>>16665551

to stop catching feelings fast, you gotta burn a lot, to a point where you become insensitive to what once stimulated you a lot

at least for me, that was the only way

and it's often not the best thing to lose t b h. closing yourself off to pain and disappointment will only set you up for a life of loneliness.

>>16665551
You literally sound exactly the same as me at 19. I fucked up dating opportunities with about 6 or 7 girls before I finally got one that stuck. We're still together 7 years on. Don't stress about it and enjoy the ride, you will only improve your chances with age

>>16665560

I sorta already know this but dont want it to be true. First girl I ever liked shot me down and it hurt. Now I only go for girls I know like me back, but still man

I dont want all that flingy bullshit. So not interested. I just want a partner

>>16665562

I know. Just sucks. I just want someone to be close with. I got love to give and nobody to give it to

Male or female?

>>16665506
Seek professional help, you cannot handle this situation on your own. Talk to a school councillor or teacher who you trust and get into some therapy immediately.

Also, as someone who had to live with an uncle that did the sane shit, never sleep without a knife under your pillows, or some kind of weapon. If you can lock your bedroom door, good. If you have a dog that will sleep in your room or in bed with you, even better.

The minute you turn 18, get the fuck out of there. Stay with friends before that...
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>>16665554
this

Woops

>/adv/

Fuck man, did you tell them about the ringing?

>>16665498
Stay positive

Maybe look into airline controller jobs... Apparently they're amongst the highest paid jobs that you don't need a degree for

You are kidding right? Girls don't give a shit because they like you enough to date you. I mean you are dating college girls right, so having a car at that age isn't a big deal.

Just be confident and let her know you will pay for a taxi with your own money.

>>16665449
It's a big deal unless you both live in a city where public transport is actually more desirable (eg. London)

But even then, a car is great for just escaping the city and heading to the countryside, for example

>talking from experience

>>16665460
I figured they gave a shit to a degree since it always came up in a discussion, or blatantly asked.

>>16665466
Yeah I'm an Amerifag by the way, with yuros I know you guys can get by without a car.

Sounds like your boyfriend has bigger issues desu

Your boyfriend is stupid and jealous, and you are stupid and desperate for this guy's attention now that it's forbidden.

The guy is annoyed with all this shit. So am I.

>>16665326

he wanted to fuck you, you chose boyfriend over him, he lashed out from anger

Maybe your friend is depressed. Struggling to reach out to you, then getting angry/disheartened.
Might not be that.
Maybe your friend has thoughts/opinions/feelings about you that are new, and is trying to figure them out.

Maybe it would be worth meet your friend in person somewhere low-pressure and quiet, and have a relaxed chat about anything and nothing for a couple of hours. Give your friend the chance to open up and clear the air, but don't pile on the expectation or start an interrogation.

>>16665251
We can't meet irl for now, I'm in a different state and won't be back till Easter. Is there any way I can ask him abou this via a message?

Eh, bump

just move on and stop giving them huge amounts of time

I think your friend means be friendly, not that you have to pal around with all of them regularly. blocking numbers and things like that communicate bitterness imo

You don't have to be friends with them, but blocking them seems childish. That's a lot of blocked numbers to have.

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Agree with the above opinions. I was once similar to you OP, but the above poster is right. Blocking comes across as immature and shows that you care. A better way to do it would be to just cut contact naturally, stop texting them first and respond only as you need to. Show that their answer didn't affect you whatsoever and that you have your own life to live, it comes across as much more secure.

Nice b8 m8

You would go to prison if she brought it to the police effectively ending your life.

WTF is wrong with you? Do you honestly think a 6 year old can understand the actions her older brother is doing? You sick pedo piece of shit.

Don't care if it is bait, fuck this clown.

>>16665194
Man, im not really sure of a 16 yr old boy can even be a pedo

There is no God. Life isn't fair. Some people die without ever having loved or fucked anyone.

When you come terms with brutality that is life, flower being trampled by elephants foot day after day, then perhaps you'll find some spiritual peace. But you'll probably never get rid of the innate resentment.

>>16665033
sounds like your outside matches your insides

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>>16665062
not to say you aren't partially right but honestly stop and imagine if everyday for the rest of your adult life, you looked like this.

This man is 25 years old, 5'1", balding and works in a grocery store.

Some people have legitimately been shat upon by the genetic lottery. My suggestion is to find a similarly deformed person of the opposite sex, god willing you can both settle for each other without too much disgust by one another.

Doesn't matter.

The one thing girls truly love, it's complaining about men.

If you choose chivalry, you're sexist.
If you don't, you're not a gentlemen and where are all the good men gone...

Stop worryin' about the consequences, because they're always the same and there aint a damned thing that can change that (every damned man has tried).
Simply put, if she likes you, she'll let it slide and hide her hatred, if she doesn't, you'll fuckin' find out.

My point is, do whatever the fuck you...
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>>16664408
Just like most "do girls like x" questions, it depends on the girl. Some do and some don't. It also matters how you do it. If you're suave about doing the chair pull outs and shit then it's not as cringey embarrassing.

hold the door, open the passanger door, walk on the "outside" (closest to the street, etc)

don't take the jacket off or pull out the chair. takes a lot to pull that off, and I just don't know how hot you are

Maybe the problem is with you and not all of them.

There are two approaches to negative stimuli. The first is habituation. You expose yourself to the stimulus often enough that it becomes background noise. The other is avoidance. You just get the fuck away from it.

Pick one.

i have that too sometimes. Even tough I once was like that. I just always think "omg, grow up..."

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Are you getting enough sunlight?

>>16664082
I didn't know it was possible to be a loner, virgin doctor. I'd thought you'd have to pass certain social hurdles you can avoid in other careers.

>>16664194
daily reminder that:
-all it takes to be a virgin regardless of age is to not have put a penis into a vagina
-losers get laid every second
-4chan is retarded and you're retarded for being on it

Christianity = cruelty

I tried going hardcore Christian once and quit in 5 days. Idk how people can handle it, believing that 99% of people are going to an eternal place of torture for not being saved by a God who could prevent this.

Zen. It's the only way and isn't

Judaism doesn't even have a "Hell" as you describe it. I'm not a Jew, but it sounds like you know nothing about theology or scripture except for what you see on TV or read on the Internet. Not every Protestant is a member of Westboro, not every Jew is ultra-Orthodox, not every Muslim is a terrorist, and not every Buddhist is a calm, peaceful monk.

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>>16663429
In somebody

>>16663433
In specifically?

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Is she interested in the guy or the girl? Not enough data.

Guess not.

>>16663403

Look anon.

A woman knows if she will ever fuck you within the first 2 seconds of meeting you- she looks at your clothes, looks at your shoes, looks at your watch, looks at your physique, and makes her mind up.

The BEST chance to fuck her is in those 2 minutes you just met her-

After that its downhill.

Who cares if she thinks youre a creep? Creep is a man that isn't attractive that tried to be sexual with a woman- so one girl could think 'what a creep' and another...
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No, it's not really acceptable to be like "hey, do you want to fuck?" when you barely know someone or have even established some kind of romantic interests. That pretty much only works drunkenly at a bar, but even then you just don't come right out with it.

If a woman senses you're desperate for sex, that usually kills any desire she might have had to sleep with you. You have to go through all the stages of mutual physical attraction, light touching, kissing and then sex. You don't just go ask someone who is just a friend if they want to fuck without seeming like a psychopath.