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Hi,
I'm supposed to take an eye test in a few hours, because I need a new pair of glasses.
Since I'm high on heroin, my pupils are constricted.
Is that going to make a difference? Should I take that test some other time?
>>16674835
reschedule desu
>>16674835
yes it will make a big difference.
Reschedule for another time.
>>16674835
Yeah reschedule. Next time you shoot up/snort/whatever make sure you do enough to kill yourself though. It'll make a major difference because society will be minus one worthless junkie.
Yesterday I posted a thread with this same image saying I felt hollow and depressed in my relationship, and detailing some things that happened recently.
I read all the comments saying I should talk to her, and I did, and I got mad and we've been having a huge fight for over 24 hours now. That ugly feeling between us doesn't seem to be getting any better.
She just went to sleep and told me to write a list with everything she does that I dislike, citing there were "tons of things" she disliked that I did as well. Should I actually do it or is...
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Trap. Trap everywhere. I'm taking this because I'm a girl too. There's nothing you can do. If the girl didn't seem like willing to change,she'll hate you forever for what you talked. At this point I don't think it's wise to repeat that subject now. Move on and do it the other the day when she is in a good mood.
>>16674830
It's a trap. If you guys fight now, what magical formula do you think there is that would fix it at this point. This 'list' sounds like catalyst to end it. Will you fix what she perceives, would she fix what you perceive?
Make a list of the things you LIKE about her, turn the tables. It's still likely a lose lose, but who really knows.
>>16674830
A whole list would just be petty and childish. Think of the major things that bother you, think of why they bother you, and think of a way that they can be fixed.
I'd say write it out simply so you can have the entire thing well thought out instead of blurted out incorrectly in the emotional heat of the moment. Don't bring it into the conversation though, just say you thought about it.
Try not to be accusatory and focus on how things make you feel. "When you do this, I feel like ____"...
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I've been thinking. If one person won a billion dollars, and gave a million to each person in America, what exactly would happen? Would it even be possible? I'm guessing everyone would quit their jobs? Or if you did keep it, would you be bored with everything life would have to ofter? Just curious what everyone else thought about it.
>>16674798
Inflation. I think you also overestimate how far a million dollars goes. Especially when people are suddenly given it and use it recklessly.
Also this isn't advice.
>>16674798
>Would it even be possible?
Afraid not. $1 billion would be enough to give about $3 to everyone in America.
>>16674798
lol someone believed the meme...
What's the most painless way iyo to an hero?
>>16674782
cut open your stomach and strangle yourself with your intestine
>>16674782
What makes you think there's no pain on your next stop if you did that?
It's going to be incredibly painful for everyone that cares about you. So why should it be painless for you? drink Drano, handcuff yourself to a bed and set it on fire
Yoooosooooo
I met this gitl at a party and it turns out we had a random connection walking down the sidewalk one day that got my butterflies going. But turns out shes 16 and im 22 , im not sure if i should go for it or not legal age in my state is 16 , what are your thoughs my buddy is 25 dating a 18 yo right now so makes me feel slightly better about it.
To add she seema really fun and is totally my type when it comes to style and personality.
What do?
>>16674707
Don't even bother man. You're at completely different stages of life, like this girl is picking out prom dresses and you're old enough to have completed college and started a master's degree.
I just don't see what you guys would really have in common in the long run.
If its legal why not?
Don't do it even if it's legal. You don't want that kind of reputation, seriously.
My boyfriend won't stop adding porn bots on smapchat, used to do shit on kik all of the time, and he keeps looking at traps.
I'm about and 8 or 9 and he's a 6 or 7 and I love him but I'm tired of him putting me through shit. I'm tired of constantly finding new shit.
I don't understand how I'm not enough, I'm willing to do basically anything he wants me to do, he's finishing up school so I work and provide for both of us and I get him basically whatever he wants.
What should I do?
>traps
Leave him
You know what to do already.
>>16674635
you already know what to do.
hes an autistic manchild that will never grow up. im going to take a wild guess that you met him here?
whats a good way of dealing with loneliness, i feel like no one cares about me and i think my place on this earth seems null. I just want to have someone i can do nice things for.
>>16674611
>I just want to have someone i can do nice things for.
Volunteer somewhere.
>>16674614
they won't think its creepy that some young guy choose to volunteer on his own choice? Okay then.
Lately I've been feeling almost the same op. I personally just try to fill the void by just focusing on work, college and hobbies. I might try to join an club or two, maybe you should consider the same. Maybe we'll both end up making new friends?
Hi /adv i need an advice regarding smart drugs, im taking drugs that can increase your mental output. the following medications i take are:
Piracetam
Modafinil
Fish oil
Gingko Biloba
Multi-vit w/ royal jelly and ginseng
Glutaphos
my question is how do i maximize my mental learning and minimizing the risk of cirrhosis and bleeding?
are my drug of choice safe? how do i use it safely thanks
What, No snake oil?
>>16674608
i dont like the taste of snake oil.
>>16674593
I don't know who told you this, but taking supplements isn't going to make you any smarter than you already are.
Want to get smart? better go hit those math and science books
My boyfriend's ex used his credit card for about 1,000 dollars recently. She admitted to it and didn't even really apologize. Just kind of said, you should have changed your pin.
He doesn't want to press charges and didn't even bitch her out at all. He says it isn't worth it, but to me, it raised major red flags.
Am I crazy for thinking he must still have feels for her?
>>16674589
Could be he just wants to move on and not get into yet another argument with her. If my ex did that shit I'd probably just get the money back and try and move on asap. Of course it could be what you think, ask him about it and see how he responds. don't like accuse him though
>>16674589
Did you find out or did he tell you out of guilt?
Unless he has something to hide he'd do something about it.
>>16674589
It sounds more like he knows she's a psychotic black hole of endless drama, and for him, it's worth it to lose $1000 and change his pin, rather than get drawn into a fight with her. She clearly did this as a move to get his attention, he knows that, and he's not giving her what she wants.
If he still had feelings for her, he'd get drawn in. He'd fight. His response pretty much sounds like he's just sick of her shit and would rather just end this situation quickly.
We will have been going out for 2 years in March which makes this very difficult. We are both shy and don't have any friends. I like hanging out with her but she never took the relationship seriously. She makes stuff up in her mind like Me asking to put "in a relationship" on Facebook was a conspiracy to get back at my ex, when I asked her if she loved me she was thrown off that I'd ask about love she said yes but she wouldn't ask back because she already made up her mind that I don't love her (this was months ago) I find myself generally having...
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She sounds insecure about the relationship. Have you asked her why she wants you to validate your relationship constantly?
>>16674492
Having no friends and being used a lot I guess she likes the feeling of being pampered. Which I like to do but she doesn't do it back and claims I'm using her if I don't.
I'm no expert but try being a bit of a hardass or demanding and controlling. She would probably respond well to it. The acting out is a way of testing you. Be more rough. You can't change who you are though.
are all women bisexual?
>>16674442
If Kinsey is to bepieved, then no more so than men; women just aren't as good at hiding it.
I've seen studies that say men can't be bisexual but all women are. Has to be bullshit though because I'm bisexual, many men are.
>>16674442
Doubtful, but women don't have to be "masculine" and reject anything vaguely homosexual the way men are expected to
What's the best way to clean my ear besides seeing a doctor?
The best way to clean your ear is with your elbow.
With your head tilted sideways, pour hydrogen peroxide into your ear canal. Let it sit for at least five minutes. Tilt your head and drain it into a napkin.
>>16674426
Fuckwit detected. Hydrogen peroxide kills healthy cells too. Use half n half vinegar and rubbing alcohol. Regularly clean your ears. Don't soak your head in water.
Hey, guys. I've found a school and program that I like at a school in Tokyo (and no, I'm actually not a weeb, and don't even watch anime).
Recently, my mother said she's against the idea. This happened suddenly, and I kind of felt led on. She wants me to go to the state school.
My high school asks for a parent signature to be able to send my transcript to universities, and to apply.
Financially, I have $10k in a junior savings account or some shit like that. I'm not sure if it's mine or not, but I am 18.
Any suggestions?...
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Wat do. I don't want my mom deciding four years of my life and therefore the rest of it because of muh feels.
>>16674396
your school can't do that, tell them to fuck off
>>16674396
You're gonna have a hard time adjusting to the new environment of uni alone.
Can't begin to imagine the struggle of an entire new country/culture.
Do you have a solid income to pay for the next four years?
The plane ticket alone will burn through a good chunk of that 10k
Assuming its even yours.
i really want a relationship but i don't want to be hurt by love. i was hurt a long time ago and i still feel it.
i know i'll be hurt again, relationships always end somehow...unless you die before it's over; but who is that lucky?
same
i feel you, i was hurt and toyed with by my last girlfriend almost a year ago, all i want is a relationship but i'm hesitant to try because of the lingering fear of it happening again
Relax. Humans are not meant to have long term relationships. We grow and change far too quickly and diversely to remain compatible with each other over time. Learn to enjoy the time you share with any one person whether it be one minute or ten years. A new and more compatible person always comes along if you are open to it. The only reason long term relationships worked in the past is because women had no options and were forced to be what their male partners wanted them to be. Let yourself grow, let yourself change. Find the person who is a match for you in the here and now.
I'm a sophomore in college who's pretty much never loved a single person, but recently I've met this girl who just makes me feel all the right things in all the right places. The problem is she's super shy (I honestly think she's autistic). I've been trying to be her friend, but she usually brushes me off or freaks out. I've never been in a relationship or even liked somebody before, so I don't know how any of this works, and I'm honestly so afraid of fucking this up.
plz help
Fem anon here, who happens to be in the same boat.
>19
>never been in a relationship my entire life
I'm still trying to figure this out for myself.
Anyways, what do you guys talk about? What if what you're saying is causing her to play koi? I could be wrong though. But more background could help.
maybe she's never really gotten too close to guys before
are you friends with her on social media?
