a thunderstorm?
>>16687723
no. go outside
Depends on where the pole is. Depends on the type of metal. Depends on where you are holding it.
The chances of lightning striking that pole are small unless the pole were very very tall.
Go outside anon
>>16687730
>>16687735
obviously id have to be outside.
how can maximize the possibility that a lightning strike kills me?
Getting tired of it.
my personal assistant just had a shouting match with the accountant today.
Lots of insults, 'why do I make a quarter of what you make if I'm twice as old followed by accountant shouting my PA's salary), then the PA 'Because you're no where near a quarter as smart' and then called her a 'hag' and told her to 'fly off on a broom'
So, I had to fire the accountant- Not good. Someone is now mad at me, and the company, and has a list of our clients, margins, fucking everything.
Now,...
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5 times sounds like your PA might be more guilty than you think.
>>16687665
Your PA is creating work for you, actually, with all these shouting matches.
>>16687665
Never fire your accountants, finance guys/gals and IT staff UNLESS you have a really good reason to do so. Do your accounting and get rid of your PA.
whenever I my girlfriend goes out to parties (without me) she always texts me being all lovey-dovey, saying how much she loves me, saying shit like she wants to marry me, wants to be with me forever, etc etc.
Alcohol is usually involved, to more of an extent than other times.
What is this about?
Alcohol lowers inhibitions
This is about which shampoo you're going to use in order to keep your horns clean and shiny.
>>16687646
Explain?
How long does it take to learn how to become sexually responsive/feel pleasure if you have a vagina? How many times do you have to fuck before your nerve endings get to work?
>>16687569
Um, you may be expecting too much out of your (new?) vagina.
>>16687572
What should I expect from my vagina?
>>16687609
Not much, have you interacted with your clit?
How do I will myself to get my fucking shit together? In terms of school I'm barely staying afloat, and almost got kicked out of college this semester. I'm overweight and lack both the self esteem and social skills needed to be able to establish anything longterm or romantic with a girl. I look and see people around me who are successful and happy, and all it does is make me depressed and angry at my own inability to feel like I'm living a meaningful life. Came very close to killing myself a few weeks ago, but didn't. Just looking to vent on 4chan because...
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Both of your premises, A and B, are false. If you kill yourself, that is a real problem. And you need to let people in.
My older brother is in the same boat anon. He's overweight, and unemployed. All he does all day is sit down and play fallout 4 and go to school. Recently however, he went out and applied for work in random places where I live.
Go to a gym anon and work the shit out of yourself so when you lie down in bed, you can smile and see that if you're capable of going to the gym, you're capable of bettering yourself. I believe in you OP.
Don'the they have a counseling office at your college? Use it, OP.
>21
>Not by an stretch of the imagination a good person
>Was officially diagnosed by my psychiatrist as a sociopath a while back (not trying to be an edgelord, promise)
>Despite this I still managed to end up with a girl
>Been together 2 years now
>She can't speak, was in an accident, vocal cords were fucked up severaly when she was a kid
>Somehow despite...
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The moral sociopath.
>>16687463
I don't feel a moral pull per se, But through lots of therapy, I've learned enough to know how people should be treated.
I certainly wouldn't feel bad for doing something I shouldn't but that doesn't mean I don't know that I shouldn't in the first place. I'm not an unthinking savage.
Depends on how she feels about you as well. If she loves you as much as you do then I'd say give it a go.
I want help dealing with some feelings I have. They are neither right, nor wrong, but I would like help explaining them.
With the two recent celebrity deaths of Rickman, and Bowie. I've had a number of friends so affected by this, they had to call out of work, or their day was ruined. I find these feelings so strange. I mean, we don't even know this people, we only like them, because of their art, and It seems like this celebrity worship has gone too far. What are your thoughts on the issue?
p.s. I do think there death is horrible, I just don't...
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Your friends are really weird and probably lying to get laid.
>>16687447
yea, it really does seem strange.
Your friends think they have a relationship with people on TV. But they don't.
Polyamory.
Arguments for it, arguments against it?
>>16687398
Pros:
>If you're a really attractive man or an at least average woman you can get more fuck.
Cons:
>Otherwise you get less fuck.
Hard to swing, hard to swing.
>>16687398
Great in theory, ignores that it's hard coded into our dna to be possessive and jealous people when it comes to sexuality and emotional connections.
It's sort of like communism, great in theory, not actually possible to be put into practice.
hey /adv/
I am a 20 year old who has never really dated or had a relationship. It's been about a year since I even had a girl interested enough for making out.
Am I a destined forever alone?
What am I fucking up? Pic related, its me
>>16687386
Sorry man, you're just pretty fucking ugly.
>>16687386
2/10
lower your standards, go for the land whales.
That's fucked I wouldn't agree with what the other dude said. You're not ugly and you obviously have a sense of style. Confidence is key. Just don't really try too hard with a girl cuz if you even think there's a chance that you're coming off as trying hard then you probably are.
Before my girl that I'm about to marry was with me, she was really in love with another guy, like dead head over heels in love with him, he made her cum and shit, and she loved the fucker a lot. Well, he dumped her, and she claims she doesn't care for him at all anymore. How the fuck can I stop being so jealous over her previous relationships? I mean, she's had sex with a few guys before, but she never really loved them she said. We've been together for a while, but jealousy of her past has literally been tearing me apart and I'm afraid it's going...
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This is why you don't fucking talk about previous relationships with your significant other.
How the fuck did you even know that she was head over heels with him and whatnot?
Bang her in the ass. Make her come in the most degrading ways you can dream up.
>You'll thank me later.
>>16687361
I agree with this. First of all, it will make you feel dominant. But also, she will come to need you/want to be dominated.
