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New in a relationship. She says "it's going too fast for me".
How should I behave or react?
gotta go fast
if you're a niceguy you lose. if you're an asshole you win
Would you consider yourself more alpha or more beta?
If more alpha, she's worried about looking like a slut sleeping with you. She's looking for more than just sex from you, she wants a relationship too. There are a few ways you could handle this, depending on what you're looking for.
If you're a beta, she's probably saying that because you've been giving her the boyfriend experience for free/cheap and now you're trying to raise prices on her by looking for sex in return.
how do i acquire gf?
stop looking for one
>>16717399
i'm not op
but i'm 21 and that didn't work for me and i'm not ugly
>>16717383
How do I move to the big city from a tiny rural village? There's no way it really costs 1500 a month for an apartment and you need 75k a year just to live
>>16717332
In reality it's probably more like $60k just to live, but it'll be shit quality of life. The $1500 is better when you have roommates.
>>16717337
What if you just want to take the bus every day and get a bunch of roommates in a lower priced neighborhood?
>>16717332
House share/apartment share. Only rich kids coasting on daddy's credit card can afford to live alone.
For most other people, even if their on a profitable career path, you cant afford to live alone when you're young. Not in 2016
How do I become someone that people will notice? My entire life I feel like I've been a side character, a background character. Never doing anything too important, never being "cool", never being someone that people actively think about.
Im everyone's friend, just nobody's "best friend"
Im invited to everyone's wedding, but nobody's best man
I get with girls very, very occasionally, but I never actually get any loving relationship going
I have hobbies, but I dont have anything THAT engaging or exciting.
I...
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let someone put a note on your back that says "kick me" and you will get noticed alot
but honestly, to be noticed in a positive way can be good and bad at the same time
celebrities get noticed all the time, have people at their feet and lots of them hate it
>>16717324
Try talking about something interesting rather than just talking, it may be that people find you annoying. Listen when you're in a conversation and comment on what the person says rather than just waiting for your turn to speak.
>>16717401
I already do that. Talking is not something I have an issue with. Like I said talking is my one talent. I do really well with presentation projects and shit and have had people tell me multiple times I tell really good stories and stuff. Which is nice, but its not exactly the most exciting "gift" in the world
>>16717370
I would rather receive good and bad attention that be invisible. At least there's drama and excitement with the former
Whats...
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Okay lads, shit is getting real with me and my GF.
I want to break up with her and I think this morning is when I'm going to do it.
For me, it feels like the relationship can't go on. I think we want two very different things out of a relationship and it's making me really unhappy that I can't provide for those needs without being someone that I'm not.
Because of that, it feels to me like the bad times outweigh the good times and it would be the best thing for both of us to end the relationship.
I really don't want it...
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>>16717192
This is bait
>>16717198
No it's not.
Please respond, this is my hour of need.
I feel stressed out, sad, angry and fantasize about killing myself for really no good reason. This used to happen to me every so often and I'd be fine but now it happens all the time. How do I stop this?
This used to be me. I attempted once. I would recommend not doing it. Just force the feeling out. Don't feed the sadness or else it'll get worse
>>16717154
"Without strife, the victory has no meaning. Without strife, one does not advance. Without strife, there is only stagnation."
―Yuthura Ban
>>16717154
Its not really "no good reason". Its reason is rather hidden. Most likely a dopamine intake issue
I'm 28 and my wife is 16, we're trying to have a baby. What preparations should we take? How long is the process? I'm very well-off financially so money isn't an issue.
>>16717146
You should prepare her bull
>>16717179
Please post something serious or stop shitposting or anything but 'le cuck' post.
>>16717146
>16 year old wife
What country are you from?
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