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My girlfriend hugs and sleeps (not meaning sex) in the arms of her best-friend. Who is a boy.
I said to her that she has to stop it but am I to jealous or to possessive ? I don't want to share her.
She knows the guy since childhood and she says that she only does it since their other best friend commited suicide.
If she does this often and she has shown you that her relationship with that other boy is strictly platonic, then let it continue. You have nothing to worry about. If she starts getting even closer to him than she already is, then you should have another talk with her.
>>16729326
It's suffering for me but I know that the right thing would be to let her free of doing those things. It's complicated because I am myself mentally unstable and thought that our relation would be a relief stress-wise. It's the contrary.
>>16729296
ask yourself this senpai - if they are both heterosexual and have such a strong bond what the fuck is she doing with you?
Today my 17 year old daughter came home from school and she brought her friend home we were sitting and the table eating and when we finished my daughter re-introduced her friend as her girlfriend.i have nothing against same sex relationships and i will always love and support her but this has really shocked and it keeps eating away at me. Does anyone know any ways to help come to terms with it?
why does it bother you? she's happy, isn't she?
>>16729308
Im happy for her but i feel kind of nervous for her future
>>16729312
Gay or not, the future is the future. It doesn't even exist yet. What about this makes you nervous about her future?Don't stress so much. She's the exact same daughter, she just fucks girls.
Been messaging this girl on tinder today and we've been getting along fairly well. I only want to hookup with her but I don't want to go on a date or spend more effort. What do I do?
Netflix and Chill. Its a meme for a reason
>>16729286
Haha, is that her in the pic?
She's going to be fat as shit.
>>16729298
Maybe OP likes that type of thing
What do you do when your friends stop talking to you seemingly for no reason??
>>16729049
you are letting me down, adv, come on pls :((
Have a conversation with them like a mature adult? Unless you're like a high school kid where none of this shit matters. And I highly doubt that it's for "seemingly no reason", what is the real reason you think your friends stopped talking to you?
Say " hey what up we haven't hung out in a while. Want to do [a thing] at [a place]?"
See if they say anything.
>be me
>talking to this girl
>she's calling me to talk for hours at a time
>saying how much she likes me
>being really clingy
>we go to the movies
>have my arm around her, she had her hand on my leg
>didn't have time for anything after the movie so dropped her off, kissed her, went home with butterflies ready for next...
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*always ends the same, not goes great. I'm tired and upset.
>>16728601
Delete that bitch from your facebook. She's got some messed up shit going on and the only way you can win is to not play. Go drink with some friends and hit on some new girls at a bar or something.
>>16728601
Relax a bit and don't come across as over invested. That can be a bit hard to take at the beginning.
About the only thing you can do is tell her what a great time you had, how pretty or attractive you find her and you're looking forward to talking to her later.
If this is a pattern you've got from multiple dates with different girls then you're doing or saying something that's made them uncomfortable.
I told my boyfriend I work as a waitress but the truth is I'm fully supported by my dad and I stay home most of the day. We've been together for 3 months and he's still not aware. When/how should I tell him? I didn't want to lie but I didn't want him knowing I come from a wealthy family. Should I tell the truth or should I wait until I know him much better? Should I ever tell him?
I hope you weren't having him pay for everything because you're "poor"
Lazy and crazy. You're a real keeper.
>>16728420
You've based your relationship on a lie. Great job.
Tell him you lied. If he stays with you he loves you.
Oh shit, or does he just love your money.
Oh no!!! Your lie was fucking meaningless because if the relationship went anywhere he would have inevitably found out.
Aww shit dawg.
Is homelessness reversible? I want to be homeless so I can live in the city of my choice and get section 8 housing. I'm in a small town and want to go be with my African brothers in the city. I heard asap rocky was homeless for a few years I figure I can do it too.
Are you okay with getting the shit kicked out of you, robbed, being exposed to diseases, being looked down upon, eating sub-par meals, and possibly being raped?
>>16728399
additionally having no medical coverage and getting locked up or worse if you draw the ire of cops
why do you want to do this exactly?
>>16728399
Yes I plan on doing the same thing
Alright. Alright.
I'm set to be married on Valentine's Day. I've been with my fiancé for 7 years. Sex has always been dynamite, but I've cheated on her with escorts and one night stands off and on throughout the relationship. She knows this, and it's an unspoken thing between us. She is graduating from medical school this year. Things look great for us.
The problem is that monogamy has been made clear once we are married. I put a little thought into agreeing to that back when we decided to get married. Now that the marriage is imminent...
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>>16728386
Cheating never ends well. However, she seems to be alright with the idea of you fucking around while you were dating, and marriage is basically the second level of dating. You should consider having an open relationship. The thing is, you'd have to be okay with her fucking around too.
talk to her about being poly. Don't think marriage is the best thing for you if you cant be decent enough to commit 100%.
if it doesnt work, break up. You'll save each other a lot of paperwork
if she's unspokenly acknowledged that its ok for you to fuck around on the side as long as you do a good enough job hiding it she can pretend its not happening then why can't you just keep doing that?
Well, guys, my ex-gf just told me she banged like 15 guys since our breakup last month.
Come down; this is not one of those threads.
I mean, we are friends now, we always shared our thoughts. We were beyond bf and gf, we were really good friends above all. So she tells me all that, because of our intimacy, supposedly. She asks for forgiveness for telling that and that she needed to tell someone.
We started dating after she broke-up with her abusive boyfriend. In our relationship everything seemed nice, she was getting better from her depression. She's...
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Approach her as a caring friend, as you are. Hear her out. Ask why she's doing what she's doing, not because you want to judge her but just because you're genuinely worried for her. whether she's hostile or open about it, just be understanding.
Or you could take the "not my gf not my problem" route, but I sense you care for this girl as a friend first, and are over the relationship.
There's really not much you can do to help her, it's all just words on a screen. You can help by listening, but that's about it. What she's doing is really self-destructive and won't lead to happiness, though. She'll also have a hard time ever finding a bf again with a slutty reputation like that... Sounds like she needs to go to therapy and stop destroying her life. :( This post is really sad to me because I have witnessed my friends do this shit...
>>16728337
say this,
"You clearly feel guilty about it, since you wanted to tell someone. Given that that someone was me, given that we used to date and you know that I would probably be the least likely person to encourage you to keep this kind of behavior up. Well, I think you should stop doing it. That's what you want to hear, right? The thing is, I can't actually make you stop. I can't make you do anything. You need to decide where your low point is. Is that low point here, where you obviously feel...
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How do I get an escort to fall in love with me when I'm unemployed, poor, fat, live at home and have no car and am a 28 year old virgin? Oh and I never met her she lives in Vegas and I'm in San Bernardino.
an hero
>>16728271
Yes I am hetero
>>16728262
>live at home
Where the fuck else would you live?
My (soon to be) ex wife is filing an emergency child custody order on me. All she has on me is a bunch of texts where I lost it at her for paying some dude to see his dick, a bunch of bank statements that suggest I'm an alcoholic, and hearsay from friends that I did a bunch of heroin and crack when the breakup happened (i did).
Is that enough for her to get the custody order?
could be, yes
Contact your local MRA
>for paying some dude to see his dick
I need money, but have no capital free to spend and would rather not resort to prostitution. How can I secure some income? I feel mad financially unstable rn
inb4 JUS GET A JOB BRAH, I'm friggin trying but everyone demands I either work LITERALLY for free, or is offended that I don't have 50 years of relevant experience and degrees by age 23.
>>16728178
What is something you can do that none of your friends can do?
I'm curious what ideas people have too. I have a job, but I can't afford anywhere to live.
>>16728191
Just drive for Uber.
I feel like a fucking movie romantic. I constantly want the guy to fight for me, not be a pussy, and just be honest. How do I get over this horseshit? I'm tired of feeling that way and I just want it to stop so I can move on.
Nice bait.
>>16728115
I'm actually serious. Why do I feel like someone will actually act like they would in a romance movie?
>>16728120
because they do. if they are in love that is
I'm 26. In general I live a pretty incredible life. I have a flexible job that pays well, I play in 3 reasonably successful touring bands, I get laid plenty, by some pretty attractive women none the less, I have an active social life, and I'm decently fit and healthy. I have a college degree, and try to keep myself mentally stimulated as much as possible. So what could possibly be wrong? And how on earth do I have any right to complain? I keep telling myself that, but there is an emptiness inside me that I can't fill, and its driving me to near suicidal thoughts,...
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you sound kind of needy for some reason. you don't need anyone but yourself to be happy.
maybe you're stressed, maybe you need more rest, whatever it is it's probably not a big deal as you think. you're just human and it's normal to feel lonely or want to vent.
Yeah, I get that you don't need anyone to be happy. And even if I got what I thought I was looking for I might not even appreciate it. But maybe you're right. Maybe I come off as needy. I am an attention starved musician after all.
Maybe you should start a new hobby and see if you can meet a nice lady by doing so?
How do men think not just in love but in general?
Well that's vague.
I'm going to just type out stuff I'm thinking about right now. Maybe you'll get your answer.
>Her eyes are so beautiful. The little green part is absolutely lovely.
>This sammich could be better. gotta learn to not suck at baking.
>At least the tea is good.
>Why do people even ask such vague question literally can't even
>Wonder if it's possible for a sailboat to flip...
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>>16727280
Thanks !
Dude thoughts are deeper than you'd probably expect.
A lot of my lady friends, even the ones who have a good deal of common sense, will still underestimate dudes en masse just because they've had to deal with a fuckboy or two.
It ain't all pussy and lifting things.
I mean, those are usually present, since it's instinct, but know that we have emotions and complex branches of thought and whatnot.
Men in real life aren't all like the men in sitcoms, is what I'm getting at.
