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Okay. So, I have a sister in law. She is newly 14, she hit puberty early and is very beautiful so a lot of guys think she's cute. Problem is, my friend who is 21, is trying to be with her. He asked her on dates when she was 13. He also managed to get her drunk. I just learned that, as another friend told me. I don't think they did anything besides cuddle and maybe kiss. This makes me very uncomfortable. I did not think my friend was like this and he should know better. My fiance (her brother) doesn't seem to care much and it makes me scared for her. What should I do? I don't think her parents would care since they know she gets drunk and hangs out with older guys and they don't care.
Where are you and what's the legal age there?
If America then your friend is asking to get party vanned.
>>16682072
Yes America, legal age is 16
>16682086
Hmmm.... I don't know. I'm 21 and the idea of dating a 14 year old sounds like pedo teritory.
Anyway, what is it about your friend that makes you not trust him being around this girl?
Also she drinks and chills with dudes that are 21 regularly? And her parents are just cool with that? Her dad doesn't give a shit? Like she even brings the dudes around her family?
I've already tried tinder and I didn't really like it. Is bumble any different or is it more or less people looking for hook-ups too?
Other suggestions are also welcome.
I have no idea what bumble is but any dating or meet up app is going to be people looking for hookups
Try okcupid or something
If you didn't like Tinder, you're not going to like Bumble.
>>16681954
are you a grill?
try swiping ugly people, they might be most desperate for a relationship
My lab professor is incredibly unsupportive and pushy. Basically I'm saying that she's a total bitch from my point of view.
Basically I'm in college, studying physics and chemistry, part of our chemistry is the lab work of course. When the excercise starts, it's like a fucking Nazgul entered the room, every legitimate excuse for anything is shut the fuck down. I mean, you know the movie Whiplash? That, but except that her background motivation is to literally make us quit chemistry because we're obviously a failure that doesn't belong there,...
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I have never read something so painfully millennial
>>16681983
I have never read something so vague
>What is the point of giving me so much shit at class.
To teach you something that you might not know: professors rarely want to be professors. What they want is to work at well-funded universities doing research, getting published and making money. They're outright forced to teach. She doesn't want to and there's no question of that.
>she can't even acknowledge I'mm trying
Nor is it her job to. Really her only reason for being in the lab is for insurance purposes. I'm serious....
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How do I stop hating men?
You can start by not making these threads anymore.
>>16681868
I'm serious it's a problem
>>16681860
If you can't beat them, join them. Become a man. We all know in this day and age we can be what we feel like. I've always identified with being an apache helicopter. I'm getting my missile and rotor surgery soon.
GF is having lots of issues, friends, college, family. She's stressed.
Something happened today, not related to me, I haven't done aything yet. She said this from nothing: "Look I don't feel good, I don't want to screw things with you, we'll talk later".
I want to help, but I don't know if this is a good or bad sign. Any advice?
Only advice is arrange to talk.
sometimes you just need space from your SO. She's smart enough to know when she needs it, since she's stressed with other shit in her life and doesn't want to take her frustrations out on you.
I'd keep your distance for a bit, and when she seems ready, make a little display of "being there for her"; even if that's just cooking dinner + wine + backrub (or whatever her deal is)
>>16681723
Bruh...
Give her some space and wait for HER to contact you.
Don't ask me why just trust me on this.
If I smoke avg 2 grams of pot a week how long will it take for me to pass a drug test?
180 lb male
I will be drinking lots of water, exersize and sauna to sweat all the THC out.
>>16681694
It depends on when you quit, when the test is, and your metabolism. It has built up in your system due to regular use; therefore, better to be safe.
Do you know which type of test, and will you be observed?
>>16681725
Got a call today saying they will call me next week to plan an interview, but I know I can postpone it.
Im going to start drinking fluids, jogging and sauna.
No idea what type of test.
>>16681753
Well, you have a couple weeks between last use and this drug test. Flushing your system won't hurt, and 2g a week isn't a large amount.
You should be fine, but I would aim for three weeks, or even four, clean . If this isn't an option, and you are concerned, you could look into synthetic urine; it always works, unlike so-called cleansing drinks, or tabs.
Long story short. I was raped and have now got genital warts.. diagnosed today. Feeling retty lost and confused.. Can't even tell if I'll always be contagious by what's online. Guess no one will want me anymore and I didn't really have anything going for me before. Anyone have any experience with this std? honestly feel like I might as well just kill myself
>>16681673
You mind showing tits? I wouldnt worry about it just use protection, sorry bout that rape, also warts can be frozen off so no worries
>>16681673
Why were you raped?
>>16681673
Also, it can always be contagious but its not a game stopper plenty worse other things out there to catch mot worth offing ya self, talk to doc about options
My girlfriend told me she slept with a guy I know. I didn't really care, just thought it was funny she sat on it for so long. I'm her third partner, and he was her second. A rebound basically and they were only together for two weeks. Seeing as I'm on 24, including prostitutes, I'm not really allowed to have an opinion on it anyway.
So today I saw him.
I couldn't help but... feel ..something. On one side I was studying him deeply, trying to figure out what she could've liked about him, and on the other hand, I kept thinking of what...
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Odd, I feel that way about my girlfriend's previous sexual partners who I've never met. But that's a combination of my own insecurity and trust issues coming to the fore and the overriding emotion I feel is anger, sadness and jealousy. So yeah, I kind of know dem feels. Completely understandable you feel that way.
Seeing as you're not mad or upset you'll probably get over it in a week or two.
>>16681638
I know the feel but it's a dumb irrational feel. Treat it as such. Push it from your mind and go on normally, like thoughts of your first gf.
>>16681691
>I feel that way about my girlfriend's previous sexual partners who I've never met.
I'm the complete opposite: if I've never met her past partners I couldn't care less (as long as she didn't pick up any STDs from them)
But if I know 1 guy a girl has boned I can't even kiss her. I feel like I'm better than everyone I know so I don't want their leftovers.
I know it's autistic but who gives a fuck?
Hey guys, quick question.
Have girlfriend, been dating just over a year.
Anyways went to this party with GF's family and a few of my friends, night went on we all got drunk etc etc. There was couches, matresses etc etc. Plenty of room.
Fell asleep at about 4am on a couch, could fit at least 2, max 3 people sleeping wise and I woke up at 6am, found my GF and best friend asleep in his car.
They were both just asleep in the front driver seats of his car, all clothes on, blankets etc etc.
I pulled her out and spoke to her about it. Kept pleading...
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You're overreacting. They were just sleeping in his car, clothed and in the front seat. Everyone was drunk, and drunk people don't make good decisions, including about where to sleep.
Not that any of what I say matters. You've already decided that they both did something wrong and people here are just going to reinforce those ideas in your head because women are whores and can't be trusted, ultimately leading to the inevitable solution: "break up with her"
>>16681616
If this is your best friend and your girlfriend have a little more faith on them. They might've just been shootin the shit and passed out. It sounds like you must've fallen asleep early and they were still up so they went out to talk and it was probably cold so they went in the car.
>>16681629
lol, I'm not going to break up with her, I just needed someone to tell me I am over-reacting as I do know myself I have slight trust issues.
But thank you :)
Please help me, guys! Hurry
I'm trying to get out of an abusive relationship, RIGHT NOW.
She prevents me from doing what I want to and from seeing my friends. She hits me when she gets angry. She pushed one of my best friends out of my life. She has access to my facebook, skype, and steam.
I don't want this anymore, I want to be myself, I want to be happy. I just tried to break up with her, I said that we were no longer together and that she should leave me alone, I just changed all of my passwords. I've turned off my phone and communications...
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Just don't let her in, don't respond to her, if she starts going crazy threaten to call the cops, if she still won't leave then call the cops.
>>16681613
Keep a bitch in line
>>16681613
have some fucking backbone and enjoy your life
How do you Netflix and chill when you live with your parents still? I'm white trash and I don't really want this girl to see that and I don't really want to go to her house and hang out with her and her parents.
How the fuck do people under 21 have sex? Seriously how is it even possible.
They love their parents
>>16681597
How do you even have sex with parents in the house it's loud
>>16681585
Do your parents not work or something?
I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. It's starting to piss me off and I'm looking to get laid but I jave trouble starting conversations with girls and escalating things. I go to college so I see plenty of them. Advice?
you better hurry up, you have five years left until there's no point in trying anymore.
>>16681572
Ok, care to give advice now?
>>16681584
I don't have any advice but that. I failed so I could only tell you what not to do.
Im pretty sure you won't find the answer here and your time would be better spent outside with people tho.
Is it wrong to ask a married milf you know to hook up?
We talk all the time, I've known her for 7 years, she's 10 years older than me.
What will happen, will she stop being my "friend"?
Do it.
Do it for jeb.
9 times out of 10 you will make things awkward and probably ruin the friendship forever. There is that 1 chance she'd be down for it though.
>>16681475
Will she be offended that I even asked because I know she's married?
So I've always had pretty big feet. Like, quite huge for a girl. I've never had many issues with it and always just went on with my tomato-free life. However, recently I started talking to this amazing guy, but he seems to think my feet are freakishly large and it makes him shomit.
He often tells me he would just prefer spitting on them than actually looking at them.
Tell me, are they that bad?
yeah well i have small hands you dumb cunt
>>16681447
How tall are you?
& What's your shoe size?
>>16681447
This thread again? Was the first one not good enough for you?
I lose interest in every girl I date after awhile. What's wrong with me?
You're a man
You think they're infertile because you're using condoms.
>>16681414
you either haven;t found a girl you really like, or you don't know your priorities.
>>16681427
*gives u le epic brofist* YEAH!!!!!!!!1
