read Stoner by John Williams (not about stoners, it's about a man with Stoner as a last name) and cry because that will be your life

>>16677064

How does this help me? Do you relate to the character of the book or is this some attempt to troll me.

>>16677049
if you are going to grad school without really wanting to, you are setting yourself up for a miserable experience, maybe take acouple years to work around and see what field you like, then go back to grad school

same story here op. maybe its "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome, maybe not. we will probably always be confused and second guess our decisions.

Seems to me like you haven't fucked enough girls around to realize what matters. I think you need a few shitty relationships to see what you actually have is great. Dunno why our minds are so fucking disgusting...

>>16676885
>>16676896
You never stop asking yourself if it couldn't be better with someone else. You also never stop thinking about how sweet some other girls might be. It's normal. If you're in a good relationship you shouldn't waste it and if you feel that it's over leave but don't put the focus on how you feel about other people but about how you feel together with your partner.

fuck him up i can't tell if he has an arm or if his shirt has a broken thread

Pin him face down and grind into his hips?

Tear his earring out, bitchslap him, kick his feet out from under him, flip him on his stomach and kneel on his back until he asks for mercy.

Always avoid blows to the head, because that shit can go wrong so fast and so easily, and you don't want to end up in jail on a manslaughter charge over some dumbass fight. So don't bash his head against the ground, kick him in the head, any dumb shit like that, unless this kid is actually trying to kill you.

>>16676772

You can't do it. What the fuck else is there to explain?

>Should I have worded it better?
no, your reply was perfectly fine

It's fine.

>>16676756
Femanon here with psychosis NOS. What do you want to talk about?

I'm a non-mental femanon, can talk too if you wanna

>>16676771
What is NOS?

It's hard to do anything but lay in bed and watch simpons pretty much, waiting for doctor prescription.

I'm on arapriprazol injections at the moment

Yeah how does the post limit work on this.

Maybe. Maybe she found someone else. Maybe she just stopped seeing you that way. Maybe she never saw you that way in the first place and thought maybe you guys were getting a little too comfortable. No way to know without her telling you. It's tough but you're just going to have to cut your losses and move on.

>>16676706
Could it have been the timing though? A lot of people I've told this too have told me that 2-3 months of a crush is far too long, and I got 'friendzoned'. In the future if I get a crush should I try immediately and without hesitation?

Stop being such a fucking beta.

You tell her how you feel LIKE A MAN, STRAIGHTFORWARD AND DIRECT.
She either says she likes you too or she does not, if yes, great. If not, then move on with life and maybe you can remain just friends. DO NOT CHASE GIRLS. It is useless, unless you want to be a beta that can be cut out at any time and expected to still chase.

As for timing, you tell her how you feel the instant you can conclude what way you feel about someone else. You just fucking tell her, women are the ones that are shy about love. Not men, unless you're...
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>>16676681
Fatties don't deserve love or respect. Notice how you only hot attention once you got fit? Why would you want to stick it in a fatty? Say you'll fuck her once she loses all that weight, piggy.

>>16676751

Meh just fuck her. It's really no big deal. Just tell her no stings attached, if she gets clingy then it's over.

It's a free fuck, who cares.

I would say it's a bad idea. As you said chicks that lose it tend to form some kind of bond. So unless you want this girl whom you said isn't very attractive to be attached to you then go right ahead. If not then politely turn her down. Don't feel bad though, most unattractive guys get turned down all the time by chicks, so just keep moving on.

Side note/question. Would you say that if she lost weight in those wrong places, do you think it would make her more desirable?

what are you, in prison or something

would it hurt?

>>16676651
i did drugs now i wanna die.

sorry for all the typos, didn't read it over

man that's fucking awful to have witnessed, but really, there's nothing you could've said even if you hadn't gone into shock like 99% of the population would've. like there's literally nothing you can say that sounds okay:

>are you okay?

>oh my god why?

>it's going to be okay

there's nothing. so don't fret about it.

I don't blame you. You stayed there with him at least, instead of just leaving.

Talk about it and get it out.

Sort your problems out like any sane person?

Yes. Therapy for your depression. Very original, I know.
Depression is a common illness. What makes it different from other illnesses is that people will object to treatment due to retarded reasons.

Your depression will get better and then you'll be glad you didn't committ suicide. Just ask anyone formerly depressed.

My uncle was very depressed, grew up with my mom in a shitty home and then a shelter. He left everyone behind (we live in NYC) and moved to Japan. This was in the late 70's. Perhaps you need to go to a new place.

General relationship advice: if someone asks for a break, you consider that it is over. Take a time for yourself, you don't need to find another gf asap, but don't go back with her.

>>16676621
>issues with our relationship
Yeah, issues like you not being a Chad with three foot cock, you cuck.

It's over. Move on. I'm also 100% she must be dating or fucking other guys as a way to "find herself". Women always do this.

Let her have the right to pay for her own meal.

Wow, that was easy.

>>16676563
Tell her equal but different. You pay for the meals. She decorates your bachelor pad.

You started off wrong. Even if you were calm or logical or whatever else what did you expect by attacking someone's closely held political beliefs? There are extreme views in any schools of thought that are easy to pick apart.

Now you understand what people mean by "personality matters". Just fucking act drunk instead of being stiff as a board - it's like the same fucking thing. They want to be with somebody that's confident and easy going. You sound like you have a massive stick up your ass because of your entitled attitude "oh man I got a big cock, I'm fit, and I'm in the sciences, the bitches should be begging ME for the D!"

Holy fuck, man.

>>16676516
Why does everyone here project so much.
I dont have a problem with my personality. People love me. And I have no problem with sober women. Just the drunk ones. When someone ask you to drink with them and you turn them down they immediately get turned off. Guys as well. Im asking how to avoid that.

>>16676526
Not that I have this problem, but I think in this day and age, it's a genuinely legit concern. However, it does mostly boil down to the kind of people you hang out with. Like, if someone thinks you're boring just because you don't drink, they're generally not worth your time.

You sound like you have a lot going for you OP, maybe expand your social circle and try meeting people outside of parties. This is a prime time in your life, so make the most of it.

Are you in any clubs/societies?

Give some examples to we can get an idea of what you mean.

>>16676537
I was having a perfectly good day, looking for jobs online, helping mom with the house work, playing with the dogs and making tea when I remembered that the syrian crisis is a thing, and the thought of innocent civilians makes me sad, and the thought of getting raped/killed by muslims makes me sad, too, and that sometimes there are literally no good options and human suffering is awlays inevitable and now I'm sitting here in my bed crying, hiding under a blanket and knowing that it doesn't make the big scary world go away.

>>16676508

The key to prevent sadness and fear for the future is preparation. Take self defense and have the skills and reference experiences to feel confident.

Additionally, it seems you went on a depressive thought cascade. Basically, one bad thought leads to another right? The key to that is to insert a time gap between thinking of something sad, then expressing that sadness physically.

Try pausing for one second before you think of the next thought. Maybe (inside your mind) scream the word PAUSE! Do it...
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>>16676502
He's bored with you and this relationship; possibly has a side bitch. Obviously he's not very involved so prepare yourself for getting dumped

>>16676507

I actually tried to break up with him over this a couple weeks ago and he begged me to stay, saying that he intended to marry me and shit.

He seems really shady and not that into it. I say move on.