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How to make a guy be more attracted to you?
I hooked-up with this guy a few times and as I understood he enjoyed it, had sex and all and I started to like him.
I know a think about him that if he gets started bored of girls he just stops replying.
Me and him don't text that often like we used to, but we still do once a day.
I don't want to lose contact with him.
What do /adv/?
Keep setting up dates or just have him over to hang out. Texting is a terribly weak form of communication, it's face to face talking you need.
>>16672726
Talk to someone, within his hearing range about how much you like sucking dick
>>16672726
He used you as cumdumpster; you can try to text him and reach out but I'm 99% sure he doesn't care.
Any tips regarding not falling madly in love with girl that is taken by a friend of mine? I realize the obvious things to do: try to avoid her and date other girls. But I need more.
>>16672648
Side question.. did they disable bumping?
>>16672603
Thats hard, try to notice all her flaws
>>16672603
Just ask your friend to let you watch as they fuck.
How do you guys get girlfriends? I want dead honesty. Past gfs, current gfs, future plans for a gf I wana know everything, and Im going to assume most of you got you're girls in a non alpha way. I'm extremely interested in how youz came across your partners.
>>16672583
First off, stop trying to find the girl you want and start opening for the girl you need. We all want chicks with huge tits, 10/10 faces and so on, but be sure she doesn't bitch all the time, treats you like a walking wallet and disrespects you.
Try to find your second half, someone who'd sell their souls for you. Even when she doesn't look like the girl of your dreams, give her a place in your heart and you'll get it back thousandfold.
My wife was my coworker
Try find a job with...
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My first girlfriend just kinda threw herself at me. I knew her sister and she told my first girlfriend that I was taking Spanish. I agreed to tutor her and from there she started pursuing me and asking me out on little dates. I basically ignored her and barely gave her attention because at the time I thought she was really out of my league. Ended up being my girlfriend for about 6 years.
My second "girlfriend" I met at work. I didn't really talk to her much, but when I went to a co-worker's retirement party she came up and bought me shots and was flirting...
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>>16672583
I've been in like 3 relationships and had 5 girls I dated for a short time. Most of them were through friends, which I met during birthday parties etc, and the other ones I met through work.
Also, yes, I don't consider myself "alpha". I could probably get girls during clubbing, but I'm not the type to approach girls I don't know at parties. Unless I am really fucking drunk and I can barely remember what happened the next day.
Just a small confident booster, even the...
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Does anyone else's partner comment on how hot other people are, or am I in a bad situation here?
>>16672576
If it's a celebrity or fictional character then yes, that's normal
Anyone your partner knows in real life is a bit much unless you're both okay with it
Its normal to a very slight extent.
Like IMO saying it once or twice a month about a celebrity is normal
If its all the time or about someone obtainable, fucking run m8
Mine does, but we trust each other and are not monogamous.
Hey, im decided to take pot for the first time.
im gonna do it tomorrow. any advice?
What is the big deal? I smoked it every day lol
Bring snacks.
im just not sure what to expect. what does it feel like?
How do you keep yourself alright when you're in a depression phase? I know how to keep depression away through exercise, productivity and abstinence from drugs, but sometimes I fail and I snort a line or smoke a blunt or drink a bottle, and I fall down again...
I know I'm going to be better in a few days, I just need tips on going through this. I feel awful, lonely, desperate, worthless, my head hurts, I'm on the edge of tears constantly.
I can't even keep my mind straight on the Visual Studio. I can't concentrate on anything, I just want to...
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Travel aimlessly. I hop on a bus and just sleep there, not giving a shit where it goes.
>>16672575
Fuck I gotta try that.
Have you tried literally killing yourself?
Is it still considered pedo if you're genuinely into a girl under the age of 18, not because of her age but because you actually do like her? Not attracted to any other teens or anything ever either. Just her.
>>16672460
No, it's just statutory rape if you bang her.
How old is she? Most purple don't realize that age of consent in most places, including most states in America, is 16.
Also how old are you?
>>16672466
16. I'm 20.
My psychiatrists say that I have bipolar disorder and nothing else, but I feel as though I have schizophrenia instead, and I'm very depressed because of that.
The reason why I think I have schizophrenia is because this diagnosis was made during my first hospitalization (when I was 17 years old), but was scrapped during the follow up, and replaced with the diagnosis of bipolar disorder.
Do you that I'm right to think that I have schizophrenia and be depressed because of it? Or is it just my bipolar disorder manifesting itself?
> I feel as though I have schizophrenia instead, and I'm very depressed because of that.
haha, what? who cares
>>16672419
>who cares
I do. I believe I have it, and it usually leads to a permanent and continuous deterioration of personality and intellect. I wouldn't like to live this kind of life, hence the depression.
>>16672418
>The reason why I think I have schizophrenia is because this diagnosis was made during my first hospitalization
Is this really the only reason you think that, OP?
If so, don't worry about it.
5 years ago I met a guy while travelling. He's from the US, I'm from Europe. He was 23, I was 18.
We "dated" for a week, and it was wonderful, but we agreed that there was no point at being in a LDR with that amount of distance.
We still talk very often. He's awesome and I adore everything about him. We kept things in friendly terms, and nothing sexual happened after that week. I dated other guys, he dated other girls, but we still like each other a lot.
He told me he has a chance to move closer to me. He said he'd do it mostly to...
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>>16672388
>Is it worth it, for him?
he's a big boy, if he wants to do it and it goes south you're not to blame. he knows what he's doing.
>>16672401
I guess that what I am concerned about is that I wouldn't move there for him.
He thought about it and he's old enough to make his decisions, but I still feel guilty and selfish.
>>16672436
Well, do you think you still want to be with him? If he's willing to just come on a visit, give that a shot and see how you feel?
If the spark is still there, I say go for it. Better to have taken the opportunity than not.
