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I have a friend who magically seems to bring out the super bitchy sorority girl in me when he doesnt deserve it. I apologize when i catch myself and he appreciates it but it seems to be happening more often .
and i think he's tired and i'm tired of him getting on my nerves( because he's young/immature, not his fault i know).. Should i let the friendship go, how do i fix it?
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Today i think was pretty bad even for me.
should i text him and tell him that 'you're my friend and i care about you but i think we piss each other off when we hang out too long, so we should take a bit of a breather'?
Just sleep with him and everything will be fine! :-)
>>16667046
I dont want to sleep with him. I am not attracted to him and he knows this. Also he has a problem with relationships he's had 11 exes and he's 19, which is sorta a thing that pisses me off, because its stupid
How should I play out my life from here on out:
>20, live in Indy (Moved from a Rural Area), Graduate in November for Information Systems/Network Security
> Been trying for over a year for Internships, researching into companies, tailoring Resumes/cover leaders, getting constant rejections for even Entry Level Java to get my foot in the door
>Been miserable, made one friend I found online and she's cool as hell but Bf/Job/School gives us little interaction.
>Father/8...
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>>16667028
>there is NO other opportunities there
The job is pretty much guaranteed though, right? In high demand and your father knows the owner? If you're a shoe-in I'd say move back home, get the job, try to be comfortable and save up money while getting that job experience and then just look for other opportunities elsewhere if you really want to leave again.
And if you're making some cash you can always use it to help mom out, right?
>>16667035
>>16667035
I'm hesitant to say guarantee cause of the way jobs are. I told father to hold off on asking until later in the year when I'm fully convinced this is the better choice. Combine this income and my friend working in a distribution center. I'd have far less money troubles there.
>>16667040
>until later in the year
I'm not familiar with the situation, so I don't know how long you really have, but I'd assume that the position will be filled sooner rather than later.
Anyway, from what you said, I don't see what's really holding you back aside from the lack of other job opportunities. I mean, from what you're telling me, living where you are now hasn't turned up anything either, right?
If it looks like a girl lost interest after several successful dates, is it appropriate to ask her to just say so at least?
I'm not 100% sure, but I know that something's up and I'd like to know what.
Describe why you think she's lost interest so we can tell you if you're a retard or not
>>16667016
> is it appropriate to ask her to just say so at least?
Why? Is she not texting back or something?
>>16667019
I am a retard, but okay.
>4-5 dates.
>kiss, have sex, "we're something".
>ffwd couple of days of happy texting.
>meet up again, seems a little distant and stressed (possibly work-related), kissing but no sex.
>now takes >18 hours to reply to the most mundane of texts ("How was your day?" and stuff like that).
I...
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Legal advice bros.
>fiances mom took out credit cards in her name
>racked up $6,000 in debt
>find out one card is frozen
>both cards are maxed out
>fiances credit that was in the 700's is now in the 400's
Guess I wanna know what our options are. She isn't going to send her mom to prison. Is there any other way to get the debt erased some or taken off altogether?
I don't get it, how could she take out credit cards in her name?
>>16666990
This is serious. Unless there's any lawyers or financial experts here, you should seek a local firm for a free consultation on this.
So far, the only logical answer as a non-professional is to return the things she bought to at least pay back some of debt and pay the rest out of pocket. I think the only way you can get debt cleared is if the person who used your name is obviously not related to you in any way. The creditors want their money, and they'd expect family to help pay too.
>>16667002
It's her mom. She knows all the info she needs about her daughter to take them out in her name. She applied online and I assume impersonated her on the phone if it came to that
>first relationship
>2 years in I start to question if this is the girl for me
>like an idiot i tell my gf this
>dumps me
>shortly after we get back together for reasons i don't remember
>goes like shit for a while
>start to abuse her emotionally while im depressed
>telling her our relationship is shit and we should just...
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bamp
>>16666965
How old are you?
>>16667006
20 believe it or not
I went out for coffee with a girl and she was breathing heavily and avoiding eye contact the whole time. I think her cheeks turned a little red as well. What does that mean? Is she allergic to coffee?
It means you should break up with her.
>logic
>durr durr
she could have been high as fuck
>>16666937
>breathing heavily
You mean like she couldn't quite catch her breath the whole time?
>become friends with girl at work
>shes 10/10 amazing personality, beautiful in every way
>be me, 7/10 at very best, low self esteem
>trying to be her bf for 3 months, falling in love with her more and more because she makes me happy when I'm around her
>She tells she just wants to be friends with everyone and isnt really looking for that, being so stressed lately.
Help me, my heart is crushed. I put myself...
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>>16666853
You can't make her want to date you. If she doesn't want to date you, stop trying to get her to date you
Don't throw your dick around at work. It's unprofessional.
>>16666864
what?
A family member is suspicious of me cause I have a couple picture of our little sister in the bathtub. How do I get her off my back?
Killing yourself ought to do the trick
>>16666758
Pedophiles should be burned at the stake.
>>16666768
this
Hey guys I'm just trying to get some advice I saw a really cute cashier at a food store and I just thought she was really gorgeous but idk how to approach her and not come on to strong to get her number and see where it goes from there any advise will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance :)
Bumping for interest
Don't think about it tooo much. The next time you see her, give her a compliment and gauge her response
If its bad, you best move the fuck on.
If its average, keep on talking but keep your options with other girls in life. Don't be an orbiter to a girl who isn't super excited interacting with you.
If its good, obviously fuck her right on the counter. No, but say "mind if we continue talking? What's your number?"
Ask her name. If she's wearing a name tag "so your name is..." tell her it's a very pretty name. Ask her what shes doing after her shift. Depending on what she says invite her somewhere casual and very public.
Should I break up with my girlfriend
>>16666654
Yes.
The answer is always yes, once you have asked the question.
If I were in your situation OP, I would break off even my marriage. Seriously. You should definitely do this.
Hi /adv/,
I'll make a long story short, I am a straight male, my best friend since freshman year is gay, and some of his friends are as well. That's fine, whatever, but they keep attempting to make me do gay shit like go back with them alone, its making me uncomfortable and I've stopped hanging out with them. Unfortunately its gotten to the point where both his friends and their friends are messaging me with the goal of "converting me".
Its legitimately creeping me out and they are starting to spread rumors that I'm closeted, I really don't want this shit to spread especially since its false. Just in general, what should I do, being open-minded in today's society is literally ruining any sense of peace I want since I feel like I'm being harassed, please help.
>>16666634
You're fucked m8.
Tell your friend it makes you uncomfortable and if he could ask his friends to stop. They probably just see it as a fun little game or a running joke.
They're probably just fucking with you
How do I subtly manipulate someone into changing an aspect of their appearence
butt
>>16666627
Holding them hostage at gunpoint tends to work out pretty well.
Spawn more overlords
Should I text her "why haven't we fucked yet?" out of the blew? I haven't texted her for about 2 weeks (busy over the holidays). How would she react? Any success stories using that line?
>>16666593
Do it.
do it
>>16666593
I'd be really put off if a guy texted me that.
Go ahead and do it. She deserves to know that you're the kind of guy who thinks it's acceptable.
How hard can you lie on a resume?
Has anyone had any luck saying they had a degree they didn't have?
>>16666535
Lie your heart out. Who can prove you DON'T have a master's in propanology?
op here. Like. what if you they caught you. Would they report you. Is there a heavier penalty other than 'no'?
Don't do it.
It's rare that they check, but why risk it? You literally can go on the school website and input your name and year to verify if the degree is legit or not.
How do you tell to your girlfriend that she is the perfect girl in a lots of way but sex is not good.
>>16666462
>Her - "Sweetie, crawl under the covers with me and keep me warm, tee hee."
>You - "Nah, I'm gonna go jerk off."
She'll get the message after the fifth or sixth time.
>>16666473
Ahahah good one, done that once or twice maybe i should do it more often.
>>16666462
>How do you tell to your girlfriend that she is the perfect girl in a lots of way but sex is not good.
Don't. Don't tell her the sex is not good.
you could try and give suggestions to her on how to do better, but dont say she's not good.
