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>be tomboy hermaphrodite with mostly functional penis
>boyfriend is catholic to some degree
>3 months into dating, he comes back from vacation
>we have sex
>he insists on sucking my penis
>I'm not really comfortable with that
>he does it anyway because
>"come on, when would I get another opportunity?"
>I think this is mostly a response to my having a set surgery date for removing the penis
>been about 24hrs since
>still not sure how I feel about it
>don't think it matters since I won't have a penis in a few months
>nagging worry that he is a closet gay
>logical me and my counselor assure worrywart me that his qualities preclude him from being gay
>superhuman ability to flick tongue
>modest amount of porn
>often gets boners when hot women are involved
>never gets boners while looking at guys
I don't really wanna bring it up with him either because it seems to be such a transient and unfounded worry. Plus I want him to feel casual when having sex with me. Am I wrong?
>>16671661
He may not be 100% gay, but he's definitely somewhere in the middle on the Kinsey Scale. Did he know you were going into full transition before you started dating? He could be using you as a way to have "guilt-free" gay sex, because he sees you as a woman (and you'll be a woman soon anyway). Catholics, in my experience, tend to have some fucked up views when it comes to sex.
>>16671678
When we were dating for the first month, he just thought I was a cis woman.
>>16671680
Casually dating or actually together?
>talking to girl that just turned legal
>all her pictures from 16-17 look hot as fuck
>all of her recent pics don't show much of her face and don't look as good
Girls can't just like..get ugly. Right?
>>16671609
It is possible. I've seen threads that show people going down hill very quickly. I guess it could be someone who had played sports in high school, had their mother cooking for them and all that goes away when they move out or go to college.
>>16671644
Well she's not fat or anything and her last hot picture was taken in March 2014
Maybe it's just filters or something? Idk her pictures look different as fuck like her face changed. Maybe it's just a hair style or something?
A lot of the girls I went to high school with and found very attractive as a teenager have not aged well at all desu.
Would some kind anon mind giving me advice on my resume?
Any general comments?
I'm a junior in college trying to land an internship.
OCR is coming up. bump
>>16671576
i ain't gonna read all that shit and neither is anyone else
shorten it up
Has anybody actually gone out and tried to get help with their social/anxiety issue?
How's the effort been going?
I feel I should finally get help but I know SSRIs are brain killing drugs and the whole thing is feeling like you have a positive connection with somebody
>>16671571
I improved myself by spending months talking to random strangers on Omegle, forming a conversation voice, a way of talking to people, and then after a while real life situations became slightly easier.
>>16671584
That's another problem i have though, i don't care for human interaction really. It's too stressful and pointless to me.
I literally don't want anything for my life.
>>16671699
Then maybe you don't want to make friends?
Unless you're depressed (you mentioned SSRIs). In that case, I recommend dealing with the depression simultaneously, and easing into it. You might feel more motivated then.
Hello, this is the first time i post on advice and i would like to know, better if it's from a psychologist or someone studying psychology.
Well, this is it, i want to know what is this called.
I can come up with logical explanations for things that could either be bad things or good things, well i don't know how to describe it.
It happens randomly, i don't know if it's inspiration but something activates inside me, today i was looking at a movie, a little amateur short, very well made and all that, it was about a nuclear war and a survivor...
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But i can't control it, at all, it's like it activates when it wants and i start to make up shit that could be believed by others and it would have ALL THE LOGIC OF THE WORLD.
I also, when angry when someone, i tell them things about the problem in question and always come up with very twisted logical explanations or harsh reality logic explanations, like punishing them, always twisted and cruel.
How is this called? how i can control this? why it all makes sense? even for others ... it's like i make up fake logic that makes sense or something...
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you have a condition called "autism"
>>16671564
Explain more in depth, please.
Guys. I'm really sad right now. He was one of my favorites. I'm almost crying. Please make me happy.
Now you can have a new favorite :-)
>>16671488
Good luck m8
https://youtu. be/Cu4CWenCBIw
The sheer volume and consistency of his work will never ever be matched. He lived and died a wonderful artist. The world still loves him to this day and always will. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Is it a bad idea to let a girl (or anyone in general) know that you're a virgin at 20? And if I'm asked, how do I avoid the question?
I don't mean to say I go around offering this information, and the only people I've told this to are my close buddies.
A man is a miserable pile of secrets.
I don't understand the problem.
Dude, being a "virgin" doesn't mean shit. Stop caring
>>16671438
It's nobodies business except yours. If a guy asks you, just ask him how many shits he takes a day.
Hey, so I'm living with my parent currently, but the only way i can keep living with them is
a. cant do drugs
b.can't drink (until I'm 21)
c. can't smoke
d. stay inn college
NOw the only problem is i just smoked 3 cigarettes on my porch but i left the door open so some of the smoke got in to the room. How long will that room smell like smoke? how can i fix it? does the room smell like smoke?
I really don't want to get kicked out, please i need help
Why the fuck would you WANT to smoke?
>>16671315
Pretend OP said weed, and maybe then you'll be able to give him actual helpful advice
>>16671311
Did Sparrow give you permission to post those?
Thing is, since I lost some weight, suddenly many people saw me as a girl. For example, in my old work(fast food ) people called me as I where a chick to many times!!
And here comes the real thing...
In my art college, my class is full of guys.. and almost all the class has/had a crush on my... Im not kidding, even one of them try to lay with me, also one creepy guy tried to touch me several times ... like I were a hot chick or something.
So yeah, thing seems to be that im a "hot girl"... even a girl told me "you look like a hotty lesbian"... 2 hours...
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>>16671310
>5 foot 3 inches
>114 pounds
>self-admitted girlish haircut
Dude. You're a twink.
How the fuck can you possibly expect us to respond to this if you don't post a picture?
>>16671330
>>16671337
I said the "kinda girlish haircut" thing, not because my harcut is actually girlish, but can be seem as one.. and Im not even that skinny.
My haircut is very similar to this http://www.menhairstylespins.net/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/layered-haircut.jpg
... sorry, no pictures... (buttt maybe I change my mind)
Would it be autistic to tell a guy you want to absorb his genetic information during sex?
I genuinely have autism so I can't tell how "weird" I sound.
I call my boyfriend my mate and refer to sexual intercourse as copulation/mating/coitus.
Vernacular terms kill my arousal.
A word like phallus for example sounds better than cock.
>>16671297
What the fuck?
>>16671306
I'm going to interpret that as a "yes"
>Would it be autistic to tell a guy you want to absorb his genetic information during sex?
Jesus Christ that's weird as fuck. Just imagining it makes me cringe hard.
I don't know where else to post this so, I bought an aneros Vice (pic related) after reading several overwhelmingly positive reviews for it. I've only been fucked 5 times before so, my anal experience is very limited. I used my aneros a few times using astroglide water based lube, and don't have much trouble inserting it with mild pain when almost completely inserted. I make sure to wait a few minutes before doing contractions, but I still don't think I'm hitting the prostate.
Also, sex toy advice general
>>16671128
I forgot to mention, I feel uncomfortable pressure on my perineum from the p-tab
Are you a faggot?
>>16671522
I'm bi. Are you implying anal play makes you gay?
I've got a problem. A little over a year ago my older brother killed himself, and both my parents lost their shit, I can't stand them anymore. Furthermore I feel like my outlook has permanently darkened to the point where everything seems to bore me, I have no passion for anything, and the things that used to make me happy just don't anymore. I feel like everyone is disgusting, a bunch of stupid predictable cliched personalities, and I don't want anything to do with any of them. Everything is just a waste of time and effort. Should I kill myself and just be done with this shit?
First of all how close were you with your bro? What have been doing with your time since his death and how old are you? The older you are the more independent you can be in your decision.
I can sympathise with you on having a brother. I have a brother that is a year younger than me and we've been tight as shit since I can remember. I don't know how I'd live with myself without him...
And by everyone, you mean all the people you face with in person?
>>16671116
You're likely reacting to your brother's death in your own way. I suggest therapy- your therapist should be able to draw out some of the emotions that are clouding your mind.
