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How do you deal with having tantrums as an adult?
Grow the fuck up and possibly see a therapist.
>>16664293
what the fuck am I supposed to say?
>sometimes I get really fucking mad for no reason and get the urge to fight someone but usually just end up hurting myself to make it stop
>have you considered not doing that
>>16664289
Have you tried not being autistic?
>gf is online on Facebook pretty much all day
>like, really all day
>ask who she talks to in there, since we only talk on WhatsApp
>she sends me a screenshot of her messages
>she doesn't have one active chat, the last message from a guy was from december 30 and she didn't even open it
>that would mean no one on her Facebook wished her a happy new year
>she has over 2.000 friends
>I have 300 friends
>I received at least four messages on New Year
The odds are she's lying to me and deleted some conversations in order to throw it in my face, right?
I mean, it is IMPOSSIBLE that someone with 2000 friends would get NO messages on New Year's eve, more so when it's a woman.
You are one sad paranoid mother fucker.
>>16663827
I really am paranoid, but it makes a lot of sense.
>>16663830
Not really. I have a thousand friends on Facebook I never talk to as well, because we text or use group me. Your relationship isn't going to last long if you worry about stupid shut like this and you never should have asked her who she talks to to begin with.
Anyone worked in the fashion model industry? What is it like?
>>16663535
Model here. What would you like to know?
>>16663535
Models?
On 4chan?
HA HA HA HA.
>>16663540
How can I break into the industry? How is the pay and working condition? Some say that isn't not glamarous at all and mostly shit unless if you are one of those famous supermodels.
So I think I might have caught HIV. I was masturbating and some of my spunk landed on a cut on my leg. The blood mixed with the spunk. now I have a cough and a sore throat. How likely is it I have caught HIV?
You're fucked, better end it while you still have your balls.
That's what AIDS does, right? Makes your balls fall off?
>>16662933
Yep totally got HIV because you're currently spreading gay cancer with your shitposting.
Cool b8 m8
So somehow my body has decided to lactate for unknown reasons. I'm definitely not pregnant because I'm currently on my period.
Has this ever happened to any other anon?
When I try to research it, google says it's gotta be a pituitary tumor. But a tumor would stop my period?
Kind of worried but mainly weirded out and wondering if this is just something that happens.
I kind of blame some kind of hormones from being near a friends baby. That's kind of all the makes sense to me.
For anyone curious I tried tasting it and it doesn't have a huge amount of taste I'd describe it as tasting like clean skin. It's sticky feeling though, more so than cow milk. Also I can only get droplets out.
Ask a doctor. Googles not good for that kind of stuff. I've heard of it happening due to hormone fuck ups.
There's this thing called a doctor they're new but they're good
Webmd says it's most likely from excessive nipple stimulation
I'm totally new to this site, and I just don't understand the culture of the place, and am completely overwhelmed by whatever the fuck is going on here.
Can /adv/ help a newfag understand 4chan?
What's going on here is nothing of value.
Just leave...
No one needs you to be here.
There is no salvation from the hellish inferno you have entered
how can i sleep easier
i've spent the last three nights laying in bed until 7 am and then falling asleep out of pure lack of it, and then waking up at around 4. it's 5 right now and i still can't sleep, can anyone help? im willing to try different thing
help me /adv/, it's cutting into my ability to do anything at normal day times
That person in your image has a very small neck
idk, sleeping pills, strict schedule
>>16663784
Have you tried melatonin? Any other sleeping pills? Sleepy time tea?
Walmart employee here. How do I report another employee for unethical behavior? I mean, my store uses phrases like "zero tolerance policy" and "open doors" but can I really trust them? In retail, no one gives a shit about you. I more or less expect the same treatment from the higherups.
Basically last night, a customer pulled me aside and told a long-winded story. I know all too well the desire for someone to just fucking listen to what I have to say, so, I stopped to listen. Only I was still on the clock and I needed to go clock out for the day. 10 minutes later one of the CSMs makes me ring her up. That didn't seem right. But she, in the past, has been one of those people to keep asking me to work on my time off. Or, asking when I start. Or, asking when I'm in next. But I rung her up quickly because she was my fucking manager, not just anyone else.
Those I could handle, but, then I had another employee (a fellow cashier) come up to my lane. My light was off. She was forcing me to ring her up as well.
>"But [my name] I work here!"
>"It's my lunch break!"
>"[my name]!!!"
>"Please"
She wasn't being nice about it either. I told her that I was closed and my light was off. I would've helped her if she wasn't having such mean and forceful tones. But it was already the end of a bad day. Just one unfortunate event after another and I was very worn down and pissed off. I should've walked away but I didn't. Grabbed the frozen meal out of her hands, adamantly said $2.50, yanked the money away from her and put it in the till. She fucking forced me but I shouldn't have done it.
Ethical/unethical? What should my course of action be?
Imo, it's neither ethical or unethical... Just rude. In that situation I would have probably just told her in a firm but fair way that "I'm not on shift anymore" if she persisted i would simply say "no" and shut down my register ignoring her until she went away.
Maybe saying no is hard for you, you should try standing by it. Without integrity in this, you will be a walkover
>>16663380
If you've punched out, don't work.
If you're punched in, work, take the half hour, then go back to work.
It's not legal to make you work off the clock and walmart has a long and detailed history of making people do it.
>>16663396
I can say no but it's hard for me to stand with that decision when people are being mean to me. You can't exactly cuss out or snap at others in retail. If I could speak my mind, I would've.
I have all I need to "gain integrity". So how do I start? How do I be firm like you said? It's something I've always had trouble learning how to do
Fellow ESLfag from Germany here. How can I learn to speak with an American accent like Heidi Klum (pic related)? I watched this TV show with her a while ago and her English is so good I couldn't tell she's not American.
Mimic how americans talk. Adjust your voice or w/e. Ace ESL and then keep practicing.
personally I think her English sounds totally fluent but her accent is still there
definitely try make sure you listen a lot to native speakers and not only German speakers speaking English if you care about sounding native. I think with foreign languages, youll always have an accent to some extent and honestly unless it's really heavy, it doesn't matter. heidi klum can express her ideas clearly - the accent is a non issue
>>16663165
Really? I can't detect any German in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88c0N0yad7A
She sounds fully American to me.
What's a nice, nonthreatening or unimposing gift for a coworker who I like for Valentine's day? If there is such a thing as an innocent gift for Valentine's day.
She'd also be the only person who I'd get a gift for at the office, so I'm not sure how to go about it.
Why not read up on your employer's sexual harassment policy and get back to us?
>>16662666
yes a gift is obviously harassment
Have you even asked them out for coffee yet you dumb fuckster?
So I don't understand this guy at all, so maybe you could help me out?
So let me describe my friend's behaviors
>Easily angered
>Nice intentions but always comes out wrong
>Always hates being left out. Will bitch and moan about it, but always says he's joking
>Takes everything personally
>Found out through mutual friend one early morning that he feels like I'm replacing him in the friend group
Essentially they guy has no self esteem
Okay with that out of the way. Let me elaborate on how he hates being left out. I can go to a restaurant for ONE evening without the guy, he can even be at work or busy, but he'll get upset that we went without him. I'm the only one who calls him out on it, how childish he acts. I'm going to be hiking across the Midwest this summer with my best friend (Not him). The friend in question loves to hike, but because of lack of room, and him not always being the best travel partner, we're going without him, and NOT telling him about it until the day of. If I tell him before, he will moan about it and probably not talk to us for quite a while.
The kicker is, while he complains about being left out, even in the SMALLEST of occasions, he'll kick his feet around. But he never invites everyone to every occasion, and essentially says "Eh, fuck them" like it's nothing.
>Does anyone have a clue what would make a person so upset about being left out of things?
This sounds a lot like BPD or just a very dependent personality. Try to get him help.
>Guy going about his life
>Enter you
>Suddenly guy not getting invited to things as usual
>He makes his feelings known that he feels like you're replacing him
>You basically say he's a prick and tell him to fuck off
Oh gee I wonder why he's mad hmm let me ponder this for a few weeks
^
>Enter me, at the time when all our friends started meeting each other. Most of his friends were originally mine, except for two, the ones he hangs out with most.
>Other than one on one hanging out with my best friend, he gets invited to all the shit
>I was told from my best friend that the guy feels I'm replacing him, and he feels his friends like me more
>I'm basically saying it's not the end of the world if he doesn't get invited to the occasional dinner or hiking trip
Nice b8 though
I cannot help but think black people are just naturally less intelligent. In classes, they always space out and have to ask white people for answers, and they have no work ethic in terms of education, and sometimes in terms of employment. This of course does not apply to all, but many a black person is this way. They also talk like autistic foreigners with a lisp, and I cannot feel safe if I walk by a group of black people on the sidewalk. Help me be not racist please.
>Help me be not racist please.
Hear me out for a second, you just might not be racist.
Take Al Roker for example, nobody would call him a nigger. He's friendly, upstanding, intelligent and a caring father...on top of being motivated in his career.
The same can be said for Obama more or less.
Thuglife trash on the other hand? Fucking irredeemable filth. Nothing to do with their skin color either, you can have thuglife mexicans and whites, and they are pretty much just as bad, except for the fact that you have a harder time taking them seriously.
Heres a good vid:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3PJF0YE-x4
>>16662294
Welp, that's refreshing. But really, does anyone feel safe around Muslim men? And I don't mean white Muslims, I mean like middle eastern immigrant Muslim.
>>16662303
.And I don't mean white Muslims, I mean like middle eastern immigrant Muslim.
If were ignoring skin color then its not racism.
The problem with muslim immigrants is that they usually wear their religion on their sleeve, forcing their wives to wear the fucking masks, demanding prayer time/locations, taking their ceremonial knife on a plane, and ostricising their own children for not following their cult-like traditions
Again, its the fucking culture, not the skin color.
Same shit with jews, hollywood jews are totally okay, but the orthodox cultists...FUCK them
My gf recently told me she's also into girls. However, we were extremely drunk at the time and I have little recollection of the conversion, to the point of not being 100% sure if that's what she said.
Anyway I'm going to bring it up with her soon and wanted some general advice on what to do. How can I bring it up without sounding insensitive? If she did in fact say this, how should I respond?
I'm fine with it in concept, I want to be supportive. But I'd also like to know the exact extent of her feelings, is it just a sex thing, is/was there a girl she actually has a crush on ext. But I don't want to be overly probing.
Anyone had this situation? Bi people, let me know how you'd want others to respond. Thanks annons.
>>16663314
Well, I'm bi (and a girl) and I think asking her about her sexuality doesn't have to be a bad thing (though it would be better if she was the one to tell you). Still, the fact that she's sexualy attracted to guys and girls doesn't mean she's going to go around cheating on you. That's a really offensive steriotype. She's going out with you, so she obviously likes you, not some other dude nor some other chick.
I'd let some indirects fall and see if she says something before asking her directly about it. Maybe she's not out of the closet, or isn't totally sure of her own sexuality yet
>>16663329
Thanks, yeah I'm not really worried about her cheating or anything. I was planning on asking her by saying something like
>hey do you remember the conversion we had the other night?
She responds yes
>good because I don't, can you tell me what we talked about?
Does this sound like a good way to do it?
>How can I bring it up without sounding insensitive?
why do you want to?
>I'd also like to know the exact extent of her feelings
too bad, that's impossible.
any doctors here? i would elaborate on the issue if anyone is willing to advise me. Main issue - chest pain
Explain.. exact location of pain, intensity, radiation
Does it get worse when you breath in?
Like sharp?
It reminds me of waves, its sharp for a while, then subsides and comes back again. It sometimes gets worse when i breathe in, but not always. Also, sometimes i cant feel my left arm when it happens, or the pain comes after i start to feel my arm numb down...
They found a nodule in my thyroid, the heart is absolutely fine. Im a 19 year old female, if that is needed.
They say that it might be anxiety and gave me xanax for really intense episodes but sometimes it doesnt help either :( every time it happens, i feel like i might be dying
>get dumped a few weeks ago
>get message yesterday asking to hang out
>we do
>we talk about all sorts of shit including her saying she still likes me and wants to be part of my life
>says to not mention any other girls to her because she WILL get jealous
>asks to go for drive to cliffs
>secluded area
>asks me if it'd be weird if I finger her and make out with her
>do so
>take her home
>asks if I want to hang out tomorrow
Okay what the flying fuck. Is this the right board probably not. I'm normally from /fit/ and got banned for posting a thread about girls, so I'm coming here.
Am I asking a question? No I don't think so. I kinda just want a female to tell me what the FUCK she's playing at
>>16663237
Why were you dumped in the first place?
>>16663241
Because I routinely cut myself savagely and her friends were "triggered" by this and said they won't speak to her as long as I'm around
>>16663245
Sounds like she's made her decision then, doesn't it?
