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So I'm a girl, me and my boyfriend are both virgins. I want to have sex so badly and he's said he does too, it's just he's religious and against condoms birth control abortion etc and he wants to wait till marriage to avoid all the risk. I get that but he's so religious he won't even let me give him a hand job or blow job or *anything* and he won't finger me or eat me out or anything either. He's rubbed me out a few times and made me cum almost every time but I feel bad because he won't let me pleasure him at all!!! Is there anything...
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>>16726060
No.
He's dumb though.
You two should fuck.
>>16726060
so ... you're kinda rapey. Like seriously, I'm not sure if you're just trolling us, or you're actually unaware that you're sexually assaulting your boyfriend.
>>16726060
Nope. People that abstain from sex for religious reasons always have weird sexual hangups. Even if you do get married, he'll probably still be weird and distant when it comes to sex. And if he masturbates, he has probably desensitized himself to the point where he wouldn't be able to orgasm through blowjobs, sex, etc. anyway.
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Hey women, we asked 100 members of the studio audience, top five answers on the board:
>Name something a man might do to flirt with you.
I want to see how often you all might misinterpret things.
Guys:
I'm a girl.
About a month ago, I expressed my desire to start a sexual relationship with a guy within my circle of friends. I was absolutely not interested in a romantic relationship.
In the days following that statement, he acted like he was really interested: he was cuddly, sweet and wanted to be with me all of the time. He seemed to be really into me, and since I wanted to fuck him, I played along.
Then, when the moment came, he stopped me before we could even kiss to tell me that he wasn't sure about the whole thing, since he didn't want...
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>>16725353
Sounds like he's just a puss. I wouldn't keep holding your breath for this sexual arrangement to work out. Put it behind you and never speak of things again. Continue being friends in the context of your social circle and leave it at that.
Long story short,
Girlfriend had an 'experimental' phase. Just found out and had an argument about it. Literally one text away from ending it with her.
Shes crying about how its her past and I pretty much responded with how you have to live with the consequences of your actions. Then some bullshit about how she didnt want me to find out because she knew Id overreact which triggered me more and I said that she's been stringing me along hiding the parts of her that she knew Id never love. Its like she got her defense from some template or something. I wouldnt...
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You're angry and feel betrayed because she existed as a person before dating you.
>>16725078
I feel betrayed and angry for not her not telling me so that I could make informed decisions about who I spend my life with.
>>16725072
Wow Im so buttmad I forgot to add the point of me telling it.
Anyone experience something similar. Id like to hear how you handled it.
Didn't see one in the catalog.
Only nigger in first class.
I'm in love with my best friend. fml.
I'm the most conversative mofo ever. Writing letters to chicks online for months. What was I even thinking? Was I even thinking?
Are things fucked between me and sam
Lol oh well
Should I try things with chloe
Lmao fuck ok
Should I go back to Mykayla
poor OP
How does a 25yo neet virgin shutin ever get a gf?
goes outside
talks to girls
asks one out
>>16723017
That's bad advice. Never works like that in real life.
>>16723024
>Join groups
>join clubs
>Ask them out like crazy
>OR go and do online dating
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>>16721313
How do I form an army of devout followers?
How good at the guitar do I have to be to make a girl fall for me?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m0nc-hh9viQ
If I play the song in the link, will most girls automatically feel attracted to me?
I only ask because that is my plan.
>>16721316
Are you a guy or girl?
If you're a girl, be comparatively attractive to the people around you, and be a tease to every guy you meet.
If you're a guy, lift, and be a general frat douche
I'm 32 year old male. I'm a nerdy, lonely sort of guy. I live by myself, have a full time job in IT and I've never had any experience with women until I met my girlfriend. I play video games, love movies, watch anime, I like to collect movies, toys, figures, etc.
I met a woman online, she's 35 at the moment and we hit it off well and we became a couple. She knew going into this that I was a dork. I didn't exactly hide it and she seemed pretty okay with my hobbies.
We've been together for about a year and a half and she wanted to have a serious conversation with me. She said that she loves me and thinks we have a great relationship but she thinks it's time we got really serious.
She said we're both getting old, and we're both childless. We should starting doing things like moving in together and maybe start planning for the future. Seemed okay so far but then it started to get a little more personal.
She said she's had concerns about me since we got together. She said she loves me but my hobbies are 'childish; and 'weird'. She says I'm 32 turning 33 soon and I'm still playing video games and collecting toys. She says my hobbies take up so much of my time and I don't even go out and do normal things.
Then she pointed at my figures, specifically the girl ones and said it's weird that I seem to be attracted to cartoon girls and have these weird perverse statues of girls. She said it makes her uncomfortable and told me it's time I took a hard look at myself and start acting like an adult.
I was pretty taken aback from this, it just seemed to come out of nowhere. I felt kind of bad. She wants me to get rid of all my stuff and start acting more like a guy that wants to be a husband and a dad.
I'm at a loss. I do love her. She's the first woman I ever made a connection with but I like my hobbies. It feels like she's making me choose between her and my hobbies, but maybe she has a point. Maybe I need to grow up.
Should I get rid of everything?
No. No. NO!
You're being manipulated, Anon. There's nothing wrong with your hobbies, you are who you are. Don't let a woman make you give up what you love.
Your hobby isn't harmful so she shouldn't be upset. Everyone has different hobbies, I'm sure she has childish ones too. Maybe put them in a smaller space. Or give them to me.
There's a lot to talk about in your post, but the key point is that, while 35 is pretty late for a woman, at 32 a man is far from needing to settle.
I know it's hard to let go of the girl you finally lost your virginity to, but you should use your recent experience to build up your confidence and find younger, better matches.
I'm an Indian girl who is completely insecure. I never felt beautiful in my life and I don't think I ever will. When I show people my insecure side, they would always tell me that I look exotic and I'm "cultural" but they are of course just being nice. I've read a lot about people's preferences on a lot of sites, mostly Reddit and 4chan, and I want to kill myself. No one finds brown girls attractive. A shitton of comments I see are, "I'm primarily attracted to white girls" and whatnot. Nobody has ever said they find Indian girls...
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As someone relatively young, the mere fact that I have dark skin is eating away at me. People have never thought of dark Indians as attractive, and they never should. From a country in which society demands girls to be light-skinned and pretty, I'll never be thought of much. I feel rejected by my Western countries and my own. Everyone thinks I'm ugly and since the world is full of beautiful women with light skin, I'm literally nothing.
I'm inferior to everyone. I'm trash, I'm worthless, and don't deserve anything. Brown girls are not pretty...
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You clearly haven't ever been on /e/ before, they regularly have brown girl threads.
>>>/e/1859779
Oh look, first thread on top of /e/, brown general number fucking 41
If it means anything to you OP, as a dude I don't find white blonde girls attractive.
My current crush is an arab girl, and she's the most beautiful girl to me in the world right now.
Listen, all that stuff is in your head, you're built a monster in your mind. There are people who are legitimately ugly, have physical deformities and are just born unlucky, but some of their get through life with their heads high, and people magnetize towards them because they feel good about themselves regardless of how the world sees them.
You need some mental...
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Has 4chan also changed your view of men, especially shy, introverted men, drastically for the worst?
>>16719213
Not really, although I count myself lucky that I'm not as bitter and pathetic as most of them posting here are.
>>16719213
watch a high school movie
The popular guys are assholes
The shy guys are nice
when you grow up you realise
popular people are nice, that's why their popular
Introverts are bitter
I am an introverted guy that has become a depressed honestl
>>16719221
yep,
especially outside of highschool this is definitely true
Okay i'm 29, a virgin, masturbate 3 to 5 times a day, makes me angry frustrated and really want sex but I have no clue how to get it safely, All my friends just point me to see a therapist.
So my question is for those who has a similar experience as I do and/or have went to a therapist I would like to know how the experience was for you. Did they help? What did they do? Worth seeing or not?
Stop fapping until you decide to pay for sex since loving another being isn't possible.
>>16722825
Can't stop fapping. It's a habit that's very hard to break for long and I blame most of that on my reawakened sexual desires which resulted on my masturbating for the very first time ever last year.
>>16722821
>>16722837
Why do you do it so much? Do you enjoy it or is it habit? Is it interfering with your life?
What's wrong with me?! I feel crushingly lonely when I'm surrounded by people preoccupied with something else. My bf of 2 years just spends time playing LoL, and I just feel neglected and sick when I'm around that, and it makes me want to go to my mom's house. He has to force himself to spend time with me, which doesn't feel good, either. Should I just leave and go live with my mom? He says we have to live together to be together, but he doesn't pay attention to me when I am here. I am the one working and he has eight hours a day without me to play...
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Yeah, you should just leave him if he likes league that much.
It's shitty.
>>16722815
Do you have experience with a significant other doing the same thing to you?
>>16722807
I would love to go to omegle or tinychat or something right now just so I could not feel lonely like this, but he goes through the internet history and I would be accused of fucking around on him. I feel neglected as fuck, I'm lonely as shit, and when I try to get some space I'm just accused of cheating and whatnot.
Is it possible to become a houseboy without having to bang old men?
I don't mind doing maid-y stuff, and I don't mind doing it naked or in drag or whatever, but I just don't want (strange) dicks in my ass filling me up with the AIDS.
Where/how can I find clients to clean houses for in a sexy way to make some money while not getting turbo-raped with HIV flesh-needles? I'm trying to post to craigslist but keep tripping the phone verification thing, and fuck that, I don't have a burner.
lol dude you're gonna die. just get a real job man.
>>16721886
I actually spent the evening posting CVs to places online, and have lots of hard copies out there. It's not like I'm not trying ;_;
pls halp I need mon$y ;_;
Is it true women only want Chads who were socially accepted their whole lives and have big dicks?
Should genetically inferior men just kill themselves?
How does one into therapy?
I'm 22 and lost my job and don't know what to do with my worthless life, what do you recommend?
No, women have broader taste than men according to science. But then again, if you are trying to score a 8/10 girl and up while being 5/10 yourself; you should really come down to this earth and see beyond the appearance.
No, they shouldn't.
You get an appointment with a therapist, google local ones.
You're 22. It's barely an age these days. I recommend you get another job, train in order to be your optimum self and get rid of that depression with healthy life choices. Taking up a new hobby (once you got your job) could also be good for you...
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>>16720786
what isn't trivial, anon?
>>16720767
Yeah, all women like one kind of guy. Just like they like one kind of food, one style of clothing, and one kind of entertainment.
If you don't know what to do with your life, go to a job counselor or start looking at taking community college courses. If you are focused on being forever alone, ask women on dates.
>be virgin
>meet girl
>best friends with a lot of tension
>she makes first move and we date
>fall madly in love
>tells me shes not a virgin and ask if Im okay with that
>tell her I dont mind
>we are literally perfect together
>have sex before she goes away for a bit
>sex...
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It seems you're overreacting and ruining a good thing. Too bad you were a vrigin and she was not, it's not a big deal.
OP, how old are you?
You're dumb
Because it is not. It's only your fucked up pride and narcissism that ruined something good. All you were talking about is your feelings and your feelings about things that you don't even know are true.
How do you know that she didn't feel the same about sex as you did?
