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Okay so heres then thing. Apparently girls have been guess the size of my dick because of my bulge and I dont know what to do about it.
I suffer from penis dysmorphia. When I was in middle school some girls were talking about how you shoe size correlated to your penis size and asked me what my shoe size was and joked about how 5 inches was small. Now in middle school the destroyed me mentally because we all here the 6" is the mininum needed but it didnt occur to me that my penis would still grow. Just that it wasnt 6" (could have been, I had never measured it then for fear of finding out it was tiny)
Now for the most part, all of my life I have had a problem with a penis bulge, But I just assumed it was due to me doing something wrong or that my dick was small. Thing is now the bulge is massive. I wear gym shorts a lot because I hang around the rec area on my campus most of the time. the bulge is apparently incredibly noticeable and girls take note of it. Theres literally nothing I know to do to hide it. I find myself walking funny sometimes to try to do so.
I measured myself so time ago and surprise (its actually massive) however I still dont want people knowing that and talking.
Some girls were apparently joking about penis sizes and how they could tell from the bulges when guys were playing basketball and one girl looks at me and says
>youre a 7
I have never spilled spaghetti this hard in my entire life. I responded with an incredibly shy
>nooooo
I dont know why I said that. They could think i have a small penis now or something.
I just want to avoid this situation and not have people look at my flaccid dick throw my shorts. When I was in high school I just said fuck it Im sure other guys have this problem and just had fun playing around, going swimming. But now Im so ashamed because in retrospect, from some of the expressions people made they definitely noticed and guys were probably pretty uncomfortable.
Just be happy, guy. I'm 7 inches, but not many girls would think that, since I'm a grower, not a shower.
>>16667735
nothing you can do to stop the gawking but you can the self consciousness. You do not have to parade your junk around but stop being awkward and own the fact you are blessed. Know also soon as you use it on one woman, they'll brag and you'll have them lining up. Enjoy your gift and stop hiding
>>16667751
Im around 6" flaccid. If its warm its even worse. Id like to have some modesty.
I literally have no concept of size apparently because I still dont see it as big. But how the fuck did anyone ever expect me to hide that.
Holy shit my family. They never said anything but I would wear thin shorts around the house every single day. Im so fucking embarrassed.
>>16667755
Thats the thing, I wasnt self conscious until I measured it and heard girls talking...
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What're good ways to get a girl to orgasm without sex or oral?
I'm currently in a relationship of about a year; both of us are each other's first sexual partners. Neither of us are planning to have sex any time very soon, we don't feel ready yet, but we do have sexual encounters fairly often, about once every week.
He's easy as hell to get to orgasm but no matter what we've tried, I don't get a thing. I barely get much pleasure really, except for when he tries oral, but as I've said he doesn't want to do that. We have...
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Why doesn't he want to give you oral?
Do you blow him?
So before I offer my advice I need to know a couple of things.
When you two have your sexual encounters, what do you do? How much do you do compared to what he does? Have you talked about his unwillingness to go down on you? If he doesn't go down on you, what DOES he do?
Practise on your own and then guide him properly to the right zone. Unless he's a total fuckup he should get to somewhere pleasurable eventually, if you just relax, visualize. and allow the feelings to flow. If not, just insist on the damn oral or do it yourself.
I'm a NEET (girl) who hasn't done any sport for two years. Is it as unhealthy as people claim? Is sports really necessary to stay healthy? I mean, I am not fat and I don't get sick that often.
It's more to do with the exercise behind sport.
Not actively playing sport is fine. Not exercising at all is majorly unhealthy.
>>16667716
You won't die right away from not doing exercise but you can expect having not as long a life expectancy as someone who does. So it's better to do some cardio and sweating than not obviously.
Why would you want your body to wither and get weak?
Okay so been out of the game for a while. Asked a girl on a date this Wednesday (going to see star wars), but i'm broke as shit because i am working on getting my drivers license. I told her that and she said no big deal she would pay for it. Is it okay to let her pay for that on the first date? Or should i try really hard to pull some money out of my ass? I really like this girl and i feel like i should pay for everything.
Pull cash out of your ass bro, if you really like her.
WHY WOULD YOU GO TO THE MOVIES ON THE FIRST DATE? FUCK YOU!
>>16667544
Yes, but if you can afford money for popcorn/drinks/whatever then definitely do that. Otherwise there's a chance she'll think you're a mooch. Offer to pay for the next date. Take turns paying.
Hello 4chans,
New year, new change, but still havent done shit. Like the last half a year since I got laid off from work. Problems was I had zero social life besides work. Finally I had a place with some nice people where I could do some good work and I felt confident. Then for what ever reason, I honestly dont believe the talk I had, I had to stop.
Live sucked, confidence dropped to zero. Seeking for a new job was unsuccesfull. I didnt really care either. Somehow I still havent given up because I somehow believe I still can turn it arround and make cool stuff....
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I hear you senpai.
I'm in a similar spot. It's called apathy or "stuckness".
When we feel stuck, it's mostly because we've been doing the same unproductive things over and over again for a long period of time. It won't change just because you cut down on the things you want to avoid (tv, drink, junk, fap), unless you replace those things with more fulfilling and exciting activities. You can test this by catching yourself next time you're getting ready to do any of the beforementioned, and instead just snap out if it and do...
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>>16667529
Thanks Wise One, for the concrete advice. I already wrote some things down. Some of them are: less gaming, less drinking. I heard sometimes goals like that arent the best since they have nothing concrete you can achieve.
Other are: reading and making a game. I always wanted to make a game or atleast learn to make something like a game where you could just play with, adding stuff creating new things. But on low moments there is always the doubt. Now you see kids making games, how can I compete with that?
How...
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