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What age were you when shit started?
Did you started taking antidepressants?
How are you currently doing?
Tell us, let's share our mental shit
15
no, what am I some sort of weak willed faggot?
doing pretty damn well considering the circumstances
i dont know, 8 maybe? thank you educational system
no, i didn't know i was depressed for years and when i realized i knew that the cause is legitimate and not some brain problems shit
terrible, my gf broke up with me by telling me she's pregnant from someone else
(probably not hanging around long. doing shit tonight)
>>16717730
>What age were you when this shit started?
I think I was about 10. It may have happened at an earlier point in my life though.
>Did you started taking antidepressants?
I started taking both antidepressants and anxiety medication when I turned 18. I am also now seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist. I am 20 years old now.
>How are you currently doing?
I hate everything and I want to kill myself.
hey /adv/ how do i not feel like shit about my average length and average girth cock? I'd kill for more girth...
I'll never be the guy she tells her friends about his cock, i'll never get to show off when skinny-dipping or show off when grinding with a girl, i'll never be the guy she sleeps with and talks about how it's so much bigger than her bf's, never be the fuck buddy with a fat dick, etc, etc.
especially because the girls i'm most attracted to are girls with big butt/thighs, and more some reason it always seems like they...
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Same situation as you op, it might not be as good on your end but girls always go on and on about guys who give amazing head, you might not get as much out of it and it won't be as cool but at least its something
>>16717727
Try not feeling like shit for having a small dick. I would kill for average.
>>16717727
Youll always feel like shit and want more.
Im 7.5x5.5 and pray to be 8x6.
I think max boner is 8 but thats like right before I ejaculate and its hard to measure. the base is 6 though girth which is best Im getting.
Just accept it. No matter your size youll always want to be bigger.
![male-and-female-relationship-sign[2].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/yVyRFPy.jpg "male-and-female-relationship-sign[2].jpg")
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Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
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So I've been talking to this girl. We were talking non-stop a week ago and I heard she really liked me from one of our mutual friends. Had dinner together at this Italian joint on Tuesday and she said she'd be down to do something next week like dinner or something.
Now she felt the need to tell me exactly what plans she had this week like work etc and I've got one message from her since the dinner saying "sorry just finished work :(".
I asked her some stuff about her day and that was 2 days ago. According to her, thurs/friday are her emptiest...
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Is it possible for a person to get a GF/BF with little to no dating whatsoever?
I'm talking like, 0% dating.
If Hanging out doesn't count as dating that is.
Also, another question for both: Why should I ever bother dating?
Would it be awkward to ask a classmate you don't know very well / had one conversation with if she wants to study for a quiz?
I am not putting my stuff in the header
>>16714768
I'm a pathetic fuck because I quit a good job, now I'm a NEET, living at my mum's house.
I don't feel the motivation to do anything. I've backed out from plans with friends two days in a row now. Two different groups of friends too, like I just don't want to be around people right now. I've been awake for about 4 hours now and all I've done is made breakfast and paced around the house, lost in thought. Why do I feel so empty?
>>16714851
It could be depression or a vitamin deficiency (cold weather can do that).
I saw this thread posted by someone else earlier but there weren't many responses and it got archived, so I thought I'd repost it because I'm also genuinely curious and interested in this:
I'd really like to know how other girls are in bed. Mainly when in a relationship.
Can you pls give me some stories?
1. How old are both of you, and how long have/were you together?
2. How was the first time you slept with your gf?
3. What are your fav positions as a couple?
4. What is she into?
5. What gets her off?
6. How compatible...
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1. We are both 23. Been together 4 years.
2. It was cool, she initiative and pulled me on top of her.
3. I like her to sit on my lap and fuck me, but she likes it from behind the most.
4. ?? I feel like this and #5 are the same.
5. She really likes it when I suck on her nipples, I can tell.
6. I think we are very compatible, very comfortable with each other.
7. She isn't that freaky. She likes to talk dirty and sometimes will whip out some handcuffs, but thats about it.
8. She hasn't NOT done anything I've suggested.
9. Honestly, nothing.. she's pretty good.
10. I love how her vagina feels and I love her.
What about from a grill's perspective?
1. I'm 20 and he's about to turn 22. We've been together for 2 years.
2. Honestly, it was incredible, and very romantic. I'd stayed at his place a couple of times before we actually had sex, but we'd agreed to take things slow. Our first time together started off in his spa. We were just kissing and touching each other everywhere, it was very passionate, kind of slow but super intense. We got out and made our way inside to his bed. We didn't fuck that night, we made love. No one had ever made...
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that was my thread. thanks for making a new one. still curious!
Hey, /adv/,
How can I avoid insane, crazy people. I mean legit. crazy ass insane, not "lol my friends are so crazy and I luv them!"
I meet a lot of people I think are nice, friendly and trustworthy and after a little of getting to know them I realize they behave really threatening, creepy, and socially malfunctional and crazy. It's worse when they decide they have either negative or positive interest toward me.
Very concerned, how do I avoid this? Are there any other psycho magnets here who have dealt with this psychosis and creepery from others?
Lurking, also need to know
I would say watch for red flags and stay the fuck away anon
>>16717720
not much else you can do. just ditch asap and then you don't get fucked over when you do realize what's up
Once heard someone talk about judging sanity of people you just meet.
>act normal initially
End up being crazy and not normal once you get to know them
>seem crazy at first
Usually end up being fairly normal.
Yeah, doesn't make a lot of sense.
there are two guys in my medical terminology class and six thousand pretty girls with the hair and makeup and water bottles going on about lifting and stuff. like the one water bottle says "LIFT CRAZY OR STAY THE SAME" or something.
anyway it's a long class like 4 hours and sometimes i have to pee. because oh shit the spiro is incidentally a diuretic. incidentally in my case. sometimes it's prescribed as a diuretic, like if you have heart problems. i don't have heart problems i just hate my penis. so one girl is really loud and answers all the...
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>>16717611
yeah no.
You need to see a shrink.
>fall in love with best friend
>throw blatant hints I like her
>she obviously picks up on this
>starts telling me things she doesnt like about me
>telling me things she looks for in guys that are specifically things I dont have
>okayigetit.jpg
>begins telling me about guys she hooks up with
>she sleeps next to me in the same...
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if being friends with someone is shitty, don't do it
just like for her, I would say: if you don't want to fuck someone, don't do it
you're both retards
>>16713977
have a friend drop you off at her place. your friend waits outside in the car for exactly 15 minutes.
you go in and talk to her, explain that you cannot be friends anymore. you love her. she doesnt love you. and you trying to hold it in will only make it worse.
she will try to argue with you, but in those 15 minutes say 'i know, it sucks, and im sorry, but it has to be this way'. dont engage her points. dont answer her questions. she will try to find some logical loophole as if feelings...
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>>16713987
>if being friends with someone is shitty, don't do it
Its not easy abandoning people you love and have loved (platonically) for years.
Its like youve never cared for another person.
>>16713992
If she corners me again I wont be able to fight her off. My heart wont be able to. Mario kart does sound like fun though but youd have to be a cute girl to play with my hair.
Any guy here dated a girl with BPD?
Sometimes I'm the center of her attention, other times she can hardly look at me. I know she has issues and can't help it but I don't like being treated like shit.
I really do care about her, perhaps too much.
Any advice appreciated.
>>16713649
They'll drain your soul and happiness
I'm not joking this time
>>16713649
crazy girls best sex worst girlfriends
you can't win because you always get attached to them too because the sex is so GOD-DAMN FUCKING GOOD
>>16713660
Yeah, I'm starting to realize this.
Just to be clear, women find shy guys to be a turn off, even if they're not ugly or fat, right?
>>16712843
Yes. Women like to be entertained. A shy guy can never entertain her.
>>16712843
Shyness is a feminine trait.
Insecurity and low self esteem isn't attractive to anyone. If you're quiet but secure, it's fine. If you're terrified of speaking with people because you're terrified of people, that's more of a problem.
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I...
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This one's for the men:
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood?
Girls
Which is more attractive- A guy riding an R34 (Left) or the Kawasaki Ninja (Right)
>>16711678
All the wood a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood.
Do girls watch porn? Be honest.
Once or twice a month maybe.
A lot do and a lot don't. Some prefer to read porn, some prefer to watch it. Every girl is different.
Personally, I prefer reading it but will occasionally watch it, depending on how horny I am/how quickly I can find the right vid/story.
I don't really need porn to get off though. The last time I watched porn was over a month ago with my bf. The last time I read it was a few days after I think.
>>16711041
Yes, my girlfriend told me she watched porn and a few friends who are girls told me they do too
>have gf of 2.5 years
>find out she's cheated on me 3 different times (3 different guys) that I know of
>as far as I know nothing was physical
>just flirty texts and one date
>continue to date her cause I don't want to be lonely
>recently there's been no trust in this relationship and I've been incredibly depressed
>every time we've...
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Jesus dude stop being a fucking cuck. Dump the shit out of her and work on your pathetic self.
>b-but I will be lonery :(:(:(
Grow the fuck up.
>>16710717
holy shit dude, don't move in with her. i had to add that onto what >>16710734 said as i'm on board with him, just like everyone else in the world would be
>>16710734
>>16710739
I just don't see how being alone is better than getting laid regularly and going on dates and stuff. But yea I totally get you guys are saying.
How do you know if you're in love?
>>16709652
You want to spend time with them when your dick isn't hard.
For me it's when i suddenly realize that all the cheesy songs suddenly make sense
>>16709664
This.
I'll spill my beans here. I'm on an edge of suicide.
I was a prodigy child - always had all 5's (the best grade in my country), won lots of mathematics competitions, played guitar.
Now I'm 18, I'm not a prodigy anymore. I'm not depressed all the time, but I'm just unmotivated and feel hopeless and worthless.
I don't drink. I smoke weed occasionally because I like it.
I did a few lines of speed a few days ago and that's when I saw my life for what it could be - I have a really huge amount of free time, and all I...
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Become a homosexual, literally the pleasures that lay within your anus will change everything. You will be motivated and awakened after a mans seed is sown inside your cheeks.
odakle si?
Lower your expectations for yourself. It's irrational to think because you were good at school you're just going to blaze through adult life with the same ease.
Everyone goes through stages like this anon. Just remember that you're not your achievements alone.
