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GF got really high for the first time in a year and held hands with a dude, while refusing to talk to me. She also got topless in front of a bunch of guys because she wanted to wear something more comfortable.
She apologized, but kept saying "but I was HIGH!"
She promised not to get high again, but should I leave her anyway? I feel like hand holding was already legit cheating.
>>16727225
Alcohol is pushing it , but weed and other drugs are definitely degenerate . If she doesn't apologize for everything , dump her ass .
>being a degenerate druggy
>having no shame and going topless infront of other guys (strangers?)
>taking no responsibility and blaming the drugs
Fuck that bitch, defend your standards.
One strike you're out.
Who cares that she was high -- that's honestly no excuse. If you're already thinking of dumping her, then the relationship is over.
In any case, she broke your trust, and what is more she couldn't even make up a good enough excuse to make up for her behavior. What has she done to accommodate your feelings? Obviously your feelings are hurt; justly so. But has she done anything other than give a crappy excuse?
I vote move on
>be me
>18 y/o female
>5'2 110 pounds
>these days I'm constantly hungry, always eat the most at every meal
>mom points this out around a week ago
>starting to notice my oversnacking and general overeating
I'm going to college next year, and I'm afraid the freshman 15 is going to turn into way more than that
I do intend to go to the campus gym whenever I can because I love working out but will that be enough? Do I need to get a grip on this now before I end up fat and undesirable at the peak of my life? And how?
lots of guys are into chubby girls, I say embrace it
It's a gigantic, parasitic tapeworm.
>>16727181
I've only heard of those kinds of guys on 4chan, and I get friendzoned too often as is to chance it
>>16727205
troll or nah?
I'm 21 and I'm in my first relationship ever. My only other experience was with a girl I really really liked to whom I spoke to for a while and was about to start dating her until she essentially shit all over me. I feel like that kind of ruined the feelings you get when you first meet someone you like but I might be just making excuses.
My problem: I meet my current girlfriend. I like her a lot. She's pretty although her looks aren't astounding, at lesat not to me, and her personality is fucking amazing. We've been dating for a month and a half. We basically "accidentally" met online so we had a lot of problems at the start regarding true intentions and trust but she's really warmed up to me now. My issue is that I'm not feeling all those funny feelings you get when you meet someone you're really passionate about. No butterflies, no warm feeling, all that shit. I don't feel that sickness or that immediate boost in mood you get as soon as they cross your thoughts. Cont...
When I talk to her or spend time with her, I have a lot of fun and I feel like I don't want to leave her, but when I'm away I don't have that feeling of yearning to see her.
I don't exactly miss her. When we make plans or just talk about things regarded our future it makes me happy. When she expresses how she feels about me, it makes me happy
and feel more affection toward her. I really like being around her but why is it when I think deeply about us I feel like I don't like her enough? I definitely like
her a lot more than when we first met and I feel it growing but also receding sometimes when I think of these negative thoughts. At this point, I'm more depending on
my love growing for her in time. I need to know if this is someone I should continue a relationship for a while and see how it unfolds or if I should end it now. I want to
know only because this is someone I want a future with.
Dump her. The sooner the faster the recovery. If you don't get that feeling of love and warmth bring around your girlfriend, you aren't really into her.
>>16727052
I know I'm overthinkig this and likely saying too much unecessary shit but I don't know the answer.
I feel like I'm expecting too much too early as well. She's someone I share a lot of interests with and get along with amazingly. We are very comfortable and open with each
other about absolutely everything and it's been great so far but why am I questioning it so much? I do feel more at ease when I don't think deeply about us.
Sorry for all the babble, but I feel like I need to mention shit I think matters in order not to misconstrue your view. About the advice on whether I should end it or not,
I'd like to know the reasons behind your answer just because I feel like I can't end it without a sensible reason. Holy Christ I feel really stupid spilling my heart out here on such a personal subject but there is literally no where else for me to turn.
So I started a young adult group at my church
And I've spent hundreds of dollars buying food and supplies and many hours setting up, announcing it, advertising it, cleaning, taking down
Etc
And tonight the arch bishop came
And he asked who started it
And someone said "it was father peter, he saw there was a need for one and he created it"
Farther Peter is the priest I pitched the idea to. He was standing there and he just took all the credit for it right in front of me.
When I pitched him the idea he told me it would be my project and I was responsible for all the details which I've taken care of. And he just took all the credit in that moment. The bishop now knows that there is an adult meeting group every Sunday and has no sweet clue who I am or how much work I put into it and he'll give full thanks to this priest.
I'm uhh... Fucking livid
And I want to never go again and let them pay for everything and do all the work
It's a big enough group now that surely someone will be able to take on my role
But it sucks leaving something I built from the ground up.
I just can't believe how much work and investment I've done only for someone else to sign their name on the finished product right in front of me.
Should I just quit: / change churches? I'm so fucking mad
Quit religion. Give your 10% to the homeless or something
Welcome to the kind of world that is created when you don't say anything during such an occasion and let dicks take the credit for you.
It happens all the time.
Your only real recourse is to throw a bitch fit at the correct moment or forever hold your butthurt.
>>16727106
Not an option, I have 100% faith in God
Just really upset about the behaviour of some people at my church
Does anyone else find the idea of "the haters" to be the most narcissistic shit imaginable?
Depends on the context, but only 12 year old "emo xD !!1!" kids and manchildren use that word anyway.
Don't hate me cause you ain't me
Fuck you, hater. Maybe if you were better at what you do you'd have more haters.
If what you do is more than stabbing people and dealing drugs, that is. You are pretty good at that.
Why. the. FUCK. can one not just go about their day to day business and keep their fucking head low without some fucking socialfag trying to form a fucking goddamn 'relationship' over some shit? Why can't I just fucking go to the gas station and buy my cheap fucking coffee without having to fake a conversation with the hobgoblin behind the counter for civilities sake? How the fuck do people actually enjoy stupid shit like small talk? Jesus you people you insufferable.
Oh and while, we're fucking at it. Why can't I just keep a fucking job that I legitimately like for a fucking long time with out people trying act all fucking surprised that I'm staying in the same fucking place for more than 3 months?
>>16726807
> Reeeeeeeee.bmp
I quit going to a grocery store after they took out self check out. I don't want to fucking talk while I'm buying bread thanks. Yea it's pretty annoying especially if you are not in the best mood. Normally I'm ok, but it happens.
how do i afford school?
im broke as fuck and getting no assistance from parents. what are my options?
merit based = IM FUCKED
. i had great grades in high school but my first year at college was pretty mediocre. took it easy and enjoyed myself (BIG MISTAKE). should have been working full time and grinding out a 4.0 for deans list.
federal aid based = IM FUCKED
. my parents make enough money so the state gave me the middle finger even though they don't help pay lol
military wont work because i'm fucking disabled and can't enroll.
the only option i see as viable is to emancipate myself. i'm 19 so I'd have to go to court and prove independance (insurance bills, phone bills, rent, etc) I live with my parents though so I'm probably fucked there too. shcool told me if i was emancipated id basically be full ride tho?
anyone have any ideas or is familiar with the emancipation process?
any financial aid tricks/life hacks?
or should i just learn a trade and kill myself in a few years?
What's the major and why aren't your parents paying? And what's the disability?
>>16726819
psychology major
parents are weabs and spend all money on figures
crohns disease
Just don't let your parents claim you on their taxes. You're already an adult so emancipating yourself means jack shit.
I just turned 25 and I feel old as fuck, like my life is over... why do I feel like this? is it normal? tips to overcome?
>>16726579
You're old. Brace yourself for another 60 years of disappointment.
>>16726579
Is something wrong or is this a general feeling?
>>16726579
That is your personal feeling. Only you can change that. You can do whatever you want with your life.
what do you do when the warm and fuzzy feelings are too damaged?
i have brain damage and lung damage making it harder for me to feel love and content.
seriously guys what do i do?
i cant even talk to people.
>19
>good skin
>a little tubby, working on it
>bulbous roman nose (i don't think the shape bothers me just the width of it )
I feel as if I'd be able to go out more if my nose was fixed, but I have no money
what do?
>>16726311
If your nose is the only fucking problem, the you have nothing to whine about
>>16726311
>what do?
stop being so shallow and apperance oriented, it's more annoying than a shitty nose
>>16726324
it's just how the world works anon, i'm sorry
Am I an asshole for not wanting to date someone because I don't find them physically attractive? Is that a good enough reason so long as I keep it to myself?
>>16726252
No, you are not an asshole.
Yes.
>>16726252
>Am I an asshole for not wanting to date someone because I don't find them physically attractive?
No. You need to be compatible with someone, mentally and physically, for relationships to work over a long period of time. And even then, sometimes people fumble a bit.
>Is that a good enough reason so long as I keep it to myself?
Of course.
Where in the world would you find a qt like this? I'm in love . Please no bully.
>>16726031
Er... there's lots of them. It's just a matter of social skills and hygiene, not being hideously deformed.
>>16726031
I'm not sure where you are but bullying aside, she's a 6 at best in most of Europe, or Canada.
>>16726035
I am specifically talking about blonde haired freckled skinny qts . I don't have a problem with women, I just have a problem with finding a girl with those preferences.
>>16726043
She's a 10 in my books.
None of my friends are weebs. I am a closet weeb and cosplayer. How do I find fellow weebs near me? Is craigslist a good idea?
>>16725905
people who self-describe themselves as weebs are disgusting
weeb is a the redditfication of 4chan
Anime club at your school, craiglist is too potentially dangerous.
I want to know this too. There are no anime club equivelants for grown adults, so how the hell do you meet other people that share the interest?
Hey /adv/ my girlfriend wants to get a belly button piercing and I think they are disgusting, she knows this and still wants to get it. How can I convince her not to get one?
>>16725792
FUCK ME IM SO TRIGGERED RIGHT NOW IM LITERALLY SHAKING THIS IS SO DISGUSTING YOU RAPIST
>>16725802
that's why I came to 4chan, because that's all people say, I am at peace with it if she gets one, I would just her rather not quite a bit.
in Brazil atleast, getting belly button piercing is pretty much like getting a lower back tattoo
very common among whores
I like most of the qualities about my girlfriend.
But some of the shit she believes is fucking retarded.
She believes in ghosts and thinks the moon landing was fakes. She won't even begin to listen to why there is a slight possibility it was real. It actually make me mad inside. She just shrugs it off with a "I can believe what I want" and then tries to show me a shit YouTube video titled "5 reasons the moon landing was faked" and calls it evidence.
It makes my blood boil someone can be that stupid and then I think why am I wasting my time and money on her.
Seriously, am I over reacting?
>>16725565
No
You got yourself a genuine 'tard
Probably thinks lizardmen did 9/11
>>16725573
Problem is she has a slamming body.
>>16725581
Slam her body with a stone cold stunner
