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I'm 19yr old shy and conservative guy and I want a girl who's innocent and saving her virginity(I am too). What's my best bet considering this isn't the norm? Should I just try approaching girls at local libraries and start up conversations or should I briefly chat with a lot of girls at college(I'm kind of shy around a lot of people so this is harder for me) to see if we get along? Also when and how should I mention that virginity is important to me without hurting anyone's feelings?
>>16692780
Religious girls. That's it.
>>16692794
I'd rather not get with a girl who only does something because of her religion. I'm fine if they are as long as it's not what's making her decisions for her.
>>16692780
Stop being picky, you're not entitled to anything. You should be grateful for any female that comes your way. Cease this fantasy of an ideal person, they aren't real. Humans are complex clods. Get off of yourself, find something or somebody. Or be alone.
I really need help /adv/. I think I may have just ruined my life here. I'm a conservative who attends a very liberal school (Junior Year), and in my writing class the subject of the ghettos was somehow brought up. Trying to add to the discussion, I brought up the statistic that most gun crime in America takes place in the ghettos. My teacher didn't like that 'cause it wasn't very PC, and tried to shut me down with a warning tone in her voice, talking about how we need to bring love and tolerance to the ghettos so they can improve. This wasn't the first time she'd done this, but I was sick of everything I said being shut down and I just snapped. I told her that maybe if the ghettomen stopped mooching off of welfare, maybe things would be better for them. The extent to which this is true is debatable, but it doesn't really matter too much here. What's important is how they reacted to it.
It landed me in a whole heap of trouble. Teacher talked to the advisor, who talked to the principal. They e-mailed my mother, who was not pleased. We got in a huge fight. She said she didn't raise me to spout "hateful things" and that if I wasn't careful I could ruin my whole life by spouting "hate speech". We argued back and forth about this for an hour and a half before we both stormed off to our rooms.
What should I do /adv/? I'm scared. I'm scared I could get kicked out of school, I'm scared I could destroy my relationship with my family (which wasn't all that great to begin with), I'm scared that other students might tell their parents about this and that I'll end up in court through lawsuits brought by them. What should I do?
This whole thing will blow over, but you really are dumb. Just keep the dumb to yourself in the future
Here's some fucking sage advice for when you talk about the blackies: Think before you speak and if you have to speak, don't say it very loud.
>>16692459
Women hate it when you're right anon
Unfortunately, it's an unpopular opinion, & you should keep it to yourself, or be in danger of being labelled a bigot.
However it is nice to see that I wasn't the only person born conservative, most people don't get that way until the government starts taking too much of their money.
Buy lots of guns as soon as you can anon and live a happy and productive life, that really makes the libs mad
IS the name Gangrel an acceptable name for a boy?
I just love the game Fire Emblem awakening and dream of naming my first born son Gangrel after a character in the game.
Does that sound decent to you /adv/? I'm 95% certain I'm naming my son that.
It is if he looks like this
If I were your son and you named me Gangrel, I'd make sure you wound up in a nursing home
The fucking autism of this post
Two years after getting married my husband stopped having sex with me, started hitting me, lost his job, gained weight, threw away little money we had on stripers and when I told him I'm leaving him his only response was 'okay'.
So I left him.
Two weeks after that he commited suicide and now his family (mother and sister) blame me for his death, tell other people I drove him to suicide and his sister called my boss yesterday crying and yelling I'm a slutcunt who murdered her little brother.
What can I do with that?
Get a lawyer and ask
>>16690345
Drive the sister to suicide?
Apologize to your boss and start looking at a harassment lawsuit.
The moment she decided to call you boss, she committed a MAJOR no-no
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
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>Is it normal for me to go to a club/bar by myself?
Yes. Stop overthinking this.
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Some do, some don't.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get...
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Reminder that taking a woman on a date to anywhere "cultured" or "artistic" comes across as really, really gay.
>>16690158
20 dating 30?
>>16690225
*shrug* My second date with my gf was to an arboretum.
I know for a fact that if I specifically took my girlfriend to a major museum or gallery she'd be over the fucking moon (every time we pass by one I poke her and ask if she wants to pop by, because she always does, and always asks if she notices first).
Didn't see one.
J
Thankyou for being my rock
You really give a fuck
It's so refreshing
I love you so fucking much
A
>>16688092
To the lady who sent me dvds from the states, we had some good times watching those movies together. Still got Wall-E, hopefuly your bakery went well! I miss the valentine cookies and all the late nights we spent getting to know each other always a place in my heart for you KMM.
>>16688092
I'm in love with you and I think you're in love with me.
I hope it works out, I truly do. I wish I could make you trust me but that will just take time.
and I have time. :)
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>>16682748
The autism saga continues. Having IDs for letter threads are a good idea though.
>>16685085
'It'
80 bills on home renovation.. been up all week making sure i don't get the bait and switch with shitty construction materials. i have to spend an extra 20bills if i wanted to buy them myself and have it shipped here. been tired lately and losing motivation for this project. i need rest.
Why is having multiple gfs/wives looked down upon in Western culture? What's the big deal?
I don't look down on it but seems like too much work.
>>16689470
Well for the main part, having multiple spouses isn't legal. I don't think most people give a fuck about what you do in your bedroom or personal life, so go ahead and have as many girlfriends as you want. Polyamory is a trending thing now.
>>16689470
Western culture is shit
Half of them think Jesus was the foundation of American values
what do people think about bisexuals?
would you have a bisexual gf/bf?
or what would you think if your partner told you that he/she is bi?
i feel like there are a lot of negative stereotypes, about bisexuals, that are commonly assumed to be true amongst most people.
4 out of 8 of my girlfriends were bi. I figure it's something girls are into.
>>16688680
I think i'd cause the partner unnecessary concerns because he/she would have to look out for both sexes
If you treat everyone as stereotypes when dating then you're too moronic to hold a stable relationship. I dated a bi chick, thought it was a turn on but besides that it meant nothing else.
Male, 21 and only 171cm height, mom really short, dad just average.
I know it's a common subject of discussions about complexes and stuff. Let's just leave the mental aspect of this issue; encouraging talks about more important things in life than a height and so on.
Can i do ANYTHING to improve that? :( As far as I know im done with growing up since turning 21. Any excercises, diet that could help me get a few cms? How bout the technology and medicine - any <even these abstract ones> ways to use it to my adventage?
I'm not into it....
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>>16689926
Height is overrated. Source: 6'3", 140 lbs, slightly ugly. One of my best friends is about 5'8", muscular, and handsome, and I'd give anything to switch bodies with him.
dude no go gym get a good haircut and work on your hygiene
i'm exactly the same height and 22 my lifes ace. people will always pick on the smaller dude but if anything it's made me work harder to be who i am and i'm awesome as fuck. getting women is hard as they go for tall dudes but i'm not exactly lonely it's just harder.
>>16689940
Whatever queer
Is an red flag to being a pedophile if wherever you are around a little girl, around the kindergarden age you get and urge to take off all her clothes , or you want to see her naked? Or is this not concerning and its probably just a phase of sorts ?
>>16688526
End it.
Jesus, just kill yourself already.
Chemical castration before you end up in prison and some angry man decided to do it the old fashioned way with the prison staffs help.
Hey /adv/ anyone work graveyard shift here? What can I do to be productive when the hours are long and dull?
>>16690205
What kind of job?
>>16690205
Read books lots of books. If you can move around walk every hour.
Flirt with females
Hey guys, just a little backstory of my past two years that have been fucking killing me.
>be 16, go pretty much from one to the next
>next is different, wild, Irish,short, 8/10
>turns out we really click, like really
>Get blessing from dad within' first month
>Dad's fucking hilarious, on any drug he can get and only gives a shit about fishing
>Brothers taught me some hunting/shooting...
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>>16690116
Shoulda woulda coulda nigga. Move on I know it seems impossible but give it time
>>16690122
It was fucking perfect though. I could have been pumping that 'till I died. I guess that saying is true though...
>>16690116
>16
Time to leave kid.
Girlfriend and I dated for two years, broke up for a week, been back together for a month.
She hooked up with a rando during the breakup and lied about it until I bluffed about him telling me about it. Technically "not my business" but, fuck, that fast? That unapologetic?
Should I be fucking pissed or am I being a babby
The fuck do you think a breakup is. I think you should dump her if it bothers you but I don't think she wronged you.
>>16689888
She lied. it probably bothers you, judging by the fact that you posted about it, so you don't appreciate that behavior. Later on, she may do similar things.
Some guys don't care, and that's fine, too.
But for you and the way you feel, you're justified. The wisest thing would be to avoid further damaging issues and cut her out, and go on to find someone who won't do that shit.
>>16689888
WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!
Dammit Rachel.
How the fuck do I stop being so clingy
>>16689549
there's other people to interact with.
Get over whoever you're clinging onto and fill the gap with other things/ people.
Are you male or female, op?
>>16689549
Seek Jesus.
